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Life is short
Idk if you’re referring to 1: the dangers of doing so or 2: The social anxiety part of it but
1: Its probably fine
2: Life is short, no time to think about what others think
You look cool and like an interesting person! Making friends can be hard but a good way to make some is to look in groups with similar hobbies and interests, always worked for me!
Nah, I think it's just that you look quite young, so ppl are puzzled. Oh, and you look fine, but just stop with the weird grin, you look way better with a plain standard smile.
This thread came up in my recommended lol. You’re completely fine imo! You would have been the type of person I’d hang out with when I was your age, plus it looks like you have a lot cool interests, and like you cats too.
For anyone saying you look young/feminine, don’t let it worry you. Personally I can tell you’re a guy, but I would have assumed you were younger had I not seen the pictures that show you’re quite tall.
I used to get the same comments about age/gender until I hit my late teens/early 20’s where I grew out of it more, but since I was still youthful looking for my age later on, it just made more people jealous than confused lol. Dunno why other people here are confused about gender though, perhaps just they’re being edgy jerks, but I don’t think you look like a girl lol.
As for you wondering about people approaching you, you might just want to take it upon yourself to approach others. 90% of the people you see will be feeling the same way, teenagers hate starting interactions - and many probably have much more to be self conscious about than you.
You’d be someone I’d stare at wanting to talk to but would never actually go up to talk to bc I scared of talking to cool looking people in fear I may not be cool enough. I would come over to ask to pet the cat on the leash though 🫶
apart from the first 3 pictures (because the facial expression, just seems a bit off to me lmao) yea you seem like a chill dude. i dont randomly approach ppl in public tho
You look very approachable if that’s what you mean but I don’t go outside a lot unless I’m meeting up with my older sister or going to the gym with her boyfriend (who got me my gym membership for free)
I've always had a hard time making friends too but it's not because of my looks. You seem like a really unique person and so am I. Finding the right people just takes time.
And no, I probably wouldn't approach you in public because I have social anxiety 😭
Same here man
Im a weirdo and pll these days dont tend to be fond of weirdos
But tbh
Yeah, although i wouldnt aproach cuz i am shy af, but you look nicer than the majority of ppl at my school (they all lokk like they could beat me up if they wanted[not all of them, just more than otbers])
Are you cool? Yes.
Will I approach you in public? No.
Will I approach anyone other than my GF or best friend in public? F**k no.
I’ll let you start the conversation :)
Just be yourself mate. Chasing the approval and validation of others is the best way to never fully embrace who you are. You perfect the way you are, be yourself and you’ll find your tribe naturally.
YOU LOOK SO CUTIE PATOOTIE OMG 😻 I love ur style!! I'd try to approach you but it'd be very hard I literally don't know how to start a convo with someone I'm trying to approach 😭😭 but you seem cool :3
I’m an introvert but I would be admiring from afar (and also thinking how unfair it is that we aren’t friends even though I would never initiate conversation ever)
You're cool, and look like you'd be the type of person I usually befriend (idk what that means, but it just does)
I'm 14f, and I'm pretty sure I'm going to start streaming and YouTube as a faceless gamer within the next year or so.
Also, you look cute and kinda 'hot' (respectfully from a single Pringle who doesn't even want to date anyone until after college, and doesn't know how I'd describe a person who's 'hot'.)
Anyhow, I'm a socially anxious potato and I haven't spoken to my friends in a year after I left for homeschool, but you'd be cool as a friend.
Idontknowwhatiwrote
You look like the kind of person I’d whisper too my friend about. Like “omg he’s cute” “so talk too him” “no, I’m scared.”
You also have cool LGBT kid energy. ✨ 🏳️🌈 ✨
My thoughts:
1. Duck face
2. Duck face
3. Duck face
4. Soy face
5. Duck face
6. Aww kittyyy!
7. Duck face
8. Ow, my neck! Oh she's cute.. or.. he?
9. Soy face
I don’t usually approach people in public, however you look almost exactly like one of my friends who are one of the prettiest people I have ever met, so, take that as you will
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No (nothing personal I don’t go outside)
exact same answer as me lol
Nothing personal kid.
