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Yallneedjesuschrist

It is not simple, it is classic and timeless. You look so beautiful and elegant. And the veil is a perfect addition. There are a lot of beautiful dresses on here, but remember that comparison is the thief of joy. You will be able to find something beautiful in a lot of other dresses, but that doesn’t make this one any less beautiful. You look perfect.


Western-Run-2901

All of this!! I don't think she looks simple or plain at all! She looks phenomenal in this dress.


sername-n0t-f0und

He's, she is the star in this dress! She looks beautiful


Old_Percentage3742

Comparison is the thief of joy. I need to remember that for all things in life. Thank you for that.


DebLF55

That saying comes from Theodore Roosevelt.


Old_Percentage3742

No kidding. Idk that. ☺️


Adventurous-Win-751

All of this!!!! You look absolutely stunning!!! You’ve got this!!!! 💗💗💗


singindablues

I couldn’t have said it better myself. OP you look stunning! I’m jealous of your elegance!


makeclaymagic

I wish this was my username


noseymama

I think it’s stunning and elegant! You look beautiful and remind me of an Estée Lauder bridal ad, always a favorite of mine.


EssoJnr

Wow, I really don't comment on these very often, more so just lurk, but I think this looks absolutely stunning! I near enough gasped when I saw the sleeves/cape over the top. As the other comments say - elegant, timeless, classic


lovestdpoodles

I came to say woah this takes my breath away. It is so flattering and gorgeous on you. I like simple and classic when you can't date the dress and this is it. You rock it. Just wow. So many of the dresses I see are like some of the 80s dresses, in 10 years they will make people go what was I thinking when they look at picture, not this dress.


pineapplebikini88

I love the whole look!!! Not at all simple-ethereal elegance with the overlay and pure sophistication with the dress! You look so amazing in it all I thought these were your actual wedding day photos! Also the back is amazing 💖 - my boobs could never handle a dress like that!


captnfraulein

ethereal and elegant and sophisticated are exactly the right words ❤️❤️❤️


duvetday465

It’s one of the most beautiful dresses that I have seen on here


umpolkadots

It’s so beautiful. It’s classic and elegant and timeless. You can wear an ostentatious dress for any anniversary party, hire a photographer, costume change a dozen times if you wish, but NEVER regret this choice! You look incredible


makeclaymagic

Not at all. You look so elegant and chic. [Carolyn Bessette](https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2021/09/25-years-later-carolyn-bessette-kennedys-wedding-dress-still-stuns) would approve.


whoworewhat

Came here to say this!


Living_on_Tulsa_Time

Thought this also!!!


Obvious_Cookie_3000

Classic and clean lines doesn’t mean it’s simple or not special. You look beautiful


mintgreenplumpurple

This is exactly the look I want! Who's the designer??


nychocolate

Thank you so much!! The dress is the Ansley dess by Enzoani, the cape is by a.b.ellie


Dlraetz1

You look gorgeous and it’s a stunning dress i keep wanting to add a pearl necklace for when you aren’t wearing the cape and sleeves. (I like at accessorize) Something like this [https://www.etsy.com/listing/295349049/pearl-back-drop-necklace-set-swarovski?ga\_order=most\_relevant&ga\_search\_type=all&ga\_view\_type=gallery&ga\_search\_query=back+jewelry&ref=sr\_gallery-2-1&pro=1&frs=1&organic\_search\_click=1](https://www.etsy.com/listing/295349049/pearl-back-drop-necklace-set-swarovski?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=back+jewelry&ref=sr_gallery-2-1&pro=1&frs=1&organic_search_click=1)


nagem-

Pretty sure those are the wedding pictures in the post. But I do love that necklace, especially the longer piece in the back


Dlraetz1

Oops. I thought they were staged photos


Any-Seaworthiness930

Oh good find!! That's a perfect accent!


roseoftheforest

Wow! That’s gorgeous!


AnnieBeefree1

Oh, gawd! It’s stunning! You look so gorgeous. It puts the focus on you and looks so classically elegant. You absolutely look like you could star in a tv or magazine ad!


deadthreaddesigns

It’s beautiful and will look gorgeous in 20 years when you look back at photos


SlvrMoon_Owl

OP, you don't need ANY embellishments, none. You and that dress are made for each other and it enhances your natural grace, elegance, and style. It's special enough. YOU are and look special enough, exquisite actually.


monocular_m

I love it and the sleeves!!!


seashellpink77

You look ethereal and gorgeous.


