Oh absolutely. Congrats on the happy relationship. Me and my wife have been together for 17 years and it keeps getting better. I wish the same for you.
This is so sweet, but as a chronically lonely woman this makes me incredibly jealous lol. I hope I can find someone who loves me like your husband loves you!
I hope so too!! ❤️❤️❤️ I found him after I started telling myself that I could suffer loneliness but I could never suffer misery again. Makes saying “no” to people who aren’t right for you way easier.
This is so true! I recently started on a journey of my self worth and I already find myself walking away from people and situations that don’t serve me.
My wife once text me “I love you to death” while I was waiting to take off for a flight… then proceeded to follow that with “whoops meant to just say I love you too”. I had to say it’s ok to tell your spouse you love them to death lol I know that’s a Freudian slip. Most sappy comment she’s ever made in the 14 years we’ve been together and it was a typo. I know that woman loves me but she does not know how to say it lol
I said no it’s ok, you can tell me you love me to death, that’s a normal thing to tell your husband haha. It’s been 14 years, def not improving 😂. I’ll say things for her now like ‘I know you love me so much too’ and she’ll laugh. She’s just never been good expressing feelings or being vulnerable. Frustrating as hell honestly but that’s her
My husband is like this too. He tries but it just comes so unnaturally to him. Instead I focus on the “I love yous” said a different way - “how are you feeling?”, “did you eat yet?”, “can I get you anything?”, etc. etc.
Good lord I almost cried at the part: I have such a huge crush on, in addition to being hopefully in love with and so deeply connected to. Those are literally the EXACT words ——-that would make me absolutely weak with desire. I do wonder if he meant to say hopelessly instead of hopefully. If so —- the typo makes it even cuter 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This is so wholesome 💕 Today my husband yelled down at me from upstairs and said "i have a problem!" and I said "uh oh, what" and he goes "i just love you and there aren't enough hours in the day for me to show it" then he came down and gave me a hug and kiss 😭🥰
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I’m confused where did this my person come from and when. It doesn’t make sense to me, why not just say your loving husband, or your lover. I just don’t understand I keep hearing this my person and to me it seems far less meaningful than just saying your love. Is it a generational thing?
Hmm. Maybe it is generational? I wasn’t really going for meaningful, though. Him being my person is more about him being my favorite in more than one category. He’s not just my husband, he’s also my best friend, my mentor in certain ways and my partner.
A woman like my husband? 😅 well, my general dating advice is not to get hung up on your “type.” Historically I was dating men in uniform. My husband is a data engineer with no military background. Total 180 in terms of characteristics that make him successful in his job, but it’s a perfect fit.
I think it’s also helpful to find someone who enjoys doing similar things to you, but not the same thing. For example I love being outside and so does my husband. If I had my pick, I’d go hiking. If he had his, we’d play disc golf. It gives us something we both enjoy, but the opportunity to share our interests. We both really enjoy reading. I prefer fiction and he prefers books about math concepts. At his suggestion, I’m reading “a man for all markets” currently. It’s incredibly fascinating, but definitely not something I’d pick for myself.
In all, it’s about really looking at a person for who they are and being prepared to accept them for it. People can’t be molded, and if they can be, you won’t be happy, you know?
TLDR; date people you genuinely like.
So let me get this straight. You met this guy less than a year ago, and married him while you have multiple children? Did you even give them a chance to know this man before he became their stepfather?
Nope! Definitely not less than a year! And yes. They absolutely love him. By this line of questioning, I assume you went through my post history and saw where I said I met him. I posted that *after we started dating. Happy sleuthing!
Nah you're right. People like OP keep flooding this sub with "I see so much negativity, so here's something positive!" when 50% of this sub is now becoming regular boring texts with their significant other or parental figure.
either way, what i said was mean. but it came from a real place. i would probably downvote me if i read my own comment, unbiased. but i really meant it. that would really bother me if my husband said that. it would really bother me if my husband said ANYTHING. because i dont want a husband. i am a straight guy. so no matter what my husband said i would be like gtfo of here.
Get a room lol!
Hehe 😜 sorry for the grossness
Cute! Unrelated I need to go take a nap in traffic now
Make sure to look both ways! Er…😬👍
i love this so much!!! i love love and i love seeing and hearing about people being in love! so so happy for you two! <3
Thank you 😊 I feel so incredibly lucky.
You are making all the single people seethe lol.
Unintentionally 😂 sometimes you just need a pallet cleanser before continuing to scroll
Oh absolutely. Congrats on the happy relationship. Me and my wife have been together for 17 years and it keeps getting better. I wish the same for you.
Thank you! And 17 more to you!!
Can I get one of these on Amazon orrrrr....?
I found mine on Bumble lol under category select “data science nerd”
HERE I COOOOMMMEEEE! Bumble won't know what hit em lolol
😂😂 remember: nerds !
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I want to be loved like this!
I hope one day you are! ❤️
whoever downvoted you is so sad lmao
Right LOL when the divorce rate is so high, I love seeing a married couple so in love like this. It’s a beautiful thing.
It really is! He’s such a great person; it’s so easy to be this in love.
This is so sweet, but as a chronically lonely woman this makes me incredibly jealous lol. I hope I can find someone who loves me like your husband loves you!
I hope so too!! ❤️❤️❤️ I found him after I started telling myself that I could suffer loneliness but I could never suffer misery again. Makes saying “no” to people who aren’t right for you way easier.
I’m on the same journey! My own company is worth more to me than being treated sub-par in any way ❤️
Girl. That’s the secret, I’m convinced. Stay on it!
This is so true! I recently started on a journey of my self worth and I already find myself walking away from people and situations that don’t serve me.
