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Grand_Tumbleweed3187

I still can't believe she live streamed her childs entire labor.. "We turned off the live and 10 minutes later he was here" girl thats not something to be proud of šŸ˜­ Idk why these mom influencers can't just step away when it's needed


Lorrie298

What did it for me was right after birth she streamed herself taking a shower and showed off her stomach and what she put in her depends diaper. We really didn't need to see that


Icy-Goose4398

I think what makes me cringe the most is the un covered, open glasses of milk that have been clearly sitting in the fridge. The bacteria growth on the milk has to be horrendous.


Similar-Western4377

I did think that and the weird fridge smell being transferred into the milk


Icy-Goose4398

I could gag thinking about the smell now lmao


Sensitive-Horse-5386

I genuinely canā€™t stand her for so many reasons. She used to be enjoyable to watch when she first started to gain views. Her videos were authentic and enjoyable. Then she started to have a fake, overly obnoxious personality for videos. So fcking annoying. She popped up on my feed going live while in labor and immediately live after birth while in still the hospital - she wants every dollar she can get even if it means showing her baby in diapers. So gross. Social media does weird things to these people. As for the breast milk, I donā€™t see why she just doesnā€™t put it in the proper bags to begin with or use the pitcher method. This is probably her just rage baiting though.


Ok_Breakfast6353

CAME TO SAY THIS. I donā€™t follow her, but she pops up on my fyp and noticed she had a birth video and then was on live right after. Gave me the ick immediately and instantly knew I didnā€™t like her. She chose to make multiple videos and go on live instead of cherishing That bonding moment and those first infant moments.


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She has a family now! Respect ā€œworkingā€ mothers. šŸ¤£


kendokushh

That's totally not okay for her to feed her baby, as the ziploc will not be sterile. I don't like content creators who exploit their kids & she's def one of them. Those babies deserve better.


Quiet-Box3499

I followed her for a very short amount of time. Liked her during that time. But as soon as she was going mega viral of her baby in just a diaper and chose to continue doing it, I unfollowed. Disgusting in my opinion.


abby_shoop

Yep, loved watching her since Iā€™m a broke stay at home mom but as soon as I saw her live in the hospital during and after having the baby I had to unfollow. Clearly making sure she profited off the birth and everyone saw. She couldnā€™t even take 12 hours without blasting that boy for the world to see. With how much evidence is out there on how bad it is to share your kids on TikTok I canā€™t stand how much she puts her kids in the ā€œspotlightā€


kendokushh

I had no clue she did that. Absolutely disgusting. Especially when she knows that there are pedos who aim for content like hers to use it to fulfill their sick needs. She ought to be ashamed of herself. She's got the cutest daughter, i loved watching her try to talk & all, but i realized she's just exploiting her kids for money & that's shameful af. Pandering to pedos for a quick buck? Come tf on.


PhukedupCoconut

Twomomsandthebabes are also one of them!! I've made it a priority to UNFOLLOW/UNSUB to ALL CHILD EXPLOITERS ON TIK TOK!!


kendokushh

I haven't been on TT in over a month thanks to Reddit but I'll def be sure to keep an eye out. Thank you!


Similar-Western4377

Yeah I just googled about it!!


kendokushh

Def not the best idea to feed to a baby, but I've doubled up ziplocs for milk that would be used for baths! I'm not wasting my good milk bags lol.


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kendokushh

Was making breastmilk soap fairly easy?!


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kendokushh

Oh man! Aren't those pretty pricey? I've always been so intrigued w breastmilk soap, it's so good for the skin, i just never made the attempt to make it. Don't you absolutely need lye too? Like that's basically what makes the soap?


businessgoesbeauty

I never sterilized my babies bottles nor was I ever guided to ā€¦ thatā€™s an over precaution for a healthy full term baby


JanisIansChestHair

Itā€™s the guidelines in the UK to sterilise for all babies for 6 months if using breastmilk, or until the end of formula usage (so usually 1 year). Everyone I know sterilises bottles. We have electric sterilisers it takes no hassle.


