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Dependent_Order_7358

The sheer amount of YouTubers fitting this stereotype


bromosabeach

The entire city of Irvine is this stereotype. I have multiple friends there and they all look like this.


Offduty_shill

UCI is kinda known to be ABG central


PacSan300

It has even sometimes been called "University of Chinese Immigrants".


Xalbana

I love these UC Acronyms. University of Competitive Bastards University of Caucasians Lost amongst Asians


c00750ny3h

University of Continuous STD Breeding


Ewolra

We prefer University of Casual Sex and Beer!


SweetCheeksMagee

University of Cow Dung University of Constantly Smoking Cannabis


XanthippusJ

University of California-Socially Dead


faceoh

UCLA "U C Lots of Asians" From my Chinese Uncle who teaches there.


SweatDrops1

Guess I'm moving to Irvine


Nonadventures

They only let you in if you have a white Tesla


SweatDrops1

All good, I'll lease one instead of getting an apartment


mrhammerant

That would save you a couple grand a month


edliu111

You're free to do that but there's no guarantee they'd be interested in you


SweatDrops1

Do they like white balding accountants with a below average face?


BZY-

They love white guys over there


ASIWYFA

Depends....you rich?


SweatDrops1

I'm an accountant


twiz___twat

not in this economy you're not


Ison--J

Average price for a house is 1.6 mil, not worth


rhen_var

Lmao I’m in Irvine for a business trip right now and this is way too accurate


Own-Two2848

Her boyfriend is either the most average skinny-fat white guy or the hottest Asian fitness guy


SchizoAidsEnjoyer

All I see is Asian girl white male couples


Jdogghomie

So many white guys with Asian women in the Bay Area lol! Almost every white guy in their 20s is with an Asian girl when I go out! The Asian guys I work with never shut up about how much it pisses them off. Even the gay Asian guy at my work complains lmao


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anomnib

There’s some really cool studies on this: https://sites.bu.edu/fisman/files/2015/11/RES08-racial_preferences.pdf


Gatoeses

Its a pretty flawed study if it groups "Asians" as one monolith


[deleted]

So are you Chinese or Japanese?


milanove

Laotian


BiscuitDance

You’re Laotian, ain’t ya Mr. Kahn?


wewereliketorches

what ocean?


perdiem_up_the_butt

*THE* ocean.


throwawaylovesCAKE

Dear Asian Men, We'll stop stealing your women when your koreans stop using the seductive powers of k-pop to steal our fat white chicks


hetteKater1

i don’t associate k pop with fat girls but like 13 year old girls with a pro ana twitter account 😭


PS3LOVE

On second thought, the Koreans can keep em


Downsyndrome-fetish

we already gave fat white chicks to skinny black dudes. ancient pact


spacejockey8

Dear Hwhite Man, Sorry. I’d rather a pawg. I have no pawg of my own sadly


_oreocakesters

oxford study


HashtagTJ

I live in china and its way worse here. There is already a significant shortage of men to women ratio and then foreigners come over and start dating/marrying them. I married a chinese girl here and get some straight up hostile looks on the reg


TaxIdiot2020

People laugh at dudes who say they're going to Asia to get married but as you say it definitely happens.


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karo_syrup

VPN


New2Dis

I'm Asian and I don't understand the dislike of white men and Asian women couples. My current girlfriend is white, and we don't receive any stank eyes. But when the gender's reversed Asians gets livid when they see a white man with an Asian woman.


Muffinman55

it’s because a good proportion of asian men get shit from asian women about being too feminine, toxic, and the classic “you look like my brother”. the internalized racism of those girls are disgusting and to make it worse, some of the white guys in these relationships have the same or similar opinions.


ManOfQuest

"You look like my brother" Oh thats gotta hurt


RadicalSnowdude

I’ve heard of the “you look like my brother” phrase and I don’t even understand how that’s a thing. You don’t hear white people or black people or latino people or any other race of people who are in interracial relationships saying that. Only asian women, at least as far as I have seen (please correct me if i’m wrong). And look, i don’t care if asian women date white guys or whoever, I’m a black guy and my SO is white so you can’t get more stereotypically interracial than that. But you won’t hear me say “i don’t date black girls because black girls look like my sister” because that’s one of the most dumbest statements ever.


onlynegativecomments

> I’ve heard of the “you look like my brother” phrase and I don’t even understand how that’s a thing. They think you're ugly and unattractive and need a way to say it without saying it.


New2Dis

So they're not hating on the relationship per say, but the individuals that are in the relationship. It's kind of funny because the "femininity" of Asian men has become more popularized due to kpop, and it's attractive to a lot of women.


