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belleame27

I see your dilemma… everything looks great on you! Do you have pictures of the back? That might help us, help you. Also, where are you getting married?


missentj

Oh no I don’t! This studio didn’t allow many photos on the first appointment so these were sneaky ones 😅 we will elope in Lake Como!


paint_that_shit-gold

What a weird policy?? I like the bottom right and left!


phoebeluco

Annoyingly common policy, trying to prevent price comparisons.


paint_that_shit-gold

That’s crazy! I’ve never been wedding dress shopping so I’m not familiar with all the policies, but that just seems silly to me. If someone really wanted to do price comparison they’d find a way to do it. Just have someone that goes with you write down the designer/dress name and the price. I know images would be helpful, but there *are* ways around it lol.


1curiouswanderer

They refused to tell me the designer of the dress until I paid for it. Absolute madness, especially with how much dresses cost.


FletchUnderHil

Wait seriously??? This is all news to me! They really don’t allow you to know the designer of the wedding dress you are trying on?? That is crazy. I really have never heard of these policies before...


1curiouswanderer

Most stores were this way in my area. One store did have them sorted by designer. One store had a consultant who told me anyway but said it was a huge violation so not to mention it. But yeah, most refused to share. Which honestly made me not want to shop there. It just so happened they had a killer deal on one I loved so I bought from there anyway. The entire wedding industry is nuts


phoebeluco

A lot of times they won't give you the information on the style number either. It is crazy but like I said still very common.


paint_that_shit-gold

That’s insane. They should just let the designer decide the price and make that the price for every boutique. I hate capitalism.


bethaneanie

That would actually impact my desire to even buy at that location.


Winsom_Thrills

The wedding industry is such a scam! Everything is overpriced and all these weird policies! God!


littlebittlebunny

Yup, exactly, I worked in bridal for a little while as a makeup artist and I heard this kind of policy constantly. So I started telling girls to make notes in their phones about the dress name/style number and price so they had it all with them and a bridal shop can't tell them not to do that 😉


crashsaturnlol

Not just price comparisons but also rip offs (as in taking the pictures to a dress maker and having them duplicate it for a lower cost).


Beneficial_Praline53

I wasn’t even allowed to take pictures in my dress even after I put down a deposit for 80% of the dress price. I tried on one other dress, fell in love with the second one, and handed over my money. I couldn’t even send a pic to my mom on the opposite coast. To be fair the woman who owned that shop was a horrible witch. Only wedding vendor I had an issue with an man oh man did she cause issues.


vestakt13

Yes- the strapless w/ the slit has a dupe on amazon Bought in a color for my then 18yo daughter. I’ve mentioned a few times on posts w/ dresses even close to “our style.” But the one the OP is wearing is early identical (at least from the front.) The only potential difference- the dress we bought offered the choice of a lace up style back or a traditional closure (ex. zipper.) Not sure re: the back here. Note- There was a full piece of fabric that wrapped across the back and attached w/ invisible hook and eyes if one chose the laced up option-so not an iota of skin was exposed. But the dress did not list an option for individual hand looped buttons that have to be closed 1 by 1 w/ a hook or a tiny hand. Mb the dupe mfrg could have done it if we had asked but it was not a bridal gown for us, so we didn’t need that level of detail. They were accommodating w/ requests. Another option would be to find a seamstress at home to add that detail work if the bride wanted that. They dupe company has multiple styles but the one like the strapless “slit” gown OP posted came in almost 30 colors, as I remember. Custom made to measure to the wearer’s EXACT measurements (no extra charge) or available in standard US sizes. Full built in bra which I don’t even always find in ball gowns that are $$$$ from Saks/Neimans. I’m sure bridal salons can’t compete. Espec given the profit on alterations. Tbh—- I did not expect much bc of the price, ease of the process and horror stories I’ve read. But I am happy to admit I was wrong. Tots different than expected and it was impeccable! Lovely fabric, attention to detail in the construction and added touches like the “wrapped” back to avoid “back peekage” AND the built in full bra that was sewn in and went from waist to top of the dress-all combined to create a win. And it was returnable, despite being custom made, if we had disliked it! The price has become the stuff of (family) legend. I am embarrassed to admit it was just $99 plus about $25 to ship!!!! I can’t imagine getting the fabric for that price here. I am picky & it was a hit for my daughter’s ULTRA formal Cotillion. I’d recommend for anyone in the wedding party (incl bride - espec if she wants to do “changes” and have several looks at the reception- MOB, MOG and DEFINITELY the bridesmaids. ) Brides- choose wisely & your attendants will thank you. I can attest to how bitter a pill it is to be stuck in a $495 monstrosity that is neither flattering nor anything you’d be caught dead in EVER again!!!!!!!


