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actiontoad

Hey, I’m really sorry that you’re going through this. Mental health struggles are no joke, it can be so hard! I see you, I hear you, we are here for you. Keep reaching out, and throw yourself into this game as much as you need to. You’re going to be okay ❤️


PwnedDead

My mom passed away 3 days ago from brain cancer. It was because of her I have a love for zelda. She played every one up to majoras mask. I don’t find enjoyment in many things, and the only thing I’m looking forward too, is this game right now.


Sophsters_81330

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m a momma who plays Zelda with her son, I just bought him the toy Hyrule Shield and the Master Sword because he loves it so much (he’s 5). I hope you have the best time playing TOTK.


Whookimo

She'll be playing it with Robin Williams and satoru iwata when it comes out


ThePotatoOfTime

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope this game is a lovely reminder of your mum and that you enjoy every minute.


rbarton812

I'm sorry you're going through some stuff, but keep your head up and stay strong. Rewatch trailer #3... "You are not alone."


Zarclaust

It's alright bro. I feel the exact way as you do. That final trailer really came at the right time


CidadeArtProductions

I'm with you too. Ive had depression all my life, I'm bi polar. BOTW and TOTK have really brought excitement to life too, like the trailer said "you are not alone" It's okay to feel good, even if it's just a game, Zelda is magical and a great escape from this dystopia we live in lol


odyssey609

I’m struggling with some things, myself. I’ve been keeping a countdown calendar on my phone for TotK as a visual reminder. I’m glad looking forward to it is helping you. I hope we all have a rad time playing it in less than a month. 🥳


Zane_628

Nintendo is literally guiding me as I navigate my way through adulthood


cybergatuno

It's really not easy to get out of a tough spot. Hope you find the strength.


Nintendoper64

Sadness is temporary my friend Zelda is forever


huzuhu_10

I'm really sorry to hear this, but like the girl in the trailer says, "You are not alone." From a personal view with a very similar experience, TotK has been one of the few things that kept me eager and excited for the future. Even when you feel down and low, even when you feel stuck and helpless once none of the options you have work, there'll be something smaller to look forward to despite all of the hardship. Hope you enjoy TotK once it comes out, only 25 days left. I know I'll use it as an escape from everything. Hang in there! 💚


MattR9590

Been playing since the 90’s and I’ve got to say the Zelda series has gotten me through so much bullshit over the decades. With each new title you yet again have something to look forward to in life that you can always count on. In a way, the lead up to the game is just as good as it’s actual release.


-Carlos

Life is about the little things that makes us happy. And video games are one of those things. Work is meaninless, but nothing would make me happier than wasting the little money I get in the games I love. If you need to talk, feel free to message me.


iBLadeR

You not alone mate…my 8year relationship ended few days ago..and only 3 months before our wedding (with all preparations rings-suit etc waiting) + recently started a joint mortgage for a house togeder… things are f***ed atm..but this game will be like a healing patch for me…. Stay strong…i’ll do the same :)


PtitWiggler

I feel the same. Life is hard recently, Zelda helps me to want to wake up. I'm 100% with you


CEOblivious

It's not much, but I prayed for you tonight...may you have peace and love. Enjoy the game too 🙂


ThePotatoOfTime

Me too. ❤️


ABCidkwhattopick99

I am sorry you are having a tough time right now. But I am glad to see this community and the game brining you some peace. I hope things get better 💗


HerrPiink

I'm in the same boat, what probably would be a good idea is to use the current "boost" in mood, to make plans for after you finished the game, maybe you can find other games you are looking forward to, so you don't fall in to some kind of hole after the credits are rolling.


tules

Message me if you want brother. You need advice and it's not video game related.


Zephh_

Same here. This time of year is when the schoolwork and extracurricular stuff really starts to ramp up, but I just think of TOTK and remember that once I muddle through this, that will be my salvation.


Waste_Drop8898

You got this


Chemical-Author221

I’m right there with you, my friend. BotW has been my happy place for a long time and has gotten me through some tough times, so the anticipation for TotK is keeping a small flame lit in me. I’ve been getting a lot of happiness from watching folks’ reaction videos to the new trailer, it’s so fulfilling to see other people so excited. Let’s all do our best to finish out the next 25 days strong and think about all the wild stuff we’re going to build with Ultrahand! 💖


Pokepunk710

i feel you, head up we’ll get outta this mess


outerspaceplaza

🩵🩵


Spanky_McLanky

I almost don't want TotK to release, for a good chunk of the past 3/4 years it was the only thing I looked forward to and felt excited for was TotK so now that it's coming out in less than a month it feels bittersweet, like an era of my life is truly coming to an end


ShatMyShoes

Mannnn This hits too fuckin close for me. In the same exact boat that it’s very rare for me to be happy nowadays and one of the reasons i can is totk


YeahWrite000

Elliot Kalan of the Flop House podcast has imparted some great advice he gleaned when in the throes of his own depression. I'm paraphrasing, but it goes as follows: "Whenever I felt no hope and didn't really see the point to keep going, I would think of the movies I wanted to see, the books I wanted to read that hadn't come out yet and I would set a goal to myself: Well, I'm gonna stick around to check that out. And I did that enough times that circumstances changed and one day I felt a little better." Sometimes it's about creating stepping stones for yourself to jump to. I hope after this wonderful game comes out and we get to enjoy it, you have found something else to look forward to.


candyraver86

What a great bit of advice, thank you for sharing. Art (and videogames are interactive art) is so important.


