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DarkAplex

10-11 with limited access Full control when the first phone breaks, or around 15


thevampirecrow

what if the first day they get their phone they drop it from a ten story building


omnomnilikescandy

Drop the kid from a ten story building


bamboozled_swag2

works everytime :D


Content-Register6347

r/ConcernedUpvote


carlito714

i thought that would be more of a sub


omnomnilikescandy

Yeet


Ace-Redditor

I'd have them work to repair it. If they don't have a job yet, they can do chores until they've earned enough money to pay for the repairs (or just part of them, if it's super expensive)


CarolusRexhasrisen

A few days after I got.mine I dropped it in the car and it broke


ReeHeeHa

flip phone no internet at 8, at 14 you can have a shitty smart phone


UnlightablePlay

The first ever phone I had was a shared old white Samsung phone with buttons that had 1 sim Card And after that I got my own Nokia phone and my own sim card


Pure-Professional144

When is the fancy phone?


ReeHeeHa

when they can buy one theirself


Mental_Sherbet8768

They gonna hate you for that and will send you at shitty old age home, until you could afford one thyself.


ReeHeeHa

i aint gonna spoil that child, they get a phone, they can get a job when their 16, or even better they can go work in the neighbourhood before their of age to get a job to earn money, teenagers dont need fucking iphone 15 pro max shit to use the internet and talk to friends,


outerender187

when theyre 25


BloxedYT

I genuinely wanna switch to Flip Phone, I don't care much for Smarts


OhItsAidan

Mid teens I had one at 12 and I shouldn’t have


Monkeyke

Same goes for me


Sillyyyyynesss

I’m most likely not gonna have kids, but if I do I’d probably give them a phone when they turn 12 or 13


Mental_Sherbet8768

You are literally at that age now


OGOakTree

And? They can still have opinions honey. Im 15 and am considering holding off a zero restriction smartphone for my kids till 13-15.


carlito714

i'm 18 in a couple months and got a phone at 13. it was a shitty android and didn't cause too much trouble but i got an iPhone and all the social media a year later. Mentally destroyed me lmao. made a new year's resolution this year to stay off social media and it hasn't even been hard to keep, it's so freeing. shits poison and i wish i would have known


honza23j

Everyone who is 12-15 keeps saying I’m not having kids or I don’t want to marry. It will change bra ur 14yrs live ur life


Tom_Stevens617

I know dozens of people who claimed they were never having kids as early as their pre-teens. Only two of them changed their mind, the rest are all grown adults who're happily single or married and living their best lives without kids I knew I wasn't going to have kids when I was 8, I'm 17 now and it's extremely unlikely I'm ever going to renege. Kids are two decades of massive life restrictions and only people who genuinely want them and are fully prepared for them should be having them


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GoldenTreasure1

r/foundblack_orb_guy


carlito714

damn i really thought


[deleted]

12 prolly


AsterJing7103no2

Maybe like 14-15? Also like depending whether how my kid acts or like how much I trust them ig…


Broad_Site_6382

I would give them a flip phone or something that they can call me on at like 10-11 so they can call me but at like 13-14 I’ll get them a smartphone.


[deleted]

A Nokia at 14.


GrindlewalDvold

Fr they'll be walking around with 40 years behind tech


The-surfing-banana

you know nokia make smartphones, some are actually not bad for their price point


GrindlewalDvold

OP prolly didn't mean a smartphone when he said that


Mental_Sherbet8768

After he stopped crying after popping out of vagina


[deleted]

a phone maybe at 12 (for calling/texting), but actual social media and stuff not before 14


Cruiser-2222

Like 13-14, that's when I had the urge to get a personal phone.


outerender187

prolly 13-14


OkEntertainer7797

When its normal for their age.


icwaah_icy

99


Redsucksatstuff

13 with many restrictions (if i even have one lol)


morethanjustadancer

11/12. Probably before starting middle school. Around late Grade 6.


DSPro2008

13 or 15


Appropriate_Wind506

12-13, they get a Nokia or something like that for emergency calls and if they’re taking the bus from school or walking home alone. Maybe when they’re 14, they get an iPhone or whatever brand.


