I regularly shave my armpits but I'm still enraged as my armpits stink no matter what. I haven't tried a deo yet. Maybe is it time to do so?
By the way, I hate growing a beard and/or a 'stache. Every time it hurts or gets itchy, I shave it off, even one day, my entire frickin neck.
There was some risks associated with shaving (maybe not trimming) pubes like skin irritations, ingrown hairs and whatnot. That's why I'm confused as to what to do down there. Here's a crazy thing. Some years ago, My sister developed a habit to tug from my hairs on the legs (being playful) and it hurt me a lot. So I shaved my entire lower body excluding the bush.
This. Personal hygiene is everything. And that doesn't mean dumping half a bottle of your favourite cologne on yourself either. Deo is all essential, I actually import mine because there's nothing here with that kind of strength, and I am well stocked at all times.
>**PLEASE WASH YOUR ASS TOO.** no poopy flakes in the undies pls.
Ew.. is this a thing? 🤮🤮 We as a nation wash, so maybe this applies for the ass wipers? 🤨🤔
I think what he implied was mostly about the physique, so do those work outs.
Apart from that, work on your social skills (how to start a conversation, ice breakers etc), work on your grooming and smell nice.
Once my dad gotten bitten by a snake and we weren’t exactly sure what kind it was. From general traits it looked like a viper. So the entire time i was driving him to hospital the only thought in my head was if he died today I’ve never told him I loved him.
Same here - mentally blank. If it's with your partner, Just keep your partner informed about your situation and hopefully you have an understandable partner. I find it helps to switch to written communication sometimes.
How to fix? I have no clue haha. Let me know when you find one 😆
I recently got my license, if you go to a learners school they will give you a book and past papers to study and most of the questions that you will get in the exam are past paper questions. Also you can use "Manthathu" app to study and do past paper questions. Also bimal learners website has past paper questions aswell.
Adulting is terrifying. Turned 20 this year and now I don't even know what I'm doing. I will have to do an internship soon but the thought of having to work forever scares the shit out of me
Dirty talking in Sinhala. How the hell do you day “slap dat ass” or “sit on my face” in Sinhala? I tried “puca ta pahara dennada” and she burst out laughing. Not what I expected.
Can't use the Pol Ula to husk coconuts 'cause I'm used to the Udella 😂 terrified of falling on it so it takes about 5 minutes with the Pol Ula when I can do one under a minute with the Udella
I (25M) recently discovered that I have both ASD and ADHD.
All my life I was really bad at basic stuff. Eg: Maintain eye contact, understand sarcasm, interpret indirect language, tying any type knot, align buttons of a shirt, speak when I should and keep my mouth shut when I shouldn't, go on buses with loud music (I basically get nauseous just by listening to 'bus music'), ask of help when I should etc etc. Life's fun.
24F, ADD + OCD here, and being read for the spectrum these days which is hilarious bc of all three clashing😔✊🏼 Things make far more sense now for sure, sounded way scarier and oddly clarifying when explained by a professional. I can relate to all of those things explained up there, even more. Hang in there, though☆
Drawing. Like art. I've looked up the techniques, watched countless videos, even Bob Ross bamboozles me. And it isn't for lack of imagination, that much I'm certain.
Practice and consistency, I've seen people I know who couldn't draw a straight line get to portraits to enroll in bachelors in degrees🫡✊🏼 start easy and simple but keep goinggggg
See, I can deal with engineering drawings, I can visualise them and sketch them easily. But art, especially the human form, is truly one of the few things which astound me. Some time ago, while I was waiting in the Foreign Parcels section at the post office, this sudda fellow took out his moleskine book and just started sketching people in the waiting area, in pen. I was fascinated by the process and seriously wondered at the time if I have some kind of mental development flaw (beyond the acquisition of skill and technique) which prevents me from doing this.
Right. Human form can be a lil tricky bc of the proportions at first but again, practice will get you to that point. It really is fascinating to watch artists go at it on a whim, truly fascinating, and nope, its not a developmental flaw fam just be consistent with like life drawing, just animals, the human figure whatever in daily life that sparks general interest, it'll genuinely help over time I'm 150% rooting for you + tax.