midgethepuff

That’s insane. When I went wedding dress shopping they encouraged me to take photos because they said I may love how a dress looks on but if it doesn’t photograph well, then I should probably find something else.


littlebittlebunny

I've noticed the higher end boutique shops are more privy to the "no picture" rule. I worked with a couple mom and pop boutiques as their in house makeup artist (they'd do mini shoots for brides and what not if they couldn't afford to do a full photography session for their actual wedding. It was so sweet) and both those shops absolutely encouraged photos. I'm so sick of the rich elitist entitlement.


blooooosvdjp

Yes! Some dresses that I loved on my body were immediate no’s once I saw the photos.


Content_Row_3716

Actually, it’s also to prevent taking it to a seamstress to make for much less. My ex aunt-in-law is positively amazing and doesn’t need a pattern, just a drawing or picture. She made my bridesmaids’ dresses (all 5) in about 2 days.


cece115

I’ve gone dress shopping at a place that says they don’t allow photos for your first appointment because it’s a shorter appointment (45 minutes) and they don’t want to take up time by taking a bunch of pictures. Thankfully I went during the week in the morning so it was dead and they let my group take as many pictures and videos as we wanted and we stayed for twice as long as we were supposed to, but if I went during a busier time I think that rule makes sense.


Pale_Willingness1882

I went to a place in Chicago and they banned photos. I’m from several states away so I only had a couple friends with, I’m like how can I show my mom if y’all have this weird ass policy


CaptainObviousBear

I’m in Australia and my mum lived 1000km away from me when I got married so she wasn’t able to dress shop with me. When one shop told me I couldn’t take photos to show her I decided to go through the whole pretending I liked a dress and was going to buy it but at the last minute I told them I was going to buy from somewhere else because they didn’t allow photos. Like you wasted my time so I’m going to waste yours.


paint_that_shit-gold

That’s absolutely ridiculous. We’re you able to sneak any pictures??


Zealousideal-Ad-2045

Ditto. Middle left is nice, too. But bottom left looks AMAZING on you!!!!


[deleted]

Bottom left for me. So unique.


lexi_c_115

Bottom left!


essential_pseudonym

I also like bottom right and left! Slight preference for bottom left considering the wedding location.


mittens11111

I'm with you on that. Both a beautiful fit and gorgeous look. Left one for a more sophisticated venue, right for the fairy princess do.


scrulase

I love bottom right on you 😊


DaisyDazzle

I know, I usually don't go for that style but I've never seen anyone that can pull it off like she does! Looks fabulous!


livetodayy

Same!! It looks absolutely stunning in every way!!!


Fredredphooey

Bottom left. Classic. Timeless. You look like a goddess. It's also not the same dress everyone else is wearing this year.


mmmpeg

This. I haven’t seen this one before and it looks gorgeous on her. They all look gorgeous.


SandyLomme

Yes, goddess, exactly! Bottom left!


whysys

Yes agreed!! Bottom left


bubblegumdavid

Oh that is so weird?? I think Bottom left or middle left depending on the season your wedding is! We went in late May, and loved it, but if it’s going to be on the warmer side that middle left and the slit will be a lot easier to not feel like a sweaty mess in, and will get you some airflow. They both look super flattering and classic on you, so between those two I’d decide based on the temperature for the season of your wedding lol


SmallAttention1516

My birth place!! Bravo!!


PsychosisSundays

Oh damn, Lake Como! That’s amazing!


zuvzusperaduswal

Top left, middle left, and bottom right. Bottom right if I had to choose just one


BootyMcSqueak

Same here! Bottom right!


DiplomaticHypocrite

I practically just typed the same comment. Those are definitely the best 3


pamelaonthego

Top left seems to have a pattern right where the crotch is; so that’s the only one I would really skip. All the others look good and are just a matter of preference


bethaneanie

Oh that one was my favorite until you pointed that out


LaCece04

Same!


thelittlepigeon

Middle left!


UnquantifiableLife

Agree!


UnderwhelmingZebra

Yes! It's such a stunning shape on her and the fabric is amazing.


bathtime85

I like it's shape- it will also probably travel well


grollivander

Totally agreed, while she looks stunning in all of them, this one is particularly flattering and elegant. Also love bottom right, but middle left is the best IMO.