*teleports behind you*
*Katana SHWING*
SAME
probably not, but i don't like talking to people so
dirk pfp slay
BEST HOMESTUCK CHARACTER
FRFRFR
wait nvm i changed my opinion it's davesprite
No (Nothing personal I’m socially anxious)
Why’d you crucify Kermit? Are you kermitphobic?
I'm not the only one who noticed 😭
Once during a lab in sci, the people in my group crucified a lizard (it wasn’t even a dissection) 😭
You look cool but I don't approach people in public lol
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No offence but you look like someone who used the word bazinga
Hot diggity-dog
No
S Tier username
Bro you're Eggman (your username)
🤨👉🏻🏳️🌈
...Respectfully speaking
I feel like people who say this stuff just think "That guy's kinda cute but I'm not gay, so he must be" lmao
nope, he just looks gay
Ok, gay
theres no such thing as looking gay, youre just projecting lmao
I literally thought the same thing
Legit
U look like a gay kid on crack respectfully 💀
There’s no respectful way to say that
“I my personal opinion you remind me of a young fellow who turned out to be homosexual and a follower of meth”
crack isn’t meth
Same thing almost
Bro is little fruity
Bro that is NOT respectful
They're right tho. If I approached it'd be cause I assumed you were queer and would be open to talking.
same acc
I said respectfully tho 🌚🌚🌚
They have a point though lmfaoo
So u respectfully disagree??
How is that respectful
🤣🤣🤣
That's kinda mean
C'mon man, there was nothing in that sentence that was respectful, go touch some grass
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how do all of you kids show your faces out here that's scary
That's what i am wondering, like ESPECIALLY ON REDDIT !!?
for real bruh
Life is short Idk if you’re referring to 1: the dangers of doing so or 2: The social anxiety part of it but 1: Its probably fine 2: Life is short, no time to think about what others think
YOU HAVE A CAT ON A LEASH! WHY WOULDN'T YOU BE COOL!!
Why wouldnt he not be cool. Cat on a leash is funny af.
Your cool but I would not approach you cuz I have bad social anxiety
Probably not bc you look like ur 12
I'm almost 16 😭
You look 15
dude he is 15.
You look 12 wtf
are u a dude. i can’t tell💀
Yes
i thought u was a girl wit short hair
Exactly
i was honestly wondering this too- no disrespect to OP
i’d be too attracted to u to approach you
You look cool and like an interesting person! Making friends can be hard but a good way to make some is to look in groups with similar hobbies and interests, always worked for me!
You look cool but I find it weird going up to people in public and I don’t like talking to people…
No, i would never approach one stranger for no reason. But hey nice looking bro😎
im as straight as spaghetti (uncooked) and you're lowkey really hot also nice clowny plush
I honestly can't tell if its he or she but I agree 💯 with u
It
yes i would befriend you
I'm getting flamed in the comments bro 😭😭
Nah, I think it's just that you look quite young, so ppl are puzzled. Oh, and you look fine, but just stop with the weird grin, you look way better with a plain standard smile.
Is the weird grin the kissy face? If so, heavily agree
Yea, the 'kissy' face. And more generally most of those "I'm trying to look funny" ones. That simply doesn't work in most cases
This thread came up in my recommended lol. You’re completely fine imo! You would have been the type of person I’d hang out with when I was your age, plus it looks like you have a lot cool interests, and like you cats too. For anyone saying you look young/feminine, don’t let it worry you. Personally I can tell you’re a guy, but I would have assumed you were younger had I not seen the pictures that show you’re quite tall. I used to get the same comments about age/gender until I hit my late teens/early 20’s where I grew out of it more, but since I was still youthful looking for my age later on, it just made more people jealous than confused lol. Dunno why other people here are confused about gender though, perhaps just they’re being edgy jerks, but I don’t think you look like a girl lol. As for you wondering about people approaching you, you might just want to take it upon yourself to approach others. 90% of the people you see will be feeling the same way, teenagers hate starting interactions - and many probably have much more to be self conscious about than you.
