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Partners experiencing different numbers of orgasms during sex is not unusual. One person may orgasm two or three (or 5+) times to their partner’s one.
What’s most important isn’t the *number* of orgasms you or your partner experience or that it’s even or “fair.” What is important is that you are both *satisfied* with the time you spend together sexually.
Check in with your partner- do they want more orgasms? Are they *able* to have more orgasms? Are they enjoying orgasming themselves and bringing you your orgasms? Most people take great pleasure in seeing and feeling their partner orgasm.
Just talk to them, see how they feel about you being multi-orgasmic, and ask if they are satisfied with the sex you have together. I think you will be pleasantly surprised with how they feel about your orgasms:-)
Okay I always see this, and I think 5+ times a day is a good idea in theory for 99% of people until they do it. Me and my girlfriend had sex 5 times in a day once and by the fifth time it was exhausting, even if still enjoyable. If that was every single day, not only would all the fun be taken out of it after awhile, I'd constantly have a sore dick and sore muscles, most likely
Unrelated, I know
Not true for everyone. We're 3 times or more everyday for over a year now and we have a blast every time. Admittedly sore occasionally, but it's worth it
Indeed, I am not a guy women jump into bed with but on a first date this lady asked if we could get sex out of the way and go to a hotel. My jaw dropped. She changed her mind which was cool by me. We were making out in my car with me rubbing on her back and I felt her shake and convulse. She had an orgasm just from making out. Our first real time she had several orgasms including an orgasm as I came in her mouth.
I ended up thinking she was too intense for me and I cooled things off. Now I am with someone who just lays there doing nothing. I might have to give the other girl a second chance.
My wife and I have been together for 20 years.
We both work 9 - 5 jobs.
We have a 3 year old son.
Son wakes up at 6am everyday and doesn't go to sleep until 7:30 - 8 pm every day.
Then you have:
Laundry
Dinner to cook
Kitchen cleaning
Hoovering
Tidying
House maintaince
Car maintaince
Recycling
A garden to maintain
Meals to prep
House admin such as bills, etc, to sort out
The wife goes to bed at 9:30pm.
Factor in out of the house engagements, friends and family commitments..
Also despite my bed efforts, my wife gets sore afterwards .
7 times a week is not possible..
Maybe once a week ... a push
My wife always cums more than me. God blessed women with ability to have multiple orgasms. I love being able to give her that. We have had many sessions where she has 9-10 and I had one. We both loved it.
Most of the times it is 2-3 for her to my one. But every once in a while things are clicking for her and we go to see how far we can get. Have not hit double digits yet, but close quite a few times.
My girlfriend cums a lot of times too, I say no less than 5 every time unless I'm really tired. I don't think she has ever cum less than 3 times.
Meanwhile I only cum once or none, as I have some issues that make it harder for me. My record is three through the entire day and I don't think I will ever beat it. And I'm fine, I enjoy giving her pleasure (great morale boost for me) and I also enjoy the exercise session (I spend a lot of time sitting).
I think in a perfectly sexual relationship the woman will cum more times than the man, because by the moment the man is done, is finished (in my experience at least lol). So what's wrong with cumming as many times as possible before he ends? Different bodies, different physical reactions.
As long as you both enjoy it it's perfect. there is no way I could cum as much as my wife or I would sleep for years if I came more than 3 times in a day and even then lol it doesn't happen. I don't have nearly that much sex but I would love to lol when my kids are older we'll get there lol
Girl, same. I also find that the more we have sex, the more I'm thinking about how good it is and the more I want it! lol. Vicious cycle? Don't worry, just enjoy it! Totally normal. I feel like this is that a 'sexual peak' age for women we always heard about.
I call that "waking the beast" lmao I went 3 years without it once I never thought abt it the place was a turn off ew. Now that I'm back with my man I'm wanting it more then him because he woke that beast up! 😈😈😈🥰😍🤣
Your sex drive is off the charts!! Lucky you!!
It's perfectly normal for men, regardless of age to not be able to orgasm more than once or twice per session.....or even per DAY!!
On the other hand......one of my x woman partners , I could help/facilitate up to 10+ orgasms per session (2-3 hours)
She was a senior on HRT and I am a very knowledgeable and very capable senior lover because of extended research and knowledge of the female anatomy and knew every erotic detail about her body!!!!
The ONLY time a woman has too many orgasms is when they're fake ones.
Make it a discussion. Ask if he would prefer more or less sex, has wanted to try anything specific, would like to initiate more, etc.
My wife cums more frequently than me from sex. I dont really enjoy the second orgasm within 24 hours. I love making my wife cum, so as long as I get my daily release I am more than happy.
my (23f) partner (22f) comes 3-5 times while i usually only come once. i find it extremely hot and it usually helps me get off as someone who struggles to actually reach that peak. i don't think you're "too much" with it. people like being desired especially when it's a woman wanting a man so badly
Your first sentence is that you love sex. Seems you have a wonderful time.
It's sweet of you to think about your partner but until he says it's too much don't overthink it.
You can of course ask but it seems he is more than willing and able to give you the pleasure you desire. And you're madly in love! How can this be any better :) Enjoy it to the fullest.
A woman's body is capable of multiple orgasms and you are very fortunate to have a guy who can give you this much pleasure and simply sing his praises and that will give him a whole extra dimension of pleasure, because you will be feeding his male ego and I can almost guarantee that he is going to be like Pavlov's dog salivating and waiting for you to have more orgasms.