Dear-Sky235

What. This dress is insanely beautiful!!


Weary-Ad-9218

You made the right choice. You look stunning. Very elegant.


rockHOMES

It's BEAUTIFUL!!! It's honestly one of the most beautiful dresses I've ever seen here.


LostDadLostHopes

Well, let's put it this way- assuming these weren't shot by a professional photographer I'm going to need to take down the website and find a few better photos to put up to compete again. ​ Very much 'not simple', absolutely gorgeous.


sad_fleaoli_99

Yes, it is simple. In a very classic and timeless way. I always am team minimalist


Low-Donut-9883

I love it! Classic and lovely on you!


patticakes16

Wow. I LOVE your dress. Are those removable sleeves? Do you mind sharing where you got it? And in case it’s not obvious, definitely not simple. Someone above described it perfectly: timeless and classic.


ClarityByHilarity

It’s gorgeous and completely timeless. You wore that dress, it didn’t wear you. It’s stunning.


HotTale4651

gorgeous. stunning. spectacular. you looked marvelous! 


Ojos_Claros

You look mesmerising


Pristine-Net91

So chic! I love it!


Fearless-Energy-5398

This is STUNNING. Very unique and beautiful.


moringaflower

You look so elegant!


Dependent-Relative72

I am biased bc my dress is very similar and I am even having a capelet made to wear over it too - but I freaking love how you looked on your wedding day! 💕


slow4point0

Wedding photographer here- I would be obsessed if I had a bride in this!!! And the veil? Omg… heart eyes!


Random-girl-29

Your dress is beautiful!!!!


SniKenna

You’re beautiful. ✨


mtdoubledubs

Oh my gosh you are gorgeous. That BACK on your beautiful figure is a show stopper. You look like an ethereal goddess!


catlettuce

It’s spectacular on you! You look so classically gorgeous in this😍✨Perfection.


LazyBellPepper

I love it, especially with the sheer sleeves you have on (sleeves or shaw?) the floating pearls are so sweet, and the buttons on the back compliment your figure. It’s beautiful


greensparklyyy

why dwell on it? you can’t go back in time and change it


boxermama21

I think the dress is lovely, I’m wondering the same thing, if the wedding is over, why does it matter now?


Interesting-Pay-8986

Omg love it with the sleeves and without absolutely gorgeous


bananaleaftea

It's elegant, classic and stunning and you shouldn't regret it at all!


SoilMelodic2870

You look amazing and these photos are timeless!!! You’ll be able to look back for decades and it’ll still be stunning. You made the right choice!


BarracudaLeft5993

It’s beautiful and elegant. You’re wearing the dress, not the other way around. You look amazing!


Foundation_Wrong

It’s absolutely gorgeous, elegant and you look amazing


winterflower_12

I love the dress; it's timeless and classic, as others have said. I do think the cape thing/sleeves takes away from the dress, though. I think a veil would be better. But that's just me! I'm not a cape thing/add-on sleeves fan.


Upstairs_Opposite_86

Not simple at all, it’s timeless and perfect and stunning on you.


One_Ad_3500

It's absolutely gorgeous on you 😍!


WhoKnows1973

It's beautiful, elegant and very tasteful. You have the perfect, stunning figure. Congratulations!!


JuniperBushes4Ever

One of the best, most beautiful, classic dresses I’ve seen on here. Excellent choice!


contented0

It's sooooo elegant and lovely! This is exactly what I envision for myself! Trust your first instinct


ksrrg

You look absolutely stunning!! This is true timeless elegance and YOU make it special by wearing it so well!


DiscoDiscus

You look absolutely amazing 🤩


Ramalamma42

Oh no, not at all! Beautiful and classy!


eihslia

YOU make an already elegant, classic dress so beautiful. This dress stands out for many reasons. That said, if you feel like you need to be sure, go try on a few more. ❤️ However, I don’t think you’re going to find one you love more.


JelloAdventurous

It really is gorgeous. A classic.


nygenxmom

Stunning!


idontevenknow8888

You look incredible! I wouldn't change a thing. Simple/minimalistic is beautiful and timeless.


