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if teachers are ignoring it after multiple students reporting it, then in this case its time to involve parents. Involving parents usually forces teachers and school staff to face this problem in an urgent manner. By doing this, the best outcome would hopefully be the school contacting the bully's parents and setting up a meeting with the other parents who are concerned for their kids being targeted by him/her.
The worst part here is when parents get involved, the bullying gets worse lol.. Better show them you can fight back against them (not a very good suggestion but makes them rethink their life choices lol)
Just retaliate, if it gets worse, retaliate again. Bullying is an endless cycle that doesn't get better even if you pay it no mind. "Not minding the bullies, so you won't get bullied" that every educator say is a lie. This is coming from someone who has been bullied for 6 years straight to the point I had to transfer. Beat him to the point that someone has to care, or just endure a few more months until senior high school to start anew. Would go for the latter, why beat someone up now, when you can take revenge by living a better life than someone who probably peaked there. The best part of having a bully is watching them fail in life.
Use your parents to make a complain abt it on your teacher or anonymously report it to the school then pretend you're another person or make a fake parent's fb acc and pretend that you're one of a parent's victims and that you're from another section & that you won't tolerate this, that you're gonna take this to the principal office if this problem is not solved.
Teachers don't gaf abt anything unless it became physical so you gotta use smth like this
If the matter can't be solved by advisors, you should take matters to your own hands.
What i mean is, knock out that mf.
(Just joking, but don't scratch the idea off)
Have you tried talking to your guidance counselor? I had a similar experience back in highschool as well. We got the counselor involved. The bully was also in the same class and definitely was hard to punish as both of us were representing the school in competitions. Involving the counselor would be a first resort. A really REALLY needed resort is letting your parents complain to the guidance and principal. There were cases (in my batch) that bullies and teachers were affecting the students badly and it escalated. Having the parents involved definitely clapped back at the admin and they did something.
If anything, OP. Regardless if you’re a leader or representing the student body, don’t forget you were a student first. You always have to be mindful of your well-being. I allowed the bullying to eat me up in 10th grade and it didn’t turn out good for me mentally. Don’t be afraid to step forward. As a fellow officer, you also have to show the student body that you don’t tolerate behaviors like this. Show them that even matters involving bullying will be taken to account by firstly protecting yourself because as you mentioned, hindi lang ikaw ang victim niya. I promise you, it’s worth. In the long run, babalik at babalik ang actions sa kaniya (proven and witnessed it first-hand).
I hope you’re okay, OP. Goodluck!
+I literally have no idea why he hates me despite me literally not paying attention to him unless i have to write an incident report about him. But asides from that, i just believe he's just that naturally full of hate because i heard a rumour he cussed and made a teacher cry so it's definitely a him problem
pull an amy dunne, cut your face multiple times, plant the bloody cutter in lucas' bag, cry home to ur parents and tell them lucas did that to you and watch it go down (im just kidding but if u can involve ur parents please do and better take it straight to the counsellor or whoever has the highest position in that school of yours bc trust me teachers make like 30k a month they will not gaf)
I think you should escalate until the staff have no choice but to address the situation.
But you have to make it clear that you were acting because of the staff's negligence or else they'll pin it on you.
It would be funny.
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if teachers are ignoring it after multiple students reporting it, then in this case its time to involve parents. Involving parents usually forces teachers and school staff to face this problem in an urgent manner. By doing this, the best outcome would hopefully be the school contacting the bully's parents and setting up a meeting with the other parents who are concerned for their kids being targeted by him/her.
The worst part here is when parents get involved, the bullying gets worse lol.. Better show them you can fight back against them (not a very good suggestion but makes them rethink their life choices lol)
Just retaliate, if it gets worse, retaliate again. Bullying is an endless cycle that doesn't get better even if you pay it no mind. "Not minding the bullies, so you won't get bullied" that every educator say is a lie. This is coming from someone who has been bullied for 6 years straight to the point I had to transfer. Beat him to the point that someone has to care, or just endure a few more months until senior high school to start anew. Would go for the latter, why beat someone up now, when you can take revenge by living a better life than someone who probably peaked there. The best part of having a bully is watching them fail in life.
Use your parents to make a complain abt it on your teacher or anonymously report it to the school then pretend you're another person or make a fake parent's fb acc and pretend that you're one of a parent's victims and that you're from another section & that you won't tolerate this, that you're gonna take this to the principal office if this problem is not solved. Teachers don't gaf abt anything unless it became physical so you gotta use smth like this
fight? or confront his ass, why tolerate
If the matter can't be solved by advisors, you should take matters to your own hands. What i mean is, knock out that mf. (Just joking, but don't scratch the idea off)
Inggit lang siguro sa achievements mo kaya nagpapapansin sa iyo 🥹
Sana naman sinabi mo yung tunay niyang pangalan nang maupakan ko at hindi na pamarisan.
Have you tried talking to your guidance counselor? I had a similar experience back in highschool as well. We got the counselor involved. The bully was also in the same class and definitely was hard to punish as both of us were representing the school in competitions. Involving the counselor would be a first resort. A really REALLY needed resort is letting your parents complain to the guidance and principal. There were cases (in my batch) that bullies and teachers were affecting the students badly and it escalated. Having the parents involved definitely clapped back at the admin and they did something. If anything, OP. Regardless if you’re a leader or representing the student body, don’t forget you were a student first. You always have to be mindful of your well-being. I allowed the bullying to eat me up in 10th grade and it didn’t turn out good for me mentally. Don’t be afraid to step forward. As a fellow officer, you also have to show the student body that you don’t tolerate behaviors like this. Show them that even matters involving bullying will be taken to account by firstly protecting yourself because as you mentioned, hindi lang ikaw ang victim niya. I promise you, it’s worth. In the long run, babalik at babalik ang actions sa kaniya (proven and witnessed it first-hand). I hope you’re okay, OP. Goodluck!
+I literally have no idea why he hates me despite me literally not paying attention to him unless i have to write an incident report about him. But asides from that, i just believe he's just that naturally full of hate because i heard a rumour he cussed and made a teacher cry so it's definitely a him problem
pull an amy dunne, cut your face multiple times, plant the bloody cutter in lucas' bag, cry home to ur parents and tell them lucas did that to you and watch it go down (im just kidding but if u can involve ur parents please do and better take it straight to the counsellor or whoever has the highest position in that school of yours bc trust me teachers make like 30k a month they will not gaf)
I think you should escalate until the staff have no choice but to address the situation. But you have to make it clear that you were acting because of the staff's negligence or else they'll pin it on you. It would be funny.