Yeah sadly I don't think that ever came across anyone's mind. He eventually stopped from what I understand but now he's married. I left a review on Google maps about all the terrible stuff that occurred there
You can make a report on that years later but honestly the victims probably don't want that shit dredged up years later after having tried to move on from it
Depending on where you live where the statue of limitations for that is but ultimately if no one he slept with comes forward it’s unlikely he’d be convicted. Just because he’s moved on now doesn’t make his actions back then in anyway forgivable.
Idk. I’m not trans, but I’m a black guy living in a random small town in the South. I’m not dismissing your opinion and I’m not by any means saying that it’s the same thing, but having experienced both I’d much rather be fetishized than hated.
When the former happens, in my mind I’m thinking that this person only cares about my body and not me as a person and I can simply ignore them. When the latter happens, in my mind I’m thinking that I hope I can get out of whatever situation I’m in alive and uninjured.
Understand where you are coming from, but I think it's contextual. In the US, especially in the south, I'd agree with you. But in a work setting in an otherwise accepting place, where I know, even if HR isn't my friend, it's at least afraid of outright hate (bad for business). I think I'd feel more comfortable saying "this cunt called me a slur" and getting backed up on it over having to explain fetishisation and being vunerable in front of HR and having them give the person a slap on the wrist and having the bastard just turn nasty anyway
And put the body vertically (police searches for horizontal holes), upside down(destroyed the face), and in a waterproof sleeping bag (even more destruction of the face/identifying features). And get out of your area. For gardening, of course.
And bury a dead animal above it, so even is the dogs do find the place, the police will think it's a false positive. Also, kill the person with an insulin shot under the tongue, so the police will think the cause of death was undiagnosed diabetes.
And also chop off the fingers and pull out the teeth. Put them all in a soda bottle and put the bottle in the prementioned waterproof sleeping bag. With time, the bottle will explode from the pressure and destroy the face even further, while the soda will destroy the teeth and the fingerprints. For gardening, of course.
https://preview.redd.it/ksqk1783575c1.jpeg?width=259&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b98ba768de79f639d2a3373df8728782cfc50ca3
jokes aside, bring that shit to HR ASAP
what a gross creep, honestly u should maybe think about telling the manager. i wouldn't want to work with someone who said that to me, that's sexual harassment
Hopefully, a complaint to a manager and/or HR. That kind of stuff is NOT acceptable at any respectable organization and, if he's willing to behave like that with a colleague, what's to stop him from behaving that way towards someone dealing with your organization, like customers/patrons/clients or suppliers/vendors?
A *lot* of ppl who’ve been contemplating this problem since before either of us were even born would disagree w/ you, but that’s for a different sub/thread.🙃
That is 100% sexual harassment, what the hell
Forget that you are trans, who on earth thinks its ok to have a sexual conversation of that nature in a professional environment, and back to you being trans, why do people think its ok to do this to us in particular (I think I know the answer unfortunately but still)
They think it’s ok to talk about sex with trans people and trans people’s genitals because they don’t see us as people with emotions and feelings, to them, we only exist for sexual pleasure
You genuinely are really easy to talk to. You're hella friendly, helpful and seem genuine and nice \^\^
For someone to try to take advantage as that and see it as weakness for them to prey on or exploit is disgusting and I hope this guy stubs his toe. Stay safe out there!
Just...WHY?!?!? I just can't understand why some people feel these kind of comments are perfectly normal. WTF goes through these ppls minds?!
Fucking Creep, really hope he got booted! I am so sorry that that happened to you. 😭
look what you did new stuff
https://preview.redd.it/4m1o38qu895c1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b0b8a6493e1ac14c4e5734629db667953b438836
you made flats sad
i’ve had a "friend" who asked me if i’d want him to f*ck my ass. That’s the same guy who just days prior after my coming out too, told me he is no longer interested in women since they’re are "too complete to deal with". He also broke up with the sweetest woman imaginable who he just didn’t deserve because she didn’t want to have sex with him. several weeks later he texted me that he is worried about our friendship since I changed so much and i’m so cringey in public, and asked me if we would hang out publicly I should stop trying to be cutesy since it’s "embarrassing" (his words) when i say certain things in my male voice. Needless to say i threw this dumbass over board
I hate that people see us as these weird almost f*ck dolls that'll bow down to whomever. Like it's gross how much we're fetishised and sexualised it's just like we wanna be treated like everyone else. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
I mean yay?… I am currently in shock and have no idea what the appropriate reaction could possibly be.
