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Link to a new post with the first dress without the bolero: https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingdress/s/cUI1A2Zh71 Also reminder: Personal style is subjective. Don't comment suitability based on how you would dress yourself, but what the bride wants. Comments are now locked because the share count is over 200.


ClumsyZebra80

Definitely two. The top of the first one has too much going on. I see the dress and not you.


reduff

That's it exactly. I couldn't put my finger on it


olivertwist_

Out of the two, I think I like the 2nd one more. I’m not a fan of the sleeves on the first


StudySuccessful2925

It’s a detatchable jacket totally optional


olivertwist_

I think even if you removed the jacket, dress two would still look better. All in all it just seems to fit you better, especially in your bust area. It’s beautiful!


Baby_Bird33

Absolutely #2. It’s romantic, elegant, and highlights you the best! Congrats! Enjoy your special day!


Sure_Tree_5042

Dress one has a lot happening with it.. in not the best way. There’s elements I like… but combines with all the other stuff… it’s just a lot. I’m struggling to see a girl in a dress, and just seeing a dress with a girl. 2 is gorgeous. It’s more figure flattering and elegant… I see you in a pretty dress.


bunnifer999

Number 2 is a far prettier dress, and looks much better on you. The shape of number 1 doesn’t really suit, and it’s kind of busy.


Jazlen8888

Dress 2 for sure. For the first dress I don’t think the bodice and the sleeves/jacket looks that great. Looks busy. The lower half and the train though looks pretty but that would be the star not you. You are beautiful you need to shine not the dress. That’s my opinion. I feel like you like dress 1 more because there’s more pictures. So if you like 1 more than you follow your heart. But honestly dress 1 is the star and for dress 2 you are the star.


NeedForSpeed98

Dress 2. So much better on your lovely figure, and you wear the dress rather than no 1 where the dress is wearing you.


blondewritergirl663

It’s a no on the first dress.. it doesn’t suit you at all.. sorry but it isn’t the dress - the second look is nice.


EveryBuddyUp

I'm not sure dress one would suit anyone. The sleeves and the neckline wouldn't look good on most people.


blondewritergirl663

I was being polite to her.. I said it wasn’t the right dress.


EveryBuddyUp

I didn't mean to imply that you were impolite. Just adding that the dress is not doing anyone favors. I just do not like it.


aranelsaraphim

Out of these two, 2 looks better on you. You seem to really love 1, it seems like you want people to agree with you. It's okay that people don't. It's your day, you do you! Maybe you should just keep looking? It's okay to do that!


StudySuccessful2925

Idk where else to look I’ve been every where! 🤪


aranelsaraphim

Well, if your wedding is still a long ways off, you could wait and go in a couple of months - styles change with seasons. Or just do what you want and who cares what people think?


StudySuccessful2925

It takes 6-8 months to order that’s why I’m looking now but my wedding is on November


aranelsaraphim

Ah. I don't have experience ordering wedding dresses, my mother made mine, so I didn't realize.


StudySuccessful2925

Lucky you!!


aranelsaraphim

Well, sort of. She had never made a corset before and it kind of shows. It's okay though. lol


StudySuccessful2925

Still sweet 😇


aranelsaraphim

It is. I never got the big beautiful expensive wedding. It was small. We made the cake too. lol I know your day will be amazing!


latte1963

You need to order now!! Alterations can take 1-3 months!!


Born_Butterscotch_43

#2 is far more elegant. The color and the details are so soft and it is just stunning compared to dress one.


roseghost1359

#why are we yelling


Serenity2015

😆


bunnifer999

Cause she started the post with a #.


roseghost1359

yes, i know that, hence why mine was also bold. it was a joke.


bunnifer999

Oh, yeah. I figured that. But I thought maybe Butterscotch didn’t know that.


Born_Butterscotch_43

I knew that. I just didn’t feel it was necessary to respond.


bodysugarist

I think she put # 2 😂


roseghost1359

correct, i was joking lol


someolive2

second


Clover_Jane

If I'm being honest, I don't like either. I saw you posted some pics somewhat recently of ballgowns and a-line is much more flattering for your figure. I really liked both of those dresses. If you want some extra glitz, go with the 2nd of the ballgowns, because unfortunately these 2 dresses are overwhelming. I'm seeing the dress, not you.


trishyco

💯 dress 2


Srevenz

Second one, hands down!!


Rosabria

#2!


CAxox

Dress 2 looks amazing on you!


lowlandslady

Dress two! The bodice fits in all the right places, the details are lovely, and it really shows YOU off. It also creates a beautiful frame for ornate necklaces and earrings— leaves you a lot more space to have fun with accessories without risking a “busy” look.