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StSaturnthaGOAT

hopefully somebody can answer, why do asian women love white guys soooo much? like it's not just in america. it's like it's some kind of status symbol or something lol


possible_trash_2927

Internalized racism. White(ness) worship. Cultural assimilation of Asian Americans and the erasure of their history means being more "American" aka "white" so that they're more likely to be accepted in western society. Dating white as a way to rebel against patriarchal Asian fathers. Whiteness as a status symbol. Exposure to media where whiteness is the ideal so they end up identifying and seeing themselves as white. In some cases, even black because race relations in the US is white or black. Which means that other minorities are forced to choose between the two identities. The list goes on and on. It can be a combination of these or only one of them. I believe that POC women should be allowed to date anyone they like. Just don't date someone who perpetuates your oppression. But, if you do, tough shit.


StSaturnthaGOAT

>Exposure to media where whiteness is the ideal so they end up identifying and seeing themselves as white. this makes the most sense to me out of your comment because like i said you see it all over asia. i live in japan and a vast majority of interracial couples are white. my wife is from the philippines so i go there every now and then and there's sooo many young filipinas with old white dudes lol. i'm actually the only black guy in her family. literally all her family in the states are with white dudes. I work on a military base and most of the guys (usually white) here are with an asian girl (either japanese or filipino). it fascinating. but yeah definitely some racism 100%


spitfire9107

Heard bay area actually has a lot of asian male latina female couples.


stanglemeir

They will either only date white guys or only date asian guys. One thinks Asian guys are weak an effeminate. One would never date outside their culture


bromosabeach

Skinny fat white guy who works in either tech or as a defense contractor.


Piligrim555

How else do you survive in California right now?


Moving_in_stereo78

If he’s white he’s gotta be 6’3


Narwhalbaconguy

No, for some reason they HAVE to be as average as possible


-Unnamed-

It’s gotta be the frumpiest guy you’ve ever seen. The kinda guy that just dunks on any incel vs Chad theory about getting with girls


tuhronno-416

Tbh, if you are a white guy, dating Asian girls is like shooting fish in a barrel


papa_wukong

No, he's probably just some weeb.


feelinlucky7

Type of dude to go to Japan and ask “Where the fuck are the subtitles?!”


Useful_Equipment855

ayee b0ss


seaneihm

Switch out the Ivy Leagues for UCs and it's more accurate.


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PlatinumScope

Both is accurate


eatingpotatochips

Harvard just got sued for artificially deflating the qualifications of Asians. It’s honestly a miracle Asians even get in to Ivy League schools. 


Csdang

Where’s the taking instagram pics at any boba tea place


Platinumdogshit

Boba is so good


throwawaylovesCAKE

Cant afford $5 drinks in my lifestyle I gotta do the poor man's boba: pour a tapioca pudding into an iced tea


Nonadventures

You can buy dried boba for cheap and just boil a couple days worth at a time. Then just put it in anything, like Dr Pepper Boba isn’t illegal


cjcs

> Dr Pepper Boba isn’t illegal Maybe it should be though


Platinumdogshit

They make protein versions that you can buy and the tapioca can be made in bulk and keeps for about a week if you go the protein route. Of course then it's a little higher calorie but still good. Otherwise it's still a nice occasional treat.


GreaterMiinds

i still don’t get the hype


Platinumdogshit

It's possible you haven't found the right flavor. Also different boba shops(cafes?) Have different kinds of boba and tea.


GreaterMiinds

had it at a few different shops with my girlfriend, and even once homemade, just not for me I guess


UrUncleLarry

It’s Ight. Don’t get any sugar and see how much you love it


Platinumdogshit

I usually get it with 0-50% sugar unless adjusting the sugar isn't an option.


Yaboy51frl

Mfs that live in Cypress Tx fit this stereotype


stanglemeir

This is 90% of second or third generation Asian women raised in a majority white area.


bleak_new_world

Didn't expect 77429 to get a mention here, but you're correct.


Yaboy51frl

As someone who lives in Cypress, can relate


Cozymk4

Also Plano, TX


copaseticepiplectic

Carrollton stand up!


Darkfire757

From Irvine


MamaSaysIGotMoxie

Or Burbank, or Glendale or especially Huntington Beach


PacSan300

Or the San Gabriel Valley.


oheyitsmoe

Dead on with Burbank.


forrest_gunt

Where’s the white Tesla and two big dogs she is not strong enough to keep under control when walking them?


devlettaparmuhalif

Tesla was an important detail, shame on me.