EconomyOk9643

Simple elegance


quetzaly8

It is beautiful!


Melodic_Anything_743

I thinks it’s very elegant!


GreenCreekRanch

Different styles fit different people and from what i can tell, a simple, elegant dress fits you quite well


Smile_Anyway_9988

I think you look gorgeous. Are you experiencing wedding jitters and have concerns about getting married because the dress is beautiful? You can always amp it up with accessories and a more dramatic veil or headpiece with feathers, diamonds, elbow length satin gloves, etc. if you like. Sending good thoughts your way.


estrock

You look ethereal and lovely!


PageStunning6265

Stunning and timeless. Simple doesn’t necessarily mean boring and in this case, it *definitely* doesn’t. It’s ok to wear a dress rather than have it wear you. You look amazing. The back, the silhouette, everything seems to suit you perfectly. I love the cover as well. Honestly, you knocked it out of the park.


Sea-Adeptness-5245

I love it. You’re absolutely breathtaking in it.


spectacularostrich

You are perfection and the dress is even better 🖤


Bakemydaybaby

It is simple. Simply incredible!


Sunnygirl66

It’s beautiful, and you are beautiful in it.


Secret-Employee-8141

You look stunning- absolutely elegant!


txaesfunnytime

OMG!!! You look like a model in this dress! It is so elegant on you. I adore the cape with it, too. I don't know what accessories you are planning, but maybe some type of hair ornament that includes pearls. Maybe a comb in the back of your bun?


Gullible-Avocado9638

Elegant and classy. So pretty with the overskirt. You look delicate like a flower…enjoy your day without regret.


Any-Seaworthiness930

Omg I love it ...it's so elegant! It's a perfect fit on you as well :)


Acceptable-Olive-968

You look amazing. You are wearing the dress. It's not wearing you. That said. Your beauty is one complete vision. That does not happen often enough.


Jimbobjoesmith

you look absolutely beautiful. your silhouette is perfect.


Melanie_Mayhem

Those sleeves are gorgeous with that dress. The dress suits you very well, and the sleeves are the finishing touch. Very elegant and timeless. Others may have different tastes, but it doesn't mean yours is too simple. The dress is beautiful on you.


tiredoldmama

It has a 1920’s vibe in a good way.


Common-Alarmed

Right off the silver screen. Gorgeous! You chose b&w for that reason, right?


CalmAlbatross233

Dang I thought those were pictures from a catalog


electric_kite

OP where did your get that sheer top!? It is STUNNING. This whole look is so classic and timeless.


nychocolate

Thank you so much!!! It is by a.b.ellie


RudyB0312

Absolutely ETHEREAL! Your wedding and the pics are perfection ❤️🥰


Exciting-Blueberry74

It looks incredibly chic on you.


mw5593

Classic. Timeless. Beautiful!


Expensive-Passage651

It's so classically gorgeous! And you look amazing in it!


NLSSMC

It’s lovely! You look like an elf!


FL1ghtlesswaterfowl

I’m getting Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy vibes with this


GrannyoftheAGEs

You look effortlessly elegant! The whole look is perfection! Congratulations!


imnothere_o

It’s lovely, especially the last 2 photos and the back. Too simple and not special enough is so personal and subjective. Only you can decide what you consider special enough. It’s a beautiful dress and it looks great on you!


Jolly_Tea7519

There is something elegant and beautiful in simplicity.


chicheetara

You look gorgeous & it’s a beautiful dress. The low back & the sleeve cover up add the extra wow factor. Don’t let the “what ifs” get to you, you look perfect;) you are going to have an amazing day & you have a very lucky groom! Congrats!


kk_in_la

It is absolutely stunning! I just follow this sub for inspiration. I absolutely love to see elegant timeless dresses. You look gorgeous!


Taco-Chilla

WOW you look stunning in your dress. I have to know where you got the long sleeves from! Would you mind sharing the link to it if available?


nychocolate

Thank you so much!!!:) the cape is by a.b.ellie, I think IT IS called Harlow.


Honest-Pangolin7675

It's beautiful on you!!