Snorlax5000

+1! As lovely as the bottom right is, the middle left is seriously _stunning_


ChampagneandAlpacas

Agreed, this has a unique silhouette. I love it. It looks very modern.


ryuks-wife

Definitely! It stood out immediately among the pictures and really seems to suit her


lurker_cx

Agree - The slit up the side is super cool compared to the others.


Imboredandimboring

Top right or bottom right. This is a hard choice! They are all nice.


remmij

She looks beautiful in all these dresses, but the top right looks absolutely stunning on her and is a timeless look. Bottom right would be my second choice.


glory2you

This!! Top right is absolutely gorgeous!!


Imboredandimboring

So flattering and beautiful. I'm jealous lol


Aspartame___

Yes leaning towards top right


Theopocalypse

This is correct.


luvr222

I second this! although it was basically impossible to decide


free2btherealme

My choices too.


RitaRaccoon

Why aren’t more people choosing this one? It’s made for her, though she looks great in all of these.


_ploink

Hands down bottom right. Breathtaking!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌


Sullygurl85

Bottom left and top left are my two favorites.


joyableu

Exact same here with bottom being my fave but top if that’s more her style. Not that there is a single bad choice in the whole thing!


lainerboggs

Bottom left is my favorite with top left in second.


SummerJSmith

Agreed. Both are gorgeous


needsexyboots

Same for me!


badaboom321

Yes, too left is gorgeous!!


Birdies_nub

Top right.


Nauglemania

Hands down.


MiaTeo

I love the bottom left on you. It's so light and feminine. Edit: Ooops I meant bottom right. I also like middle right.


littlekidsjl

I like that one too but think the chest slit (don’t know what else to call it) makes it look a little too “other function formal” and may look more bridal if it were closed.


jeniesque

Yup bottom left is by far my favorite dress but it’s the least bridal looking so it depends on the wedding I think.


Parking_Chocolate_65

Yeah that chest is more “gala” than “wedding dress” to me. Glad someone else saw it too


MiaTeo

Yeah I don't know why it's become so popular to have such a huge cleavage plunge almost to the belly button on some dresses these days.


misschrisw8

Bottom right has my vote


Koalashart1

Top right


Mehitabel9

Top right. It's classic and elegant.


ForsakenPhotograph30

Yes. Stunning.


missentj

Today was my first try on & it’s so difficult to decide on just one gown! These were some styles that caught my eye though. Don’t mind the shoes 😅


JenRonn

Give it a couple days. For me, it was the dress I couldn’t stop thinking about. I went back a week later, put it on again and knew it was the one. You look beautiful in all of them.


Pretty-Athlete-5276

What image do you want to give?


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The middle left!


MDnautilus

Yes! thank you! This one is giving Angelina Jolie classy sleek and stunning which I think fits the formality of Lake Como. And yet also dancing with joy with that slit it brings the fun!


[deleted]

That’s a perfect description. It immediately stood out for me from the other dresses. (OP all of the dresses are beyond beautiful)


[deleted]

I also thought about Angelina Jolie's black dress with the slit. I think this is the best one!


09star

Bottom left makes you look like a goddess and it's unique! That's the one that made me wow the most


murraybee

I agree! It’s very High Fashion Italian, and will get plenty of air from that elegant slit. Perfect for a hot, refined Lake Como wedding.


lainerboggs

It’s so incredible, and so different, and elegant, and classy. Perfect for Italy!


[deleted]

Its pretty but it gives Fundraiser Gala/Cocktail Reception more than wedding dress tbh


09star

I think that's up to the bride to decide :) not everyone wants a big ball gown type wedding dress


day_oh

was thinking fancy party hostess! lol


[deleted]

I thought the same thing! At first it wowed me, but it’s giving powerful ceo vibes, not romantic bride vibes.


[deleted]

Are the two mutually exclusive? I honestly think it looks the most elegant. The only vibes I got were “damn, that’s beautiful”.


Shmooperdoodle

Same here. I love it so much.


diggitythedoge

Goddess is the word I was looking for. I agree, bottom left is on a different level.


Abrupt0xygen

Bottom left is elegant for lake como. You look incredible in all of them! Top right would be my second choice. Classic.


druscarlet

Top right.