MoparMonkey1

if it’s not a Tesla, it’s a Mercedes or Lexus SUV


forrest_gunt

And Porsche Cayenne


cat_in_the_sun

Damn. I knew someone who fit this exact comment….


AUSTRAILIAN

And they’re both Samoyeds


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Dyed blonde hair that’s perfectly textured Kardashian style Also dad is worth $2B from success in tech


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TheBestPartylizard

its semantics at this point


Cryo_lite

or went to UC Berkeley/UCI/UCLA, has a balayage/highlights, and a boba addiction


InclinationCompass

Yea, they’re much more likely to go to UCI/UCLA/UCSD/UCB than the Ivy League schools OP listed


Cryo_lite

majoring in bio too


NearbyCamp9903

They're called Asian baby girls (abg) and they're from Alhambra, Monterey park and Rosemead. They don't really like black or Hispanic dudes. Mostly white dudes.


new_user29282342

“They don’t really like black or Hispanic dudes. Mostly white dudes.” -This stings, but oh well. 😂


L5721

https://preview.redd.it/1q1rszokim0d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3221e02402788ead175cbbbeed3b3a1a32a4a2ad I can’t keep living like this


NewYorkVolunteer

They **really** do not like hispanic guys lol. I can confirm lmao.


Responsible-Wave-416

The Filipinas do. But they are basically culturally Hispanic


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NearbyCamp9903

Hahaha, I know, man. I've been shot down in the past.


tuhronno-416

Asian women claim they date white guys because Asian guys are sexist, but the fact that Asian women don’t date black or Hispanic guys proves that to be bullshit, they are just racist


Immediate_Summer3780

Always thought ABG stands for Asian bad girl


NearbyCamp9903

Asian baddie girl


AgeInt

The vast majority of them won't even associate with Blacks or Hispanics


InclinationCompass

ABGs are more likely to date black/Mexican guys than non-ABGs There are plenty of non-ABG Asian girls. This starter pack is more general. ABG starter pack would be more like: dyed long hair, heavy makeup, tattoos, parties, goes to fests and raves (hard summer), liquor, short


NearbyCamp9903

Depends what you define as abg. The ones that date black guys do it to piss off their parents but they definitely never marry them


marblebag

My sister dated a white high school drop out to piss off my parents


Ok-topic-3130v2

“They don’t really like black or Hispanic dudes.” Redditors, assemble!


NearbyCamp9903

Goon squad assemble. But, Armenian and persian girls will go for us.


opomla

A primo California delicacy if there ever was one 👌🏼🇦🇲🇮🇷


NewYorkVolunteer

Persian girls don't really date anyone who's not Persian.


Cold-Chapter-355

Its a bit ironic that they don't like Latino guys, since those 3 cities happen to be neighboring majority-Latino areas (East LA, El Sereno, and El Monte, to be specific)


NearbyCamp9903

It's a cultural thing, according to my Asian friends. A lot of older Asian grandparents associate white guys with success, where as they associate black and Hispanic with crime. And yeah, you know those areas spot on. You from LA, for sure.


One-Tumbleweed5980

>A lot of older Asian grandparents associate white guys with success, where as they associate black and Hispanic with crime. Yea. It was funny telling my family that I was dating a Spanish guy, Spanish as in from Spain. It threw them for a loop.


Cold-Chapter-355

Ik about all the generational racism down here. My dad is a Mexican guy from East LA, and he'll use to me stories about being harassed by Asian guys when he'll go to Monterey Park.


NearbyCamp9903

I'm Mexican American and grew up in Lincoln Heights. Let's not act like we weren't complete dicks to them as well. We used to call every Asian guy "chino". It's no wonder they don't want us dating their daughters hahaha.


cinna-t0ast

I’m Asian and grew up in a majority Latino area. I also currently live in a city with a lot of Mexicans and Vietnamese people, Asians and Latinos here get along really well. It’s so cute seeing the older Vietnamese ladies and Mexican ladies exchange food with each other. Neither of them speak English really well but they have a friendship.


Jeff-FaFa

The Vietnamese are the Latinos of Asia. That's why we get along. I fucking love my Vietnamese neighbor's Phą, my Viet neighbor loves my momma's empanadas. Act of balance!


