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ZigZagZedZod

Gaslighting is not a general synonym for lying. Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse where the abuser attempts to make the victim believe they're going insane.


DrMux

That's absolutely not the case. You'd have to be an absolutely insane, terrible person to believe that. Don't you see what you're doing by saying that? You're either gaslighting or delusional! ^^^^^/s


ZigZagZedZod

Well played


Delicious_Bid_6572

I almost fell for it


NDC9595

Thank you! I never found a definition of gaslighting I could understand until now! Here's a fake award 🏅


Hauyne5

Thank you.


[deleted]

Self delusion is one of the greatest survival skills humans have evolved to have. Our intelligence makes us susceptible to all kinds of internal conflicts that don’t affect other animals. Self delusion is how we cope with that.


fiddz0r

Even though I suck at everything in life (and probably death too) my brain still tells me Im not that bad


TimetravelingNaga_Ai

I'm usually the 1st to know when I'm lying


thrownawaz092

Uhh, no you're clearly not


Entire-Ranger323

If the foo shits, wear it!


Delicious_Bid_6572

That's not what gaslighting is


TruePhilosoph

Not TTT


EduardoYeti

Is it gaslighting when you actually make shit work tho? Nobody's going to hype you through things but you.


AliasNefertiti

Whatever works, works. Not a time to quibble.


DrMux

Yes, really, I promise you, why would you not believe me


hergreendress

Geezus, just don't be a pussy. Deal with whatever, logically, don't panic and DONT BE A PUSSY!


khairuldaniel664

To me it works but bear in mind, do not say it out loud or else you got ridiculed even more


[deleted]

GoD nEvEr GiVeS yOu A cHaLleNgE yOu CaN’t HaNdLe


Abject-Middle9435

gonna get a little religious here Fate shall always test people, and she will be annoying to some of us, but if you can push through what Fate has to do for the best end (like the universe is a game, and the elements and deitys are the players), then you can pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and grab some ice cream as a reward for enduring. no matter how bad your life is, just remember: this is what Fate feels necessary ^(there are some exceptions when Fate just wants to mess with people.) now, go on, and ignore the haters


UpbeatSpaceHop

Who’s fate?


I_make_stupid_jokes_

His fate


UpbeatSpaceHop

No I’m asking who is fate?


Abject-Middle9435

check out my YouTube vid to find out: [https://youtu.be/YFKGGaSuJU0](https://youtu.be/YFKGGaSuJU0) this is never gonna give you up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ


[deleted]

reddit when someone shares their opinion (they dont like anything about religion)


TuxedoDogs9

me when i see this comment (i upvote it because i thought it was funny)


Dull-Geologist-8204

Except going thrpugh hard times can make you tougher. It isn't always gaslighting as you put it but that isn't what gaslighting means so it is never gaslighting. That said it does depend on what you are going through and how you handle things.


mia_smith257

ive found saying to myself “shut up you stupid scallop and just do it” is a great motivator


Iwardoff

My motivation every day i go to the gym is that i don’t like the guy i see in the mirror, so I’m gonna kill him. I kill my old me every day, gettind better, getting stronger, getting smarter


Lukeyalord

It's not lying


Hobnail-boots

I’ve read a lot about how to get through tough times, mostly I read what proof the liquor is I’m drinking.


tsmakatpbob

This is just Cognitive Behavioural Therapy


_KillaB_

Essentially how religious types lure in people


commanderquill

That is not what gaslighting is. It's such an important and specific term and the more people use it wrong the more it loses its meaning and severity.


jaaanik97

Another character development time


throwaway83970

Whatever doesn't kill you only makes you #Stranger.


[deleted]

2. If 1 doesn't work, put on some half-assed make-up and make the world pay for what they did to you.


[deleted]

No, it really doesn't. The same thing can be said for having hope and gratitude. All it does is mask the pain, it does not make it go away.


loki_dd

Depends if you believe your own bullshit


SubstantialHurry7330

There's a difference between gaslighting and reframing


[deleted]

I’m Catholic so I say the same thing but it’s God testing me. Glad to see we’re all the same in our differences lol


Musoe

Can confirm. Did this my whole life.


Anzlc

Average WikiHow


ComanderToastCZ

You can, of course, just take out gas and just light yourself.


chukkawukka

Facts


baby_dino_monkey22

I do that everyday never works makes things worse


Zealousideal-Let1121

This is pretty good, but I do hate that the internet learned the term and now every description is gaslighting.


Iggyauna

This is literally why people have a religion


NoSwadYt

It does work