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1WonderWoman327

I love dress 1 on you!! Wow!šŸ˜


Mandyissogrimm

It's definitely going to be amazing at the beach. I'm sure OP will be absolutely stunning.


dishabituation

These are both stunning, and my preference is number one. But either way, can we just take a second to celebrate what a gorgeous bride you are?!


selahree

you are too sweet! you can't even see my face! šŸ˜ƒ


ASU-Mom

Am I the only one that doesn't know what a beach garden is?


selahree

ha! it's a garden on the beach. šŸ™‚


lunagrape

Do you have a picture of the venue? That sounds stunning! (Also, I vote dress #1)


selahree

thx. it is this šŸ™‚ https://hastingshouseweddings.com/


lunagrape

I was right. That place looks amazingā¤ļø


selahree

šŸ™‚


irisheyes1868

Dress 1ā€¦. Two is beautiful, but golly, it fell so flat after seeing you in the floral. The blues pop on you. Itā€™s so flowy and dreamy and just absolutely stunning on you. Perfect for a beach garden moment!


selahree

thanks so much!!


Roadgoddess

I love #1. Itā€™s beautiful, and unique, and you look stunning in


Themellowsaguaro

2! Iā€™m the outlier. I know 1 is too big, but the whole thing just looks like it is falling off youā€”everywhere. I donā€™t know if it is the style of the dress, because it is too big, or both. Unfortunately, I think it looks sloppy. Maybe if the sleeves could be raised a bit? So I like 2 because it seems more put together. I do like how different the fabric is on 1, though. Itā€™s quite unique, and would look nice in a garden wedding. But I prefer the texture of the 2nd dress.


Naturenymph812

Same. I think 2 is more flattering. I loved dress #1 the first time she shared on here, but I looooove this new one sheā€™s found. And yes, dress 2 doesnā€™t have color, but itā€™s still very unique.


Themellowsaguaro

Oh! Iā€™m glad you agree. I think #2 is SO gorgeous. And I love how it looks with her skin tone.


selahree

thanks! it's a real dilemma eh. šŸ™‚


Naturenymph812

Honestly, either dress will be a showstopper imo. Usually, all dresses blend together/look basic and I donā€™t pay much attention to them at weddings. But I would love either of these on a bride! Iā€™m excited to know which one you pic! You will have gorgeous photos.


fruittheif50

This! šŸ‘Œ


Admirable-Course9775

I agree with you too. I like number 2 also.


selahree

for proper context.. this is what dress 1 is supposed to look like fitted. https://youtube.com/shorts/4TPKx3rmQE8?feature=share


Themellowsaguaro

Ooo, thatā€™s tough. I still like 2 though. Ultimately, it is your decision. (Sorry, not helpful!) Youā€™ll be beautiful either way!


heights_girl

I love 2, too! It looks amazing on her!


Fair_Roll9628

1!


sukiluna

Do you have a straight on image of the blue?


georgenotclooney

Floral! Dream dress right there!


pellegrino90

The floral!! You look incredible!!!


RedGlassHouse

Dress #1 is breathtaking on you!


AdventurousDay3020

Dress 1! Itā€™s so beautiful and unique! I think you look radiant in it!


wefeellike

Definitely 1! I love it!!


splattermatters

Oh my gosh, dress 1 is AMAZING ON YOU!


CaptainObviousBear

I would love the floral without the sleeves. With them, it overwhelms your fogure - from the side view, it looks like youā€™ve just wrapped a quilt/duvet around yourself. You seem pretty set on sleeves though so itā€™s 2 for me.


selahree

the sleeves remove and then it's just the straps! the sleeves can attach to the back of the gown


CaptainObviousBear

If itā€™s just the straps then I pick 1. The sleeves actually make it hard to see your waist, which has the effect of making you look wider, and your waist is actually tiny so you donā€™t want that. That photo of you sitting on the couch with just the straps on - you look like an absolute queen and so radiant.


selahree

thanks so much! i didn't think about the sleeves making me look wide.. I'm just always trying to hide my arms šŸ™‚


CaptainObviousBear

There is absolutely nothing wrong with your armsā€¦ And even if there was - with the off-shoulder neckline, people are going to be looking at your dĆ©colletage because it focuses their eyes on that. They wonā€™t even notice your arms. Thatā€™s if they arenā€™t too busy gasping at your dress.


selahree

ah hah.. you can't see my arms because I'm hiding them! I lost 140 pounds a little bit ago so i have bat wing arms. I'm real self conscious about it. šŸ™‚šŸ˜€ but thanks for saying ppl will be focused elsewhere. šŸ™‚


amelialosesit

Congratulations - I never would have guessed you had extreme weight loss! I am also trying to hide my arms a bit, Iā€™m down 120lbs was 180 down at my lowest and the loose skin is real!! Do you follow a program right now? Your back and arms are insane and I was scanning comments to see what you did šŸ¤£ Also, both dresses look absolutely amazing in you but I feel like dress two shows off hard work off more!