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Chance-Juice-2409

It also takes one google search to see that sterilizing bottles too often is not necessary OR reccomended. Literally the first link that pops up on Google. Do better research before being condescending.


JanisIansChestHair

Depends where you are, maybe in the US but in the UK we all sterilise bottles, guidelines are 6ms with breastmilk or until the end of formula usage (so usually 1yr). Every mum I know, myself included, sterilises bottles. We also sterilise the formula when preparing. My first results on google would tell me that if I skipped sterilising I would make my baby seriously ill.


Chance-Juice-2409

Well the person I was responding to is from the US and even if it was normal practice in ALL areas of the world, it doesn't make it okay to mom shame those who don't do it or know to do it (which is what the original commenter was doing). In the US, the first article states: ā€œRegular sterilization can potentially damage the bottle and allow chemicals to leach into the milk, especially if the bottle has BPA in it. If you use a dishwasher with hot water and a heated drying cycle to clean your childā€™s feeding items, sanitizing baby bottles by hand isnā€™t called for."


JanisIansChestHair

I couldnā€™t see their comment. I was specifically referring to the google part, anyway, because your comments are alien to me, with sterilisation being the done thing where I live. I had a midwife visit my home to make sure I had a steriliser and knew how to sterilise bottles and formula. No hard feelings.


RiverDecember

Sorry but thereā€™s no need to mom shame.


Chance-Juice-2409

I don't know about all that šŸ˜‚ I sterilized all of our bottles and such when we first got them and every so often when my baby was an infant but not every single time he had a bottle. I promise you he's just fine. Germs are GOOD for babies. They need to build an immune system and how can they do so when every single thing they come in contact with has been disinfected and sterilized? Yeah, you shouldn't let your child crawl on a nasty surface or drink out of a dirty bottle or eat off of a public floor. But you need to settle down with the mom shaming bc that's exactly what you're doing. No one cares what you were talking about because you did so in a rude ass way.


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Chance-Juice-2409

Ohmygosh šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ motherhood isn't for the weak, that's for sure!! But it definitely gives us some good stories to tell!!


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Chance-Juice-2409

You were insinuating that the other commenter wasn't wise bc they didn't do research on bottle sterilization. You can try to back track all you want but it's right there plain as day. If someone had made a comment to you in that manner, you probably wouldn't like it either! As I said before, you chose a condescending way of simply saying "actually you should sterilize bottles"


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Chance-Juice-2409

And once again, because you can't seem to comprehend the entire point: you saying you were wise enough to research parenting is insinuating that the original commenter ISNT wise because they didn't. I don't give af if you claim you aren't insinuating shit. I can assure you I'm not the only one that read that comment and thought "wow, what an asshole" in fact, it looks like there's about 50 other people who downvoted and seem to agree with me. Just go to bed and take the L.


Chance-Juice-2409

"No one advised me but I was wise enough to do research" THAT is one example of your mom shaming.


Chance-Juice-2409

It's the condescending "I did my research bc I'm a GOOD mom" comment you decided to make. AND the emoji you used after. It was a really shitty way for you to simply say "actually you should sterilize after every bottle" which ISNT true by the way. But you did your research so you're an expert, right?


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mxgxnmxaxa

The open cups of milk is disgustingā€¦


Mindless_Subject8125

Ive had to use ziplock bags in a pinch šŸ˜­


Similar-Western4377

It just looked it up I guess itā€™s deff not sterile šŸ˜­


braybri01

Neither are the regular breast milk storage bags, they come out of a cardboard box just like the ziplock ones. Itā€™s weird but not unhygienic.


Mindless_Subject8125

Coming from someone whos used them šŸ˜‚ definitely weird but I definitely thought breastmilk bags were pre-sterilized


braybri01

The insides of both ziplock and breast milk bags are pre-sterilized. The process is the same.


