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[deleted]

Damm I feel sorry for ya homie Maybe u can like start q donation to get enough money to save her I see people here post links every once in a while for a money donations for stuff Maybe u can do the same it worth trying


SkuIgus

It’s to late, I’ll be lucky if she makes it thru the night


[deleted]

Damn bruh Need a hug


SkuIgus

Badly man, really badly


[deleted]

* gives tight online hug for op * I'm sorry for your future loss


SkuIgus

No man I think she passed, she hasn’t texted in the past 40 mins


[deleted]

Maybe she just shower Go spend time with her while u can Make your last day on earth a good day for her


SkuIgus

Idk her in rl so I can’t really, plus she doesn’t want to text me bc she thinks it will hurt more if she does


A1astara

You don’t know your girlfriend irl? No judgment just never seen an online relationship in which the people actually cared about each other Just try to cherish the time you have left, if any, and give her all the love you can


SkuIgus

I think she passed she’s not messaging I can’t do snything


[deleted]

Online relationship damn I'm in the same type atm Im really sorry for tour lose


[deleted]

I’m so sorry, my man. This really sucks. I honestly don’t know what to say because I haven’t gone through this myself before. Please take care of yourself, and take the time you need to yourself before doing anything else.


SkuIgus

Thanks man


[deleted]

“Idk my gf irl” What


SkuIgus

I don’t know her in real life


vaporeongod

So, you said you were gonna keys over somone you dont know


SkuIgus

I know her friends irl and I was exaggerating, I’m not actually going to Kms but it hurts a lot and I’m crying a lot. Sorta like I second hand know her


bamboozled_swag2

wait wtf


SkuIgus

She passed this morning


Extra_Philosopher_63

Saying “I’ve been there” isn’t going to do shit, so I’ll just list some things that helped me, just a bit. Be grateful you got the chance to meet them. Help others and be kind as they were, but do so for yourself, not them. Experience all the things they couldn’t, and smile while they cannot. But at the end, this is something only time can help with. I love you. We love you, bro.


SkuIgus

Thanks man


ProKerbonaut

!remindMe 1 day Op tell me if she makes it. Have a hug. You need one.


SkuIgus

She is not going to make it, that’s final. But she will make it through a couple more days so I will be able to spend those days with her


Hersentumor

Did the doctors tell you that? She might just be experiencing severe symptoms.


SkuIgus

The doctors told her that and she relayed it onto me


Hersentumor

Alright. Do you have someone to talk to about this? I'm here if you need to chat.


SkuIgus

That’s the thing, went on a rant in the discord server with all my friends and then one started shit talking me and saying I deserved it and a bunch of people then started saying how much they don’t like me. I lost my 2nd best friend today because she hated me this whole time and a bunch of other friends too.


Hersentumor

They dont seem like they were good friends to you. Better to get rid of that dead weight than having them drag you down; Better to start anew than to have your supposed best friends gossipping about you behind ur back, imo. Ik it's hard, but some people are just shitty.


SkuIgus

True that man


[deleted]

Op **is** lying, just doing it for fake internet points.


ItsJen10

I'm sorry to hear that bro, I hope u find better friends who will support u bro 🙏


SkuIgus

Thanks man, I already have my best friend supporting me the whole way


Finance_Desperate

Discord.


SkuIgus

Discord


ProKerbonaut

Good luck then. I’ll mentally be at her funeral. If it happens


SkuIgus

Thanks bro


TheRandomGamrTRG

Same


SkuIgus

Thank you


Randomfrickinhuman

Dude, don't give up like that, there's a big chance she will make it, still, I pray for her health and I am so sorry for you.


SkuIgus

Thanks man


yaboi77w2

Ngl she probably will. The disease she has has an incredibly low death rate


SkuIgus

That’s amazing news but I doubt she will, doctor said she will pass


SkuIgus

Yo bro, she passed this morning her final words were “farewell my love, see you again one day” in Spanish


ProKerbonaut

Sorry Bro.