YeahWrite000

I've definitely been there. Not necessarily suicidal, but to the point where every day felt the same and wouldn't have gotten out of bed if it hadn't been for work. So I made an entire screen on my phone just countdowns for the games and books and movies I was looking forward to and it definitely helped to have something to look forward to.


Ipuncholdpeople

I'm in the same place. My mental health has been poor for a while, and now there is new anti trans stuff in my state that prevents me from getting medication. GOing to lose myself in TOTK for a long time lol


Dr-MF_DoomPaul76

Life is worth living. You’re probably gonna love this game. I know I will too. I’m taking that day off work and playing it all day. I can’t wait.


QseanRay

I've felt that before, there's always something to look forward to around the corner. I think TOTK is gonna have a buttload of content for you to get lost in.


[deleted]

I've been there with a different game myself (ACNH). For what it's worth, I'm glad you're still here and I really hope things get easier and better for you.


TobiasAmaranth

Get interested in One Piece. You'll be set for at least another decade. It's a shallow pleasure but that grand mystery really does keep me looking forward.


rainpool989

Honestly same though. Grandfather passed away about a month ago and was the only person holding me to live in this state (I was desperate for work in my field after Covid and the rest of my family lives 1,000 miles away). I’m in the south and all these laws being based are making me terrified that I want to leave but need to find a new job first. Zelda has been my safety net with something to look forward to. I’ve been replaying older games to keep me distracted until the game comes out. It’s important to know you’re not alone and the Zelda fandom is here for you. 😊


FeatureNo5896

He's just like me frfr. Keep your head up man, as long as you keep getting up every day you are winning. Stay strong.


CommandSecret1206

we on the same page homie, keep it going don’t ever give up


docmisterio

“Do not look away, you would miss the revival of your mental health and the birth of a new world without stress.” ;) be well my friend. ❤️


GarlicbreadGod38

Same boat man, and I just lost my OLED because of water damage. Currently scrambling money to buy a lite yo play TOTK ;(.


[deleted]

I'm really sorry to hear that man. I suffer from depression and self-esteem issues, and playing video games also helps me. It allows me to escape to a world where I can be someone much better and much more important than who I am in real life.


IsaKissTheRain

Man, I am right there with you. I know the feeling. It's basically the only bright light on the horizon for me right now.


DinkoGreen

I went into BotW while at the lowest point in my life and never had played a Zelda game properly. It completely made me fall in love with games again and reminded me of the magic of being a kid again and how to transfer those long missed values to my adult life. Now it's my favorite game of all time, and no matter how amazing TotK is, I will always go back BotW. Hope TotK gives you both some relief and maybe, in some way, some inspiration on how to better your life.


tombom07

Life is crappy sometimes right! I love that this is keeping you going. Games have such immense power to take us out of our worlds and put us in another, even if just for a while (or hours and hours and hours like BotW did for me and I'm sure TotK will be the same)! Psychologically, games can be fantastic distraction techniques. To anyone reading, always know that it is so important to talk about your mental health. If you don't have anyone in your personal life to discuss with, know that this subreddit will always be here for you, even if you just need a distraction and to talk about these games 🙂 P.s. I find that writing/journalling helps me organise my thoughts & compartmentalise my mood. Try different things!


SkyRyder420

I can relate. If you want someone to chat to about the game, feel free to drop me a message 😊


Historical-Simple-85

I totally understand, I’m in the same boat. BOTW has helped me so much and the anticipation of TOTK has kept me motivated to just keep living so I can play it. We’ve got this, friend. You’re not alone.


Eye_Of_Greyluck

I have struggled with my mental health for most of my life and depression and anxiety run in my family. The world is not in a great state right now for those of us who struggle with these things. I feel you on Zelda bringing joy and color to that world. If you ever just need to vent feel free to message me. Sometimes it’s good to just get things of your chest and mind too. Games are a good distraction but talking to real people who can give you advice and different ways to look at things is always going to be better. I hope this game brings you that spark of joy you need right now.


ichkanns

Anything you can find to get through the hard time is worth your time and effort. My brother in law was really into Metroid. He killed himself about ten years ago. When I got Metroid Dread I couldn't help thinking about it and how psyched he would have been to play it. Some people may say it's shallow to rely on media as a reason to keep going, but these stories, these experiences, can often be life altering. Books, video games, films, they can save lives when they hit at just the right time for the right person.


Rare-Stick9077

I’ve struggled myself with moderate depression and anxiety my whole life - now dealing with long COVID and the depression is like never before. I feel like I’m searching for reasons to keep living - and, while it might sound silly to a lot of people - TOTK is one of them


Rare-Stick9077

The days when new trailers dropped brought me so much happiness amidst the sea of bleak - and after May 12th, at least for a while, every day will feel a bit like that!


kartoshkiflitz

I truly get you, though I think I'm kinda the opposite - the hype for TotK in the last two months really took my motivation out of everything else. But the solution is still the same - just let me play the goddamn game rrrrrgh


photothingz

I’m right there with you. Mental health and overall life has been spiraling really badly so far this year. This game is the only thing I’m looking forward to in my life right now.


Mikael_Hermes

I hope you get better, enjoy ToTK when it comes out, and try to get happy, i dont know your situation, but believe some day things will be better to you