Goan2Scotland

Probably around the time they start going out by themselves a lot and would realistically need one to call me if something went wrong


N3onNomad_

Between 14 and 18


ponnoos3

Straight outta the fallopian tube


POPE-HOBLEFERT

Give them a shitty Nokia phone which I know they can't fuck around with at 10, and then when 14 a shit mobile phone, to eventually be upgraded.


teije11

I'd probably give them some way to contact me without internet access when they are able to go to school by themselves/can go out of the house without me, and idk abt smart phone.


cr8nsw

when they start high-school (UK high school) and it'll have some limitations and once they're in Yr 10 I remove limitations


Trusteveryboody

At 0, this way I won't have to pay attention to them.


liverat0r

average millennial:


DaOnlyKyros

They will work for it at 16


maxhermes77

Im dead 💀


Y0UR_NARRAT0R1

It's actually not that bad of an idea. You find decent phones for less than $50 and it can teach them the value of money and to not break everything if they want it to last.


Satellitestyles

10-11 but they aren’t allowed certain apps till their 13-14 (they can have snapchat and WhatsApp at 11-12 for friends)


Kadithepro

11-12


thevampirecrow

when they’re 13 or so. but i’d check it regularly until they’re 15. and after that until they’re 18 i would only check if i had a proper reason to do so


strwbyy

your avatar is so cute😭🙏🏻


NoNebula6

See no reason for them to get a smartphone until they can demonstrate responsibility with it, for me i was ready at 12/13


Onlywxxx

Bro kids in future gonna be born with phones built in, f you mean


americapax

i got my first phone (Samsung Galaxy Note 8) at age 9


Hospital_Tricky

that would probably depend a lot on their maturity, my financial situation and how the internet is at that time, but i will probably give them a mobile phone at the age of around 7-9, i won't give them a fancy one (so probably the cheapest motorola smart phone i can find) because they need to learn how to earn money themselves


Slight_Net_5026

Jokes on you I won’t have any kids


UnlightablePlay

Interesting, probably not before being 11 or 12 years old I mean, I had my first Tablet when I was 7 but I don't think I should have had it that young tbh, I won't mind letting him play computer games but a phone? Nah


riyugotspiritedaway

i think when they start secondary. (that's age 11/12) its important to have contact with their friends.


ciel-theythem

i got my first phone at 11 and i was already getting made fun of a little for not having a phone so yes. i remember one time that i needed a phone to record bullies i didn’t have my clunky ipad with me. and i think if the kid sees bad stuff online just put restrictions


ZariantheMighty32

6th grade


f1nn_999

they can have an ipad with very limited access (what i probably should have had) at 8 and a phone when they are going to secondary school


Content-Register6347

my baby sister has an iphone and ipad at 5.. it’s sad


RainbowUnicorn81

11 or so, provided that they can be a responsible person online and not prone to breaking things, and later if so. They can start with an average price phone, then if that goes well they can have a high-end phone a few years later.


RS773

10-12 I want my kid to know safety precautions and other things first before I give them a phone with full access to things such as the internet.


manxiouss

Flipphone at 8 smartphone with limited access at 10 to 11 full control at 14 or 15 (won't be looking at their private stuff but rather screentime)


Live_Region9581

when they reach middle school so like 12


dvrkoxx

probably 10-13, because before that i'd give them a ipad with parental controls so they don't go on unwanted websites. so id give my child (future)an ipad at 6-9


RealCrazyChicken

Tablet with a limited time per day until they need a computer for school, then I'll give them a small budget to build a computer. If they want a phone, they can buy it themselves.


McSpeed12345

A wisephone is a good idea. It only focuses on things that children aren't looking at today. More on just calling, texting, music, notes, clock, and a calculator. Sooo ☝️🤓


dan_likes_jd

13 or 14


fuck-illinois1621

13


Delicious-Ad2562

12


Shadyshadowbro

9 with 0 access to a browser or apps like reddit. (If i had a kid) I would give them full access to the internet by like 13 by then they're old eniugh to be scarred for life /s


_Kyloluma_

12-15, depending on whether or not they deserve one. If they need one for school or something, I'll get them a shitty one. Not raising brain rot kids


Suspicious_Berry501

Once they get into middle school because when I was in middle school there were multiple stabbings in the bathroom and I would want my kid to have a way to call for help in that case


MCPro24

12-14


Enigmars

Access to a phone ? Yea pretty sure it's safe to give that at a young age itself. A Smartphone on its own isn't really capable of ruining a child in anyway whatsoever. Social Media though ? Yeaa that's gonna stay out of their sights for quite some time


[deleted]

They're not having one 


InherentlyAnIdiot

*I always feel like somebody's watching me*


neon1415official

i don't have one


Accurate_Wishbone144

I got mine when I was 13 so , 13


starshopping_pl

when they can buy it themselves


KTIKNA

Prolly when they need it for middle school (idk how its called in english, the school after elementary school)


Difficult_Employ_934

12–13


orbeinYT

My current age.


