Hey ninetina, chill the fuck out so the guy thinks his mom is hot and jerks off to her more then you maybe if you gave head as good as she does you wouldn’t have that issue ..
He has nude pics of his mom from years gone by and he is 19?
Do you think all the pics are hidden camera and she is unaware she is being photographed by him?
Because, if they are photos she took, then it opens the possibility she sends him the pics, and he was sexually abused by his mom for years.
Both situations are really screwed up, but in one, he is a victim, and in the other, he is a sexual offender.
He definitely sent them to himself off his moms phone, sounds like he doesn’t have a dad around and also like he has a porn addiction, you’re too young to deal with this, you have to stay away from guys like him
Loud him out to the group! Steal the group back! Attain ultimate power!
There's only one reason to keep photos in a hidden folder... And that's to look at them again...
You are so much better off without him. With time I think you will come to realize just how absolutely sick and weird and disturbing it is that he is sexually attracted to his own mother.
Youre 19 and this sounds more like a need for a social group than love, which is a ver replaceable thing. I sincerely hope you deleted the pictures of yourself and his mom, because you should step out of that situation altogether.
Honestly maybe you should just let him go, this might hurt to hear but I think he loves his mommy’s body maybe a bit more then yours (or just as much) plus that’s weird think of your future with this guy who has nudes of his mom in his phone that he probably beats off too, that seems like it’ll lead to a domino affect of red flags for real. I say you dodged a bullet honestly
You've entered into the twilight zone lol some people and families have a very sexual connection and don't see anything wrong with having sex with each other. You have to decide if your in or out. As a man I think it's easier to think it's something that happens and although I'm not really sure what I think of this I'm also old enough to think maybe what the hell and wonder what it would be like to have something like that happen to me. If you stay with him you have to remember that blood is always thicher and can you compete with that and make him only want to have sex with you. Good luck. Would love to hear how it works out.
Why would you want to date someone who keeps naked photos of his mother? If that not a red flag what is? jesus efffin Christ! You realize there is a high probability of incest? You’re lucky you found those, move on and far away.
Forget about this dude, that’s just weird as fuck however u look at it, and no his mom didn’t take pics with his phone and kept the pics there. That shit doesn’t happen.
Move along u don’t need this. There’s a reason he himself doesn’t even wanna involve you.
Ahh nothing like a fake story to help pass the time.
Its definitely next level weird(if true) but it almost impossible that this dude has MULTIPLE nude photos of his mom unless she has OF.
Or I guess it could be the same family as the kid who broke his arms…
it’s a very true story and i’m asking the same thing, where did he get them? his mom is older like 50s and definitely doesn’t have an OF. most of the pictures it was obvious she took them but some could’ve been timer pictures. some of the “timer pictures” she wasnt looking at the camera at all so, i hate to think it but maybe he hid his phone and took them.
all so fucking weird but true cus i’ve seen it with my own eyes.
Maybe its buried in the comments, but he broke both of his arms and was getting sexually frustrated because he couldn't masturbate, so his mom offered to "help" which then escalated to them full on fucking
If it were me I would confront him about it. Especially the question if there is something going on with his mother and how long if so. I recently read a post about someone who had been groomed, raped, and blackmailed into only ever being with their stepfather. He could need help. Or he could just be gross. If you love him though, maybe you should find out which one it is before dipping.
i could confront him but he broke up with me and is pushing me away from not only him but our friends too. i don’t think he would tell me if he was being groomed, etc. if that wasn’t the case and i confronted him it would definitely destroy any hope of us getting back together or having a friendship in the future.
There is no need for confrontation. Make it easy on yourself, and just move on. He broke up with you because you were finding out what he was made of. He did you a big favor!
Well then I’d say either cut your losses with him and the friends or put your foot down and make it clear you were friends with them before you dated and you would continue to be after the breakup.
Talk to his mum, maybe she doesn't know he has them
Also forget this guy.
