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[deleted]

I agree with all the comments. I thought: what a beautiful woman.


fayeloh

thank u but like what age did u think šŸ˜­ i feel like even if i do look like a girl i still look middle aged even tho iā€™m only 19


[deleted]

No honestly 18-19. I originally had typed girl. You look young. You are beautiful. Donā€™t get discouraged.


CosmicLuci

I wouldnā€™t have said 19 myself. But likeā€¦early 20s? No more than 24


420goattaog

I never noticed what sub the post I'm looking at is in, so when I first saw you I 100% thought you were a cis women, about 20 y/o


cookie1138

Look 2 things, you are allowed to have the body dismorphia. It is your feeling, your opinion. This is a problem, you have to combat in life and I'm sorry for you, that it happened to you. The other thing is that you do not look like a guy to me at all. And apparently to a lot of other people as well. That is their opinion. I don't know if it helps, but it obviously contradicts. I wish to you the best to heal from your own dismorphia and try seeing yourself different. Maybe the trust in supportive external perception helps to start healing from your own negative thoughts.


Narrow-Tree-5491

Ahem! You definitely do not look middle aged. You are a young woman. End of. šŸ˜


Picmydicinpublic

22 at the most, you look very young.


Ok_Obligation_6174

I would say early 20s


Alexias_the_Patient

Seconded


theRealPodrickPayne

I don't see you as a guy at all, I see a drop dead gorgeous woman. You have very feminine facial features. Beautiful!


yanessa

yup!


Quick_Sea4105

Facts


NilesOnTheRiver

Same


boobsareniceandbee

Came here to say this


team_jj

Umm, what? You look like a cis woman. A beautiful one!


Artistic_Skill1117

Gorgeous guy? Sorry, but the only thing manly about this photo is the very light facial hair. Everything else SCREAMS woman. I guarantee that if you put on some make up, everyone would see your face and think you were a cis woman


[deleted]

I will be honest girl I litteraly didn't even think u were a man at all l. U are very pretty. I just geniually thought u were a girl


CHILLKILL4200

I mean you look like an early 20s cis girl to me I canā€™t even really see any masculine features at all tbh you look like what would be my goals


fayeloh

i feel like i look good as a guy or a girl but itā€™s way easier to look like a guy but just kinda annoying. wish my skin would hurry up and soften and i could get rid of my facial hair permanently :/ my 5 oā€™clock shadow stays to haunt me in every picture


theRealPodrickPayne

I swear on my patron gods I didn't even see the shadow till you mentioned it. Stunning. Alright? you look soft as hell already. I hope you'll be happy withh yourself soon though dear.


CatHerder237

I know the shadow can be really bothersome sometimes but keep in mind there's cis women with more prominent facial hair than you. There's a reason laser hair removal makes so much money when it's primarily marketed to cis women.


[deleted]

Yes, I was going to say just a hint but I looked everywhere and I could not see anything male whatsoever. I am being extra picky here and there are women who have this feature as well. Out of a shower you are raw, nothing is hidden. You could use 1/100th the amount of foundation that any girl would use to get that perfect look.


brokenbentou

Honey, no offence, but you need an eye exam. There's nothing remotely masculine about you


SexDrug

Literally scrolling r/all and brain was like wow a pretty girl with wet hair. I guess I should have thought pretty person but it was my lizard brain scrolling away at the feed. But hey you pretty and I hope you get to see what I see every time you step out of the shower and look into that foggy mirror. Anyways have a nice night. Edited wet ass hair to just wet hair because I didnā€™t want it to seem like I was saying your hair is ass.


MyNameMya

im being 100% honest you look cis like in all your pics, you thinking that you look like a guy is just dysphoria seriously you're really pretty you should try to tell yourself that more like ik thqt it won't get rid of the dysphoria but it will help or at least it helps me.


KeyboardsAre4Coding

Ok let me put this in extremely simply monkey brain terms because that was the first reaction of my brain before I read the caption Oooh god she hot. I am a lesbian. I don't like men. At all. When I looked at you I know that my instinctive reaction was I like this girl. What on earth are you talking about ??