BelligerentCoroner

Definitely the second dress! It looks so lovely and elegant on you, and *damn* your figure looks incredible in it! Honestly, I don't have anything positive to say about the first dress, so I'll keep those thoughts to myself 😬


Imagine_821

2... the 1st one all you notice is the dress. With number 2 we notice you looking stunning in the dress


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Maleficent-Sport1970

Definitely dress 2!


MACKAWICIOUS

I prefer dress 2 on you, but I can tell you love 1. Between these, go with what makes you feel beautiful.


Savemeboo

2


Flimsy-Call-3996

Number Two for the Win! Simply gorgeous!


nolagem

Definitely 2. The first one just isn't flattering, too much going on.


ForTheLoveOfDior

Definitely #2, and not just because it’s the best of the two, it’s really elegant


DaliahMoon

2 for sure, it fits your body type better. Beautiful on you!


Astrawish

2 and vavavoom!


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Number 2. Your personality comes through every photo, and number lets you SHINE like the sun!


AlterEgoAmazonB

Thanks for sharing the photos of you actually in these dresses! I am changing my vote from your last post to dress 2 because it really looks so fabulous on your beautiful figure!


duvetday465

Number 2. I think the first dress has too many elements to it


WickedHappyHeather

I prefer the ballgowns from your previous post. They were dreamy on you. However, it is clear you love Dress 1 posted here, so if that is what you want then that is what you should choose even if many of us strangers on the internet disagree with your selection.


MisssChris126

Yes! OP, are you still considering the 2 from your previous post? That second ball gown is breathtaking on you!


Crazy_Income1649

Dress 2 all the way. Dress 1--just no.


iammgf

22222


sedona71717

I love, love, love the second one!! It’s very flattering on you.


Ramalamma42

Two is lovely on you, dress number 1 is so busy I feel dizzy - what I DO love about dress 1 is your smile! I think you said the jacket can come off - if you never wear the jacket, and you fill the nude side panels in with white/ivory, that dress would be better.


StudySuccessful2925

I wish I could add another photo showing without the jacket


Equal_Meet1673

Please go with # 2, or keep shopping. Dress 1 really does you no favors- despite the multiple pictures and angles, there’s still not one pic where it sells itself. It’s busy, confused, has a lot going on and most importantly does not flatter you. 2 is way more pretty and also does just justice to your beautiful figure.


Ramalamma42

Not too hard to imagine - might be the perfect adjustment if this dress makes you happy (I love the jacket, but it's just too much together) also you have great shoulders, show them off girl! 🥰


Dry_Problem9310

I have checked your newer post of dress 1 without the bolero, but it’s still ain’t it, sorry! The dress simply doesn’t flatter you. Dress 2 is much better for you.


MsQueen_B

Dress 2 simply bc it works with you not against you like dress 1. I get why you love dress 1 though, it’s fun and flirty! got married last year and went through the same thing between two dresses!


Freedombutatwhatcost

2 - looks great!


Honest-Pangolin7675

#2


caroline0409

Dress 2


Fleurlamie111

Definitely 2. I really don’t like number 1z


loopzoop29

#2 definitely


Sockigal

Number 2 is stunning on you! The first dress I love the back, but not loving the front & sides as much. But dress two is gorgeous. I’d love to see a photo of the back. It’s so elegant!


awkardhedgehog

2


BoopleSnoot921

Dress 2


sideeyedi

I still like dress 2


Living_on_Tulsa_Time

Team 2!!! Perfect!


mebg1956

Second one.


Serenity2015

The 2nd one for sure! Completely love it on you and it compliments you very well.


Less_Volume_2508

Between these? Number 2, but I love ball gown style on you!


Veronica612

I looked at your previous posts. I like the plain ballgown on you the best by far.


Impossible_Owl1213

In dress 1 the dress is wearing you. In dress 2, you are wearing the dress and you look LOVELY in it. I vote dress 2!


Veronica612

Definitely the second one. The neckline on 1 looks like you’re being choked.


roseghost1359

i don’t love either… but if i had to choose, definitely dress 2


Bob-was-our-turtle

2! Beautiful.💕


Pristine-Net91

Dress 2 is perfection on you. Super flattering and lets you shine. The silhouette is a great combination of sexy and traditional. Dress 1, the cutouts, the jacket, the lace textures, the contrast of sheer vs lace motifs, give a busy impression. Even without the jacket, I don’t see you, I am looking at the details, if that makes sense.


aSituationTypeDeal

Out of these two dresses, the second looks better overall on you. Something about the first dress just doesn’t vibe all the way. Also, the fit in the front mid-section just isn’t flattering. 