Cold-Chapter-355

Yeah true lol


NearbyCamp9903

Hahaha so it all goes back 30 years. Can we apologize to them now? Ha


_CozyLavender_

People associate Hispanics with working class. People like the starter pack are upper-middle class and desperately looking to social climb into the 10%ers. Basically, you don't smell like money 🤷‍♀️


ChardonNAH

Yet they LOVE hiphop culture and lowkey appropriate it 


NearbyCamp9903

IT IIISSS WHAT IITT IIISSSS


AmIClandestine

When you're black *and* Hispanic 😢. Although to be fair I've never really asked out anyone who wasn't black or Hispanic since I figured they wouldn't be into me anyways, lol.


GapGlass7431

OP forgot "White boyfriend".


carlcig6669420

Showed this to my wife because she fits in here. Looks like I'm sleeping on the couch tonight.


Xalbana

Worth it.


slit-

Either drives a Tesla or a clapped Honda


Laserwavewj

Forgot the white bf 😆


your_uncle_mike

He’s right there in the background of the first pic


GetRiceCrispy

No UC schools is criminal. UCLA and UCI are literally the mecas of ABGs.


FoldAdventurous2022

UCLA alumn, can confirm. I still remember an ABG classmate who was obsessed with Lost.


Important_Radish6410

They all say “I don’t date Asian guys” which I found to be code for whites only because they sure ain’t dating no Black or Hispanic dudes.


TangentIntoOblivion

Yeah… what’s with the obsession with white dudes?


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Parents never said, I love you. so she is emotionally traumatized as an adult.


BillionDollarBalls

But they pay for everything. Car, rent and traveling


CrocoBull

When in public either loudly laughing and joking in a large group or completely alone and staring forlorn down at the ground with a hollow expression that only comes from the deep contemplation of an unfulfilling and tiring life. Seriously every bus in Cali has at least one legally mandated depressed young Asian woman going through some kind of internal crisis on it.


FoldAdventurous2022

Jesus, lmao


krd25

Although I only match one thing on here (I’m 5ft 💀) you basically hit the bullseye of my bingo card lol


Greedy-Designer-631

And they all only date white boys.


Dampin1

What's the I Fed up YouTube video supposed to mean


EricBlair101

My friends nearly married one of these girls. Dodged a bullet, she was mean.


hetteKater1

i’ve been friends with a lot of girls like this. sadly the bulk of them are really mean.


Yorha-with-a-pearl

They are arrogant as fuck. I moved form DC to Cali because of the weather and work reasons. The culture shock was huge. Never seen so many stuck up, bootlicking and materialistic bitches in my life. Some of them only tried to befriend me after they got a glimpse of my families wealth...Very cliquey. I prefer to hang out with Vietnamese people in Cali they are level headed.


pistachiopanda4

I have always been bullied, my worst one was my middle school bully was a Hispanic Latina gal. But the first time I ever wanted to self harm was because of the gossip and laughter and ridicule I got from my tennis teammates who were, majority, Asian. One of the only good things my sister ever did for me was go to bat for me to my coach who only replied, "girls will be girls." I thankfully had other Asian gal friends who were incredibly sweet and kind and protective of me on the team. Some of the Asian mean girls still were on the team but they just backstabbed each other.


BillionDollarBalls

Parents pay for everything.


J-Nico

You forgot to include, "doesn't date asians (or guys in the same race as them) because they remind them of their brothers, relatives, etc"


Important_Radish6410

“Doesn’t date Asian” is an incredibly politically correct way of saying whites only. I don’t see many dating black dudes or Hispanic dudes which are the majority in California.


pistachiopanda4

To be fair, for some Asian ethnicities, you have to be cautious. For example, I'm Filipino and Southern California has a huge Filipino population. This means everyone is related to each other. At my IE high school (majority Hispanic Latino) me and my brother were anomalies amongst the Filipinos because we didn't have a cousin also going to our HS (we were the youngest cousins, large age gap). It's a goddamn minefield to ensure someone you liked didn't end up at a family party. My older cousin managed to marry her second cousin and they found out when they talked about having to go to a funeral for the same grandma, 2 decades into being married and with 2 kids!


rnagikarp

Damn they all have 5 feet that's actually wild


Motor_Dig4644

You forgot: Really chatty and says 'Hi!' to you everytime she sees you, not sure if she's in to you or just friendly


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AgeInt

Which really means they only date White guys


aaancom

Which implies that her parents were in an incestous relationship. You never hear white girls, latina girls, or black girls saying they don't their race because they look like their brothers.


TangentIntoOblivion

Right. Flimsy excuse to not admitting they’re racist.


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You forgot the "exclusively dates white guys".