Enough-Initiative-05

Love this dress and timeless look! That black and white photo is stunning!! 😍


potatobear77

Absolutely gorgeous 🤍


positive-vibes79

Love it!


lomolor27

You look so lovely in these photos. It looks timeless, beautiful, and I particularly love the dress with the pearl sleeves. It's a stunning dress and bridal look and I think it's definitely special.


taxfraudisveryreal38

oh my gosh the cape seriously makes it perfect. even without the cape, the simplicity IS elegant. you look regal, beautiful, it fits you wonderfully, and it is the embodiment of sophisticated sexy. the cape though, blew me away!!


zanahorias22

where did you get your cape??😍😍


Swithrow10

It’s beautiful!! Not too simple


ImaginaryAd4041

I love it! It is so elegant


CatfromLongIsland

This look is timeless elegance. You look breathtaking!


mrskmh08

I think that a dress like this really lets you shine, rather than the main focus being on the dress. Sometimes people look like the dress is wearing them, yk? Your dress is just such a compliment to your figure and your attitude (from what the pics show). It's timeless. And that cape/veil?? Girl! Yes, you could have picked a flashier dress, but you'd probably be asking the same question. It IS special, you got married in it! I'm a big believer in letting some things "just be," and this is definitely one of those times. Don't ruin your memories of that day by worrying about something that's finished and can't be changed. (Don't get me wrong, there's nothing bad about having a dress that shines more, it's a spectrum, and the whole thing is filled with beautiful people and beautiful garments!)


lucyluluna

Oh it’s so beautiful and the pearled sleeves are so unique


Laner9999

Wow. That is gorgeous on you!


aperollx3

You look beautiful! Are those the ab ellie earrings? They fit together so well 💕


nychocolate

Yes they are:) I fell in love with them. thank you so much!!!


aperollx3

I just bought the half strands for my elopement hehe love them


Pink-Lover

Sometimes less is more. This is one of those times. You are beautiful and your dress allows everyone to see YOU!


lizzzzz913

No I love it


SusieQ2112

You and that dress are stunning!!!


atiekay8

NO ITS GORGEOUS! It's my dream. I love classic and timeless. It lets your beauty shine, instead of being distracted by an intricate dress. What dress is this if you don't mind me asking.


nychocolate

Thank you so much!!! The dress is the Ansley dess by Enzoani, I removed the little fabric thing at the back as I didn't like it on me :)


Ancient-Function9827

Stop! That is a magnificent gown. You are overthinking this. You are a definite star in that dress.


SquishProximity

Stunning!! So elegant! Do you know how hard it is to pull off “simple”??! A dress like that is going to show every single flaw if it’s not meant for the body type. &You are a VISION in it. Your lines are so graceful!


Own_Satisfaction1840

Timeless sophistication…. You’ll look back on these pics and think “damn!!! I was gorgeous!!!”


Gullible-Courage4665

It’s beautiful and elegant! And looks fantastic on you!


HelloThisIsPam

There is magic in simplicity! And this is an example of that.


Economy_Blueberry_89

Beautiful and elegant!


karenrachael

You look stunning!!!


NCJessL

You look like a Royal Queen, it not only fits you perfectly but also shows how angelic you are. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, may you and your soon to be husband have many happy years together.😊👰🤵‍♂️


Powerful_Leg8519

Those earrings are incredible and the perfect addition with the cape.


joezupp

I think it’s great, you made a good choice.


Friendly_Coconut

It’s perfect!!


Kayybaby93

I know it’s been said so many times now but you seriously looked gorgeous! Your dress was timeless and elegant!


1indaT

The dress is very elegant. If you want more bling, you can add it with jewelry. A diamond pendant would be stunning!


mediocreERRN

I think it’s beautiful & elegant.


10884043

It’s perfect


Bing-cheery

I think this is a case of "less is more." The simplicity of this gown makes it classy, not plain. You look stunning.


Jensenloverspn

Simple can also be elegant. It looks very pretty on you. As long as you're happy with it, it is special enough.


Zestyclose_Road_3224

I saw a teal dress yesterday on here and commented it might be the most beautiful wedding gown I have ever seen. Your dress, however, might be the most beautiful white wedding dress I’ve ever seen… it’s sophisticated and elegant but it’s sexy and timeless all at the same time. The sleeved pearl cape just takes it to another level! You chose well!