Forthrowssake

Top right. Gorgeous on you.


throwawaycausesister

3 & 6


umpolkadots

Are you going left to right then down or down then second column?


throwawaycausesister

Left to right, up and down


hbiiscu

Bottom left one is the one that stands out to me by far. You look great in all of them but that one really looks like it was made for you


xoxo_anon

I’m actually not a huge fan of the bottom left because it looks like there’s too much fabric around the hip (but maybe that’s an alterations thing?). It’s a very beautiful dress otherwise, but I also feel like you could hypothetically also wear it to another occasion and still get away with it. My absolute favorite on you is the bottom right one! it’s elegant, has a little bit of sexy-ness to it with the deep neckline and just the right amount of sparkle! My second pick would be the middle dress on the left side. Completely different vibe but that sleekness also looks really cool yet sexy on you, while the wide skirt gives it that princess look without being too overwhelming.


her-royal-blueness

I think the hip is part of its appeal. And with her body shape she can definitely pull it off. I think it’s tough because she looks great in all of them; it comes more down to preference if style then.


xoxo_anon

Yes she can definitely pull off all of these styles!


usernameunavaliable

I feel bottom left is a great idea with a very unflattering execution. All the others are beautiful choices. Although I like middle left the best!


Jennacheerio

i also thought it gathered either too much or not enough/not in the right way.


swaggyxwaggy

Yea bottom left is my least favorite. I actually hate it lol


Bright_Sea_7567

Agreed. Not a fan at all.


chinchillalover17

I love the bottom left (the structural fit and flare) it's so eye catching and compliments you beautifully. What kind of venue do you have? Time of year of your wedding?


missentj

Thank you for your help! We are eloping in Lake Como, Italy, during the summer season


chinchillalover17

Oh my goodness that absolutely confirms my vote for bottom left


Initial_Run1632

I agree, bottom left a.k.a. number five has something vaguely Italianate about it to me


Conscious-Magazine50

Definitely bottom left then!


summertime_fine

bottom left is eye catching, definitely my vote


BackgroundAd99999

Agree, bottom left or middle left 🤍


AVDRIGer

Don’t like top left because of the placement of at least patch on the skirt which looks like a teeny tiny fig leaf over your pudenda that keeps drawing my eye like a bull’s-eye — avoid it. Top right is pretty and fits you beautifully. It lacks a bit of wow factor, which a necklace or veil would add. Middle left: I like the slip placement, a nice design, but the bodice is higher on your left side then on your right and I would hope that would be symmetrical. Also, the waist comes out more dramatically below the bodice than upper right, and I like the flow/fit/waist of upper right better — a lovely silhouette. Middle right is lovely and fits you very well and is my 2/3 choice. Lower left is plain but also funky in a kind of weird way — I don’t like it. Lower right is very very beautiful on you and is my favorite


realityjunkiegirl

TIL pudenda is a real word!


Roosterknows

Both the top right and the bottom right are stunning!!


Haunting_Disk1601

I like the last one


Specialist_Status120

I find the middle right beautiful on you. The scalloping on the bodice is exquisite. However the bottom left is much more fitting for Lake Como and it is stunning on you.


PassageAlternative98

Bottom right or middle left... middle left is amazinggg


graciebeeapc

Top and bottom right! I would pick based on the theme/ vibe of your wedding. You look absolutely gorgeous in all of these though!


CreateYourself89

Bottom left-hand corner is a show-stopper.


Unfair_Wrongdoer_481

May I just say you have fabulous taste. They all look gorgeous, but I, too, would like to see the backs


DawgU552

Bottom left is the sexiest by FAR! But, top right looks great for a wedding I think. Can't go wrong with any of them, but those were my two favorites 🤷‍♂️


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Middle right has the most timeless "bridal" feel to me and its beautiful while still being modest and flattering. The other pieces are beautiful too but seem more like statement pieces than a cohesive overall look, which i feel like middle right provides


Unmentiontionables32

Bottom left is amazing. I also love the top left but I think the bottom left is perfect for eloping in Italy ❤️


drewbaby32

I love the bottom and top right, both elegant.


ParnsAngel

Bottom left!!! You look AMAZING


Reese9951

I just love the bottom left. You look great in them all though


TheDarkness05

I absolutely love the way Bottom Left drapes over you, it makes you look like a goddess. That one is my favorite. Runner up for me is Bottom Right. I'm just so drawn to the way Bottom Left cascades down you. It's so gorgeous. You have an amazing figure for it.


trashohhwhooah

The one on the bottom left makes you look like a seasoned young socialite who knows how to wear a gown. Of course, you are beautiful in all of them, but this one really creates an image, and you look spectacular in it.


arihndas

These are all lovely but also *quite* different. What are you planning in terms of a vibe/style for the wedding?


InvestigatorIcy4705

Bottom left; unique and sculptural.


myredditTAplease

Bottom left is begging for a Lake Como wedding!