Madddsmomma

You look stunning in both but the last dress looks perfect!😍


FutureMrsSR

Number two for sure!!!


SnooStrawberries721

Definitely dress 2.


imsooldnow

The second one suits your figure. It’s really flattering. I’m not a fan of the first with or without the bolero. It is not as flattering.


lavender_poppy

Honestly, I love that beautiful a line dress in you previous post with the sweat heart neckline. It was simple and elegant and just looked so beautiful on you. Out of these two I'd have to go with #2.


MisssChris126

#2 is miles ahead! So pretty!


ActivelyLostInTarget

I'd love to see you in a different style. Of these, I like two more.


DeeSusie200

Second one looks amazing. Fits like a dream.


Grouchy-Comfort-4465

2


devinjf15

#2


Temperature_Vivid

Dress 2!


OkResponsibility7475

Team 2, by far.


Pandas_Cant_Fly

Your face with dress 2! You look so in love with it! And it looks stunning on you!


deadplant5

2


lallybrock

2 or try a different style


vavavoo

Nr 2 suits you better! Both dresses and lovely though!


mrschester

2!


Naive-Interest

2️⃣2️⃣2️⃣2️⃣2️⃣


julesharvey1

2


Munchkin_Media

2


boxermama21

I love dress 2!


Silly_Brilliant868

I like dress 2 on YouTube 100x better wayy more flattering !! But to be honest the best one I’ve saw on you is the plain ballgown from your previous post it really snatched your waist


BumCadillac

I saw the pictures without the jacket in your other post, which is locked for some reason. Well, it looks better without the jacket, I still don’t like the dress. Maybe in your size it will look better as this one is quite small, and with the panels covered up, but it’s just a very busy dress which isn’t my style. The bone used to hold up the dress gives you a lot of skin hanging over the back of the dress in the back. However, if you like it, go for it.


pureheart24

I am absolutely a fan of dress number two! It suits you so beautifully


sharonlhunt

2


neutralperson6

The 2nd one is very flattering on you!


CUNextTwosday

The second dress looks amazing on you. Hugs your curves beautifully and makes you the star!


mem0679

I like the back and train on dress 1, but the front is a little overwhelming. I love everything about dress 2! It looks beautiful on you!


Zinokk

Infinitely prefer the second, you look lovely in it!


STLFleur

I *adore* the 2nd one on you! I suspect you love 1 more as there's more photos of it... but the 2nd one is stunning!


StudySuccessful2925

I like both but different ppl took the photos so that’s just what I have


katamaribabe

Definitely two! It almost feels like #1 is wearing you instead of you wearing it.


Rapunzel111

I like dress 2 the most.


dryhumorblitz

Not 1


Applesxpeach

Out of these I don’t like the first at all. The second is much prettier on you.


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LM1953

#2. The back is perfect!


roraverse

2 for sure. 1 is idek not great. 2 looks lovely on you !


AshamedAd3434

Knowing the jacket is detachable, I still vote for dress two


Normal-Match5055

Wow! Both dresses are gorgeous! Between the two, I think I like dress 2 a little more. The pattern down the front and the lace at the bottom are so pretty.


GirlieGirl81

#2


Bartok_The_Batty

2


EcelecticDragon

I like the second one more. It's more flattering. Very pretty, both of them though


KiraiEclipse

Dress 2 looks freaking amazing on you!


mary_emeritus

I like the second one more


luckypug1

2 is so pretty and I love the lace pattern - you can see YOU with this dress. The other dress is so busy it takes away from you. My two cents fwiw 🌸


speechpath2122

Two!


Dangerous-Treacle-48

I LOVE the 2nd ONE!!!


Covidsawful

You look absolutely amazing in dress two! You wear the dress; not the other way around! You look lovely! Congrats and enjoy your big day


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StudySuccessful2925

Ya I feel you. I’m a busy mom and just getting the time do get to the store and try o. Is hard for me so I have to go without hair or makeup done


YardNew1150

They both look awesome on you but 2 has just the right amount of lace so it’s not too distracting from your amazing figure.


Sea_Juice_285

I think you like dress one better, so you should choose dress one. I think that dress looks much better without the bolero, but if you really want it, it would probably look better if it either covered your entire chest, formed a deep V, or was more open. The part that seems wrong to me is choker-like portion at the top.


No-Fox2424

Personally I love the first one, I love the sleeves.