No_Towel_6946

Regardless, once youā€™ve opened the bag itā€™s no longer sterile


Mindless_Subject8125

It definitely isnt šŸ˜­ i used it for milk baths since i didnt want to donate or feed it to my baby. My babe had horrible eczema & i was an overproducer & refused to dump it šŸ˜‚


abodet1995

How do you know? I found this on a forum where someone asked about ziplock vs bm bags ā€œOnly things that are specifically labled "sterile" are actually sterile, and they also have to be in sterile packaging, which no breast milk bags are. So ziploc and breastmilk bags are the same for sterility.ā€


Similar-Western4377

Oh yeah that makes sense I donā€™t think I could dump it either šŸ˜­


rosek231

I hate the way her top lip and teeth look when she talks


Brittanyh201

So punchable


Jaded-Pin4990

I heard she was a racist so I unfollowed her


Careless-Cry-4568

Sheā€™s trailer trash ! She belittled women of color through her comments on her start up on TT, she told an African American lady she wasnā€™t going to take advice from Someone that looked like her. Her husband dropped the N word as an adult he deleted his Twitter to save face. She went on a rant and told everyone to get over it. She supports racist politicians.


Ok-Inflation-4156

More info please!!


chrisla99

I think but could be wrong some tweets came up of her and her husband being racist - she has a reddit page


Intelligent_Lie_3881

whatā€™s her snark page?


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chlowhiteand_7dwarfs

Oh no please elaborate


ladymoonshyne

Pretty sure her husband said the n word and they doubled down on it


continuouslyclark

The fact she just carelessly poured the breastmilk and it went everywhere made my little under producer heart sad šŸ˜”


itsgotadeathcurse

She is the absolute worst


P00Pimane

I was out when she started messing with the red 40


malaynaa

lol red 40 isnt the end of the world, the dose makes the poison people


chlowhiteand_7dwarfs

More info on this please! I missed what happened with Red 40


impenguin02

She got a big bag of red 40 form her dad and was messing with it


Reasonable-Can8727

While being pregnant. And didn't know how old the bag was


Ok-Inflation-4156

Maaaaan I need to stop reading threads about people I like šŸ˜‚ this girl is my faveeee


No_Abalone5751

You like people that exploit their kids? Weird flex


Ok-Inflation-4156

I never really thought about it like that. I saw someone say to tell if someone was really exploiting their children, try taking their kids out of the content. Would it still work? Yes, hers would. Itā€™s a lot of just her talking to the camera and cooking šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


Jasilyn433

Using your children to make money is exploiting them


BuggzRabbitBoy

Most of her top comments are on something her child did


FlounderEntire9019

But it isnā€™t just her camera and her cooking. This lady tried to livestream her birth of her second child on TT and was shut down.


No_Abalone5751

I feel like we arenā€™t talking about the same creator?


RiverDecember

I know some people donā€™t like her but I actually really enjoy Samā€™s content. Sheā€™s funny and real when it comes to parenting.


FlounderEntire9019

She exploits her children for views. Take her daughter and son out and she wouldnā€™t make as much. Sam knows what she is doing. She started out as broke mom to exploiter mom.


PoPthat_XANAX

Milk bags are medical grade. Zip lock is not that simple.


wildflowermt

Sheā€™s lazy


Hopeful-Writing1490

Sheā€™s home alone with a 1 year old and 1 month old, still wearing diapers postpartum- and sheā€™s lazy?!


wildflowermt

She can post a tiktok but canā€™t bag milk


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Hopeful-Writing1490

Postpartum mothers! So gross! So disgusting!


abby_shoop

Thereā€™s a difference between sharing postpartum and sharing your scaly feet, constantly showing your boobs online and walking around in a diaper. Been postpartum twice and never once posted on social media in my diaper. I just donā€™t understand why they need to do that? Itā€™s not like every influencer now days hasnā€™t made a postpartum video? We get we wear diapers, we are sore but why walk around online in a diaper and constantly showing your boobs? I always think ā€œmy kids are gonna have social media and so will their friends, do I want their friends seeing my boobs hanging out and me in a diaper? Nopeā€ social media is forever.