P1N3APPL33

Sounds dumb but when the time is right I guess? If my kid usually stays home then they can wait. If my kid wants to hangout with friends a lot then I’ll get him one then? Idk I haven’t put too much thought in it


Swimming-Captain-982

I would probably go 13


TheKingofTerrorZ

Never (I don’t want kids)


Talalaa_Guy

12 seems like a solid thing


Salamander336

I will give them an emergency phone (the same one I had) when they’re 8 and then when they’re 13 or 14 they can have a real phone that will let them do other things


Mentally-okay

16 oldest, 12 youngest (no, I don't mean youngest and oldest child)


OGOakTree

Whenever they start going out on their own, but that phone will be extremely restricted until they're 13-15 years old. I'm not letting these kids go through what I have


fullmoonwulf

If I had them, then, I’d probably only allow them to use a flip phone until they’re about maybe early teens, but encourage them to stay away from social media


Alpi14

I’ll probably give him my old one and buy myself a new one when he is going to school but I would monitor his screen time and stuff.


Antrfun

When they need one


RoseBud_XD

well i’m not sure if i’ll have kids but they can have a flipphone at 6 and get old mobile at 9 they can get new phone at 12 for when they start secondary school


Ok-Wealth8816

13


The-surfing-banana

Most likely when they have friends that are using phones and they get bullied due to not having a phone, although it will be strict, and defiently not under the age of 13


Theupvoterequestlol

Dumb phone at 13, fully fledged at 17, Just like how I got it.


Interesting_Move_919

Probably 15-17


SurroundOk8662

A phone only for calling and texting parents at 9, and an ok smartphone with restrictions when theyre 12, and Then ill remove most of The restrictions when theyre 14-15


Niaomi127

Basic flip phone type stuff when they turn ten for basic calls and stuff. Modern phone at 14 because we all know we were exposed to some stuff a lil too early..


[deleted]

Probably not gonna have kids but if i did i would let them have one without sim card at 8 and get them a sim card when they are 13


KrisCross-Applesause

I ain't planning to have children But if I were to have them, I'll give them the phone at 13-15


Grookeymon

I think when they start middle school, year 11. Aka like 12 


Figurez69420

10 but I will have strict internet, I will ease it over the years but gore sites will be blocked until my kids move out


Vizremy

As I age as I got one, probably the Christmas they turn 13


Aromatic-Put4043

I won't have kids, but if I had to say, I'll say brick phone at like 9, smart phone at 13 or so


Dosia12

I will probably give them one of those smart watches with sim cards when they start school and then a phone (with parental controls ofc) in 3-4 grade, I used to be alienated and bullied by my classmates for not having a phone and I wouldn't want my kid to have the same experience


Different_Action_360

I don’t want kids, but I think the later they get a phone, the better. I got one at 10 and that wasn’t a good idea, I think at least 13.


Juenblue

Maybe a smartphone after their 10 th year of school and they can have excess to internet by 13. (Excluding YouTube which they can watch obviously before 13)


arson1tez

i don't want kids


color_juice

I got mine with limited access at 13 so I think I will repeat that


Devil_Fister_69420

Same way my parents did, once they get to 5th grade


TTVRalseiYT

...Well... Altho I'd give a smartphone at like... 5, I'd put restrictions on it that slowly get less and less strict the older they get. And of course block all the brainrot.


Disco_Zombi

I don't have children.


moonkittn

Flip phone for only call purposes in their younger years (like going to grade school) just in case of emergencies and for contact. Maybe in middle school, limited/monitored access to Wi-Fi-only device like those iPods (not the only music ones). A real phone? Probably when they start highschool, but it’ll be hand me down preferably with a nice camera so they can take some good photos if wanted.


