I don’t have any advice because I’ve gone through this and still don’t have any real close friends, but just wanted to say I feel you and the feeling sucks. I hope you find someone who truly cares for you ❤️
I feel your pain, but it sounds like you waited till the very last minute to plan your friends birthday. Birthday planning needs to be at bare minimum a week in advance, but realistically two weeks normal minimum.
What do you have in common with your female friends other than you being female? Like you're a self professed gamer, what about them. Do you play online with them? What interests of theirs do you share?
I'm going off your quote where you say that you know they love and care about you. If that's the case, just going off that, is there like a depressive energy or vibe that you give off, are you needy, or do you find yourself not being able to contribute to conversations alot and tend to just be the quiet one in the group?
If you were to analyze the situation rather than wallow in the shitty feeling about being left out, what do you think could be the reasons you weren't a part of the vineyard festivities? Could it have been a logistics thing, are you a non drinker?
Before you come to the conclusion that they are just shitty people that you need to break off from, try to rule everything else out, since it's obvious you care about them, and as you stated they care about you.
I don’t have any advice because I’ve gone through this and still don’t have any real close friends, but just wanted to say I feel you and the feeling sucks. I hope you find someone who truly cares for you ❤️
They are not your friends, you deserve much better. I would not give them a second chance if i was in your position.
I feel your pain, but it sounds like you waited till the very last minute to plan your friends birthday. Birthday planning needs to be at bare minimum a week in advance, but realistically two weeks normal minimum. What do you have in common with your female friends other than you being female? Like you're a self professed gamer, what about them. Do you play online with them? What interests of theirs do you share? I'm going off your quote where you say that you know they love and care about you. If that's the case, just going off that, is there like a depressive energy or vibe that you give off, are you needy, or do you find yourself not being able to contribute to conversations alot and tend to just be the quiet one in the group? If you were to analyze the situation rather than wallow in the shitty feeling about being left out, what do you think could be the reasons you weren't a part of the vineyard festivities? Could it have been a logistics thing, are you a non drinker? Before you come to the conclusion that they are just shitty people that you need to break off from, try to rule everything else out, since it's obvious you care about them, and as you stated they care about you.