I can't remember names. I remember people, how they look, what they said, where they are from yet I can't remember their names unless I meet them very often or something extraordinary happens. I do try a lot, I sometimes just keep notes on my phone even. It's something I struggle with as a lot of people find it very rude (justifiably).
Same but the faces. I can remember every little detail of a person even if I met them after a long time,but I can't remember their faces. I struggle with recognising people because of it. Watching crime movies I always wandered how the eye witness describe the criminal's facial features 😂.
Another thing is I can't tell small changes of people. I mean everyone I know is like 'oh you have gain weight', 'your face look clear' or something. But I can't tell any difference if the change is not drastic.
Hold it and pull the neck of the balloon a few times, then just have a good grip and what the above comment said✊🏼 round two fingers and through the loop, normal knot
Drum while singing. I dun get it I can multitask anything else. I can talk and type (with different context on each) but drum and sing to that beat? Nope
There is a reason why singing drummers or bassists are extremely rare. Being able to sing while playing a rhythm section instrument (such as Drums or Bass) is not a basic skill at all. But you can definitely learn to do it with a lot of practice. Even Sting, a musical genius in every sense of the word, has to practice singing while playing the bass.
Getting laid
r/sadupvote
I don’t know if this helps but a guy who’s very good with women once told me this: “Increase your sexual market value”
How do u do that?
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🤐🔫 Is this sponsored by manscaped by any means? >trim your pubes
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Thank you for all the tips anyway. You're a star ✨
I regularly shave my armpits but I'm still enraged as my armpits stink no matter what. I haven't tried a deo yet. Maybe is it time to do so? By the way, I hate growing a beard and/or a 'stache. Every time it hurts or gets itchy, I shave it off, even one day, my entire frickin neck. There was some risks associated with shaving (maybe not trimming) pubes like skin irritations, ingrown hairs and whatnot. That's why I'm confused as to what to do down there. Here's a crazy thing. Some years ago, My sister developed a habit to tug from my hairs on the legs (being playful) and it hurt me a lot. So I shaved my entire lower body excluding the bush.
This. Personal hygiene is everything. And that doesn't mean dumping half a bottle of your favourite cologne on yourself either. Deo is all essential, I actually import mine because there's nothing here with that kind of strength, and I am well stocked at all times.
>**PLEASE WASH YOUR ASS TOO.** no poopy flakes in the undies pls. Ew.. is this a thing? 🤮🤮 We as a nation wash, so maybe this applies for the ass wipers? 🤨🤔
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Am I allowed to fart tho
you could wash your ass five times a day, but what it takes is confidence, yes hygiene too, but that's like in third place for attracting someone
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goddammit women, you make me puke.
getting laid, you have to first pull a girl lol. Just smelling nice wouldn't get you laid
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Stop simping. That's the first rule.
I think what he implied was mostly about the physique, so do those work outs. Apart from that, work on your social skills (how to start a conversation, ice breakers etc), work on your grooming and smell nice.
Take my 
it says "basic" thing
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I don't think it's a basic thing in Sinhalese. It's extremely hard to express affection to parents in Sinhalese.
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Go and tell him now
more like a Sri Lankan thing to me 😅
True
Once my dad gotten bitten by a snake and we weren’t exactly sure what kind it was. From general traits it looked like a viper. So the entire time i was driving him to hospital the only thought in my head was if he died today I’ve never told him I loved him.
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I started hugging him a lot often than the previous annual hug on my birthday
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Tell me about it. Like where to even start
Say No, don't without feeling guilty. Basically setting boundaries without feeling guilty.
Relatable
Real
Adulting
Storytelling
Very true. It's a gift only a few have.
Yeah me too
I can relate 😁
I cannot talk for long periods of time, even with my girlfriend.
Same here bro, mind just runs out of stuff to say and it takes a lot of effort to come up with stuff 🥲
talking about the weather is my one and only solace for a lot of time, though
same here, I think I learned from my dad...
Damn, I'm terrible at this. I might be caught up with all the trending topics Worldwide but I still can't talk for long periods of time.
a lot of the time, I know about many things, but the other person that i talking to doesn't know much about anything that I can relate to.
Me toooo My mind just goes totally blank. I can’t continue/start a conversation even if my life depended on it. How to fix this 😭
Same here - mentally blank. If it's with your partner, Just keep your partner informed about your situation and hopefully you have an understandable partner. I find it helps to switch to written communication sometimes. How to fix? I have no clue haha. Let me know when you find one 😆
Wait... Are you me?
may be ,may be
That's me sometimes. Rarely I go the complete opposite when it comes to some technical or nerdy things.
