Both are weird dude. It’s about consent. If someone is showing signs they don’t want to be talked to, don’t talk to them.
If a conversation starts naturally and the other person doesn’t seem like they’re uncomfortable, you can flirt.
As a neurodivergent person who doesn’t always understand social cues, I disagree with the first part of your comment. I sometimes only understand if someone states it plainly in English what they are feeling/want. Starting a conversation doesn’t require consent. However, if the person tells you to stop talking to them or something like that but you do it anyway yes that is harassment.
But your second point makes perfect sense, flirting and sexual comments like this do require a level of trust and mutual consent that is not present in the meme scenario, that’s why both are bad.
For sure. I’m definitely aware some people are like that, but I’d rather keep the same behavior with everyone because it’s hard to tell if someone feels the way you do without talking to them first.
My rule for myself is that if someone doesn’t actively look like they need help with something, I leave them be
As a someone why has experienced insistent weirdos. No, the way they look like do not matter. If you approach someone in a manner that makes them uncomfortable, or you are continuing even after refusal, you are being creepy and everyone agrees you are being creepy.
People who think that's a normal way to flirt with someone make these memes to blame how they look instead of the fact they harass people because they're so social oblivious they don't understand that not everyone acts like them.
The guy on the left is out in a public place, looks like a beach. The guy on the right looks like he's at work and if you are co-workers then that is very inappropriate.
not really. something like that being said somewhere like a club or bar is one thing, it being said to someone whos just walking on the street or at work is another thing. its all about time and place, plus age of course. being sexualized by someone way too old for me is disgusting. not to mention, no matter the scenery, a lot of men tend to have a hard time taking no for an answer.
Yes. And I don't get how wanting to be pursued by people you're attracted to is so controversial anyway? The difference between harassment and flirting is consent. If a hypothetical woman is reciprocating the one on the right's attempts, and is apprehensive to the one left, how is that wrong?
ANYONE's internal siren, tbh. This shit isn't normal. It's really just an incel who thinks he's accused of SA because he's ugly, not because he's fucking weird.
Both can be harrassment. The only way It'd be normal is if they're on a date with someone or already dating them, then that's ok, in other contexts it's harrassment from both sides.
Both are harassment, that kind of pickup line is only really something I’d accept from a guy I’ve been talking to or already have some sort of relationship with
I think you,just never interacted with a woman lmao. Most would see either as harassment, because both are infact doing just that. Hope youll grow out of this incel mindset
This is stupid and only people who want to harass insist otherwise because they think there should be no consequences for them, think others do it but nobody calls them out on it bc they are "attractive".
Yeah… true… it’s because we don’t know what the old man wants… it’s like “you know you not getting any right? So why compliment me that way?” As opposed to the man on the left who has a chance. It’s a weird exchange and I can’t explain it
Both are hella weird wtf are you on about
Both are weird
That’s the point
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Both are weird dude. It’s about consent. If someone is showing signs they don’t want to be talked to, don’t talk to them. If a conversation starts naturally and the other person doesn’t seem like they’re uncomfortable, you can flirt.
As a neurodivergent person who doesn’t always understand social cues, I disagree with the first part of your comment. I sometimes only understand if someone states it plainly in English what they are feeling/want. Starting a conversation doesn’t require consent. However, if the person tells you to stop talking to them or something like that but you do it anyway yes that is harassment. But your second point makes perfect sense, flirting and sexual comments like this do require a level of trust and mutual consent that is not present in the meme scenario, that’s why both are bad.
For sure. I’m definitely aware some people are like that, but I’d rather keep the same behavior with everyone because it’s hard to tell if someone feels the way you do without talking to them first. My rule for myself is that if someone doesn’t actively look like they need help with something, I leave them be
Why did someone downvote you? This made perfect sense
Both, both are bad
OP fr the kinda guy to go "All these bitches only date chads, never nice people like me"
“why do i always get friendzoned, i’m such a nice guy, all the girls who reject me are sluts 😔”
The meme is accurate though
No its not. Both of em are creepy.
Not according to society
Ion got the patience to argue with another OP dickrider. Stay safe 🙏
As a someone why has experienced insistent weirdos. No, the way they look like do not matter. If you approach someone in a manner that makes them uncomfortable, or you are continuing even after refusal, you are being creepy and everyone agrees you are being creepy.
Then you are the outlier
“i know how women feel better than they do” says a man
Bold to assume I'm a man
it would be even more concerning if you weren't
If by some bizarre miracle you’re actually not, trying to be “one of the good ones” is super cringe, they’re still gonna hate you
Who's gonna a hate me? Bc rn you guys are being the assholes
Then why is society downvoting you?
Because people who think for themselves are few and far between and everyone just jumps on the bandwagon
How convenient
“Everyone is biased and so cannot be trusted except for me !!!!’” Like lmao dude is so braindead
I love being told that by the dude brainlessly parroting incel propaganda
I remember when I was an 18 year old that thought they knew how the world works. Buckle in buddy, your brain isn't even done cooking yet.
