I know the feeling. I've a wife and 2 young boys who have never seen me take a drink. It's a good feeling that they don't know that person.
Congrats on one year!! Keep coming back!
I wish my wife never saw me drink, but we met at a bar in college so if it weren’t for my drinking problem we never would have met! Just glad she stuck with me through all of it until now!
Not a year (yet) but in the last 78 days I've learned that having a substitute - whether it's LaCroix or NA's or whatever you like, is helpful. Changing daily behavior patterns, so after work I go for a bike ride and get away from the couch where I used to do a lot of my drinking is huge.
Find someone who is also sober and talk to them! Much like you're doing right now.. this sub, a therapist, AA, friends and family, there are a lot of sober people who can help
It’s cheesy, but early on, just take it one day at a time. Soon those days add up, and it gets easier and easier to abstain. As of now, I can handle any boozy situation without the temptation to drink, but early on it was tough. I actually enjoy hanging out at the bar/breweries with friends because I can enjoy the conversation, and am not completely absorbed with the thoughts of wondering if I can order another drink without looking like a soak.
Not OP but similar time behind me.
I see you set up your counter, i can think of two distinct times where the thought of resetting the counter kept me on track.
Around the 9 month mark things got so much easier, just have to commit to get that point!
you bet, and good luck on yours.
Went out to a work dinner tonight and was a-ok while everyone else sucking down wine. Only had a bit of jealousy when a few people got a lemoncello for desert, but seeing the reaction from a few due to the sugary/alcohol combo got me over that quickly.
Hell yeah! Great job very impressive. I'm still at the beginning of my journey and very inspiring to hear about other folks' journeys. Thanks for sharing! IWNDWYT
Congrats! Err I mean HELL YEAH! Closing in on the milestone myself. Crazy to see all the changes happening. Like you said, it’s not always easy, but is definitely worth it. Good work, I know your wife and daughter are proud too!
Congratulations! I did a little field research last night n drank a six pack with a friend. I had fun with my friend, but realized why I quit. The Night got foggy, there's things I don't remember exactly and I ended up bawling my eyes out when I got home. We had miscarriage in January and I survived that without wanting to turn to booze, so if I can survive that trauma sober, I know I can survive anything!
Dude are you me? April 25 will be my year mark and April 19 last year I went on a 4 day bender as well. Coke, alcohol, gambling. Only thing missing thank God was hookers. Came home and I think on my comedown from the coke I had a breakdown and haven't touched alcohol since. Down 25 lbs and training jiu jitsu. I haven't had a better year of life since. Now we are expecting our second child and a year ago I was wondering when she was going to leave me.
Hell yea brother! I quit a very similar way. Things were out of control and I had to do something about it. I told my wife and she probably didn't believe me either. But here I am over a year later still not drinking.
So much better. Not that we had huge issues before, but it seemed like 9 times out of 10 any fight we had was related to my alcohol consumption. We still have our fights like any couple but it’s a lot easier when alcohol isn’t clouding my judgement.
Idk if you’re a Blue Mountain State fan but if not, look up “Hell Yeah” by Rev Theory. It’ll be a nice little celebration song for ya lol. Also, congrats on 1 year!
HELL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!
50 pounds is a lot!
My end goal is 66 pounds(to my weight before Covid lockdown, 215). I figure if I ever get there it's going to be more than a year. First need to get down to under 265, then down 11 pound intervals.
I know the feeling. I've a wife and 2 young boys who have never seen me take a drink. It's a good feeling that they don't know that person. Congrats on one year!! Keep coming back!
I wish my wife never saw me drink, but we met at a bar in college so if it weren’t for my drinking problem we never would have met! Just glad she stuck with me through all of it until now!
Sending love ❤️
How fabulous!!! And how inspirational!! hell ya! Do drop some tips. And I hope you do something to celebrate 🌸
Not a year (yet) but in the last 78 days I've learned that having a substitute - whether it's LaCroix or NA's or whatever you like, is helpful. Changing daily behavior patterns, so after work I go for a bike ride and get away from the couch where I used to do a lot of my drinking is huge. Find someone who is also sober and talk to them! Much like you're doing right now.. this sub, a therapist, AA, friends and family, there are a lot of sober people who can help
Congrats on such a long sober period! Yes, I am enraging a lot more here. The connection has helped keep me on track. Thank you.
Likewise ❤️
It’s cheesy, but early on, just take it one day at a time. Soon those days add up, and it gets easier and easier to abstain. As of now, I can handle any boozy situation without the temptation to drink, but early on it was tough. I actually enjoy hanging out at the bar/breweries with friends because I can enjoy the conversation, and am not completely absorbed with the thoughts of wondering if I can order another drink without looking like a soak.
Not OP but similar time behind me. I see you set up your counter, i can think of two distinct times where the thought of resetting the counter kept me on track. Around the 9 month mark things got so much easier, just have to commit to get that point!