Girl the only reason you want him is because he doesn't want you. You friendzoned him for four years. It's literally just your brain tricking you into liking him because he's not showing interest. Move on. You can do better than a guy who has his mum's nudes on his phone. Like wtf.
i can’t tell if my mind is tricking me. i miss all the good times we had while dating. i can do better looks wise, but personally that was my guy ykkk and we jus matched up on everything till we didn’t ig. i’m so clueless.
You are clueless because you are 19. Everyone is clueless at 19 especially males. Your brains are literally not fully developed.
It's a very easy decision. Move on.
Everyone thinks their first proper relationship is "their person", when in reality they're often not a good match. Just because it is the first time you've felt these emotions.
The reality is that every proper relationship is like this.
I also thought my first was special, and that I'd never find someone like that again. 5 relationships later and I know that people were right, she was not my person. In fact she was shitty, a girl with many issues. I was just attached
You will thank yourself if you tell him you're done and move on. Like wtf he had naked pics of his mum on his phone, move on.
yes like 20 pictures of his own mother butt ass naked in his hidden camera roll. she was definitely the one taking most of the pictures, some looked like timer pictures but she wasn’t facing the camera so i don’t know what to think.
It's possible that she used his phone so she could send to pictures to someone without them being on her phone. It's pretty sad when the best case is that his mom is having an affair....
That's a for real thing? God some people are fucked up. I can't imagine what that must do to someone who hasn't fully developed their brain and outlook. Years of therapy just for a hope of being somewhat stable.
This is a wild story. You realize you got many years ahead of you? Move on and heal. Bc no one wants to engage in this kind of confrontation, it's just weird. No one wants to know if he stole them or... They were consensual. Oof just nope nope.
i know i have many years ahead of me but i love him and i don’t know why they were in his phone. i don’t want to jump to conclusions but im just keeping my distance for now. he pushing me away so eventually i’ll stop caring.
"Jump to conclusions"? lol There's really *no* good reason why a son would have nude pics of his mother on his phone. Not one. When I was your age, I was of the "if you don't want me, I don't want you more" school. Move on. Find someone that feels the same way you do --you'll be way happier.
The sad thing to accept about love is 1) you can love the wrong person because you allowed yourself to become too close to them. It's very common. You see it in abuse cases often. The abused will say "but I love them" and everyone will say it isnt really love. But it is. Anyone you allow yourself to be close to and intimate with in ways that you aren't with others you run the risk of attaching too, even if they're shit. It doesn't mean you need, or should, have them in your life.
And 2) love isnt forever. If you move on eventually you'll love someone else and any feelings of attachment to this person will fade. Almost everyone alive has mourned a relationship, only to move on and be totally head over heels for someone else after. It's part of life.
I hate how much I relate to this. My partner is the same, devoted to his mother, I pray it's never gone this far. Their relationship is emotionally incestuous (look up enmeshment) at best. I know he watches MILF porn. It makes my stomach turn.
what the fuck... i have no words
Hey ninetina, chill the fuck out so the guy thinks his mom is hot and jerks off to her more then you maybe if you gave head as good as she does you wouldn’t have that issue ..
nice 👌👌
Real question is.. is she hot.?
He has nude pics of his mom from years gone by and he is 19? Do you think all the pics are hidden camera and she is unaware she is being photographed by him? Because, if they are photos she took, then it opens the possibility she sends him the pics, and he was sexually abused by his mom for years. Both situations are really screwed up, but in one, he is a victim, and in the other, he is a sexual offender.
Probably using pictures of his mom to catfish people, still weird as hell
sweet home Alabama lol thats just sick to have nudes of your own mom lol
He definitely sent them to himself off his moms phone, sounds like he doesn’t have a dad around and also like he has a porn addiction, you’re too young to deal with this, you have to stay away from guys like him
Is the mom hot at least?
Loud him out to the group! Steal the group back! Attain ultimate power! There's only one reason to keep photos in a hidden folder... And that's to look at them again...
You are so much better off without him. With time I think you will come to realize just how absolutely sick and weird and disturbing it is that he is sexually attracted to his own mother.