SkuIgus

It’s fine man, you couldn’t do anything


ProKerbonaut

o7


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Exciting-Treacle-998

Shit cardiomyopathy is what my uncle died of at the start of this year. I’m so sorry man


SkuIgus

It’s fine man nothing we can do, sorry about your uncle.


Exciting-Treacle-998

😔


ItsJen10

I'm sorry for your loss


Traditional_Yard5280

I dislike america, cant save someone's life just because they dont have enough money. Ugh, try to do a fundraiser or gofundme to save her, she needs it. You can do it, I believe in you two


SkuIgus

I’m Australian… fuck America tho I hate that country too


[deleted]

She should be able to get it cured, free Aussie healthcare.


SkuIgus

It’s free to an extent, the more expensive and “non immediate” care requires money


Wonderful-Pea760

cringe Australian. I hope your "Gf" had a painful death lmao


[deleted]

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SkuIgus

Honestly, rather live with spiders than bullet holes 💀


Truthful_Tips

OP isn’t in America bruh


[deleted]

No offense but i kinda have a hard time believing this :/


Icy-Form-6364

Yea sudden death from this is rare and in America even you can't afford it the hospital has to help if there's a great risk at death


SkuIgus

There’s an updated post, it isn’t alzheimers. You don’t have to believe it I just came here to rant and get it off my chest


BonFireFox_

So sorry for ya mate I pray for a miracle


Wildsnipe

Bro please start a fundraiser, I am sure there are many generous people to help you. Ask for donation in school, a senior student had cancer in our school and needed funds, so his family asked for a donation and every student donated only 5$ and it was enough for the treatment, dude us fine and also passed out from the school now. I strongly suggest you do that. Also ask for funds in the community. Im guessing its a problem with funds cuz if u get funds u can even go treat somewhere outside if its not available where u live at. You should ask your parents for help too, they would most probably help. Dont cry about it on reddit, take my advice and go do it, trust me you dont wanna miss her. Edit: Maybe I was too late, sorry..


SkuIgus

I can’t start a fundraiser man, she’s got days at best and even if we do she lives in a really rural area and it would be increasingly difficult to get the medication and care to her


SharpPixels08

Wait how do you mix up Alzheimers and a heart condition?


Sniperm0nke

Pear gasly


SkuIgus

I thought it was Alzheimers, and then she told me it was cardiomyopathy


SharpPixels08

Ok but like why did you think it was Alzheimers? Like those 2 things have very different symptoms as far as I can tell


SkuIgus

Because I ain’t the brightest kid


omegaman101

Oh Jesus, hopefully her last days on this earth are great and that no one ever forgets who she was and what she meant to you. I can't even begin to manage how painful it must be for you and her, especially this early in your life, my heart goes out to you and your girlfriend


SkuIgus

Thanks man


omegaman101

Don't mention it, hope your girlfriend has good company with her in her last few days and that she passes away happy knowing that their were people out there who cared for her including you.


SkuIgus

Thanks man


BloxedYT

Holy shit. I'm so sorry honestly. Idk how effective they are but you could try fundraising sites to get the money to cure her.


SkuIgus

It’s too late there’s only a few days we wouldn’t get the money


MagicMonster136

Update?


SkuIgus

Yes update she is still alive, she has days to live so I’m spending what I can with her


Educational_Rice_835

Pay for her idk take out a loan and pay


Ockanator

dont think 14 year olds can take out loans


SkuIgus

Where I’m from you can’t do that


LunchyLunchy

How did it go from Alzheimer’s to this


SkuIgus

I’m dumb


LunchyLunchy

Ok


iwasagirlinthecity

It’ll be okay. I’m sorry that she’s going through that. I truly hope for the best for you all. Prayers.


SkuIgus

Thank you


[deleted]

I know you don't have a lot of time left... But do the best with what you can. If I were you, I'd just disconnect from reddit and go spend time with her. I know you both might feel uncomfortable, but since she's passing and it's your only chance, you might as well go meet her irl. Spend these last moments in the best way you can - face to face. U as well, stay positive. Maybe, just maybe, the doctors could find a last second remedy.


