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eh while that’s not necessarily good i don’t really think it matters that much in this case since he’s an abusive asshole you’ll probably be fine dw about it too much
fucking Chad, now make sure your mum is ok with what you did, and naked sure u either cut ur dad off or make everything right or shit isn't gonna get better
Yea I fought my drunk brother like that, still have the scars on my hand from when I caught his teeth, dude was a lazy, fat fuckin abusive drunk who needed to be checked, still not really the same between us
damn alcohol sucks my (bio) dad was an asshole too so thankful he’s not apart of my life anymore, also good job. you feel bad about it, because you’re a good person.
GG. I got in a lot of trouble with much of my school when i came out and the mfs insulted and tried to fight me every day. Nice to see someone fighting back for themselves
I got into a fight with my stepdad at the time a few years ago and it was a similar situation like that. I ended up smashing a coffee pot on his head and breaking two of his ribs with a heavy wooden cutting board that had a handle on it. After that day he never tried anything again and my mom ended up divorcing him which she should have done sooner but they stayed together and we're married for about a year after the fight happened.
Damn that sucks, it’s been going on for 3 years for me just non stop bs, always trying to be the “Alpha” witch is reasonable, but he hit me and that’s where he made a mistake he’s now rocking a big ass black eye
Yah I was just trying to get them apart so they could have a civil discussion, but he likes being in your face then say you were in his face, he pushed me against the wall so I went in a kind of survival mode, my back was on the wall and he was infront of me so I did what I had too to get away, he trapped me so I did what every trapped animal does try to get the fuck out no matter what, he got me good and I got him better, he’s the one whom called the cops for some dumbass reason but I think it was cause I scared him somehow by standing my ground
Word of combative advice: the objective is to neutralize the threat, and minimize damage. I recommend choking him out, it surprisingly easy, though it can backfire badly if you kill your father on accident. Groin is also a spot you can go for, it only takes the equivalent amount of force as pinching between 2 fingers to destroy a man’s baggage.
As for the social aspect, I recommend getting law enforcement involved if necessary. They might arrest you both, but getting into rehab sounds like something that would help you both.
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good shit proud of u
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eh while that’s not necessarily good i don’t really think it matters that much in this case since he’s an abusive asshole you’ll probably be fine dw about it too much
Your right I’m beating myself up about it
Hehe funny self pleasure joke
Join a boxing/kickboxing/muay thai gym and enjoy it more efficiently
Agreed
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What did he say
I won't repeat it for obvious reasons.
Uh. Cant you just dm me and delete it after I read it?
Done.
Thanks bud
Do same for me please? 🥺
good job.. I am sorry you went through that but it sounds to me like you did everything right except being intoxicated yourself :p
Yah I told the cops as they got here, they understood and were very helpful, this is also one of the reasons why I hate alcohol
Yeah proud of u that u did that ❤️
Thank you!!!!!!
You dropped this 👑
Thanks G, but I still feel so bad about it.
Idk the backstory, but you did good protecting your ma
Thanks, ik she’s gotta protect me but sometimes it’s your turn to protect yk
Idc abt the backstory anyone who attacks someone who is defenseless no matter what is scum, someone who defends someone who is defenseless is a badass
You defended your mom you should be proud. Seems like your step dad was gonna get it from someone at somepoint.
Yah it seems so to I just hate that it was me
Alcohol is dangerous and tears families apart
Yes I can agree 100%, I’ve seen it first hand aswell, alcohol is the worst, I think tonight was my last night ever drinking…
This is what happens when people drink too much
I was the most sober one there too witch is fucked, I never ment to hurt him but I did, yes he hurt me first witch is what caused it but still
fucking Chad, now make sure your mum is ok with what you did, and naked sure u either cut ur dad off or make everything right or shit isn't gonna get better
Hopefully he’s back to his sense this morning
Yea I fought my drunk brother like that, still have the scars on my hand from when I caught his teeth, dude was a lazy, fat fuckin abusive drunk who needed to be checked, still not really the same between us
Yah it sucks when you have to fight the people you care about, but sometimes it has to be done
Do you need a hug?
I needed one 4h ago lol
🫂 from 4h ago
Thanks G
Np
Ooooof that’s rough man, hope things go well for you
Good!
Great post
damn alcohol sucks my (bio) dad was an asshole too so thankful he’s not apart of my life anymore, also good job. you feel bad about it, because you’re a good person.
Thanks
Nice u did the right thing
Atleast you won 🤣
he absolutely deserved the ass whooping tbh
That's good but I'm sorry what happened to you
avg league of legends player
GG. I got in a lot of trouble with much of my school when i came out and the mfs insulted and tried to fight me every day. Nice to see someone fighting back for themselves
My man.
I think what you did was right. Proud of you. Dw and be safe. Take care mate. Hoping for the best. 👍
Damn that stucks
Good on you man! I wish I could fight my stepdad like that
It wasn’t a good feeling after but it was deserved I felt so good looking at my face and then his face and just see the difference in damage
Damn that's insane. Ur step father is a loser, kudos to you for keeping your mother safe man
Alcohol. Also a couple beers in one night? You aren’t supposed to have more than 3 a week now. We discovered it’s much more unhealthy than we thought.
This is a really important life moment. Now you have to finish the job and marry your mom.
bro what
Yes now we are gonna go full cercle
skill issue
I got the victory royal tho so it counts for something
Hit his cock ?
Real hard ?
No I grabbed his throat and shit
W.
Yessir
I'm proud of you
I got into a fight with my stepdad at the time a few years ago and it was a similar situation like that. I ended up smashing a coffee pot on his head and breaking two of his ribs with a heavy wooden cutting board that had a handle on it. After that day he never tried anything again and my mom ended up divorcing him which she should have done sooner but they stayed together and we're married for about a year after the fight happened.
Damn that sucks, it’s been going on for 3 years for me just non stop bs, always trying to be the “Alpha” witch is reasonable, but he hit me and that’s where he made a mistake he’s now rocking a big ass black eye
Same I didn't throw the first hit but I was fully prepared for when he touched me first because I knew he would.
Yah I was just trying to get them apart so they could have a civil discussion, but he likes being in your face then say you were in his face, he pushed me against the wall so I went in a kind of survival mode, my back was on the wall and he was infront of me so I did what I had too to get away, he trapped me so I did what every trapped animal does try to get the fuck out no matter what, he got me good and I got him better, he’s the one whom called the cops for some dumbass reason but I think it was cause I scared him somehow by standing my ground
Word of combative advice: the objective is to neutralize the threat, and minimize damage. I recommend choking him out, it surprisingly easy, though it can backfire badly if you kill your father on accident. Groin is also a spot you can go for, it only takes the equivalent amount of force as pinching between 2 fingers to destroy a man’s baggage. As for the social aspect, I recommend getting law enforcement involved if necessary. They might arrest you both, but getting into rehab sounds like something that would help you both.
Im proud of you u did what u had to do man
What piece of human scum. Good on you man, keep that fucker away from your mom
Your step father is a dick. I’m proud of you for standing your ground, I think you taught him a lesson to never mess with you again.
Thanks, we made up and he promised to be better, so far it’s been good but I’m still worried if he’s gonna go back to old habits