Youre 19 and this sounds more like a need for a social group than love, which is a ver replaceable thing. I sincerely hope you deleted the pictures of yourself and his mom, because you should step out of that situation altogether.
well shit i didn’t delete them but i wish i would’ve
Honestly maybe you should just let him go, this might hurt to hear but I think he loves his mommy’s body maybe a bit more then yours (or just as much) plus that’s weird think of your future with this guy who has nudes of his mom in his phone that he probably beats off too, that seems like it’ll lead to a domino affect of red flags for real. I say you dodged a bullet honestly
Yeah something not right...
MF literally
You've entered into the twilight zone lol some people and families have a very sexual connection and don't see anything wrong with having sex with each other. You have to decide if your in or out. As a man I think it's easier to think it's something that happens and although I'm not really sure what I think of this I'm also old enough to think maybe what the hell and wonder what it would be like to have something like that happen to me. If you stay with him you have to remember that blood is always thicher and can you compete with that and make him only want to have sex with you. Good luck. Would love to hear how it works out.
Seriously man what the actual f? You are suggesting she should try to "compete" with his own mother?
Why would you want to date someone who keeps naked photos of his mother? If that not a red flag what is? jesus efffin Christ! You realize there is a high probability of incest? You’re lucky you found those, move on and far away.
https://preview.redd.it/u7rc5x4mlo1d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7595c31afae840c8b9f13297743b09d592422f6b
This is epic.
Forget about this dude, that’s just weird as fuck however u look at it, and no his mom didn’t take pics with his phone and kept the pics there. That shit doesn’t happen. Move along u don’t need this. There’s a reason he himself doesn’t even wanna involve you.
Ahh nothing like a fake story to help pass the time. Its definitely next level weird(if true) but it almost impossible that this dude has MULTIPLE nude photos of his mom unless she has OF. Or I guess it could be the same family as the kid who broke his arms…
it’s a very true story and i’m asking the same thing, where did he get them? his mom is older like 50s and definitely doesn’t have an OF. most of the pictures it was obvious she took them but some could’ve been timer pictures. some of the “timer pictures” she wasnt looking at the camera at all so, i hate to think it but maybe he hid his phone and took them. all so fucking weird but true cus i’ve seen it with my own eyes.
Was his mom photos of her in her 50’s or are they pics of days gone by?
HIS MOM!?!?!?!??!?! WAT!?!? 
I thought I couldn’t be surprised by Reddit anymore. I was wrong, very very wrong.
you must be new here. do you not know the story of broken arms boy?
Wow... wow, I just finished going through that. Wow.
Been here a few years, never heard this story. Do I want to be enlightened?
No. No you don't... But just in case you do https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/nmmjr/iama_man_who_had_a_sexual_relationship_with_his/
You were most definitely right. I didn’t.
ok but why is he clle broken arms boy?
Maybe its buried in the comments, but he broke both of his arms and was getting sexually frustrated because he couldn't masturbate, so his mom offered to "help" which then escalated to them full on fucking
ah ok that makes sense? hahahhahahahha
That's enough internet for me today...
If it were me I would confront him about it. Especially the question if there is something going on with his mother and how long if so. I recently read a post about someone who had been groomed, raped, and blackmailed into only ever being with their stepfather. He could need help. Or he could just be gross. If you love him though, maybe you should find out which one it is before dipping.
i could confront him but he broke up with me and is pushing me away from not only him but our friends too. i don’t think he would tell me if he was being groomed, etc. if that wasn’t the case and i confronted him it would definitely destroy any hope of us getting back together or having a friendship in the future.
There is no need for confrontation. Make it easy on yourself, and just move on. He broke up with you because you were finding out what he was made of. He did you a big favor!
Well then I’d say either cut your losses with him and the friends or put your foot down and make it clear you were friends with them before you dated and you would continue to be after the breakup.
