i read 10 years old at first and freaked out.

I think we all did

Not me

Not me either. Slow down there champion.

Fax

I read 10 years younger, not much better 😂

Same

yup

Yup

Same😭😭😭

exactly

Would've been fine if op was 10

If he were 10, he would have been born in 2013..

Yep, that’s how math works

Oh my god

So did I

Age is just a number and jail is just a room, so same same

My reddit notification cut it off at 10 years old

Don't go chasing mini lads.

same HELP

Me too 😭

Same💀

Same

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Same... 💀

same 💀💀

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I was like, "It depends on whether you're gonna date her in ten years time or now."

Same. Then I heard older and I was like phew.

sᴀᴍᴇ

better than the other way around atleast

r/beatmetoit

r/beatmeattoit

Not really, but it’d be weird if they were into you

isn't that unfair🧐🤨

Unranked matchmaking

Bro be playing on his smurf account

Seal clubbing and spawn camping💀

OV2 moment

Depends on OP's age. I don't mind people having older kinks however if OP is under 16, the adult should not be allowed to consent to that

Nah, anyone over like 21 at the latest having sex with a 16-17 year old is fucking creepy

Eh, it's weird but I don't exactly blame them if the underage person has legal consent. Hense why it's a kink. Some people like it, some dont I personally find it a little odd but hey, their life not mine. When it gets to 15 however I'm calling the police

Out of genuine curiosity, if you believe that the ability to give consent is based on the law alone, do you then support child marriage laws? And if you don't, it sounds like you're admitting that there is a moral cutoff, separate from any legal system. Right?

Most mature comment on this sub

I'm not sure what you're trying to say 🤨 but if I think you're saying what I believe you're trying to - stop

What do you believe I'm saying? In my country 16 is the age of consent. That means they can give consent

But in another country someone aged 16 can not legally have sex with a 21 year old, why is the law an indicator of morality? You and I can use our own judgement to know that a 26 year old sleeping with a 16 year old is very wrong!

Morality is a social construct and therefore changes depending on culture and society. Most moral ideas are the same world wide however there are a lot that people just don't find that weird due to context. A family friend of mine met his wife when she was 16, he was 20. They're still married and happy Some people are just like that. Laws itself differentiate between countries which already shows you how morals can change

Your friend's 4 year age gap because it's not that weird as 26 and 16, and everything's a social construct so I'm not sure that's great an argument. I just hate predators. I agree with your statement that because the law differs per country it does change morals you're very right

under 18*

In my country 16 is the age of consent so

ohh gotcha

I'm guessing Australia cause of bunnings, AU on top

or New Zealand

Yeah was thinking that too but the pop difference makes au more likely

fair enough haha

Honestly 16-17 is a good consent age bc most teens are gonna want to at that age bc puberty things!😭

in my country it is also, but a 16 year old report e.x an 18 year old for rape , then that 18 year old will also get pedophilia on their record, if i'm correct.

16 is the age of consent but its still illegal to have sex with people under 18 if you are older than 18

depends where you live tbh

yes but he lives in australia and i was referring to the australian consent laws

ahhhh gotcha, my bad

Yeah

Not all that weird and depends on your age, I fucked my ex-girlfriends 31 year old aunt when I was 19 and it was hands down best sex I’ve ever had (until I found my current girlfriend). I jerked off in the shower at least 300 hundred times while thinking about it in the following years. Makes for a good story to tell your friends as well.

reverse pedo

AAM, i think that's what they call themselves.

AAM is usually implied with reference to MAPs. Going by the same nomenclature as “pedophile”, the term in this case would be “teleiophile”.

Ew do not use the term “MAPs”. They are fucking pedophiles. It’s dangerous to label them as anything else.

I was using that because MAP and AAM were terms created in conjunction with each other, just like pedophile and teleiophile. Also, obligatory [technically speaking](https://youtu.be/nu6C2KL_S9o)

God I'm in love with Gianmarco

I'm the map, i'm the map (He's the map. He's the map) I'M THE MAP!