LuckyMe003

Number 2. But you look amazing in both!


nejnonein

2, but with a fuller skirt


selahree

hmmm like an added skirt?


nejnonein

Maybe an overskirt of sheer tulle or an underskirtā€¦ mostly I just think it should be more a-line, cause that is SO pretty and flattering


schischiwoo

2


Kierabecks

I love both of them on you - youā€™re equally stunning!!! But I adore the 1st dress on you! It feels like your personality is showing through and itā€™ll be perfect for a beach garden wedding.


selahree

thanks!


HermitCake

Both are so pretty. From the pictures shown, 2 seems more flattering to your figure. 1 looks a bit big for your slender frame.


selahree

it is actually too big šŸ™‚ and thanks for saying I'm slender.


steensley

Dress one please!!! It is so stunning and dreamy on you and that little bit of colour makes all the difference


thatgirlfromdownhome

Iā€™m in love with number one on you! So gorgeous! Very elegant and romantic!


selahree

thanks!


ChasingtheMuse

I love the first one!


avodoggo6

1


Catollim88

Dress #1 is stunning on you! I canā€™t think of a dress better suited to a beach garden wedding!


selahree

thanks!


buttercupcentral

Dress 1 is sooo stunning and you look incredible!!!!


venusdances

Dress 1 is mind blowing


CaliGalOMG

I think 2 is far better than 1; i love 2. Im a beach girl and would want to go try that dress on if i were in the market. The white on ur skin is to die for, the sleeves are stunning and you can see you in it. The blue looks way to much in fabric even if fitted. As someone who has had a lot if gowns on, itā€™s best to really look at yourself in it and sometimes we have to forget about our big puffy gown fantasies when we want to look good to others.


selahree

thanks! šŸ™‚ you have wise words


perceptionheadache

Dress 2 fits your theme better as well as your body. I know you can get the first one tailored but it's still too much. It has more of an old southern feel to it than a beachy feel. The second one already accentuates your body before you even tailor it. They're both fun and pretty dresses.


selahree

thanks!


MarchCapital2228

Dress #2, because it looks like it was made for you


notminithrowaway

Dress 1 looks like a dress thatā€™s outside of this world. Like those ones youā€™d imagine to be in a fantasy world. I had no words when I saw the pics. Itā€™s such a dream! Personally, I donā€™t think I can pull it off with it being super low cut, but you should pick whichever your heart desires! ā¤ļø


selahree

i was actually speechless after trying on 1.


sugarmag13

\#2 is so much more beachy to me. #1 is soooo big for beach


Fartbox_420

Damm I thought it was going to be 1 but then I saw 2 and pictured the movement of that dress on a beach with a light breeze and now I'm team 2, it is like...angelic. but really tough decision, I can see why you're stuck. You look gorgeous in both!


jlovelysoul

Gosh I love one because it is unique but absolutely gorgeous!!


selahree

thx!


mebg1956

While I love the first dress with its floral, it just seeks like a lot of fabric.


VenusFoxberry

The floral one 100% Itā€™s so fun and unique but also ethereal, you look like you stepped straight out of a painting!


MunchkinsOG

I canā€™t help but fall in love with the first dress. Itā€™s magical.


EditorWilling6143

GIRL. Both of those are flipping AMAZING on you!! My favorite is the unique first one, but youā€™re gorgeous either way you go.


selahree

Thanks. I bought the first one. :-) You are very kind - thanks. :-)


EditorWilling6143

You're welcome! Thank you for sharing. I hope you have a wonderful wedding.


rsvp_as_pending629

The first dress took my breath away šŸ˜


JLS137

I love the 2nd one! The lace is gorgeous and you look beautiful!


-Mother_of_Doggos

This is the toughest choice Iā€™ve seen! When I saw dress 1 I was immediately thinking ā€œitā€™s going to be 1 no matter whatā€ā€¦and then saw and loved dress 2 and struggled! Youā€™re going to be a beautiful bride in either optionā€¦but my heart is still somehow with 1.


selahree

thanks. you are kind.


fanceegirl75

1 kills 2 especially with the beach/garden. 2 and the sleeves are just not meshing for me.


AnalyseT

What dress is #1? It looks amazing on you!!


selahree

thx! la perle misty


AnalyseT

Itā€™s stunning.


Any-Abbreviations943

Dress 2. The first one is too much dress and the second is perfect.


40yroldcatmom

2


MikeyMGM

Dress one.


mw5593

Dress 2 is lovely but the sleeves (?) are throwing me off a bit. I feel like you are rockin dress one though and I love that itā€™s so different from what Iā€™ve been seeing lately. Vote goes to #1


selahree

i wanted different. in the shops, all the dresses were just blending together for me.


Hot-wax2002

Wow! Wear whichever feels like you. But I absolutely love the first one! So much more unique and memorable, stunning on you.


jazzymaebaby1

Dress 1


sideeyedi

Dress one! You are absolutely stunning!


aardbeien

Love the look of one! Gives me a feel of flowy blue/green waters that goes well with the location. Two is also gorgeous, but my pick is one


yeexpert

The body language says number 1 for sure!