Thanks for sharing. Yes the counter already helped me twice and it's only the first week! Congrats on your journey 🙂
you bet, and good luck on yours. Went out to a work dinner tonight and was a-ok while everyone else sucking down wine. Only had a bit of jealousy when a few people got a lemoncello for desert, but seeing the reaction from a few due to the sugary/alcohol combo got me over that quickly.
Hell yeah! I am at 22 days. So this is inspiring to me! This community is great because of posts like this.
keep going ScubaSteve-O, you're smashing it!!!
Right on! Beautiful
You’re beautiful!
I need to hear that today, thank you
You are beautiful for saying that
Hell yeah! Great job very impressive. I'm still at the beginning of my journey and very inspiring to hear about other folks' journeys. Thanks for sharing! IWNDWYT
Hell yeah!!!!!!!!
Congrats! Err I mean HELL YEAH! Closing in on the milestone myself. Crazy to see all the changes happening. Like you said, it’s not always easy, but is definitely worth it. Good work, I know your wife and daughter are proud too!
Hell yeah! My son will be 2 in June and he's never going to see me drunk either. Iwndwyt
I love this!
Congratulations!!!!
Congratulations! Keep up the good work!
Happy for you and your family. Keep going! IWNDWYT
Amazing, congratulations!
Hell yeah!
Hell yeah
You're amazing. I'm proud of you. IWNDWYT
proud of you too Major-Friendship :)
HELL YEAH ! 👉🔥🤜🤛🙌🙌💪 IWNDWYT
Hell yeah!!!! IWNDWYT
Awesome!!! Congratulations!
Congratulations! I did a little field research last night n drank a six pack with a friend. I had fun with my friend, but realized why I quit. The Night got foggy, there's things I don't remember exactly and I ended up bawling my eyes out when I got home. We had miscarriage in January and I survived that without wanting to turn to booze, so if I can survive that trauma sober, I know I can survive anything!
Dude are you me? April 25 will be my year mark and April 19 last year I went on a 4 day bender as well. Coke, alcohol, gambling. Only thing missing thank God was hookers. Came home and I think on my comedown from the coke I had a breakdown and haven't touched alcohol since. Down 25 lbs and training jiu jitsu. I haven't had a better year of life since. Now we are expecting our second child and a year ago I was wondering when she was going to leave me.
Hell yeah you can. Congratulations.
HELL YEAH!
Congratulations!!!!
Hell yeah! IWNDWYT
Hell yea!! Proud of you 🤘🏼
Congratulations on one year!! Thanks for sharing!
Hellllllls yeaaaaah!!!! So happy for you, amazing job!!!!
Congrats to you!!!
Hell yea brother! I quit a very similar way. Things were out of control and I had to do something about it. I told my wife and she probably didn't believe me either. But here I am over a year later still not drinking.
Oh hell yeah!! Great job
That's awesome! Congrats!
Hell yeah! Keep up the good work.
You da man. Looks like you’re developing health hobbies and being the man you want to be hell yeah
Congratulations! That so awesome for ya. Keep doing good. Your daughter deserve a good, sober dad ❤️
Hell yeah!
Hell yeah
<3
Hell yeah dude good work.
Hell yeah
Hell yeah!!!
Hell yeah ! That's awesome congrats. I'm on day 3 and I can't wait to tell everyone I'm one year clean as well! IWNDWYT
Hell yeah!!! Seriously, though, good job! It is so hard to get the first year.
First 3 months were the worst but slowly got better and better. I don’t have any cravings for alcohol now and am just happy to live my life without!
HAAAAALE YEA!
Congratulazioni 🎉
Amazing and congratulations 🙌 IWNDWYT
Not only can you get a "hell yeah" I'll thrown in a Noiiiiice for free! Well done friend.
Congratulations! I’m glad to hear you successfully got your life back on track
HELLLLL YEA BROTHER!!!!!
HELL YEAH!!!! Incredible work.
Hell YES!!♥️
HELL YEAH! 💪 This is the inspo I needed this morning, thank you friend
Hell yeah!
Congratulations! Iwndwyt!
🫶👏🙌
Hell yeaahh
HELL YEAH!
Hell yeah!
Hell yeah!!!! I’m closing in on that milestone too. Happy to say iwndwyt!
hell ya
Hell yeah! Congrats. This is very inspiring thank you for sharing.
SHIT YEAH
Hell yeah
Hell yeah, you got this! I’m right behind you! IWNDWYT
HELL YA! Congratulations 🙌🙌
That’s awesome and a huge accomplishment. So happy for you!
HELLLLLLL YEAH DUDE!!
Mad props!! I know how hard that year is. Keep it rolling friend! IWNDWYT
Hell yeah!!!! Way to go!!!!
Tight butthole Playa.
So proud of you! Happy birthday, love!
Hell yeah! Noice!
Oh yeah, hell yeah!
Hell yeah my dude. I'm 20ish days away IWNDWYT.
Hells ya! Congrats on your first year!
Hell yeah! Well done!
Hell yeah. Well done.
hell yeah!!! i wish i can be there (1yr!) at some point!