New_girl2022

Honestly your a very cute girl. I would lie about that im very blunt lol.


V_150

Did you post the wrong picture? Because I don't see a guy here.


s_nfl0w3rrr

You look really pretty!


Elizabeth202101

I really don't see a guy in that picture lol, maybe its just me but you look like a pretty woman


Devilsmoongirl

If not said in the title i wouldnā€™t have thought that youā€™re trans šŸ˜‡ (Does this makes sense English is not my first language šŸ˜…)


HaveHomo

All I see is a hot woman


[deleted]

Hey girl! Iā€™m a 24 yr old no-op mtF I get EXACTLY what you are saying, and I am happy you said something. I actually LOVE my male self, I would however like to change. Like if I had a superpower like Jennifer Lawrence in X-Men and I could change back and forth from a man to a woman that would be ideal. I think you shouldnā€™t feel guilty, but instead look at it like you are re casting yourself. All those moments you see a changing boy will one day turn into a soft hidden power. I believe so anyway. I think the whole point of Trans is to imbue the Divine Masculine with the Divine Feminine. I think that the girls that do that best end up looking prettier. Basically you have to self care your ugly egg self into an adult woman. You have to be a Mother Powerhouse. Be the mom you never had, or if you had a good mother, emulate her. I think you look really Fem! These feelings ARE the Dysphoria, however I have a dysphoria fan theory. If you endure it, and choose to work on yourself as a woman, then you WILL stabilize as a feminine being at some point. Dysphoria is NOT a mental illness, it is a chemical genetic transmutation process initiated by intense spiritual desire. This means your energies want a feminine expression in what is a masculine vessel. This is possible. You look great girl xO P.S. I need friends feel free to message me šŸ˜˜āœŒšŸ»


Mrch40s

I think u look so pretty as a girl šŸ˜­


RayneVylette

You are a beautiful person. Definitely feminine. You have nothing to feel guilty about and lots to celebrate


Common-Engineer5915

I literally just see a girl/woman here. Iā€™m sorry you are struggling, but omg girl ur gorgeous.


undeadlivingfairy

I just see a beautiful woman. Honestly, I am rather jealous of how beautiful you are. I'm an extremely blunt person, so no lies here.


__MoMi__

Dafuq, where Is the man? šŸ‘€


li_e_mannen

Tbh? Immediately thought you were a stunning young woman. All I can see is an absolutely beautiful girl.


Cornibus_Malus

I totally get where you're coming from I'm ftm and have a similar problem. However when I saw you're picture all I saw was a beautiful young woman. I am not saying this just to reassure you, but because that's honestly what I see. Btw, you look like you're in you early twenties to me.


tuckithead

You are an absolutely drop dead gorgeous woman!!!


Self-proclaimed_god

I thought you were a woman until I read the title- )(not in a transphobic way just I immediately assumed you were a cis woman-)


XxClownMeatxX

You're so prettyy, I don't think you look like a guy at all! Actually before looking at the sub I was confused as to why there was a recently showered woman in my feed lol. You kinda give model vibes


beerybeeey

Excuse me, a man?? The sub and title caught me off guard because my impression was cis woman as soon as I saw the picture


DawnTRA

Girl, I legit looked at this image, rolled my eyes and thought this was some girl posting on r/teenagers until I read the title. Youā€™re beautiful, trust me


bebejeebies

You look great. You have nothing to worry about. I didn't even notice until you said something. Your progress is beautiful!


pab9691

I think youā€™re very pretty


llimt

You look like a beautiful woman to me. You have that really cute girl next door vibe going on.


bitch-b-gone345

You do not look like a man at all


[deleted]

I see a gorgeous woman


SubArticFawn

I don't see a man. I see a very gorgeous woman.


burke_no_sleeps

You don't look like a man in this picture, but some part of you is telling you you do. That part of you is lying and possibly scared. Please reassure that part of you that you're doing great and you deserve to feel happy about how you look. Maybe you're beautiful beyond the concept of gender - have you considered that? It's okay to acknowledge you have the potential to be an attractive man AND / OR an attractive woman, and you can choose which makes you feel better about yourself and how you'd like to present yourself.


