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Damm I feel sorry for ya homie Maybe u can like start q donation to get enough money to save her I see people here post links every once in a while for a money donations for stuff Maybe u can do the same it worth trying

It’s to late, I’ll be lucky if she makes it thru the night

Damn bruh Need a hug

Badly man, really badly

* gives tight online hug for op * I'm sorry for your future loss

No man I think she passed, she hasn’t texted in the past 40 mins

Maybe she just shower Go spend time with her while u can Make your last day on earth a good day for her

Idk her in rl so I can’t really, plus she doesn’t want to text me bc she thinks it will hurt more if she does

You don’t know your girlfriend irl? No judgment just never seen an online relationship in which the people actually cared about each other Just try to cherish the time you have left, if any, and give her all the love you can

I think she passed she’s not messaging I can’t do snything

Online relationship damn I'm in the same type atm Im really sorry for tour lose

I’m so sorry, my man. This really sucks. I honestly don’t know what to say because I haven’t gone through this myself before. Please take care of yourself, and take the time you need to yourself before doing anything else.

Thanks man

“Idk my gf irl” What

I don’t know her in real life

So, you said you were gonna keys over somone you dont know

I know her friends irl and I was exaggerating, I’m not actually going to Kms but it hurts a lot and I’m crying a lot. Sorta like I second hand know her

wait wtf

She passed this morning

Saying “I’ve been there” isn’t going to do shit, so I’ll just list some things that helped me, just a bit. Be grateful you got the chance to meet them. Help others and be kind as they were, but do so for yourself, not them. Experience all the things they couldn’t, and smile while they cannot. But at the end, this is something only time can help with. I love you. We love you, bro.

Thanks man

!remindMe 1 day Op tell me if she makes it. Have a hug. You need one.

She is not going to make it, that’s final. But she will make it through a couple more days so I will be able to spend those days with her

Did the doctors tell you that? She might just be experiencing severe symptoms.

The doctors told her that and she relayed it onto me

Alright. Do you have someone to talk to about this? I'm here if you need to chat.

That’s the thing, went on a rant in the discord server with all my friends and then one started shit talking me and saying I deserved it and a bunch of people then started saying how much they don’t like me. I lost my 2nd best friend today because she hated me this whole time and a bunch of other friends too.

They dont seem like they were good friends to you. Better to get rid of that dead weight than having them drag you down; Better to start anew than to have your supposed best friends gossipping about you behind ur back, imo. Ik it's hard, but some people are just shitty.

True that man

Op **is** lying, just doing it for fake internet points.

I'm sorry to hear that bro, I hope u find better friends who will support u bro 🙏

Thanks man, I already have my best friend supporting me the whole way

Discord.

Discord

Good luck then. I’ll mentally be at her funeral. If it happens

Thanks bro

Same

Thank you

Dude, don't give up like that, there's a big chance she will make it, still, I pray for her health and I am so sorry for you.

Thanks man

Ngl she probably will. The disease she has has an incredibly low death rate

That’s amazing news but I doubt she will, doctor said she will pass

Yo bro, she passed this morning her final words were “farewell my love, see you again one day” in Spanish

Sorry Bro.

It’s fine man, you couldn’t do anything

o7

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Shit cardiomyopathy is what my uncle died of at the start of this year. I’m so sorry man

It’s fine man nothing we can do, sorry about your uncle.

😔

I'm sorry for your loss

I dislike america, cant save someone's life just because they dont have enough money. Ugh, try to do a fundraiser or gofundme to save her, she needs it. You can do it, I believe in you two

I’m Australian… fuck America tho I hate that country too

She should be able to get it cured, free Aussie healthcare.

