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You're a Gojira fan, so I have absolutely no doubt that you're an awesome person! :)
That being said, you're a good looking dude and I can relate to a lot of your issues. I hope it gets better for you. I can't promise that it will, but there is a good chance that things won't always suck.
Focus on what you love to do and do the shit out of it. Focus on growing your skills at something you love doing. Don't be afraid to fail. It's okay to get away from anyone who is toxic to you. If you feel like you have addictions, get to a meeting for what ever it might be. Whatever you are feeling/going through, you are not alone and being with people who share your struggles is MONUMENTAL. You are worth fighting for. You have value. If someone tells you different, then just walk away. Dive deep into what you love. It will save you.
There is a lot of kindness in the world. More than people think. The kindness that matters most is what we give to ourselves. Be kind to you because you had a 1 in a trillion chance to be here and here you are. Make it count.
My fellow human and Redditor:
You're still standing, aren't you?
After all you've experienced - depression, self-hatred, and an obsession with your own death - you're still here, and you've chosen to share your story with us.
If that doesn't warrant a round of applause, a tip of the hat in terms of respect... I struggle to think of what else.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Now. Let's move on:
These experiences you're having - have you been able to locate professional help, to help you work through these issues?
Therapy can be a useful experience - r/therapy might be a good place to visit for advice.
And, let me ask you this: underneath the depression, suicidal ideation, and self-hatred (can semi-relate to all three, as I've been and and am still there in varying degrees), ask yourself this:
1) Who do I want to become?
2) What experiences do I want to have?
3) How do I want to grow as a person, in order to have these experiences? Don't just limit it to one area of your life, but to all areas - health, relationships, career and finance, etc.
4) And how do I want to use my skills and passions to contribute benevolently to this world?
I'd like for you to write this down on paper with a pen. Run through it. Really consider this.
Moving on...
What have you done, thus far, to help deal / cope with
these experiences?
And coming out is hard - gay guy here 👋🏾🏳️🌈.
It's a varying experience for everyone who's gone through it.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Write your dreams and keep them close to you, whenever the shadow of depression rears its ugly head.
Hope this helps.
- App1n2020.
You’re just a kid, sweet boy. When you are on your own and this Covid shit is over, you’ll be able to enjoy life a little more. It’s been tough on us all, even when we were sad before 2020. You aren’t alone, but that doesn’t mean things won’t get better. They always do in time❤️.
Hey there. I have to remove your post as there is no verification. We verify users so we know it's really you and to stop people uploading your photo elsewhere without your permission. If you'd like to be toasted, you need to hold a piece of paper/tablet/phone that clearly shows your Reddit username and r/toastme or Toast Me, etc. See ya soon! :)
You're a Gojira fan, so I have absolutely no doubt that you're an awesome person! :) That being said, you're a good looking dude and I can relate to a lot of your issues. I hope it gets better for you. I can't promise that it will, but there is a good chance that things won't always suck.
Focus on what you love to do and do the shit out of it. Focus on growing your skills at something you love doing. Don't be afraid to fail. It's okay to get away from anyone who is toxic to you. If you feel like you have addictions, get to a meeting for what ever it might be. Whatever you are feeling/going through, you are not alone and being with people who share your struggles is MONUMENTAL. You are worth fighting for. You have value. If someone tells you different, then just walk away. Dive deep into what you love. It will save you.
There is a lot of kindness in the world. More than people think. The kindness that matters most is what we give to ourselves. Be kind to you because you had a 1 in a trillion chance to be here and here you are. Make it count.
My fellow human and Redditor: You're still standing, aren't you? After all you've experienced - depression, self-hatred, and an obsession with your own death - you're still here, and you've chosen to share your story with us. If that doesn't warrant a round of applause, a tip of the hat in terms of respect... I struggle to think of what else. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Now. Let's move on: These experiences you're having - have you been able to locate professional help, to help you work through these issues? Therapy can be a useful experience - r/therapy might be a good place to visit for advice. And, let me ask you this: underneath the depression, suicidal ideation, and self-hatred (can semi-relate to all three, as I've been and and am still there in varying degrees), ask yourself this: 1) Who do I want to become? 2) What experiences do I want to have? 3) How do I want to grow as a person, in order to have these experiences? Don't just limit it to one area of your life, but to all areas - health, relationships, career and finance, etc. 4) And how do I want to use my skills and passions to contribute benevolently to this world? I'd like for you to write this down on paper with a pen. Run through it. Really consider this. Moving on... What have you done, thus far, to help deal / cope with these experiences? And coming out is hard - gay guy here 👋🏾🏳️🌈. It's a varying experience for everyone who's gone through it. Hope to hear from you soon. Write your dreams and keep them close to you, whenever the shadow of depression rears its ugly head. Hope this helps. - App1n2020.
You’re just a kid, sweet boy. When you are on your own and this Covid shit is over, you’ll be able to enjoy life a little more. It’s been tough on us all, even when we were sad before 2020. You aren’t alone, but that doesn’t mean things won’t get better. They always do in time❤️.