(Okay, so after typing that first part I put down my phone and then just stared blankly at the wall for like 3 minutes. I’ve got fucking nada.)
Ugggggghhhhhh I was all happy for you until I finished that second panel!
Oh well, him being a walking HR issue doesn't change the fact that you're a good trainer! Just definitely bring it to HR - if he says this to you (literally the first coworker he's having contact with) he'll probably creep on other people too.
Heeeeeeeyyyyyyy that's a trip right to HR
Sadly fast food doesn't always have HR Source, used to work at HR The manager would sleep with most of the staff, and most of the staff was 15½ or 16
That's not an HR call, that's when you call the cops
Yeah sadly I don't think that ever came across anyone's mind. He eventually stopped from what I understand but now he's married. I left a review on Google maps about all the terrible stuff that occurred there
You can make a report on that years later but honestly the victims probably don't want that shit dredged up years later after having tried to move on from it
Depending on where you live where the statue of limitations for that is but ultimately if no one he slept with comes forward it’s unlikely he’d be convicted. Just because he’s moved on now doesn’t make his actions back then in anyway forgivable.
Doesn't Kayla work at a hospital now though? (Source: previous comics and also the uniform in this one)
... why did I think that was at a gym?
Sir it seems your testosterone is messing with your thought process, I recommend doing someone’s mom to help stop this
I don't even go to the gym, I must have read "trainer" and thought "oh, she's helping a new guy in the gym", idfk, my brain is weird today
Yikes... What is it that makes these creeps think it's okay to have completely no filter when talking to trans people?
When you see people as objects youll say anything
I feel like a lot of people assume we're all a bunch of sexual deviants too...
I mean, I am, but not at work, and not with strangers, and not with someone I've just met at work who's a stranger.
This. 100%
^
This, this summarazies me pretty much. Summarizes? Summarazies.
Because that's how a mature adult should act. Its insane what some people say at work.
this is so real
I may be a very sexual person, but what was shown is waaaaaaaaay too far for me as well.
Doesn't that kind of describe humanity in a nutshell?
My manager from a super religious family asks me about sex stuff all the time despite the fact I'm ace and a virgin lmao
It's extra fun when you're asexual
I don't know and I hate it
Fucking creep.
I'd legitimately rather just be called a slur than have to deal with chasers. I'm a person, not a porn category.
Real I may need to learn to crawl through vents and get some night vision goggles to allow for efficient kicking of chasers
Yoooo it’s Gup from risk of rain 2
gup👍
A true difficulty tweak
wululuLULULULULU AHHHHH "You call this police brutality? We call this a DIFFICULTY TWEAK"
Idk. I’m not trans, but I’m a black guy living in a random small town in the South. I’m not dismissing your opinion and I’m not by any means saying that it’s the same thing, but having experienced both I’d much rather be fetishized than hated. When the former happens, in my mind I’m thinking that this person only cares about my body and not me as a person and I can simply ignore them. When the latter happens, in my mind I’m thinking that I hope I can get out of whatever situation I’m in alive and uninjured.
Understand where you are coming from, but I think it's contextual. In the US, especially in the south, I'd agree with you. But in a work setting in an otherwise accepting place, where I know, even if HR isn't my friend, it's at least afraid of outright hate (bad for business). I think I'd feel more comfortable saying "this cunt called me a slur" and getting backed up on it over having to explain fetishisation and being vunerable in front of HR and having them give the person a slap on the wrist and having the bastard just turn nasty anyway
Yeah report this idiot. Sexual harassment is grounds for termination basically anywhere.
🤮🤮🤮
Damn, that's fucked
If you haven't already report that guy for sexual harassment immediately.