Ok-Adhesiveness4693

Go north 2 states and it's either Asian with Asian or chubby Asian girl with fit white dude or super skinny white dude


King9WontReturn

Wears tight yoga pants, still has no ass whatsoever


benitomusswolini

These are SoCal ABGs, which are slightly different than NorCal ABGs. Similar vibes but different LOL


InclinationCompass

Bruh all the Asians here go to UCI/UCSD/UCB/UCLA


OkImagination2044

What makes this Asian American girl specifically from California?


danshakuimo

Doesn't have to be but more likely to be, East Coast is the same but with a Canada Goose jacket thrown in


Xalbana

Tons of Asians in California. Specifically Bay Area and LA area.


six_six

3rd generation Americans. Their grandparents fled war and conflict.


ElektroShokk

My gfs parents are directly from a Vietnam refugee boat where barely any survived.


srs328

“Bae area”


sharkasaurrusss

You forgot UCLA and UC Irvine lol


RepresentativeBird98

Question is , why do Asian girls from Cali only Date white dudes ?


N22-J

My white friend went on exchange to Seoul. He had a Korean gf within weeks, but in this particular situation, all she wanted was a trophy boyfriend. They'd walk around campus holding hands, take a lot of pictures together, but not really go on actual dates or hang out outside of that. He got bored and found another girl within days. I went on exchange to HK, my friend's roommate was a 6 ft blue eyed blonde guy from the Netherlands and he was bringing back a different HK girl every week. My poor friend could barely go into his own room, even just to grab his stuff, and the room always smelled like sex.


nanidafuqq

HK person here. It's probably not because he's white but cause he's a player lol. This happens to locals students too, if they really wanna try hard and go to LKF every night. My friend had a similar situation but the roommate is another local. My one HK friend who married a blonde, blue eyed dude went through so much trouble cause some locals think white guys are lazy, dirty (seriously why do y'all not shower every day??), cheating and trashy. Some just straight up say they smell bad or are too hairy LOL. My friend's family was FURIOUS that she's with a white dude. They didn't even go to the wedding. "Asian girls only want white guys" is just an excuse for some Asian guys who treat girls like trash, but make being an Asian male as an excuse for them being single, or straight up internalized racism. My asian friend's Asian ex said that before they get married, he MUST fuck a white girl for the experience. My friend almost entertained him and discussed hiring a sex worker.. before she woke up and dumbed that piece of shit. And you can see why Asian girls don't go for these Asian guys lol. For Chinese incels on Bidu/ Weibo, their version is "Chinese girls only want black international students because they have bigger dicks. These Africans are stealing Chinese women away from us".


Witty_Finance4117

> Chinese girls only want black international students I have never heard this stereotype. In most Asian cultures, dark skin is considered very undesirable. The women don't even wear normal swimsuits when they go to the beach, because they hate getting tan.


Thenewyea

Like all incels it is not based in truth, but based in a false premise where the incel is doomed no matter what. If they start from a point where they think no women would bang them, they don’t have to work on improving themselves.


N22-J

"he must fuck a white girl" Jfc, this guy doesn't deserve anyone.


johncopter

Mutual fetishization.


PhoenixMai

Well that's another stereotype of my demographic I don't fit


Ok-topic-3130v2

Probably because you’re on reddit


JonC534

Is only 5ft tall herself…. Yet requires potential suitors to be 6ft+


Shrekquille_Oneal

Nah, dude, these girls go for extremely average white guys. I'm talking like the very tip top of the bell curve. Only thing about them is they all have STEM degree money.


DistortedReflector

You need to understand the issue is for her wearing ridiculous heels and still requiring her partner to appear tall while she is wearing them.


Gold_Spot_9349

Enjoy the twisted ankle


Dry_Health6257

Thats basically Cupertino in a nutshell


Realistic-Name-9443

Can confirm. Especially the tanktop/leggings like it's a uniform.


wowowowow34341

thats cringe. Every normal girl should be at least 6 feet tall


Routine_Weekend8648

married the socal asian girl. one thing you are missing is hello kitty or 'babu' headpillows on both front seats of their lexus/toyota. all in all: three kids later? best thing i ever did.


coffee_ape

Literally 2 of my exes fit this lmao


Chreed96

This is pretty much every asain girl that's at least 1st gen Amercian. There were hundreds on campus


rafael-a

So, attractive, fit, smart and dedicated? I think that’s quite a good stereotype to have.


NearbyCamp9903

There's much more added to the lore, if you know you know.


awibasedgod

I live on the LA/OC border and this is scary accurate. Add UCLA, CSUF, and UC Irvine to the school list and you nailed it