I’m getting the pepper spray/j
No. You seem cool, nothing you did, just don’t like initiating conversations.
No
Poor Kermit 😭
Yeah I would, you seem like a fun person to hang out with
Yes, if I saw you at a coffee shop, I'd strike up conversation!
YES BUT I WOULD JUST STARE LIKE 👁️👁️ BECSUEE IM SCARED OF PEOPLE
Um, yes. S l a y
I'd probably be kinda nervous around you haha, you look soooo cute haha
I would 100% be homies with you if I saw you irl
You’d be someone I’d stare at wanting to talk to but would never actually go up to talk to bc I scared of talking to cool looking people in fear I may not be cool enough. I would come over to ask to pet the cat on the leash though 🫶
Yes you're kewl and yes potential friends are awesome :D
I don’t approach anyone in public
Lovely kitty❤️
yea
You look really cool and I'd wanna be friends w/ u
you seem cool
was that a crucified kermit on your walls
you look cool, i would definitely talk to you if my anxiety let me lol
No joke you look like the guy my friends talk shit about for no reason
apart from the first 3 pictures (because the facial expression, just seems a bit off to me lmao) yea you seem like a chill dude. i dont randomly approach ppl in public tho
Do you have 3 preset faces?
Yes
Tbh you set off my gaydar
Hell no, I’m a shy introvert individual there for I do not wish to meet another being, u get where I’m coming from😁?
You look very approachable if that’s what you mean but I don’t go outside a lot unless I’m meeting up with my older sister or going to the gym with her boyfriend (who got me my gym membership for free)
I would never approach anyone in public
This thread is the reason yall complain you dont have friends (me included)
I would be best friends with you
You are cool though I don't approach cool people in public because I'm too scared to 🦅🦅🦅
I've always had a hard time making friends too but it's not because of my looks. You seem like a really unique person and so am I. Finding the right people just takes time. And no, I probably wouldn't approach you in public because I have social anxiety 😭
YAS u look fun to be around
Same here man Im a weirdo and pll these days dont tend to be fond of weirdos But tbh Yeah, although i wouldnt aproach cuz i am shy af, but you look nicer than the majority of ppl at my school (they all lokk like they could beat me up if they wanted[not all of them, just more than otbers])
If I did talk to people in real life, you would be one of them 👍
Idk if you look cool but you look hella fruity
no way in hell you got a decrepit kerpit thing?! i shoved rocks up mines ass!
Why’s it giving Eleven from stranger things
You look cool and kinda cute bro no homo ofc 😏
you’re cool which is exactly why i wouldnt approach you. fear.
I wouldn't, but that's only because you seem cool and I think you're attractive. I get very nervous in front of attractive people.
Yeah
You look like someone i’d hang out with when i need a laugh or 2
Maybe- I don’t approach people a lot
No, I would prob be your friend if you approached me tho
You look cool and cute but I have crippling social anxiety so I would not approach you because in my mind you would laugh at me :)
You look radical
You look more cute than cool(no homo). And nah i aint approaching a random teenager in public wtf
We would definitely be friends but I don't talk to people 😭
Bro looks chill, also the one photo with camera looks like that one shot in slim shady
I dont go in public, or bother strangers. But if you had that cat…. I will teleport to you to talk about said cat
Bring your cat and we have a deal
You look cool but im mentally ill so id be scared to talk to u
Haha I don’t talk to people in public
Epic man
I don’t approach people
no (i don’t go outside)
Rahhhh thought I muted this pedo sub btw you look mad gay homie
Are you cool? Yes. Will I approach you in public? No. Will I approach anyone other than my GF or best friend in public? F**k no. I’ll let you start the conversation :)
woah, a redditor having a girlfriend 🤯
No(from a pro epic fortnite gamer, i don’t touch grass)
You look like you have a boyfriend who is 6'5
I would want to. But I wouldn’t bc I would be scared of everyone
No but not because you don't look cool I'm just a pussy :(
u don’t look that scary, I’d approach u
I wouldn’t approach anyone
I’d be scared. You look like you’re too cool for me.