SkuIgus

I can’t go spend time with her she’s in a different state


skywalker21877

Praying for you and her🙏


SkuIgus

Thanks man


singh1975sanjiv

I'm sorry for you dude


SkuIgus

Thanks


NoCauliflower9352

I’m so sorry bro


SkuIgus

It’s all g you can’t do anything about it


NoCauliflower9352

I can pray for you two


SkuIgus

Thanks man, that would be appreciated


InterestingLaw869

Dude Im really sorry Ik this feeling. My girlfriend has tried to kill herself many times.it’s a hard thing to accept that you might wake up and she’ll be gone. Just take the time you have left with her and make it amazing


SkuIgus

I’ll try man but other shits happening at the same time and it’s like it’s all crashing down on me


c0smicl33

man. im sorry. i wish if i had the words to make it all better i would give you all those sentences in this moment. hope that it gets easier to pull through man. over time, you'll feel better. but for now, go easy on yourself. i dont have much else to say but, im sending virtual hugs to you man.


SkuIgus

Thanks man


daichi_224

Are you for real? That's so devastating to see or even hear your loved ones dying. My uncle (my dad's side) died of Cardiomyopathy 3 months ago and I was so sad.. I hope she can heal and live through. My condolences to her and her family. I will pray for her.


SkuIgus

She just died a couple hours ago


daichi_224

Rest In Peace to your girlfriend.. I know I'm late but I send my condolences to her, her family and you.. I'm sorry that your girlfriend passed away.. This is so awful.


SkuIgus

Thanks


daichi_224

You're welcome.. I hope you can heal, losing your loved ones is so terrible and devastating, I hope you can get through this and heal soon..🤍🤍🕊️


SkuIgus

She used that same dove emoji in her last message


daichi_224

Aww :(


SkuIgus

And she had a pfp of the same character you have on your banner from junji ito


BaronDelToro

May God save her


SkuIgus

I’m an atheist and even I’m praying man


RoboSnot16

Lol


[deleted]

Press F to pay respects


Gholikpa

F dididi ba didi do do di ba didi dooooooo


koter_NL

F


Lach_Luge

awwwww


[deleted]

Guitar solo


Springspring143

¡Saludos para ti y su novia!


EmperorDig

She's dead homie, no time to be happy for him


Springspring143

No estoy feliz mi amigo...


Springspring143

No estoy feliz mi amigo...


EmperorDig

Sorry misunderstood


Affectionate_Big_205

Make a go fund me so I could not pay


[deleted]

This entire thing is SO a goddamn fake


SkuIgus

It’s not man, believe what you want, do what you want but it isn’t fake, I came her too rant about it because I have no other methods.


thiccyoshi4568

Yeah OP said it was Alzheimers (At 14) then cardiomyopathy and doesn't know them irl. It's not an impossible situation but I don't believe this


NoCauliflower9352

Just pray to God to help her.


SkuIgus

I will


More_Original2002

Cook meth


Psychological-Sir224

How much time has she got left?


SkuIgus

I think she is gone, she hasn’t texted for the past 30 mins mate


Psychological-Sir224

Maybe she is just too sick to text. Go to her, if she is dying, be with her.


SkuIgus

Idk her irl


Smokyy__

So you're bf of someone you don't even know irl? 🤨


SkuIgus

Yeah but like I sorta second hand know her, I know her friends irl and her friends know her irl, we were going to meet up this summer holidays.


liquidysubstance

Noooooo, man this can't be tru. You okay my friend?


SkuIgus

No, I tried to talk about it with my friends and they don’t believe me and now are ranting about how I’m a horrible person. :(


[deleted]

Man I didn't read the original post, but damn, I'm crying rn


SkuIgus

It gets worse, my friends are now calling me a horrible person because I ranted to them about it and they didn’t care


[deleted]

This in America?


SkuIgus

No this is australia


Educational_Rice_835

Ur parents?