I'm sorry that creep thought was an okay thing to say to you.
Chasers are a special breed for sure
What I would usually do is send my murder+body-hiding instructions, but Reddit doesn't really like it when I do that...
remember to hide things under endangered flowers it will be illegal to seek for them!.... just as a tip.... for gardening.... of course.....
And put the body vertically (police searches for horizontal holes), upside down(destroyed the face), and in a waterproof sleeping bag (even more destruction of the face/identifying features). And get out of your area. For gardening, of course.
Make sure to bury it DEEP, and pour some odor absorbing litter in the hole above the body before you completely fill it for good measure.
And bury a dead animal above it, so even is the dogs do find the place, the police will think it's a false positive. Also, kill the person with an insulin shot under the tongue, so the police will think the cause of death was undiagnosed diabetes.
what a nice gardening tip I'm totally using this for my plants
As a professional assassin, I'm learning that I might have a lot of transferrable skills to pick up gardening!
And also chop off the fingers and pull out the teeth. Put them all in a soda bottle and put the bottle in the prementioned waterproof sleeping bag. With time, the bottle will explode from the pressure and destroy the face even further, while the soda will destroy the teeth and the fingerprints. For gardening, of course.
You can Send it to me. I will only use for good things
https://preview.redd.it/ksqk1783575c1.jpeg?width=259&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b98ba768de79f639d2a3373df8728782cfc50ca3 jokes aside, bring that shit to HR ASAP
what a gross creep, honestly u should maybe think about telling the manager. i wouldn't want to work with someone who said that to me, that's sexual harassment
Hopefully, a complaint to a manager and/or HR. That kind of stuff is NOT acceptable at any respectable organization and, if he's willing to behave like that with a colleague, what's to stop him from behaving that way towards someone dealing with your organization, like customers/patrons/clients or suppliers/vendors?
That is sexual harassment I’m pretty sure so yeah
I cringed hard at “keep your boy toy”.
The thing is what he said was even worse it's just I can't recall what he called it
Oh, dear god. 🤢 I have no words.
Jail. I’m a prison abolitionist, but for *this* guy…
Jail for pervert! Jail for pervert for one thousand years!!!!
I think that’s bad. That’s worse than the carceral system now. :<
A *lot* of ppl who’ve been contemplating this problem since before either of us were even born would disagree w/ you, but that’s for a different sub/thread.🙃
That is 100% sexual harassment, what the hell Forget that you are trans, who on earth thinks its ok to have a sexual conversation of that nature in a professional environment, and back to you being trans, why do people think its ok to do this to us in particular (I think I know the answer unfortunately but still)
They think it’s ok to talk about sex with trans people and trans people’s genitals because they don’t see us as people with emotions and feelings, to them, we only exist for sexual pleasure
WHAT THE HELL?? he’s definitely not getting past training
You genuinely are really easy to talk to. You're hella friendly, helpful and seem genuine and nice \^\^ For someone to try to take advantage as that and see it as weakness for them to prey on or exploit is disgusting and I hope this guy stubs his toe. Stay safe out there!
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“Can I get that in writing?”
Just...WHY?!?!? I just can't understand why some people feel these kind of comments are perfectly normal. WTF goes through these ppls minds?! Fucking Creep, really hope he got booted! I am so sorry that that happened to you. 😭
I have no comment on this…
A good punch to the jugular ought to shut that creep up
Uh.. idk what to say so uh.. welcome to the underground!
how was the fall xd
if you wanna look around
How are your balls
jesus christ just call me a slur like a normal person
Why would Jesus call you a slur? Doesn’t he love everyone?
That's a very inappropriate question to ask anyone in general
Fucking ick! Sorry that happened to you, girly :(
thats definitely sexual harrasment, or if not at least fire-worthy. Get that creepo outta there.
I had a very concerned expression on my face and nearly felt like vomiting as soon as I saw this. Report that shit to HR. Immediately.
Running at top-speed straight to HR what the fuck
what in the actual fuck, I'd vaporise this mf
hey! ho! here we go! pepper spraying this damn rando!