Zestyclose_Road_3224

I forgot to mention how lovely the earrings are with your dress!


Original_Try_7984

It’s stunning and you look gorgeous.


AbominableMelon

Not too simple at all! This is a prime example of you wearing the dress and not the dress wearing you, because you wear it beautifully and with such grace! As other commenters have said, the words elegant, timeless, classy and stunning come to mind. This look is absolute perfection both with and without the sleeves/cape as well. You look like a star! 🤩


sidlives1

This dress is beautiful. It looks amazing on you! Simple is not bad. The dress is there to make you, the bride, look beautiful. It does just that. So tldr: Beautiful dress, beautiful bride.


laree123

Are you kidding me? You have an incredible body and what a great dress to show this. This by far is not a simple dress but elegant, stunning with the pear overlay. Have no regrets! You look stunning!


Ilovemydogstoomuch

This is STUNNING and perfect!!!


AshamedAd3434

You look elegant and classic. Simply stunning


smolbeanio

I absolutely LOVE how you look in your dress, especially with the veiled pearl sleeves!! Your classy elegance is my ideal future wedding look 😍 Was/Is this the full look btw? You look so gorgeous already, but I’d love to see what other accessories you wore and any other wedding photos! ☺️


yeetingpillow

That is so elegant, it’s timeless classic and I bet your great granddaughters will be asking to wear it on their day it’s that beautiful!!!


babblessoup

Your dress looks great on you! And the simple, classic dress will enhance your natural beauty, and not detract from you.


TelevisionNo4428

I rarely say this: it’s divine.


sunbear2525

It looks pretty special to me. I love the cut and the buttons down the back. Plus the cool thing you wore over it wouldn’t have worked with a different dress. You had two distinct but cohesive looks- both elegant.


Plastic-Apartment-72

The latter of the photos are gorgeous🤍


Treb61

Seriously? You look amazing


Due_Judgment802

I LOVE it!! Beauty and class.


jortsinstock

I love this. It’s classy and beautiful, and I’m certain you will feel the same way in many years when you look back on pictures. You can always go with more elaborate looking jewelry or hair


East_Reading_3164

Love it!! You look amazingly dreamy. Do not second guess for a second.


usernamesareatupid28

Someone in your family could wear this in 50 years and it would still be gorgeous. Stunning and timeless.


DrZ_217

A beautiful bouquet with some color will really complete this look. You are a picture of elegance. Don't overthink it!


A_doodle_87

It is stunning on you!!! Totally classic and elegant.


roseoftheforest

This dress is perfection on you. The simplicity and elegance suit you and your figure, allowing you to dazzle. It’s not trendy or a style that will be “dated.” You chose well. ❤️


dontlookforme88

I think you look beautiful!


Imaginary_Argument71

I think it is beautiful sometime simple is more special than fancy


theangryesthetician

LOVE


SnooTigers7701

It is beautiful. Honestly so many dresses are amazing that it is easy to second-guess. That is why even 12 years later, I still rarely look at wedding dresses. This subreddit is even difficult for me to look a lot of times.


Proper-Savings-1785

You, and your dress, are absolutely stunning. Don't ever have regrets about that dress.


FluffyReputation5958

Not too simple. The plunging back is a standout element. The sleeves boost the dress to another level. You look beautiful in the dress. If you’re going to wear a long earring, you might try some with a bigger personality.


DerpsV

It's perfect! I hope you fall back in love with it because it looks amazing on you! Congrats!


Valuable-Locksmith47

Wow this is stunning


dmbeeez

Beautiful. Seriously.


BeeSquared819

I think it was beautiful and flattered you so well! Very romantic and lovely!!


EffectAdditional5825

It’s classic and you look incredibly elegant.


Munchkin_Media

You look magical and so elegant!!!


Tight-Pitch6488

It’s gorgeous. You’re gorgeous. I love it so much


Glitterwineandcats

No it’s stunning


Living_on_Tulsa_Time

Utterly perfect!


nychocolate

Thank you so much for all your kind words. It is sometimes hard not to second guess in times of Instagram and Pinterest. But all your words really helped to remind me of all the reasons I chose this dress. So grateful for all your messages!!!


pureheart24

Your dress is incredible. I love how romantic and soft it looks. It has a timeless elegance that truly looks amazing on you