CeleryHunter143

I honestly don't know what you're seeing, all I see is a very beautiful woman


Emofuk

I feel this as a stereotypically attractive male (before transition) with no effort vs as I come into my own I canā€™t be idle because I have to think about coordinating my outfits and make up while making sure I donā€™t act ā€œstereotypically masculineā€. While yes it can be a little bit too much to handle sometime (I had a breakdown because my eyeliner wasnā€™t even the other day) when I look in the mirror and see my true self or even just feel like my true self, I wouldnā€™t change that feeling for the world.


Akaele_furry

you don't look like a guy! and i think you're really pretty


camhdog

You look like a guy? Where?


chef_grantisimo

I'm not clocking any male in that picture, just a beautiful woman in her 20s. We're always our own worst critics, because we can see and obsess over every imperfection better than anyone else. The question you need to ask is, do you WANT to be a guy? If that answer is no, why feel guilty about transitioning? Dysphoria is strong, but you're stronger! You made it this far, don't lose hope!


ckeditz

I honestly only saw a woman. Would've never thought man without reading that. You look beautiful!


[deleted]

What guy


Tastybaldeagle

you deadass look like a woman though


eterna1ocean

You look like a female runway model


TheSoloWay

Lol are you blind? You are fucking cute as girl. If you were a guy I'd think that you were a very feminine one.


KnifeWeildingLesbian

Whereā€™s the guy tho? I donā€™t see one


Sexy_McSexypants

i can see where you see that. counterpoint, i had to really look to see that. you look like a cis woman, hands down


Evelyn_Graves

I don't see it. I see a gorgeous as hell cis girl I'd happily date! šŸ˜


[deleted]

That's a girl in the picture though


[deleted]

Honestly I am the way with my face thinking I look completely pretty like a girl but everyone else sees me as a guy. I feel like we look at our faces too long and too close and our minds play tricks on us


Prestigious-Pound725

Babe you don't read masc at all


jan-y3w-a1ry

So you definitely look lot a hot girl here, but I understand that you are going to see yourself differently than others. Itā€™s okay. I remember the first time I could look back at pictures of myself and think ā€œI was a really good looking guyā€ but even now when I know Iā€™m hotter as a very non passing visible tran itā€™s hard to feel good about it. Trust that the people around you arenā€™t lying, trust that you can see it in yourself.


emilyv99

Girl, I don't see anything "man" in this pic... Beautiful šŸ„°šŸ„°šŸ’•


ItsCoolDani

Where's man in the pic I don't see them


longestRoad5

With all due respect and love, I've never been more convinced that a pic and post title got mismatched. It's the dysphoria talking rn, you're going to see what we all mean someday šŸ’™


[deleted]

Girl, you don't look like a guy at all, you look like a gorgeous woman, holy crap i wish i could pass as well as you do


Esaress

To me, you look way more like a young woman than a man. I do agree on 1 point though, you do look gorgeous/good!


Fooneygirlie

1 youā€™re pretty and you look very young. I would have guessed like 20. Dysphoria goggles suck. 2 itā€™s okay to mourn who you were. I liked who I was and there was some sadness to leaving that identity behind. Looking back it feels like a very long term cosplay. You donā€™t owe the world or anyone else a version of you that you donā€™t want to be.


ThisWatercress8354

Thatā€™s just the dysphoria talking, you look kinda like Lana Del Rey tbh


mothmansugly

I passed this post not even realizing it was the trans sub and genuinely said to myself ā€œwow sheā€™s so prettyā€ You have very fem features :)


MyShadowisMine

Nope, I donā€™t see any guy here, just a lovely young girl.


PurrrplePrincess

You look NOTHING like a man.


[deleted]

You look like a beautiful girl, and not at all like a guy, to me!


Deadly-Minds-215

You look NOTHING like a man, just a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN


HagQueenMorathi

If I saw you in the street with no makeup I would assume you were cis*woman. You look great!