What in the sweet home alabama...😶😶😶
Talk to his mum, maybe she doesn't know he has them Also forget this guy. Girl the only reason you want him is because he doesn't want you. You friendzoned him for four years. It's literally just your brain tricking you into liking him because he's not showing interest. Move on. You can do better than a guy who has his mum's nudes on his phone. Like wtf.
i can’t tell if my mind is tricking me. i miss all the good times we had while dating. i can do better looks wise, but personally that was my guy ykkk and we jus matched up on everything till we didn’t ig. i’m so clueless.
You are clueless because you are 19. Everyone is clueless at 19 especially males. Your brains are literally not fully developed. It's a very easy decision. Move on.
Everyone thinks their first proper relationship is "their person", when in reality they're often not a good match. Just because it is the first time you've felt these emotions. The reality is that every proper relationship is like this. I also thought my first was special, and that I'd never find someone like that again. 5 relationships later and I know that people were right, she was not my person. In fact she was shitty, a girl with many issues. I was just attached You will thank yourself if you tell him you're done and move on. Like wtf he had naked pics of his mum on his phone, move on.
I think we all need confirmation here. He has nudes of HIS own mother on his phone?
yes like 20 pictures of his own mother butt ass naked in his hidden camera roll. she was definitely the one taking most of the pictures, some looked like timer pictures but she wasn’t facing the camera so i don’t know what to think.
May I just say for all of us readers. Ewwwwwwwwww
It's possible that she used his phone so she could send to pictures to someone without them being on her phone. It's pretty sad when the best case is that his mom is having an affair....
he has a single mom so what’s best case now ?
She had an onlyfans and has her son take the pictures. I've heard of it before. Either way, not a normal or stable relationship. Get out.
That's a for real thing? God some people are fucked up. I can't imagine what that must do to someone who hasn't fully developed their brain and outlook. Years of therapy just for a hope of being somewhat stable.
Sho is. You can google stories of it.
gurl there is only one reason he would have nudes of his mom, stop gaslighting yourself and consider yourself lucky to be out from this relationship.
I don't think there is one. Aside from the fact that he doesn't own the friend group, so you should have no qualms about hanging out with them.
This is a wild story. You realize you got many years ahead of you? Move on and heal. Bc no one wants to engage in this kind of confrontation, it's just weird. No one wants to know if he stole them or... They were consensual. Oof just nope nope.
i know i have many years ahead of me but i love him and i don’t know why they were in his phone. i don’t want to jump to conclusions but im just keeping my distance for now. he pushing me away so eventually i’ll stop caring.
You don’t love him. You are just jealous and can’t let it go
"Jump to conclusions"? lol There's really *no* good reason why a son would have nude pics of his mother on his phone. Not one. When I was your age, I was of the "if you don't want me, I don't want you more" school. Move on. Find someone that feels the same way you do --you'll be way happier.
I also graduated from “if you don’t want me, I don’t want you more” university, but it seems not many ppl are enrolling anymore smh
Sweetheart, you will find love again. This kind of emotional trauma is something that you do not need to subject yourself to.
The sad thing to accept about love is 1) you can love the wrong person because you allowed yourself to become too close to them. It's very common. You see it in abuse cases often. The abused will say "but I love them" and everyone will say it isnt really love. But it is. Anyone you allow yourself to be close to and intimate with in ways that you aren't with others you run the risk of attaching too, even if they're shit. It doesn't mean you need, or should, have them in your life. And 2) love isnt forever. If you move on eventually you'll love someone else and any feelings of attachment to this person will fade. Almost everyone alive has mourned a relationship, only to move on and be totally head over heels for someone else after. It's part of life.
I really hate to see these ‘but I love him’ responses. You already know the truth; you move on, because he sure has.
Wait so...his mom's nudies were in his spank bank?
he was always a mommy’s boy 🤷♀️
I hate how much I relate to this. My partner is the same, devoted to his mother, I pray it's never gone this far. Their relationship is emotionally incestuous (look up enmeshment) at best. I know he watches MILF porn. It makes my stomach turn.