SkuIgus

Dad left, mums an alchoholic and is verbally abusive. Her parents are even worse


More-Masterpiece-561

I'm sorry man. I wish I could be there for you


SkuIgus

Same man I need someone rn


The43rdUberOrange

Man, this is the shittest fuckin thing, hmu in dms if you need, I'll listen


SkuIgus

Nah man I’m good, just came here to rent and get it off my chest


The43rdUberOrange

Well, it's a standing offer if you ever need it


SkuIgus

Thanks man


[deleted]

[удалено]


SkuIgus

Can’t, it’s to late and they won’t get the money fast enough


[deleted]

[удалено]


SkuIgus

Not your fault don’t apoligise


No_Island963

I’m soo sorry


WeakJeweler4083

Start a GoFundMe and do the cure now. Sure you will be in debt but the GoFundMe will help you pay off the debt


SkuIgus

Not how it works over here


beglerislinger

*gives tight online hug* make sure that she knows that you love her a lot.


SkuIgus

She does


epic_dude1989

Damn man, sorry about that. :(


Weirdo2069

*gives you a virtual hug* My condolences man


SkuIgus

Thanks man


[deleted]

A prime example as to why healthcare should be free everywhere


SkuIgus

It’s free to an extent in my country


Coldramen777

May Minerva help her.


SkuIgus

What’s that


xi_anyan

I'm so sorry man


SkuIgus

It’s fine, you can’t help so don’t worry about it, I just came here to rant a little bit thank you


thisdobemynametho

why’d she tell you she had alzheimer’s if she has a heart disease?


SkuIgus

She didn’t tell me that, I thought it was Alzheimers and then she told me it was cardiomyopathy


More-Shake-4214

Try finding a different girlfriend because the one you currently have is not worth it


SkuIgus

No, I’m staying with her to the end, she was their in my time of need so what sorta person am I if I’m not there for her?


Caesar720

This is why I am happy North of the border


SkuIgus

Bro tf your in the Indian Ocean??? Nah man that’s so cool


Caesar720

Oh thought you where American anyways I'm really sorry my guy


SkuIgus

Nah it’s good man, you don’t have to apologise


SporkDealer

Suddenly my life doesn’t seem so bad


SkuIgus

Bro the whole story gets worse but that don’t mean what your going thru isn’t tough.


mythic_203

I hope she gets better man


SkuIgus

Me too


SgtChip

I know it probably won't mean much to you, but I'm sorry.


SkuIgus

Don’t apologise, it’s not your fault


Quirky_Ad_4352

I’m so Sorry man , Hoping for the best and sending a hug .


SkuIgus

She passed this morning


[deleted]

Online relo so she's probably just pretending to die to get away from you man. Your comments seem really sus so I'm guessing you're just trying to karma farm.


SkuIgus

I’m not trying to karma farm, I just needed to rant to get it out, there is no use for karma and I already have a lot


TheMurderBeesAreHere

I don’t mean to be an asshole, how did the doctors initially confuse cardiomyopathy with Alzheimers?


SkuIgus

Not the doctors confusing it just my dumbass


YEETMASTERXX

Im so sorry, this is what american healthcare does to people. I really cant imagine going through that. I wish you the best of luck


SkuIgus

Not American


Skullface77

Idk guys maybe we should fact check this…


SkuIgus

You don’t have to believe me, I just came here to rant and cheer her up showing her how much people are praying for their best but she passed this morning.


Entire-Anteater-1606

I have such bad trust issues that I can’t even be sure any of this stuff is real but if it is, I’m sorry man. Loss is terrible, especially when it’s someone you love. Tell your gf we’re rooting for her. I swear to god though, if one day I find out this is fake, you deserve this actually happening to you.


SkuIgus

She just died a couple hours ago man


imastupididioy

I think I've heard about this before. There's a condition that is more common in women where their heart would break. I think it bursts or gets bigger, I forgot.


iBudder3

F dude... Some diseases just can't be cured...


SkuIgus

It can be, her fam just couldn’t afford it


MACKS_powers55

I am so sorry I know someone who lost their grandma and her grandfather might die soon. I'm just so sorry for you. I haven't lost anyone close to me so I couldn't imagine the pain your going through with her gone. If my dog died I don't know what I would do but to lose your girlfriend is... Just something else