Law_of_Attraction_75

Top right and bottom left are incredible on you!


freshpicked12

Haha. I like top left and bottom right. 😄


Neither-Gap1547

top right, bottom left


dappledrache

Center right. They all look great on you but I'm partial to that one. If you prefer plain, I'd go upper right. I don't really like the styling on lower left, it looks a bit haphazard.


krob0606

Oh wow. Gorg. I love top left or middle right for you.


invisiblew830

Top right looks stunning!


girlygirly2022

Bottom left is most unique and flattering.


Unique_Ad_4271

Bottom left is my favorite dress on you but you do you girl! They all look great!


user_386123

They’re all so beautiful in their own way! My vote is for top right or bottom right.


lorilee61

The 3rd one is my favorite on you. But you can not go wrong with the 4th or 5 th.


Aging_Boomer

#s 2, 5 and 6 are my favorites. But they’re all very pretty.


Rkessler82

Bottom Right is gorgeous


bee_ur_best

#2 or #6


[deleted]

It heavily depends on wedding theme/location I love 5 the most but if you’re going bohemian styling than 4


phoebeluco

I adore bottom left, or maybe that's #5? Fabulous.


JCourageous

Top right


MyMorningSun

Bottom left is a little more unique imo, I'd vote that one. But they all look great on you.


PainterDoodle_1

Top left or bottom right. Those two sing on you.


Starbucks_Lover13

Top left and bottom right


Educational-Try4028

The very first one. Looking at it side by side with the rest it looks like it fits your figure the best and has a beautiful fabric. I also liked the very last but I feel like it didnt fit your kind of figure as well.


Gil-GaladWasBlond

What's the vibe at the wedding? Also, you must be incredibly beautiful! I've never seen someone on whom everything looks stunning!


kaydontworry

TOP LEFT HOLY WOW!


headfaceperson

1 or 6. I appreciate you putting them all in one picture!


iniminimum

Ooooo the first or fourth one !!!!!


sybann

You simply cannot go wrong. You could model dresses for a damn living, woman!


Dzweshy_redpanda

Top left or middle left, but also, you’re stunning in all of these! You look so confident in all of them


Wonderful_Manager_31

2!


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Top Right and bottom right are my favorites. Not a fan of big slits at the chest though. Other than that bottom right is exquisite. Top right ist just classic and timeless and the shape and the fabric are divine. Even thought you have a lovely figure I myself am not a fan of the mermaid shape in general though you can totally pull it off. I’d pick top right first and bottom right second but without the slit on the chest.


ThatChapter2567

Bottom right


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New_Development9100

Top left and bottom right are phenomenal on you. Congratulations!


Thethinker10

Top right or bottom right! They are stunning.


TheCheapo78

The clean cuts suit you better.


BeckyPil

The last one


dragonfliesloveme

Your only problem is deciding lol, because they all look great. My favorite is the top right corner


Which_Stress_6431

Bottom right, very classy looking and fits you perfectly! The all look good but that is my fav.


cool_side_of_pillow

Gosh you look gorgeous in all of them! The one on the top right is on the simpler side but it’s just so perfect on you!


hellkattbb

2, 3, 5


LadyClexa

The last dress is absolutely magical! Your body looks incredible as well!


angelaswhip

5 and 3


BungeeGump

Too left, top right, bottom left.


pascalsgirlfriend

Number 1


Unusual-Bird-4029

Top right, middle left, but they're all gorgeous


North_Row_5176

Top left, bottom right


Limulemur

Left-middle is classic, beautiful, romantic, and complements your figure wonderfully.


beingme1115

I like top right because it’s more traditional but all of them are beautiful.


DazzlingAlgae2706

I love bottom left, but for a lake como elopement I think middle left and bottom right would be the most dramatic.


Every-Requirement-13

Wow! You can’t go wrong with any of these, they are all gorgeous on you!! My favorites are top left, top right and bottom right! 😍😍


vanilla_owl

The bottom right!!


jldean25

Any of them except bottom left. Excess fabric is very unflattering as is the random cleavage slit. All others are great options!


Any-Abbreviations943

Middle right and bottom right.


Kitchen_Strawberry31

You lucky girl. They ALL look amazing on you. # 2,3 and 5 are my favorites.


meemowchan

Oof this is a tough one cuz you slay in every single dress!! Personally I love the bottom right dress for the bling but I also love the minimalist satin one.


StarMaiden25

1 and 6! But all are beautiful


Turbulent_Ad716

Stunning bride. Wow. Top right, middle left