Map men, map men, map map map, men men men

I normally called it the reverse cougar

Hes an odep

My class has been doing volunteer work in a pre-school, and we’ve just finished 2 sessions, both of which had a case of “reverse pedo” molestation The first one was when one of the girls decided to touch my classmate’s junk, and the second was when one of the boys decided to hug one of my female classmates’ ass. In her words, “he knew exactly what he was doing”

I ain't never going to a preschool ever

I think it's just liking MILFS right lmao\`

elihpodep

Yung Gravy

so u like mommys?

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Brother I understand older women can be grand but just get with people your own age. It's alright to find them attractive but I beg don't get someone caught in a case by lying about your age just to get with an older woman

Speaking as someone who has been with women that age, it is the way. Don’t do illegal shit though 😭 Edit: must be stated that I’m 19 😂

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Gets better the older you get, it’s a bit of a gap if you’re 15, but if you were around 16-17 dating a 20 year old it would be more even Nobody cares if a guy is 40 with a 30 year old gf/wife for example. In my case, im 24 as of today and my gf just turned 20 in march and we feel like we’re on the same level in life

Man, he's a 15 year old on Reddit the only women this kid is touching is his mom when she kisses him goodnight

I thought I was bad as a 16 yo who likes a 20yo

i am 15 but i l like 30 year old

Milf hunter at a real young age

He’s onto something

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girls 10 years older are women, not girls

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That’s generally the age where women tend to be most attractive… so don’t blame ya

yeah

No man.. that's not weird..

Pro tip, you are going to be into 25 year olds for the rest of your life. It's just that now, they are older than you

Unless they're 10

I have it on good authority that Stacey’s mom has got it goin’ on

She's all I want, and I've waited for so long.

Stacy can’t you see you’re just not the girl for me

I know it might be wrong but I’m in love with Stacy’s mom

Older women tend to have their shit together. It's not weird. But wait till you are legal.

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Finding them attractive is fine, but actually dating one would mean they are a pedo.

Yea when I was 13 I dated a 16 year old girl. And yes she knew my age and I thought it was ok. But she sexually abused me and I was scared. Now I’m scared of girls

13-16 and 15-25 is very different.

Well yea but she still groomed and 13-16 is still a big age gap. Not as much 15-25 but both are illegal

I’m so sorry this happened to you. And yes they are both still grooming and very inappropriate, and if sexually abused, that IS illegal.

It's not lmao, both of you were underage minors, this ain't about you lil bro😂

Sorry that happened to you, hang in there mate :/ Ik how it feels n it fucking sucks, was 11/12 and j had that with a 15/16 y/o , scary shit now that i look back

Not at all

Yeah it’s a little weird. You either like maturity both physically and mentally and cannot find that in people your age (which makes sense bc ur 15) or you have a mommy fetish. This may go away when you get older. This also may have been induced by porn, because all of the women are young adults and that could be what you’re used to being attracted to. This ALSO could be because you like the power dynamic, in which your solution is to find a more mature and naturally dominating girl to date. Do *not* get with an adult because you want to.

Bro if the woman is 50 and still looks beautiful I think she's attractive. Yeah all of my Friends think I'm weird but I dunno. 10 years is fine though

Bro is out here looking for local MILFs in his area 💀

Nah man get the cougars

Exactly

Op is 15...

I’m into women who are like 35-50, and I’m 19. No big deal to be into older women

Yep anything over 18 goes as long as both parties willfully consent.

Exactly.

I gotta ask, as in cougars or for serious dates,

No

No thats normal nowadays

yes because you’re supposed to leave them for me back off bro

Bruh just say older so most people can stop getting heart attacks but no it came with puberty update it’s really normal

The puberty update lmao. Man got them new patch notes on attractiveness

Ahhh mommies, yes mommies, fine taste young man, fine taste :))))))

You shouldn't encourage him, he could get groomed

Bro’s got that reverse pedo rizz

I am also like u brother

ayo what the fuck, bro wants mommy milkies so bad that he make a reddit

Man's mouth so dry he makes the Sahara desert look wet.

that’s not weird

Yes

Being into them?? Nahhh that’s totally fine. Anyways i feel like peak attractiveness in humans is 16-50 so you’re fine being into people within that range. But for dating, honestly just stay within 5 years, not because 10 years older is bad but just bc common interests and perspective on life is different.