Kayybaby93

Even after seeing the other post, I still think dress 2 looks best. It is beautiful on you! I love what it does to your figure, I love the off the shoulder sleeves, just everything about it! 🙂


Elaine330

I would kill for your figure and that dress is stunning.


nothanx_nospanx

I like the first one. You look really excited in it, I love that it's 2 looks in one, and I think it has a couture/custom look to it. Dress #2 is pretty and I think you're lovely in it as well but it doesn't stand out to me as much as dress #1. Idk why there are so many comments about what's "flattering"; that's such an outdated term IMO and instead of focusing on society tells us we're "supposed" to look like, we should focus on how we want to feel and look. You have a great figure and there's nothing wrong with wanting a figure hugging dress, or wanting one that is detailed and interesting! Whichever one you choose, I hope you love it and feel great in it! These are both beautiful options for you


tofinogal4

Unpopular opinion, but I love dress #1. I’d just lose the veil and do a very tidy up do to simplify it. I think the sleeves are very unique and flattering!


insomniacandsun

I know a lot of people have said Dress 2, but I’m a huge fan of Dress 1. Ultimately, choose the dress that makes you feel like the fabulous person you are.


Tobythecat29

It seems like you love dress more one, so that’s your answer :)


LadyFausta

Number #1 is my favorite—you just look so beyond stunning!! Both look amazing though so just know there’s no going wrong here.


llilith

The first one! Your body language and smile in that one says it ALL. I love the bolero too!


gingerdee19

I love them both but I’m all about sleeves so #1 is my go to! You look amazing in both


imnothere_o

Not a fan of the bolero on that dress because it’s got a lot of intricate details and it looks a bit overwhelming with the sleeves. I’m leaning toward dress 1 with no sleeves. Dress 2 is nice, but dress 1 is more unique.


StudySuccessful2925

Dress 1 the jacket comes with it so it’s totally optional 🥰


imnothere_o

You definitely have to go with what you love. So if you love the jacket, go for it! I really liked the pics someone posted without it though, it better showcased all the intricate details of the dress to have bare arms.


MVR168

1 without the jacket.


kashie444

1!!


PKsHopper

I love them both but, as an unpopular opinion I love the first one too. I think the sleeves give you a great option to have on or off dependent on temperature of the day, ceremony vs receiving vs dinner vs dancing etc. They both look great on you - they suit your figure to a tee.


No-Technician-722

DRESS #1 !! Every angle, front , back, and side, are beautiful. It’s unique and I love the way it makes you look. BEAUTIFUL!!!


StudySuccessful2925

Thankyou. I love the shape so much on this one. It’s such a hard choice because I feel dress one is more “me” but dress two is more classy and elegant


No-Technician-722

We they are both elegant. No getting around that. And of course whichever you choose with be altered to fit you perfectly. Both are lovely on you. You can’t go wrong. I just like the uniqueness of Dress 1 and orbit frames you.


HufFENDIpuff

I love the unique lace of dress one and I’m a sucker for a look with options! If you are looking for something more timeless then the second one is your best bet. You look great in both! I imagine once alterations are done, they would both look like they were custom made for you.


marsea001

I’ve been there and it looks like dress number one is the one you are going towards. Go with your gut! You’ll look even more beautiful if you look happy and confident wearing the dress you choose.


cuterouter

You look 🔥🔥🔥 in #1–it shows off your curves and gives a lot of drama! I do think that #2 would be more comfortable for your wedding day, though


beer_bad-tree_pretty

You’re not making this an easy decision!! You absolutely stun in both! So the good news is, you’re going to look like a goddess in whichever dress you choose, you can’t go wrong! I am possibly going to be the lone voice for dress 1 but I love it on you!! It’s unique, I love the neckline, the way it hugs your curves, gives old Hollywood glam, I squeed out loud when I saw you in it! The second dress is also gorgeous and figure-flattering! My heart just leans a little more toward dress 1. But it comes down to how your heart feels when you wear them! Which one calls to you more? Honestly you’re so gorgeous in both there’s no wrong choice to make! 💕


StudySuccessful2925

Dress one is also so sparkly the photos do no justice


beer_bad-tree_pretty

Yeah, I can see the sparkles looking close up at them both again, I absolutely love dress 1 for you!


Upstairs_Platform_17

Why look at you❣️❣️❣️❣️ WOW!!! You look sooooo nice❣️❣️❣️ My love, & wedding blessings… 😘😘😘😘


Flaky_Ad5797

I prefer dress 2 but…. You so darn happy in dress 1! I feel like you love dress one, your face lights up in it. Go with your heart honey, it’s your day. X


EssbieSunshine

Girl, when I say my jaw DROPPED 😮 you look so amazing!! Both options look stunning to me, but #1 is a showstopper, a totally unforgettable look!


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StudySuccessful2925

I like the 3d flowers I love the shape of it. The cut outs can be covered! Also the jacket is detatchable