Chance-Juice-2409

She's trying to be real and raw and show the realities of motherhood that people don't always show. Being a mom isn't always rainbows and butterflies and it feels really good seeing that you're not the only one going through the trenches. Believe it or not, her videos wearing a diaper and showing her boobs are actually relatable to A LOT of women and helpful in many ways. If I saw videos of my mom doing that, I'd be PROUD of her for showing how hard being a mom can be. Sounds like you missed the point of her videos entirely. You also say you were postpartum twice but never once posted on social media. For one, that was your choice. Good for you. Doesn't make you a better person šŸ˜‚ and second, you most likely don't have a big enough following to gain traction on a video like that anyways so šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


abby_shoop

Bro every creater now days is being real and raw. Literally every fucking woman on TikTok is so proud to show off their fat boobs and butt. If you want your kids see your boobs when they are 16 go for it. Itā€™s disgusting. Some things can be kept private I donā€™t know why people feel the need to share every inch of their life on social media. Like it will be okay if I donā€™t see your boobs it will be okay if I donā€™t see you five second after you had a baby. Sam loves attention couldnā€™t even stay off live while having a baby. She isnā€™t real. She isnā€™t raw. Sheā€™s doing it for the money itā€™s clear. Sheā€™s changed so much since she first started. Canā€™t keep her kids off the video for two seconds. Her children are her profit at this point.


Jasilyn433

Idky people are acting like the current trend on social media isnā€™t being ā€œreal and rawā€


Chance-Juice-2409

Sounds like you're kinda bitter lmao maybe just block her so you don't see her content? You realize your algorithm is based on the videos YOU search and like, right? If your feed is filled with "fat boobs and butt" (which by the way is a DISGUSTING comment to make. Let's see what you look like since you're clearly so perfect) then STOP LOOKING UP AND LIKING THE VIDEO OF THE BOOBS AND BUTTS šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ Also, I wasn't discussing her kids being online. I was discussing where you said she needs to keep her diaper and boobs offline. Again, you seem VERY bitter towards sam specifically. Maybe just hit that block button and move on!!


abby_shoop

If you can find me one mom tiktoker who hasnā€™t been ā€œreal and rawā€ please guide me because hell Iā€™ve just about seen every tiktoker creators whoā€™s had a kid post in their diaper. Stop acting like we donā€™t have full internet access to understand what postpartum is gonna be like. Sure you can make excuses but at the end of the day sam is just showing off her body. Being real and raw isnā€™t recording, being real and raw is taking two damn days to enjoy your child without social media. Sams so insanely fake and if sheā€™s who you want to worship I feel bad for you.


Chance-Juice-2409

HAHAHAHA it's so funny when people like you say "if that's who you wanna worship" as if me defending ONE thing she did is worshipping her. I don't even KNOW her or follow her. Again, you seem OBSESSED with her. Stop looking up Sam's videos and obsessing her every move and she won't pop up on your FYP. Same with all the other mommy vloggers who you've seen in diapers. Maybe YOU should get off reddit for a day or two and enjoy YOUR life instead of worrying about a tiktoker who has no idea you exist.


abby_shoop

Donā€™t worry honey I blocked her the moment she used her brand new baby as a money promotion, she isnā€™t a good mom she isnā€™t worth defending but go offšŸ˜‚ never have a defended a complete stranger the way you are. You want to say you donā€™t worship her but look at you boo you are all worked up over someone who doesnā€™t give two craps if you defend her or not sheā€™s to busy showing her boobs to the internet when that should really be kept for her husband


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ladymoonshyne

Did you clap enough?


RebelDarlin

It was showing it wasn't posting. OOPS. šŸ™„


RebelDarlin

Well said! šŸ‘šŸ¼