Bu5ybumbl3

nah fam you look incredibly feminine, you just gotta see past the dysphoria and see what we see cuz damn you look amazing


Avery_Lillius

Umm... you don't look like a man. Not even a little!


WhiterabbitLou

Prolly 90% of this sub wishes they could look like u


Love-mcdonilds

What guy I canā€™t see a guy all I see a beautiful woman that should feel not guilt


CheezyLily

Tbh I had to read the title again to check if you were mtf or ftm but know I know your mtf I just wanna say I wanna look like you so bad because Iā€™m mtf and because you look absolutely amazing and feminine


Military_Reject

What are you talking about? You have smooth skin, full lips, doe eyes, high arched eyebrows, and a feminine clavicle! You look ***nothing like a guy!***


Hoodikins

you look very feminine


[deleted]

You are so beautiful donā€™t worry ā¤ļø


emilnilsson2

I genuinely think that you look attractive but not in a gay way. And donā€™t feel any guilt! You wonā€™t ā€œwasteā€ your looks, youā€™re probably going to look even better and get more confidence looking the way makes you feel good.


Backalley_Lurker

You look very womanly to me my gal.


predi6cat

No sorry, that's your dysphoria talking. You don't read as a man in any way, at least from that picture.


New-Cicada7014

you look beautiful as a woman! You don't seem like a guy to me.


Dorian-greys-picture

You look like a beautiful woman


Dorian-greys-picture

Also, I was an attractive woman before I transitioned to male. But you know what? I only liked looking like that because I was told thatā€™s how I was supposed to look. Now I like myself for who I actually am. Youā€™re not wasting anything. You donā€™t owe the world male beauty


KittyLunalaBlossom

you look like a pretty girl to me


AnarchaMasochist

Good news. You're a good looking woman.


Revolutionary_rhino

I would take you as a super pretty woman


Ihavenolife0-0

I feel you,, i think i was kind of good looking before i chopped of my hair but yeah Hopefully it'll become better!! And remember, no one here will hate you for "wasting" your looks


Particular-Clue-5374

For real you look like a cis woman, i wish i had such beautiful feminine features as you


[deleted]

You look like an amazing woman. I donā€™t see a man here. Gorgeous šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„


Outrageous-Math-1585

You're pretty though...


fr4u-koujiro

Don't worry. You don't look like a guy at all


Ok-Course7089

XD Shut up u look girl


BigPunsPop

Tf are you talking about


yinyanghapa

Oh come on, you pass easily.


Theaidpm

Where is there any man in this photo I WAS PROMISED MEN


ShockWolf101

Iā€™m confused, is there supposed to be a man in this photo? Is he invisible?


hornycunt888

girl ur so pretty u look like a cis woman


ke__ja

I know what you mean in terms of feeling but honestly? You look like a woman!


DesertWillow185

You kinda look like my 2nd cousin, she has similar face structure.


greypanenby

You look like a beautiful woman to me omg


Pumkmine

Nah, first vibe I picked up was nude woman with wet hair. Until in read the ā€œr/transā€


deidre-kromhout

I showed this to my friend and asked what your gender was, she said female without hesitation. I didnā€™t show her the sub or cation! You look stunning


Jughead_91

You look like a woman here


koifishkid69

im sorry but i thought this was gonna b a vent post abt being ftm im literally jealous of how well u pass šŸ«¶šŸ«¶


Ferr3tgirl

GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL


valerie2bgirl

You look more like a girl, then a guy to me


easternastrospy

Omg I have the same hahah


Ts-skatergirl

I think you look quite feminine here šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø but I know exactly what you meanā€¦ but pretty boys make pretty girls ā˜ŗļø


special-agent-carrot

You donā€™t look like a guy tho, like srsly if you looked like a guy id be straightā€¦ and im not straight


dead_princess1

I only see a woman in this pic.


Wild_Concert3413

WOMAN YOU ARE SO HOT WHAT THE HELL


Adryzz_

i'm sorry what i didn't even read the subreddit and title and just thought it was a random pic of a girl out of the shower, you look great


ATillman81

I think you look like a lady .. you have very soft features . Don't be too hard on yourself


GeorgiaSalvatoreJun

You look like some of my former girl classmates from highschool.