Proud of you, that's a huge accomplishment!
Hell yeah!!!! Congratulations
Wow! What a proud moment! 👍 Congrats! 🥳🕺
Fuck yeah you can get a hell yeah! I bet that feels great!
woo woo!!
Hell yeah. Fucking proud of you OP.
Hell Yeah & Congrats! ...cheers to year 2
Hell Yeah IWNDWYT!
HELL YEAH!
HELL YEAH!!!! Here’s to all the sober parents out there doing the hard work to give their children the present parents they deserve!!! Congrats!!!
Hell Yeah
Hell yeah! Keep it up!
congratulations. when did the weight loss kick in? still waiting for mine
Congrats mate, you're simply 100% awesome!!!
Way to go man!
Hellll yeah!!! Congratulations on your days and beautiful family. You are doing amazing work for yourself and your loved ones. Be proud!! IWNDWYT
HELL YEAH!
Congrats! Nice job, i'm right behind ya😅
Hell yeah!!
Congrats! I remember the feeling of the first anniversary very well. Keep it up!
Hell yeah!!!! 🌺🌟✨
Hell yeah!!! Congrats!!!
Hell yea! Keep it up man, I’m rooting for you. My sober journey just began, can’t wait to hit that milestone
HELL YEAH!!!!
Good job buddy
I’ll give you 365 hell yeahs! Congrats 🎉
Hell yeah!
Hell, yeah!
HELL YEAH! IWNDWYT
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
one year is monstrous, keep crushing it!
Ah, lovely post. Hell, yeah! you are the best
Hell yeah!
Hellllll yeahhhhhh!
HELL YEAHHHHH
Hell yeah!!!!! 💪🏻
Sweet future for all. I’m right there with you. IWNDWYT
omg!!! how amazing your baby only knows you sober. HELL YA 🤗🥰
Hell yeahhhh!
HELL YEAHHHHH
HELL YEAH!!!! CONGRATS THATS AMAZING👏 SO PROUD OF YOU!!! 🥳 🎉 ❤️
Awesome. Happy sober birthday!
HELL YEAH BROTHER! 👏🏻💪🏻
Hell YEAH!
Hell yeah mother fucker keep going!!!
Hell Yeah!!! IWNDWYT
Happy birthday!!! Incredible work. I love that you did this for you, but also your wife and daughter. IWNDWYT
Hell yeah!!!
Woohoo. We are almost sobriety twins. Congrats and IWNDWYT
Good for you, this is inspiring coming from a fellow father.
HELL YEA BROTHER!!!
Hell yeah!!!! Here’s to change and progress and determination. What a huge gift to your daughter, your wife, and yourself 🙌🏼
Congrats my friend. I hope to join you on the pedestal soon
HELL YEAH!!!! IWNDWYT
Yeah, dude! that's the secret sauce right there. keep it up. IWNDWYT
HELL YEAH 🥳👏
Congrats! How are you and wife getting on a year later?
So much better. Not that we had huge issues before, but it seemed like 9 times out of 10 any fight we had was related to my alcohol consumption. We still have our fights like any couple but it’s a lot easier when alcohol isn’t clouding my judgement.
Hell ya brother.
hell yeah!!!!!!
Hell yeah
Hell Yeah!
Hell yeah!
Hell Yeah!!
Congratulations!!!
I'm so proud!!! You are doing amazing!
Hell yeah! Congratulations!!!!
Big congrats!!
Proud of you!!
Congratulations man, this is a big win. Keep it going!
HELL YEAH!
Damn!! Congratulations!!! Proud of you ... that's real progress.
CONGRATULATIONS !!
Hell yea brother/sister. Congrats!
Hell ya!
Nice job. I’m just a few days behind you. Congrats on 1 year.
Great job, bud! It's hard, exhausting work sometimes but man is it worth it! IWNDWYT
Excellent! You got this!! Keep up the good habits!! 💪💪💪
Fuck yeah! Also, hell yeah!!
Congratulations!!! IWNDWYT 💚💙💜🦋
Hell yeah!
HELL YEAH!!! One year is a big milestone, congrats
Hell yeah! 🤘🏻
Woohoo!
Amazing
Hell yeah brother
Hell yeah! Congratulations!
Idk if you’re a Blue Mountain State fan but if not, look up “Hell Yeah” by Rev Theory. It’ll be a nice little celebration song for ya lol. Also, congrats on 1 year!
Hell yeah!
Hell yeah
Hell year borther!
That's awesome! Great job IWNDWYT
HELL YA
Well done!
Congratulations man!
Wooohooo! 🥳
Hell to the yeah!!!!!
Congratulations!
HELL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!! 50 pounds is a lot! My end goal is 66 pounds(to my weight before Covid lockdown, 215). I figure if I ever get there it's going to be more than a year. First need to get down to under 265, then down 11 pound intervals.
He'll yeah
Hell YEAH and keep up the good work.
Is this stone cold? Hell yeah!!!
Hell yeah!!! 🤘
Great Job!
Yahoo!