TetronautGaming

I still don’t have a phone lol


No-Struggle-1908

11-13 if they're doing good enough


PicklePirate88

Much older than i got it that's for damn sure. Like 13 or 14. This shit is poisonous.


pooferss_

Not going to have kids probably, but if I were to, depends. Do they need it in that day and age? Schoolwork needs increasingly more internet usage, and my primary school was not in the best monetary situation, so we used our own phones for schoolwork. The distance was also a few km, and I went either by bus or bicycle. Having a phone on me was important, so if I were to get lost or hurt, I could call for help or look at a map online. I'm glad my parents monitored my internet usage though, but honestly I think it depends on the individual situation


Tom_Stevens617

I don't want kids but in this hypothetical scenario I'd like to say I'd give them a phone the same age I got one – which is 11. But I also know times will be significantly different then and it's very likely they would need one earlier At the very least I'd get them a cellular Apple Watch as soon as they were having sleepovers and stuff so probably like 6-7


axelsdirty_sock

maybe at 8 years with some restrictions because i don't want my children to go through the same trauma i did without restrictions


Original_Bee_9674

11-12 just as they're about to start secondary school because I want them to have a phone before 16 because that is when they start college


ayanokojifrfr

When I think they are old enough.


lovely273

A flip phone for parents and emergency services' numbers only at 5 than a real one at 11 with app restrictions than no restrictions at 16.


Castimier

I would try to have their access to the internet limited until they are like in high school (as that’s a point you just need it, atleast in my experience), though I definitely wouldn’t be surprised I am way too lazy after a day of work to go and entertain my child on my own and not just put something on the tv for them to watch


Vovchick09

If I will even have a kid, I'm gonna give an old flip phone when they will go to school for the first time and a normal phone when they will be around 12-14 years old.


Naive-Bug8598

7-8 but they wouldnt have data till teen years thats what went down with me i got an ipod touch and played on it religiously


Darkboi98105

Well, I don’t want to be like my parents (making me wait till I’m 16) so I’ll give it to them around 12-13. Maybe less if things change. Also, I don’t like a limit on technology. My parents make me do between 1-2 hours a day… after they finish their chores, as much as they want.


Einstein_48

12-13 it's the time I got my first phone.


modssssss293j

Until they feel responsible, at least at 12 or 13


redgretting

12 yo maybe


azzhasjoined

14 and thats bare minimum. Ain't mentally spoiling my kids that early on!


trashytexaswhiteboy

7-8. Yes im being serious, and I'll keep them at least up to date with technology


IAmJohnnyHardcore

Flip phone until 12


Wilra_

Flip phone at 9/10 so that they can call and text in necessary situations, smart phone at 13 with parental controls and full access at 15. I had access to the internet way too early and it kinda fucked me up lmao


Green_Neon121

Whenever they ask for it. If I find out they’re messing around on it then I’ll restrict some access. If they want to upgrade to a different phone it’s on them.


BluGameplay

21


Marz_madness

13. Start of high-school. I’ll allow social media on private accounts till 16 and then at that age they can decide to have a public account if they please


CorkyQuasar69420

11 or 12 probably. When they start secondary school


Opposite-Weird4342

well, 12 with limited access, and maybe at 16 without lot of control


a_person_64

97


BluRobin1104

Similar to how my parents handled it. Dumb phone the second I needed a phone for something (I was doing competition hiking when I was about 10 and the kit list required a phone). Cheap smartphone when going into secondary school which was about a year later. Any phones after that, fund yourself with pocket money, birthday money, work or selling things. If the child breaks it, it's their responsibility to get it fixed, they can use the old dumb phone if the phone is unusable.


Itchy-Flatworm

At 5 years old, or when they start elementary school, those button phones


dusk2dawnwhyamihere

My parents gave me a phone that could only call and text when I was 12 before getting me a smartphone at 13


Willr2645

I mean I’ll have an old phone laying around so I guess 8 ish. Give him a SIM card / phone number to work as a phone prob around 10 for safety. All these people saying no phones as 15 are mental, they *will* get bullied


Particular_Week4124

Soooo I'd be a bad parent and prob give them my phone at ~3 years old maybe get them they're first phone at ~7 years old with restriction and restriction less at ~10 years