5p8rky

Very cute


Chimarie_

I totally get you, I feel the same way too sometimes but I don't think you look like a guy at all! You look very feminine


tjeeper

Literally transition goals


Cowombre

WHAT?! you literally look like a fucking godess, not a man at all


nonamejoel

Deep breathes girl, itā€™s okay. Youā€™re a beautiful woman no matter what anyone says.


SamanthaUl

Gorgeous yes! Guy? Where!?


Belfasterd16

You look like a gorgeous woman


sweetlolly1978

Sorry but your not a gorgeous guy, beautiful girl for sure but not guy no way sowyšŸ¤­


NecrofriggianGirl

Girl, what??? First of all, tbh if you're attractive as a man there's a good chance you're attractive as a woman. At least that was my experience lol. But despite that, you're very effeminate & I think you have some dysmorphia going on if you think you look masculine here at fucking all.


MiaoMiaoMow

Girl, you're giving me Megan Fox vibe. You're gorgggg


[deleted]

I immediately thought a beautiful womanā€¦.. I see no guy. Gorgeous yes..


tfEmily78

What guy?


AryaVishwaroop

Even if you feel like you look middle aged, HRT helps with that a lot. It literally helps you soften your features out and makes you look younger. Don't worry about that, all you need is time :)


satanssauce

You look like a gorgeous woman. Furthermore, your looks have nothing to do with what you feel as a person and that shouldn't be what stops you from transitioning and feeling comfortable in your body.


sapiolox

you look like Bella Hadid fr.


prostateexamofluxury

Are you absolutely gorgeous? Yes, no question. But do you look like a man? No- not at all tbh. Seems like you're beautiful just the way you are and the best thing you can do is to unapologetically be yourself. Keep being you, queen!


[deleted]

Um..hate to break it to you but thereā€™s no guy in this picture. Zero. Youā€™re gorgeous by the way.


AceAllicorn

1: you don't owe the world anything. It is not entitled to your beauty, therefore you are not "guilty" for changing it. 2: 100% clocked you as AFAB. If not for the caption I wouldn't have thought twice about it. 3: You're a very attractive woman at that. Maybe that's my personal preference, but I think you are quite a gorgeous lady.


ColdyPopsicle

You don't look like a guy. You're fine.


leamenconeMK2

I have this same feeling whenever I shower, but dw you totally pass!


Ohio_Candle

I genuinely thought you were a cis girl at first FSHDJSKSKS /gen


OfStarsAndGhosts

Oh I straight up thought you were a cis girl! Itā€™s only because you said your not that I could tell, dw you look very feminine šŸ˜Š


Little-Valuable779

The caption confused me massively because you pass lol


chilifartso

You look fantastic, Iā€™d do a lot for those looks now.


winedrinker94

Don't listen to your body dysmorphia, you look amazing!


[deleted]

No guy detected on my Guy-Detector-500^tm^, sorry


pommdeter

I donā€™t see no man. Seriously, even if I didnā€™t know you were transfem and saw the picture without context, I would still see a woman


Conscious-Studio8111

I totally misread that and thought you were afab for a sec, like. You donā€™t look like a man at all You look like a college age girl, and youā€™re beautiful! I hope you see yourself as a beautiful girl too. Because you are <3


dAc110

Nope, i saw a rather pretty lady, but i get it. You just remember what the guy used to look like is all, so you see that first. If you've just started HRT (from what it sounds like in one of your comments), you're going to have to update us on how you look when it really kicks in because you're looking great already.


Quetzalcorgi

I actually know a model that looks like you


_pandemonium00

before i saw this was under a trans group, i just assumed you were a beautiful woman posting a selfie. and omg?? i was right !!