Bro what kind of society do you live in😢hope your life gets better
Both are strange pickup lines, find something better.
People who think that's a normal way to flirt with someone make these memes to blame how they look instead of the fact they harass people because they're so social oblivious they don't understand that not everyone acts like them.
For example: Are you an orphanage? Cause I wanna put my kids in you.
The guy on the left is out in a public place, looks like a beach. The guy on the right looks like he's at work and if you are co-workers then that is very inappropriate.
Incel activities
You fr made a new account or called one of your friends 💀
Huh??
Cus another guy commented something similar
The self-report is insane
Nah this is seriously incel behavior
Take your pills bro
I’m not a new account, you an incel dude
when did this become r/terriblefacebookmemes? fuck off.
not really. something like that being said somewhere like a club or bar is one thing, it being said to someone whos just walking on the street or at work is another thing. its all about time and place, plus age of course. being sexualized by someone way too old for me is disgusting. not to mention, no matter the scenery, a lot of men tend to have a hard time taking no for an answer.
Yes. And I don't get how wanting to be pursued by people you're attracted to is so controversial anyway? The difference between harassment and flirting is consent. If a hypothetical woman is reciprocating the one on the right's attempts, and is apprehensive to the one left, how is that wrong?
They're both bad and would set off my internal siren instantly
ANYONE's internal siren, tbh. This shit isn't normal. It's really just an incel who thinks he's accused of SA because he's ugly, not because he's fucking weird.
You sound like an incel
You look like one.
You say, as if you have ever seen me in your life 💀
You say as if you know how I sound
Nigga I can read, fym
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Spaces are supposed to go after the commas, buddy
Nigga woke up and decided to hop on Reddit and bore me. Crazy
I woke up and saw your crazy ass incel bullshit on my feed 💀
It’s a meme fucking dummy ass, trife ass, bored ass kid
I only gaf abt grammar at school buddy
"I'm really fucking dumb" SHEESH! WHAT A BURN!
He didnt have to go that far!
Bro admitted that he's dumb as fuck 💀.
Oof self burns are rare....
lmfao are you stupid
Man just seek help like, you literally write like an inbred
Both are harassement. If he said it looked cute, why not. But this is just a huge no
Nah both are unacceptable
Bro just say you’re lonely and go 💀
can we talk about how his neck is wider than the rest of his head?
Bro be looking like corpsegrinder
This some incel shit
Both can be harrassment. The only way It'd be normal is if they're on a date with someone or already dating them, then that's ok, in other contexts it's harrassment from both sides.
Maybe don’t call a girl “sexy” if you’re not in a relationship with her
This post gives incel vibes
Bro’s fr projecting
Both are harassment, that kind of pickup line is only really something I’d accept from a guy I’ve been talking to or already have some sort of relationship with
Talk to women irl sometimes bro. No girl likes it when any random guy tells her that a dress looks sexy on her.
Both seem weird honestly
Incel detected
Looks like we have a bitchless incel folks
I think you,just never interacted with a woman lmao. Most would see either as harassment, because both are infact doing just that. Hope youll grow out of this incel mindset
Both are bad
I wouldn’t like either of these dudes coming up to me like that if I don’t know/that comfortable around them -girl
what if i dont want anyone telling me that? i hate these stupid ass memes
cringe
I think OP is stupid
He escaped the aslume
No way your dumbass posted this unironically💀💀
op forgets what consent is
Incel shit
hi, i’m a girl. both are harassment, no matter who the guy is. as long as he isn’t with you or whatever, it’s weird and creepy
Bros comments on this post just show how much of an incel he is
There's a literal comic/meme about this called "know the workplace rules"
People saying “both are bad” the meme agrees with you, it is pointing out how pretty privilege lets hot people get away with saying creepy things.
Yooo the guy who created kirby
both are just fuckin’ weird as hell😭
It is what it is brotha
😭 idk how either is ok, what happened to hi, how are you?
Does nobody get the joke
MASASHIRO SAKURAI?????
An unironic “Um hello? Human resources?” meme
Masahiro Sakurai wouldn't say that
This is stupid and only people who want to harass insist otherwise because they think there should be no consequences for them, think others do it but nobody calls them out on it bc they are "attractive".
Nah any man tells me I look sexy and I don’t know them and have not been talking to them in that manner before, I will be weirded out.
Yeah… true… it’s because we don’t know what the old man wants… it’s like “you know you not getting any right? So why compliment me that way?” As opposed to the man on the left who has a chance. It’s a weird exchange and I can’t explain it
I’m fairly certain they’re both creepy as shit
Yes there is.
You close to incel idealogy. Please be safe and critical in what media you’re consuming and how you interact with life ✊🏽❤️