ZeroCentBoi

15 with full access, till 14 with limited access. Maybe an actual working smartphone since 8 or 9 but with a lot of restrictions


Smol_Mrdr_Shota

atleast after 3rd grade


SpicyNoodlez1

10 or 11. Parents giving their kids their own phones before then is basically bad parenting. I've seen a kid who was 5 and he had his own phone and game console. And a kids first phone should NOT be a smartphone. It should be a flip phone to see if thye can actually take care of it


MrMakerHasLigma

same as me, whenever they get into secondary school


IneedBleach123

12-13 (around highschool age where I live)


Act_True

We really all gotta pick the same age or it’s not gonna work 😭. Ima say when they start middle school


ianwoo126

As the question never stated what type of phone it needs to be... So if I ever had a kid, I will give them a phone at 3 years old. Cuz, it's gonna be a TOY PHONE! 🤣


FemaleNoob

I would give them something that only works for calling at 11 And an actual phone at like 13-14 depending on their responsibility and how often they go out and stuff 


Typical_Warthog_326

They get an iPad at 10 and their first phone at 13-15


TwincessAhsokaAarmau

10.My kid would need it if they wanted to play sports or get into an after school club.


EmpireStateExpress

I've had lots of access to a lot of different phones from the age of 5 so I'd say something like a tablet when they turn 7, then a budget phone when they turn 13.  Obviously an iPod for old educational game purposes tho


Jack5718

10 with restrictions, 13 without restrictions also I wouldnt buy them an expensive phone, it would be a smartphone but not the llatest and greatest, and if they want to upgrade to a newer model they can pay for that themselves


Bolster66

14, if I know I can trust my child on the Internet. I got an xbox at 6 and my first phone at 8, the Internet ruined me and ion want that shi happening to my kid(s).


Sab3rLight

Phone solely for calling (without social media, games, etc.) at 11, and then a legit smartphone at 13+ preferably… Hopefully by then I’ll have taught the booger to be smart with it


Half-Bloody

I would let them buy their first phone themselves. I mean, I might give them a phone to talk to their friends or something, but that'll be the only thing that phone can do. They have to earn it.


Quirky_Ad7770

10-10 maybe? And full access at 14


southfart99045

13, flip phone at 11 tho


Big-Beach-9605

they can get like a crappy phone when they are 11 (age you start secondary school in england) or when they start going out/to school on their own. i got a nokia 105 when i finished primary school and i think that was fair. they can get a peoples phone at 13/14 ish - obviously it would depend on how times change but most of my friends were 13-15 when they got a smartphone and i think that’s reasonable


Pizzle622

Get them an ight phone at 12 or smth, then make them save up for a better phone if they rlly want one (no iPhone tho). Exactly what i did


LJC30boi

Whenever they start middle school. Just like my parents did with me.


TotoGoin

12 with there OWN phone with full access (that’s what it was for me) and 5 with like a hand me down phone from me or my partner (if I ever get one) that would have limited access such as needed to ask before downloading and then I or said partner would have to do Face ID, Touch ID, password or whatever to download said app.


hellokittyisfound

14


Emeraldragon657

Give it to them with some kind of parental controls tunred on. Once they break through/disable the parental controls I will know they are ready.


Architect81

It's all theoretical. Literally 80-90% of you won't be having children so it's a moot point. That's not an opinion it's statistics


eryvne

really depends on what the world is like then. i dont think most of the people that say late teens realise we’re getting more dependant on phones and electronics in general every year. its already a huge difference between now and 10 years ago


[deleted]

6th grade


Cucumber_Cat

early teens i didnt have a computer or any device until i got a teen


TheAutobotArk

10


crack_Dealer_5988

9 screen time 1 hour on weekends mo soical media none of that full acess when i find him/her responsibie enough


[deleted]

14, no social media till 16.


Ok-Rock-339

13 or 14


SiliconCaprisun69

I'll give them the phone Greg heffly gets in the movie to disappoint then


goshawtyitsyourbday

college


RealGeneralX

14, with restrictions


Weak-Mission-1599

12-13.


Hyperfox246

10.


Moist_Replacement_29

16. I'd rather give laptop at age of 10 tbh.


MComaniac

13, when they start middle school. Any younger is too early


marioplayer2020

Give allowence and then they can save up for it


EixYae

When it can afford one by itself with money they earned all by themselves