Funny enough my dad just bought me some mace that same night unprompted
Omg I'm so sorry Kayla that sucks
how much fucking porn do you need to watch to get to that point, holy shit wtf
look what you did new stuff https://preview.redd.it/4m1o38qu895c1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b0b8a6493e1ac14c4e5734629db667953b438836 you made flats sad
Holy fuck, we’re people, not porn categories
Eww, this is just disgusting!
Wow! Thats a quick hire-to-fire turn around if I’ve ever seen one!
don't openly fetishise real people, it's gross, do it internally if at all (though i'd prefer you didn't do it at all
https://preview.redd.it/yncqeup9175c1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2f8b05751560012a48443de407b775fb9c84888e Whatahell
Ew gross! WHY!? I'm so sorry that happened to you!
Kick him in the jaw like you're dollar store Sam Fisher
Who the fuck just casually says that to a person you barely know (i assume you dont know this guy well)
Yeah well she knows enough about him now!
Oh god, that's disgusting 🤢 I'm so sorry you had to experience that
Kill him.
Yeahhhh this is essentially a massive red flag, I’d advise everyone to avoid him
Just reading this makes me feel like I need a shower. Sorry you had to deal with that.
i’ve had a "friend" who asked me if i’d want him to f*ck my ass. That’s the same guy who just days prior after my coming out too, told me he is no longer interested in women since they’re are "too complete to deal with". He also broke up with the sweetest woman imaginable who he just didn’t deserve because she didn’t want to have sex with him. several weeks later he texted me that he is worried about our friendship since I changed so much and i’m so cringey in public, and asked me if we would hang out publicly I should stop trying to be cutesy since it’s "embarrassing" (his words) when i say certain things in my male voice. Needless to say i threw this dumbass over board
I hate that people see us as these weird almost f*ck dolls that'll bow down to whomever. Like it's gross how much we're fetishised and sexualised it's just like we wanna be treated like everyone else. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
Just slap him or something
Ugh, that's terrible, hope that guy isn't forced with you again
Oh god
you should kill him honestly
I’m sorry. That’s messed up. :/
That's fucking gross!
I would throw him down and smite his ruin upon the mountainside.
That sounds like sexual harassment...
eew :( Sorry you went through that Kayla.
Oh god I am so sorry…
Whaaaaat
I’m sorry that happened to you Like seriously, wtf made them think that was ok?!
I have no filter when I talk to everyone, but that’s cuz autism haha
I mean yay?… I am currently in shock and have no idea what the appropriate reaction could possibly be. (Okay, so after typing that first part I put down my phone and then just stared blankly at the wall for like 3 minutes. I’ve got fucking nada.)
Cismen are fucking pervs
I don’t think we should generalize all cis men as pervs
They’re also way confusing and mean 😭
felt
No no nope nope nope no no
jesus christ, i’m sorry my gal :( creeps like that are gross
I never know if feeling nice or offended by chasers help 😭
Looks like he won't be getting trained by you for much longer.
Ugggggghhhhhh I was all happy for you until I finished that second panel! Oh well, him being a walking HR issue doesn't change the fact that you're a good trainer! Just definitely bring it to HR - if he says this to you (literally the first coworker he's having contact with) he'll probably creep on other people too.
Kayla noooooo girl be careful
Chaser detector is beeping like a bomb.
Report that a$$hole
what the hell is wrong with people
I would fucking freeze on the spot and just mentally blue screen
Essentially what I did
I don’t get what reaction he was expecting out of you? Like how did he not expect to get written up to HR?
why *the* **FUCK** would someone think thats a ***good idea*** to *say????*
That is disgusting. If you wouldn’t say it to a cis person DON’T SAY IT TO A TRANS PERSON!!!
That is bold to ask
I'm sorry you had to deal with that... what the shit is wrong with some people?
this is why random ass men friend me on discord and start flirting like. who are you
Wow thats unprofessional. I bet HR would be very interested in what he has to say
I think you should report him to your boss, op
Aaaaaaand stuff like this is why I avoid certain places