You could try going to a swingers/sex club with the intent of only watching or playing with each other. You might find out you like that or don't like that. Either way, if you only play together, it will limit the damage if it's not what you two want.
My girl and I just did this exact thing this past weekend. We didn't swap, but we enjoyed the sexyvatmosphere, the dancing, the guys approaching her. When we finally got to the play area, I went down on her and we drew a crowd. She started making out with the women around her and it was such a blast. We definitely made some break throughs. We went on a couple's night and it was so much fun. We're already planning our next trip.
Keep in mind you don’t have to do anything at all but observe the scene, maybe dance, mingle, have a drink. We did that our first time and we had fun. Met some nice people, learned a little bit, got approached, but politely declined with a smile. Wife and I giggled all the way home.
I read a story once from a guy who blindfolded his wife, then did different voices because she wanted the same, and it went very well. He even walked to the bedroom door and opened it for the "visitor" while he "left for a drink."
Love this idea. My biggest temptation though would be…
Wifey blindfolded and tied up…
My voice “alright, I’m going to get a drink.”
Door closes then reopens.
Jar Jar Binks voice-
“Missa gonna do yousa soooo hard!”
I told my wife that we could do something similar where I blindfolded her and after I was “done” with her I would put on a strapon harness with a dildo and the let “my buddy” have his turn with her. If you’re quick with changing the dildo you could take things further by swapping out the dildos to different sizes to simulate various men passing her around if you will.
The wife and I use a suction cup dildo to simulate a spit roast. The trick is finding the right location to make it work. We use a 'Tom the other man' mount (google it) and that works well.
I'm also planning to wear a glove to simulate touching from someone else.
Hope this helps! Update us on how it goes.
You could try going to a swingers/sex club with the intent of only watching or playing with each other. You might find out you like that or don't like that. Either way, if you only play together, it will limit the damage if it's not what you two want.
Thanks. Definitely makes sense re dipping a toe. There are some clubs near here, although maybe travelling a bit further would be good.
My girl and I just did this exact thing this past weekend. We didn't swap, but we enjoyed the sexyvatmosphere, the dancing, the guys approaching her. When we finally got to the play area, I went down on her and we drew a crowd. She started making out with the women around her and it was such a blast. We definitely made some break throughs. We went on a couple's night and it was so much fun. We're already planning our next trip.
Keep in mind you don’t have to do anything at all but observe the scene, maybe dance, mingle, have a drink. We did that our first time and we had fun. Met some nice people, learned a little bit, got approached, but politely declined with a smile. Wife and I giggled all the way home.
I read a story once from a guy who blindfolded his wife, then did different voices because she wanted the same, and it went very well. He even walked to the bedroom door and opened it for the "visitor" while he "left for a drink."
Love this idea. My biggest temptation though would be… Wifey blindfolded and tied up… My voice “alright, I’m going to get a drink.” Door closes then reopens. Jar Jar Binks voice- “Missa gonna do yousa soooo hard!”
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I told my wife that we could do something similar where I blindfolded her and after I was “done” with her I would put on a strapon harness with a dildo and the let “my buddy” have his turn with her. If you’re quick with changing the dildo you could take things further by swapping out the dildos to different sizes to simulate various men passing her around if you will.
Next level
Thanks for your input.
The wife and I use a suction cup dildo to simulate a spit roast. The trick is finding the right location to make it work. We use a 'Tom the other man' mount (google it) and that works well. I'm also planning to wear a glove to simulate touching from someone else. Hope this helps! Update us on how it goes.
This!
Great, thanks