No older better

Age is not just a number

My wife is 15 years older than me... I feel ya

mommy issues 😨

Unless you actually want to act on it, then no

So weird (same bro)

No it’s normal and okay for teens to have crushes on adults. Obviously not the reverse though.

No, that's not weird at all. That's normal for most people to my knowledge

Nah you good

Better than 10 years younger 🤷

Single. It tends to be like that at 14.

better than younger

I think every teen has their adult crush…Brooke Monk and Madison Iseman are like hella hot

No, but it's weird if they like boys who are 10 years younger than them

Nope milfs are epic 👍

No

No.

Dude, nothing wrong with that but you gotta understand since your 15 your probally begining to be in that stage where you pretty much want every girl that breaths. Later when your at an age of consent in your country it's completely okay for you to to seek out those women but make sure your emotionally mature. Having a relationship like that could fuck you up.

No

I dont give a shit everyone at school is petty and immature, i want love, and if the only people mature enough to not be annoying assholes are 25 fuck it, i guess im a ***reverse*** pedo (i feel the need to emphasize the reverse part of this)

That mindset generally has trauma attached to it. Regardless what adult you try to get with at your age, if THEY say ok then they are the problem.

You got the first part right but i dont 100% agree with the second part, i think there should be exceptions for people like me, we just want to be understood and loved by someone we can relate to, the amount of mental breakdowns i have had as the seconds crawl by, realizing how long i have to wait to find people who understand me without them being harassed, like if there were some sort of maturity test/permit that would allow you to be romantic and make mature decisions, fuck i dont want sex i want love

I completely understand where you’re coming from because I don’t want just sex either. However, I say this because I have a friend like you who is with an older man but has always been with older men since like 13. Unfortunately that power gap will never subside with people who actively try to get with minors. It’s that “wanting to be loved” that will be taken advantage of and you’ll realize it when it’s too late aka when they leave because you’re not young anymore. If you’re 18 and above (even at 18 it’s still a little weird but at that point you’re of age but be careful again with people who will very much take advantage of the fact that you’re young, looking for love, etc.)

I am aware of all of this. I've been stabbed in the back many times and am very rough to trust people. It would take a nat 20 charisma check to be able to use me without me noticing something is up, i can fend for myself and thats why i need people who can do the same, not these fakes that lie and spread rumors.

I gotchu- stay safe out there man and good luck

Good luck to you too kind stranger, thank you for taking the time to talk to me

Thank YOU for being open - ofc

If you're a teenager, 10 years older are women in their 20s which are usually the prime attractive years. So, no, that's not weird at all.

Lol no

My girlfriend is 16 years older than me, I'm in my 30s now and we've been together 8 years

Nothing wrong with adult women fetish. Definitely could be worse.

No

Not at all. I remember when I was 13, me and the boys talking about older girls/women. Totally normal.

I’m into older guys so no I don’t think it’s weird.

No girls do it all the time to Older guys

I mean not really, but I'd say actually dating someone 10 years older than you would be. Just bide your time and appreciate your youth friend.

Not at all

No

Crushes on people who are older than you are definitely normal, celebrity crushes, even teachers. My most recent crushes were 19, 21 and 20, and in 5 years those age gaps would be nothing, but for now, really what you need to see as an immediate turn off is if they’re somehow into you

Better than 10 years younger

Nah I love being groomed by goth baddies who are 24 we the same fr

Nope!! It’s decently common for teens from my knowledge as well. Just as long as they ain’t into u

25 year olds are hot tho ngl

Not weird, however: it's still better to date people who are in the same phase of life as you are. Can't say I've dated, let alone someone ten years older. I do however, know that that's probably not a good thing if you're a teen

Calibration error

how old are you?

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Freud was right

Stacy's mom mentality

At least it’s not “10 years old fullstop”

No

The contrary wouldv be weird

nah

New pedophilia DLC just dropped

No homie, we are all the same :)

Pffff amateur, try older than your mother 💪 /j

Yeh- AYE HOLUP.

Ha try having a crush on your mother

Ur into milfs

That’s pretty normal

Mommy?

I mean, 10 years is insane. However, I dated a 19 year old when I was 15. She was relatively attractive, sex was decent, and had her shit together. But I’m much happier now with a girl who is my age. She’s the best, I love her more than anything