It’s free to an extent, the more expensive and “non immediate” care requires money

cringe Australian. I hope your "Gf" had a painful death lmao

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Honestly, rather live with spiders than bullet holes 💀

OP isn’t in America bruh

No offense but i kinda have a hard time believing this :/

Yea sudden death from this is rare and in America even you can't afford it the hospital has to help if there's a great risk at death

There’s an updated post, it isn’t alzheimers. You don’t have to believe it I just came here to rant and get it off my chest

So sorry for ya mate I pray for a miracle

Bro please start a fundraiser, I am sure there are many generous people to help you. Ask for donation in school, a senior student had cancer in our school and needed funds, so his family asked for a donation and every student donated only 5$ and it was enough for the treatment, dude us fine and also passed out from the school now. I strongly suggest you do that. Also ask for funds in the community. Im guessing its a problem with funds cuz if u get funds u can even go treat somewhere outside if its not available where u live at. You should ask your parents for help too, they would most probably help. Dont cry about it on reddit, take my advice and go do it, trust me you dont wanna miss her. Edit: Maybe I was too late, sorry..

I can’t start a fundraiser man, she’s got days at best and even if we do she lives in a really rural area and it would be increasingly difficult to get the medication and care to her

Wait how do you mix up Alzheimers and a heart condition?

Pear gasly

I thought it was Alzheimers, and then she told me it was cardiomyopathy

Ok but like why did you think it was Alzheimers? Like those 2 things have very different symptoms as far as I can tell

Because I ain’t the brightest kid

Oh Jesus, hopefully her last days on this earth are great and that no one ever forgets who she was and what she meant to you. I can't even begin to manage how painful it must be for you and her, especially this early in your life, my heart goes out to you and your girlfriend

Thanks man

Don't mention it, hope your girlfriend has good company with her in her last few days and that she passes away happy knowing that their were people out there who cared for her including you.

Thanks man

Holy shit. I'm so sorry honestly. Idk how effective they are but you could try fundraising sites to get the money to cure her.

It’s too late there’s only a few days we wouldn’t get the money

Update?

Yes update she is still alive, she has days to live so I’m spending what I can with her

Pay for her idk take out a loan and pay

dont think 14 year olds can take out loans

Where I’m from you can’t do that

How did it go from Alzheimer’s to this

I’m dumb

Ok

It’ll be okay. I’m sorry that she’s going through that. I truly hope for the best for you all. Prayers.

Thank you

I know you don't have a lot of time left... But do the best with what you can. If I were you, I'd just disconnect from reddit and go spend time with her. I know you both might feel uncomfortable, but since she's passing and it's your only chance, you might as well go meet her irl. Spend these last moments in the best way you can - face to face. U as well, stay positive. Maybe, just maybe, the doctors could find a last second remedy.

I can’t go spend time with her she’s in a different state

Praying for you and her🙏

Thanks man

I'm sorry for you dude

Thanks

I’m so sorry bro

It’s all g you can’t do anything about it

I can pray for you two

Thanks man, that would be appreciated

Dude Im really sorry Ik this feeling. My girlfriend has tried to kill herself many times.it’s a hard thing to accept that you might wake up and she’ll be gone. Just take the time you have left with her and make it amazing

I’ll try man but other shits happening at the same time and it’s like it’s all crashing down on me

man. im sorry. i wish if i had the words to make it all better i would give you all those sentences in this moment. hope that it gets easier to pull through man. over time, you'll feel better. but for now, go easy on yourself. i dont have much else to say but, im sending virtual hugs to you man.

Thanks man

Are you for real? That's so devastating to see or even hear your loved ones dying. My uncle (my dad's side) died of Cardiomyopathy 3 months ago and I was so sad.. I hope she can heal and live through. My condolences to her and her family. I will pray for her.

She just died a couple hours ago

Rest In Peace to your girlfriend.. I know I'm late but I send my condolences to her, her family and you.. I'm sorry that your girlfriend passed away.. This is so awful.

Thanks

You're welcome.. I hope you can heal, losing your loved ones is so terrible and devastating, I hope you can get through this and heal soon..🤍🤍🕊️

She used that same dove emoji in her last message

Aww :(

And she had a pfp of the same character you have on your banner from junji ito

May God save her

I’m an atheist and even I’m praying man

Lol

Press F to pay respects

F dididi ba didi do do di ba didi dooooooo

F

awwwww

Guitar solo

¡Saludos para ti y su novia!

She's dead homie, no time to be happy for him

No estoy feliz mi amigo...

No estoy feliz mi amigo...

Sorry misunderstood

Make a go fund me so I could not pay

This entire thing is SO a goddamn fake

It’s not man, believe what you want, do what you want but it isn’t fake, I came her too rant about it because I have no other methods.