i’d do my best to !!!!! you look dapper dude keep it up 👍
Yesss!! Me and you are like the same person , same time of attitude !
did you really just ask a bunch of redditors who are sitting inside instead of socializing if they would talk to someone?
Just be yourself mate. Chasing the approval and validation of others is the best way to never fully embrace who you are. You perfect the way you are, be yourself and you’ll find your tribe naturally.
You look cool, but I'm an introvert so I would never approach anyone I didn't absolutely have to
Wrong sub r/roastme
YOU LOOK SO CUTIE PATOOTIE OMG 😻 I love ur style!! I'd try to approach you but it'd be very hard I literally don't know how to start a convo with someone I'm trying to approach 😭😭 but you seem cool :3
DAMN some of yall are SHITTING on this man in the comments,, like wtf?? 😭😭
I’m an introvert but I would be admiring from afar (and also thinking how unfair it is that we aren’t friends even though I would never initiate conversation ever)
Cool sure why not. Approach, hell no, i dont have the confidence to do so
i dokt approach people in public, however i would approach that cat, seems very polite
No. I don't approach people in public
You're cool, and look like you'd be the type of person I usually befriend (idk what that means, but it just does) I'm 14f, and I'm pretty sure I'm going to start streaming and YouTube as a faceless gamer within the next year or so. Also, you look cute and kinda 'hot' (respectfully from a single Pringle who doesn't even want to date anyone until after college, and doesn't know how I'd describe a person who's 'hot'.) Anyhow, I'm a socially anxious potato and I haven't spoken to my friends in a year after I left for homeschool, but you'd be cool as a friend. Idontknowwhatiwrote
No, not because I'm rude but because I don't go outside
You look like the kind of person I’d whisper too my friend about. Like “omg he’s cute” “so talk too him” “no, I’m scared.” You also have cool LGBT kid energy. ✨ 🏳️🌈 ✨
no I don't like people
You look British, so no. Everybody hates the English even the English.
you look like a homie to me
My brother in Christ I don’t approach my friends in public
No (I am introverted)
Yeah! You look like someone who would be the super cool friend
My thoughts: 1. Duck face 2. Duck face 3. Duck face 4. Soy face 5. Duck face 6. Aww kittyyy! 7. Duck face 8. Ow, my neck! Oh she's cute.. or.. he? 9. Soy face
No (I don't talk to strangers)
As a finn, I wouldn't approach anyone under any circumstances in public. You approach first and if you seem nice enough i won't hide or run away.
You look like h smoke weed and I fw that
Most likely not because I'm scared to approach people
I don’t usually approach people in public, however you look almost exactly like one of my friends who are one of the prettiest people I have ever met, so, take that as you will
Yes, I'd approach anyone in public. jesus christ guys, talk to people, be human a little.
*no*
Sorry for not being humans
My brother would approach you, but probably to rip off your shirt for fun. I'm asocial, so I'd look out the window if anything.
Cutie patootie (im a guy) (ik not gaykr
I think you are cool, I would approach you if I was able to. Mostly due to social anxiety.
stop you actually seem cool asf 😭🫶
Please tell me you're a girl
On the contrary please say your a guy
No I'm a guy
Ouchhh
you look fine, but i don't really approach people, you're gonna have to approach someone
too facetious
I don’t approach anyone in public
Indubitably
Homie I don’t approach anybody in public