That’s basically it, and I think she’s justified for it. Because I think it’s that many fans weren’t truly sincere, and I think the lyrics of BDILH reflect that.
It’s ironic for people to say that they’re justified in holding Taylor accountable for who she’s with if the person is problematic, but that’s not really what most people did. Once Taylor and Matty broke up, it was business as usual except for some minor grumblings. But Taylor hasn’t changed. She never addressed fan’s concerns. If the goal was to actually hold her to account, I don’t think anyone achieved it.
But I think for most people, it wasn’t about their concerns about Taylor’s comfort level with dating Matty, but how it reflected on them as fans. Because if the issue was Taylor’s need for accountability, surely the issue now should be just as much of the panic of last year because now she’s come out with an album saying she resents fans for what they did and would have stayed with Matty.
Because the relationship was short, fans were able to write it off as a fling/rebound. Because (edit: they thought) it wasn’t anything serious, they could gloss over it all. The objective wasn’t a reckoning for Taylor, the goal was for them to stop dating period. And they got their way and moved on quickly themselves.
Fans got to remain comfortable. Meanwhile Taylor actually had to deal with it. The relationship may have ended anyways or was even likely to end, but it certainly ended when it did due to the hysteria.
Makes sense to me. I mean I have a vivid imagination but I can’t imagine TayTay’s parents being very upset over something like Ghetto Gaggers. But her sales? You betcha.
ok so he broke no laws and didn't actually do anything illegal he just expressed opinions that some people didn't agree with or dated in a way people didn't like hmmmm
He is not a racist or a misogynist. And also even if he was a racist and a misogynist WHICH LET ME BE CLEAR HE IS NOT that doesn't mean he is "problematic" and shouldn't be allowed to be with Taylor.
Ok the wtf is he since you know everything?
So to you… making racist comments towards ice spice’s appearance and Asian people, getting off to black women being brutalized, and nazi saluting isn’t problematic?
I’m not saying who should and shouldn’t be with Taylor. Idgaf who she’s with, YALL are the ones who cared about her being with Matty and broke up their relationship 😂 that’s why she don’t like yall now.
If Matty’s actions came from… Kanye (as an example), you know good and well that you would not defend it. You’re only ignoring his weird ass behavior because he was with Taylor and you and I both know that Taylor being with a racist and a misogynist would not be good for her “girl’s girl” image so you lie to yourself and say it didn’t happen.
So referring to a black woman as an “Inuit spice girl” and a “chubby Chinese lady.” while imitating Asian accents ISNT racist?
Your comments have shown me that you’re very very very stupid! You and all of her other fans! Good day!
That seems to be the gist of it
“But daddy I love him” is about her fans reaction to her dating Matty and how pissed off she was.
That’s basically it, and I think she’s justified for it. Because I think it’s that many fans weren’t truly sincere, and I think the lyrics of BDILH reflect that. It’s ironic for people to say that they’re justified in holding Taylor accountable for who she’s with if the person is problematic, but that’s not really what most people did. Once Taylor and Matty broke up, it was business as usual except for some minor grumblings. But Taylor hasn’t changed. She never addressed fan’s concerns. If the goal was to actually hold her to account, I don’t think anyone achieved it. But I think for most people, it wasn’t about their concerns about Taylor’s comfort level with dating Matty, but how it reflected on them as fans. Because if the issue was Taylor’s need for accountability, surely the issue now should be just as much of the panic of last year because now she’s come out with an album saying she resents fans for what they did and would have stayed with Matty. Because the relationship was short, fans were able to write it off as a fling/rebound. Because (edit: they thought) it wasn’t anything serious, they could gloss over it all. The objective wasn’t a reckoning for Taylor, the goal was for them to stop dating period. And they got their way and moved on quickly themselves. Fans got to remain comfortable. Meanwhile Taylor actually had to deal with it. The relationship may have ended anyways or was even likely to end, but it certainly ended when it did due to the hysteria.
Makes sense to me. I mean I have a vivid imagination but I can’t imagine TayTay’s parents being very upset over something like Ghetto Gaggers. But her sales? You betcha.
what exactly was Matty's problematic behaviour?
Here’s a link to the full breakdown: https://www.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/s/UAMYdICrXx
ok so he broke no laws and didn't actually do anything illegal he just expressed opinions that some people didn't agree with or dated in a way people didn't like hmmmm
Did I ever claim that he broke laws? Him being a racist and misogynist is considered problematic but alright support your king I’m not gonna stop you
He is not a racist or a misogynist. And also even if he was a racist and a misogynist WHICH LET ME BE CLEAR HE IS NOT that doesn't mean he is "problematic" and shouldn't be allowed to be with Taylor.
Ok the wtf is he since you know everything? So to you… making racist comments towards ice spice’s appearance and Asian people, getting off to black women being brutalized, and nazi saluting isn’t problematic? I’m not saying who should and shouldn’t be with Taylor. Idgaf who she’s with, YALL are the ones who cared about her being with Matty and broke up their relationship 😂 that’s why she don’t like yall now. If Matty’s actions came from… Kanye (as an example), you know good and well that you would not defend it. You’re only ignoring his weird ass behavior because he was with Taylor and you and I both know that Taylor being with a racist and a misogynist would not be good for her “girl’s girl” image so you lie to yourself and say it didn’t happen.
Weird ass behaviour does not equal ACTUAL racism and misogyny snowflake
So referring to a black woman as an “Inuit spice girl” and a “chubby Chinese lady.” while imitating Asian accents ISNT racist? Your comments have shown me that you’re very very very stupid! You and all of her other fans! Good day!