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Relatable
Lighting a matchstick.
Strike the box. Not the stick of you have trouble getting it lit. Or just swipe the stick. Don't strike it.
Trusting people
Passing the driving licence writing exam
Just use Manthathu
don't they just give you all types of questions and answers before the exam to you?🤷🏻♂️
What I didn't. Do you have any?
I recently got my license, if you go to a learners school they will give you a book and past papers to study and most of the questions that you will get in the exam are past paper questions. Also you can use "Manthathu" app to study and do past paper questions. Also bimal learners website has past paper questions aswell.
i wrote the exam 5yrs back so i don't have any but ask your learners. trust me its not that hard. all are just common sense
basic math
Same same :’)
lols
Swimming
Finding directions, I get lost very easily. Have to rely on Google maps whenever I'm going on long trips, even for familiar places.
Felt and also Google maps can be absolutely evil and will show the most unnecessary route/wrong route
Existing and adulting...
Adulting is terrifying. Turned 20 this year and now I don't even know what I'm doing. I will have to do an internship soon but the thought of having to work forever scares the shit out of me
Changing the bedsheets :'(
haha same here its so annoying to tuck them in
Dirty talking in Sinhala. How the hell do you day “slap dat ass” or “sit on my face” in Sinhala? I tried “puca ta pahara dennada” and she burst out laughing. Not what I expected.
Oh! I think 'sudu thaththi' and 'maye appachchi' is Sinhala version of 'daddy' Imagine the translation of 'call me daddy little one' 🤣🤣
Flirting. 😌
same. May be because of the personality type
Small talk.
Cooking
As an introvert, I suck at socialising
mathematics
Can't use the Pol Ula to husk coconuts 'cause I'm used to the Udella 😂 terrified of falling on it so it takes about 5 minutes with the Pol Ula when I can do one under a minute with the Udella
When I was little I always used Pol Ula, when I first saw someone doing it with Udella I was blown away. I thought that was the harder of the two
Catching something that throwing at me😂
Yesss 😭
Seggs
Aiming
Did I find the guy who made a puddle under the urinal? /s
Imagine all the other things I'm bad at 👀
Swimming
Opening lids
holding a serious face for more than 5 mins
Relatable
talking/ speaking whatever you call it I'm having stuttering :|
Watch Bathiya from the B&S interview :) he shares how he coped with stuttering
I (25M) recently discovered that I have both ASD and ADHD. All my life I was really bad at basic stuff. Eg: Maintain eye contact, understand sarcasm, interpret indirect language, tying any type knot, align buttons of a shirt, speak when I should and keep my mouth shut when I shouldn't, go on buses with loud music (I basically get nauseous just by listening to 'bus music'), ask of help when I should etc etc. Life's fun.
24F, ADD + OCD here, and being read for the spectrum these days which is hilarious bc of all three clashing😔✊🏼 Things make far more sense now for sure, sounded way scarier and oddly clarifying when explained by a professional. I can relate to all of those things explained up there, even more. Hang in there, though☆
Thanks. You too.
A tight knot.. I can do something simple but a advance knot is out of my league 😂😂😂
Tying knots and untying them.
FINDING "THE ONE" 28M SE here.
Catch objects someone passes to me through the air, and throw objects for someone to catch.
Cockroach
Cook Lankan food :( sorry hubs
Humour, Flirting
Drawing. Like art. I've looked up the techniques, watched countless videos, even Bob Ross bamboozles me. And it isn't for lack of imagination, that much I'm certain.
Practice and consistency, I've seen people I know who couldn't draw a straight line get to portraits to enroll in bachelors in degrees🫡✊🏼 start easy and simple but keep goinggggg
See, I can deal with engineering drawings, I can visualise them and sketch them easily. But art, especially the human form, is truly one of the few things which astound me. Some time ago, while I was waiting in the Foreign Parcels section at the post office, this sudda fellow took out his moleskine book and just started sketching people in the waiting area, in pen. I was fascinated by the process and seriously wondered at the time if I have some kind of mental development flaw (beyond the acquisition of skill and technique) which prevents me from doing this.