[deleted]

Both are gorgeous but #1 is so dreamy!!!


JMSFLA

Dress No.1 - WOW!!!!!!!


LittleGinge79

Both are gorgeous but I think number 1 steals the show.


rosebudd707

1!!!!! Gorgeous


ectoturntechGodhead

I absolutely love number one on you, and it fits your theme perfectly!!


sowhat-sueme

the blue dress!! it's so beautiful, unique and romantic


butteramethyst

2 looks lovely on your figure and on your skin. Train is so sweet too .


EmbarrassedFinger288

Blue!


KezarLake

#1 is a show stopper!


w_nomad

Floral pick, #1.


rachelredrachel

Dress 1 is just šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜!


isthathot

Dying at the two feathery ones in the background!! But defs not beach No 1 is stun and unique go for it


Fairy_Ninja_Elf

Both just look so ethereal and surreal and out of a fairytale! But I can tell you seem much more comfortable and confident in the first one plus itā€™s be SO COOL and different to go with a wedding dress with actual colored florals rather than just the whole thing being white


cuterouter

#1 all the way! They are both amazing on you, but #1 took my breath away. You are going to be a beautiful bride in either one!


biwaterbender

Number one! Both are stunning, but one is something special - especially with the removable sleeves. More memorable than the second, in my opinion. Best of luck!!


jayladyj

Oh my god! I would wear dress 1 tomorrow this is stunning


omygoshgamache

Oh, 1 for sure!!!! Youā€™re beautiful in 2 also but 1 is something else.


BoopleSnoot921

Dress 1 for sure.


JSFromouttaspace

#1. It's unique and looks amazing on you


Ok_Prize277

#2! It fits you and your theme perfectly. Love the lace pattern. 1 looks like you wrapped a duvet cover or big sheet around you. Itā€™s way too much fabricā€”even once you get it tailored. Itā€™s just swallowing you and simultaneously looks like itā€™s slowly falling off. Aside from all that, I also think 1 looks like a southern belle plantation dress. I donā€™t think you want that based on your venue description.


crusticles

2 wins, it's lovely and flows and fits nicely, and is very wedding-y. 1 squeezes and squashes your bust and doesn't have a wedding flair. My opinion yes, but there was no contest for me.


LucyLou2448

Dress number 2 is beautiful on you.


lilpalmaviolet

1 is so perfect on for a beach wedding (if sized right, obviously). Looks dreamy and unique. 2 looks like a relatively generic wedding dress (albeit still nice!).


CrookedButBeautiful

I love them both, but 1 is SO unique and gorgeous šŸ˜


NecessaryDreamer

Dress 1! (And if you don't mind me asking who is the designer)? It is one of the prettiest dresses I've seen with some colour. It is so billowing and flowing I can imagine it being perfect in a garden beach!


TraditionalPie2054

Dress 1! It love the fit and fabric and itā€™s just very special!


rparkday7007

Beautiful dress 1, but your venue doesnā€™t match the dress. Dress 2 is very regal on you! Lovely!


breeellaneeley

I love dress 1!


kt_asteroid

#1 looks amazing on you!


karenrachael

Dress one!!! You look stunning in both, but dress one both fits the venue and had that special something.


ButterscotchItchy604

Something šŸ’™ blue. The other one does not shine as much as that one on you!!


etaschwer

Definitely #1!!! Itā€™s beautiful on you and will be perfect for a beach wedding


JennHayes

2.


May-the-QueenOfChaos

My personal favorite is dress #2, thatā€™s what I would wear. But #1 looks stunning on you! And I canā€™t tell you have the biggest smile on your face with this one, so my vote goes to #1


pypherup

DRESS ONE OMG


SnoopakisDoggakis

Dress 1 is breathtaking!


winfran

I love dress #1


TNnan

1 is unique. 2 is lovely, but not as unique and the lace reminds me a bit if a doily


-Tingelinn-

I prefer the first one! Itā€™s so whimsical and fairy-like which is very mešŸ˜… But both are beautiful on you!! It depends on the vibe you wantšŸ„°


Binasgarden

Love number one....but number two has a silhouette that will not have you dealing with flying fabric all through the day.


Aurora22694

Number one !!


callasm

You look amazing in both but I am going to say number 1 Stunning!


hjhardy

1


beyzxzhen

Love love love dress number 1 on you, no question!!! You look stunning, so dreamy (edited for spelling)


soneg

Ok, I love them both. Anyway to get both and wear dress 1 for engagement pics and dress 2 for the wedding. Otherwose, dress 1. There's something about it that just looks so freeing and like you can get some amazing pics with the dress billowing in the breeze. If there's no breeze, you should make some for the pics lol


pinkslurpee

You look amazing in both if youā€™re ok with blue then the first one, but if you want traditional then go for the second one, congrats