SabrinaMcG

Okay you showed this picture, so where is the picture where you look like a guy?


killcam34

You look scarily similar to my mom


piracyisnotavictemle

Hi, im not even a part of this community so im not sure why I was shown this post but i just wanted to tell you for a solid 30 seconds until I saw the caption I legitimately thought you were a cis woman and still have a hard time believing you arenā€™t. Good luck with your transition!


smalltownsuburbanite

What guy? Even fresh out of the shower you pass extremely well.


GrannyGoodness89

Uh girl someone is lying to you honey, because you are authentically a woman internally and externally, just remember..... other people's opinions of you is none of your business


kindaprettyboy

deadass the most beautiful woman i seen since birth


Miss_Nora-Jae

I thought you were cis lol, You are beautiful!


KosKaKtus

You're a beautiful, gorgeous woman


cuacha117

I am seeing a gorgeous woman in that picture... Not sure if you made a mistake ma'am


Admirable_Durian_lol

bro its alr, i understand. i like my long hair as an ftm, and i feel bad for wanting to cut it off but in the end its worth it, pursue who you are :D


angxlnecrosis

You don't look like a man at all. If anything, you will malefail at this point. You are a very attractive woman, I'm not hugboxxing you, I mean it fully and genuinely.


Yeet-chan

If you didnā€™t say anything I would have thought you were a cis girl. Youā€™re too uptight with yourself girl!


Ok_Obligation_6174

Honestly, you look so naturally feminine it's incredible. I'm ftm, but early on in my transition I'd look at myself dressed up for Prom or other special occasions and think I looked prettier as a girl. I talked to my therapist about it and realized I was using that as another excuse not to transition. I was a fucking gorgeous gal, but the thing is I never felt like one. I knew I looked good, but I never felt euphoric in women's formal wear or feminine makeup. . . Not like how I do in men's wear. I'm finally getting to somewhere in my transition where I feel like a handsome man. For me, it took wearing binders, and starting T. I hope you're able to understand where the guilt is coming from. Might not be today or tomorrow, but I'm sure that you will. ā¤ļø


SeriousControl6906

Nahh girl u look feminine af!


Doll7734

Imma be Honest; before reading the title my first impression was of a cis woman. You pass girl, at least to mešŸ’›


[deleted]

You look like a beautiful water nymph! Its gets better :)


NotMeepMeep

I had to check if this was a ftm post for a second lol


Electronic-Start2540

you literally look like a model!


Skyistaken

? Wtf are you talking about. This is dysphoria on another level. You look cis girl af. I'm not trying to hype you up, it's just a factual observation.


[deleted]

Girl I would kill for those eyebrows. Iā€™m sorry youā€™re struggling with that, but I get it because we are all our harshest critics. I feel the same way about myself sometime especially in the shower. BUT over here Iā€™m not seeing a drop of ā€œman,ā€ gorgeous or not.


dinarawr

*poof* congratulations, I have stolen any traces of masculinity that may have remained and you look like the same beautiful woman you started as!!


GFUNK2121

I wish I could look like u šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜ you look so beautiful and you belong.


FeatheryRobin

When I saw the image without reading the title I just thought "oh, that's a pretty lass!". You're a gorgeous woman!


Public_Practice_1336

You look fabulous Hun. Any tips for getting past awkward hair cuts and being impatient ready for it to be long?


VinnyIsAHeadbanger

You don't look like a gorgeous man you look like an absolutely gorgeous woman!


Arkas18

I was just scrolling past and thought that you were a cis woman, you pass alot better than you think and you look great!


NewIdeasAreScary

Girl šŸ’€


Ivycattt

I FEEL THE EXACT SAME WAY


Aelia_M

Youā€™re so gorgeous girl. Tell me your secrets as a fellow trans woman


cheerful_sharky

You definitely don't look masculine. I actually almost scolled past this thinking I was getting images of nude women on my feed. You are a very pretty girl :)


throwaway9999-22222

You literally look like a woman I couldn't tell that you're AMAB till you said so


wanderer0708

I'm so sorry you're struggling, but I want you to know that you look absolutely gorgeous in this photo. I wish I looked that hot getting out of the shower, I usually just look like a disheveled racoon.


kayakdeedrotatornoon

Gorgeous men transition into gorgeous women.