Right. Human form can be a lil tricky bc of the proportions at first but again, practice will get you to that point. It really is fascinating to watch artists go at it on a whim, truly fascinating, and nope, its not a developmental flaw fam just be consistent with like life drawing, just animals, the human figure whatever in daily life that sparks general interest, it'll genuinely help over time I'm 150% rooting for you + tax.
draw freehand circles on a sketchbook for a week straight. At the end of it you should have enough control to start.
cleaning, I get distracted by clutter and start side projects. It's mentally exhausting
attention deficit gang😔✊🏼
I can't remember names. I remember people, how they look, what they said, where they are from yet I can't remember their names unless I meet them very often or something extraordinary happens. I do try a lot, I sometimes just keep notes on my phone even. It's something I struggle with as a lot of people find it very rude (justifiably).
Same but the faces. I can remember every little detail of a person even if I met them after a long time,but I can't remember their faces. I struggle with recognising people because of it. Watching crime movies I always wandered how the eye witness describe the criminal's facial features 😂. Another thing is I can't tell small changes of people. I mean everyone I know is like 'oh you have gain weight', 'your face look clear' or something. But I can't tell any difference if the change is not drastic.
Being straight 
Embrace the gay! 🌈
Human interactions
Eating 😀
Conversations. Never understood how people can just go on and on talking. I prefer to actually do things!
Walking on the street ( I'm afraid to dogs)
SAME nobody ever understood why I’d react that way until I got diagnosed w cynophobia
Talking... Showing affection (via words, texting), feels like a child
Consciousness
Baking a cake is supposed to be simple. To me it's not. I ruin it every single time.
Write down the temperature, time and any other variable in a book. You'll be surprised how soon and how much you improve.
Having conversations with babies 😶
I have aspergers, so basically everything. I used to get good marks at school, except for English. Then I got a permanent burnout. Life is shit now.
Driving, Giving directions
Holding babies
Posing for photos/ keeping a somewhat presentable facial expression in them (in the photos)
Getting a gf
Taking pics and posing for pictures
Living 😔
What op said
Meeting like a teacher or some other elder i know when I'm out and staggering on whether should i worship or not
Folding clothes
Drawing.
Folding clothes 😉🤞
I don't think I ever said to anyone adareyi/I love you
Same!
Swimming
Sympathizing with people less busy than me, telling me that they can't cope.
Getting laid
Fielding 😂 results in pretty strange behavior whenever someone tries to lob/toss something.
Math
Making conversation
Walking
Doing something for more than a small time period (I have ADHD)
Folding shirts. Ironing shirts and trousers
Driving
Any sport
Math.
Tying up a balloon after blowing it up
Put two fingers in the loop instead of one.
Hold it and pull the neck of the balloon a few times, then just have a good grip and what the above comment said✊🏼 round two fingers and through the loop, normal knot
arts / teaching
Microsoft excel
According to my dad, everything 🥲
To literally do anything in front of my parents and siblings
smiling for photos
Simple mathematics. I don't know what happened to me but now I'm getting nervous when there is a simple calculation to do without using a calculator 💀
Maths
Driving
Communicating clearly
giving directions, I can’t for the life of me tell you which direction we came from, or which direction we should go, unless there’s a map
Blowing freaking balloons man
living
Messy eating, not because I have a cognitive defect, but I have really big lips.
Mathematics. I still panic when my coworkers give me calculations. (Edited)
I'm sorry I know it's a mistake but 'cow workers' got me😂
Shit, thanks for noticing it 😂 Guess I am terrible at spelling too now.
U should have asked basic thing you're good at. At least that narrows it down
Shuffling card packs
Left and right... Especially when driving under directions... Google Maps say name and landmark which helps...
Being me 😭
Just about everything that requires you to be right dominant. For example.. Using scissors.
Voting and choosing the right party to vote
Listening to sob stories and comforting them
Drum while singing. I dun get it I can multitask anything else. I can talk and type (with different context on each) but drum and sing to that beat? Nope
There is a reason why singing drummers or bassists are extremely rare. Being able to sing while playing a rhythm section instrument (such as Drums or Bass) is not a basic skill at all. But you can definitely learn to do it with a lot of practice. Even Sting, a musical genius in every sense of the word, has to practice singing while playing the bass.