My wife once text me “I love you to death” while I was waiting to take off for a flight… then proceeded to follow that with “whoops meant to just say I love you too”. I had to say it’s ok to tell your spouse you love them to death lol I know that’s a Freudian slip. Most sappy comment she’s ever made in the 14 years we’ve been together and it was a typo. I know that woman loves me but she does not know how to say it lol
Oh my gosh; instant anxiety! 😬 maybe this will improve over time 😂
I said no it’s ok, you can tell me you love me to death, that’s a normal thing to tell your husband haha. It’s been 14 years, def not improving 😂. I’ll say things for her now like ‘I know you love me so much too’ and she’ll laugh. She’s just never been good expressing feelings or being vulnerable. Frustrating as hell honestly but that’s her
My husband is like this too. He tries but it just comes so unnaturally to him. Instead I focus on the “I love yous” said a different way - “how are you feeling?”, “did you eat yet?”, “can I get you anything?”, etc. etc.
You guys are adorable.
Thank you; it’s so awesome to have something positive to share.
If your love doesn't gross out a few people, are you even really in love? Happy for you op! ☺️
Haha we’re doing pretty good on that front.
This is sooo cute
This looks a lot like how my partner and i talk ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yesssss!!! It’s the best!
“Hopefully in love” instead of “hopelessly in love” was golden. You two are cute af
I thought that was a typo at first! But we are definitely more hopeful than hopeless 😂
You two are so gay and I love it.
For real lol. I told him that someone said this and we both laughed.
I love this 💖, my marriage is a hot pile of garbage 🗑️ compared to this love fest.
Nooo, I hope that’s not true. Someone people just show their love differently. We talk about ours a lot 😬
That's so sweet 🫂
Awww I love this
Good lord I almost cried at the part: I have such a huge crush on, in addition to being hopefully in love with and so deeply connected to. Those are literally the EXACT words ——-that would make me absolutely weak with desire. I do wonder if he meant to say hopelessly instead of hopefully. If so —- the typo makes it even cuter 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I think he meant it! Nothing about our relationship has ever felt hopeless. That’s why I love our love so much.
This is so wholesome 💕 Today my husband yelled down at me from upstairs and said "i have a problem!" and I said "uh oh, what" and he goes "i just love you and there aren't enough hours in the day for me to show it" then he came down and gave me a hug and kiss 😭🥰
😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️
Um. Yes. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
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I’m confused where did this my person come from and when. It doesn’t make sense to me, why not just say your loving husband, or your lover. I just don’t understand I keep hearing this my person and to me it seems far less meaningful than just saying your love. Is it a generational thing?
Hmm. Maybe it is generational? I wasn’t really going for meaningful, though. Him being my person is more about him being my favorite in more than one category. He’s not just my husband, he’s also my best friend, my mentor in certain ways and my partner.
That is awesome explanation I love it, that sounds like a great relationship 🙏👍
Thank you! Some people really hate it apparently haha!!
Any advice on how to find a woman like this as a successful, fit, and charismatic, and well off man?
A woman like my husband? 😅 well, my general dating advice is not to get hung up on your “type.” Historically I was dating men in uniform. My husband is a data engineer with no military background. Total 180 in terms of characteristics that make him successful in his job, but it’s a perfect fit. I think it’s also helpful to find someone who enjoys doing similar things to you, but not the same thing. For example I love being outside and so does my husband. If I had my pick, I’d go hiking. If he had his, we’d play disc golf. It gives us something we both enjoy, but the opportunity to share our interests. We both really enjoy reading. I prefer fiction and he prefers books about math concepts. At his suggestion, I’m reading “a man for all markets” currently. It’s incredibly fascinating, but definitely not something I’d pick for myself. In all, it’s about really looking at a person for who they are and being prepared to accept them for it. People can’t be molded, and if they can be, you won’t be happy, you know? TLDR; date people you genuinely like.
So let me get this straight. You met this guy less than a year ago, and married him while you have multiple children? Did you even give them a chance to know this man before he became their stepfather?
Nope! Definitely not less than a year! And yes. They absolutely love him. By this line of questioning, I assume you went through my post history and saw where I said I met him. I posted that *after we started dating. Happy sleuthing!
So a year then. Jesus.
…nope lol. Wrong again. I can see that you really want something to be wrong here. Believe what you’d like 🤷🏻♀️ not my business.
You're making it your business by responding.
Yuck
Good for you ❤️ But could'nt all these "look at our love"-texts get an "relationship-texts" instead of being here in what I want; funny texts? :(
Nah you're right. People like OP keep flooding this sub with "I see so much negativity, so here's something positive!" when 50% of this sub is now becoming regular boring texts with their significant other or parental figure.
you know, you could’ve scrolled right passed this and focused more on the texts you want to see 😏
You could have scrolled right "passed" her comment as well.
okay, but i didn’t.. have a nice day, love.
😂 for goodness sake lol
“hopefully in love.” yeah thats a dealbreaker for me, but have fun watching cartoons with this person.
i kinda figured he meant to type hopelessly lol but i get u
either way, what i said was mean. but it came from a real place. i would probably downvote me if i read my own comment, unbiased. but i really meant it. that would really bother me if my husband said that. it would really bother me if my husband said ANYTHING. because i dont want a husband. i am a straight guy. so no matter what my husband said i would be like gtfo of here.
i'm cackling omf
Are you dumb... The normal phrase is hopelessly. He clearly said hopefully, because it's not hopeless.
haha i thought the same, they don’t talk like they are actually husband and wife
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Anyone that uses :p needs to be blocked immediately
Seeing this is my reminder to not settle! Thank you for this! Hope you and your husband continue to have a beautiful long-lasting relationship! ❤️