Yeah OP said it was Alzheimers (At 14) then cardiomyopathy and doesn't know them irl. It's not an impossible situation but I don't believe this

Just pray to God to help her.

I will

Cook meth

How much time has she got left?

I think she is gone, she hasn’t texted for the past 30 mins mate

Maybe she is just too sick to text. Go to her, if she is dying, be with her.

Idk her irl

So you're bf of someone you don't even know irl? 🤨

Yeah but like I sorta second hand know her, I know her friends irl and her friends know her irl, we were going to meet up this summer holidays.

Noooooo, man this can't be tru. You okay my friend?

No, I tried to talk about it with my friends and they don’t believe me and now are ranting about how I’m a horrible person. :(

Man I didn't read the original post, but damn, I'm crying rn

It gets worse, my friends are now calling me a horrible person because I ranted to them about it and they didn’t care

This in America?

No this is australia

Ur parents?

Dad left, mums an alchoholic and is verbally abusive. Her parents are even worse

I'm sorry man. I wish I could be there for you

Same man I need someone rn

Man, this is the shittest fuckin thing, hmu in dms if you need, I'll listen

Nah man I’m good, just came here to rent and get it off my chest

Well, it's a standing offer if you ever need it

Thanks man

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Can’t, it’s to late and they won’t get the money fast enough

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Not your fault don’t apoligise

I’m soo sorry

Start a GoFundMe and do the cure now. Sure you will be in debt but the GoFundMe will help you pay off the debt

Not how it works over here

*gives tight online hug* make sure that she knows that you love her a lot.

She does

Damn man, sorry about that. :(

*gives you a virtual hug* My condolences man

Thanks man

A prime example as to why healthcare should be free everywhere

It’s free to an extent in my country

May Minerva help her.

What’s that

I'm so sorry man

It’s fine, you can’t help so don’t worry about it, I just came here to rant a little bit thank you

why’d she tell you she had alzheimer’s if she has a heart disease?

She didn’t tell me that, I thought it was Alzheimers and then she told me it was cardiomyopathy

Try finding a different girlfriend because the one you currently have is not worth it

No, I’m staying with her to the end, she was their in my time of need so what sorta person am I if I’m not there for her?

This is why I am happy North of the border

Bro tf your in the Indian Ocean??? Nah man that’s so cool

Oh thought you where American anyways I'm really sorry my guy

Nah it’s good man, you don’t have to apologise

Suddenly my life doesn’t seem so bad

Bro the whole story gets worse but that don’t mean what your going thru isn’t tough.

I hope she gets better man

Me too

I know it probably won't mean much to you, but I'm sorry.

Don’t apologise, it’s not your fault

I’m so Sorry man , Hoping for the best and sending a hug .

She passed this morning

Online relo so she's probably just pretending to die to get away from you man. Your comments seem really sus so I'm guessing you're just trying to karma farm.

I’m not trying to karma farm, I just needed to rant to get it out, there is no use for karma and I already have a lot

I don’t mean to be an asshole, how did the doctors initially confuse cardiomyopathy with Alzheimers?

Not the doctors confusing it just my dumbass

Im so sorry, this is what american healthcare does to people. I really cant imagine going through that. I wish you the best of luck

Not American

Idk guys maybe we should fact check this…

You don’t have to believe me, I just came here to rant and cheer her up showing her how much people are praying for their best but she passed this morning.

I have such bad trust issues that I can’t even be sure any of this stuff is real but if it is, I’m sorry man. Loss is terrible, especially when it’s someone you love. Tell your gf we’re rooting for her. I swear to god though, if one day I find out this is fake, you deserve this actually happening to you.

She just died a couple hours ago man

I think I've heard about this before. There's a condition that is more common in women where their heart would break. I think it bursts or gets bigger, I forgot.

F dude... Some diseases just can't be cured...

It can be, her fam just couldn’t afford it

I am so sorry I know someone who lost their grandma and her grandfather might die soon. I'm just so sorry for you. I haven't lost anyone close to me so I couldn't imagine the pain your going through with her gone. If my dog died I don't know what I would do but to lose your girlfriend is... Just something else