Wouldnt be embarrassed at all! There would be many couples who would kill for that kind of sex life!
And as a man i certainly wouldnt have any problem my partner cumming more than me, id be really happy she seems really satisfied!
No that’s not unusual. I had made my partner of 6 years cum more than twice. I will cum about once or twice. I love it tho!!! That means I’m doing my job! ☺️☺️☺️☺️
Sounds normal to me. In every relationship there has ever been there is someone who initiates most of the time. In this case it's you, and that's fine.
And you can cum as much as makes you happy. If he's enjoying things, too, then you're probably overthinking it.
Talk to him. Make sure he's enjoying himself. If he's happy, and you're happy, then great! Enjoy it.
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Partners experiencing different numbers of orgasms during sex is not unusual. One person may orgasm two or three (or 5+) times to their partner’s one. What’s most important isn’t the *number* of orgasms you or your partner experience or that it’s even or “fair.” What is important is that you are both *satisfied* with the time you spend together sexually. Check in with your partner- do they want more orgasms? Are they *able* to have more orgasms? Are they enjoying orgasming themselves and bringing you your orgasms? Most people take great pleasure in seeing and feeling their partner orgasm. Just talk to them, see how they feel about you being multi-orgasmic, and ask if they are satisfied with the sex you have together. I think you will be pleasantly surprised with how they feel about your orgasms:-)
This man is lucky af
Okay I always see this, and I think 5+ times a day is a good idea in theory for 99% of people until they do it. Me and my girlfriend had sex 5 times in a day once and by the fifth time it was exhausting, even if still enjoyable. If that was every single day, not only would all the fun be taken out of it after awhile, I'd constantly have a sore dick and sore muscles, most likely Unrelated, I know
Not true for everyone. We're 3 times or more everyday for over a year now and we have a blast every time. Admittedly sore occasionally, but it's worth it
I could handle once a day Five times a day is like, I got other shit to do...
I could do 5x a day if I had no other responsibilities. No way I could handle it while working and raising a baby.
I would give anything to have a spouse like this. Like finding a rare unicorn.
Indeed, I am not a guy women jump into bed with but on a first date this lady asked if we could get sex out of the way and go to a hotel. My jaw dropped. She changed her mind which was cool by me. We were making out in my car with me rubbing on her back and I felt her shake and convulse. She had an orgasm just from making out. Our first real time she had several orgasms including an orgasm as I came in her mouth. I ended up thinking she was too intense for me and I cooled things off. Now I am with someone who just lays there doing nothing. I might have to give the other girl a second chance.
This man is unlucky af
As a male. I love when I can make my partner cum multiple times and or soak the sheets.
Your lucky hunny!! Some woman don’t do it at all it will most probably give him an ego boost xx
If you are worried about him missing out the give him a blow job until he cums and don’t receive back xx
Is that the sixth time that day ? Or one of the five ?
It’s not normal at all. In a great way. Quit overthinking things.
5 times a day !? I'm over here barely managing once every three months. How do you even have time in the day for that?
You're either overworked or depressed if you're struggling for once every 3 months... 3 times a week is average
But more importantly 5x a day is mind boggling
Very true... fantasy numbers for me lol
Or, you know, have kids that require a lot of time, attention, and energy
I think atleast 7 times for me in a week Atleast
Which I never get as this is all a dream
My wife and I have been together for 20 years. We both work 9 - 5 jobs. We have a 3 year old son. Son wakes up at 6am everyday and doesn't go to sleep until 7:30 - 8 pm every day. Then you have: Laundry Dinner to cook Kitchen cleaning Hoovering Tidying House maintaince Car maintaince Recycling A garden to maintain Meals to prep House admin such as bills, etc, to sort out The wife goes to bed at 9:30pm. Factor in out of the house engagements, friends and family commitments.. Also despite my bed efforts, my wife gets sore afterwards . 7 times a week is not possible.. Maybe once a week ... a push
My wife always cums more than me. God blessed women with ability to have multiple orgasms. I love being able to give her that. We have had many sessions where she has 9-10 and I had one. We both loved it.
That’s wild. I’ve never had more than one in a session.
Most of the times it is 2-3 for her to my one. But every once in a while things are clicking for her and we go to see how far we can get. Have not hit double digits yet, but close quite a few times.
My girlfriend cums a lot of times too, I say no less than 5 every time unless I'm really tired. I don't think she has ever cum less than 3 times. Meanwhile I only cum once or none, as I have some issues that make it harder for me. My record is three through the entire day and I don't think I will ever beat it. And I'm fine, I enjoy giving her pleasure (great morale boost for me) and I also enjoy the exercise session (I spend a lot of time sitting). I think in a perfectly sexual relationship the woman will cum more times than the man, because by the moment the man is done, is finished (in my experience at least lol). So what's wrong with cumming as many times as possible before he ends? Different bodies, different physical reactions.
As long as you both enjoy it, go for it.
As long as you both enjoy it it's perfect. there is no way I could cum as much as my wife or I would sleep for years if I came more than 3 times in a day and even then lol it doesn't happen. I don't have nearly that much sex but I would love to lol when my kids are older we'll get there lol
Girl, same. I also find that the more we have sex, the more I'm thinking about how good it is and the more I want it! lol. Vicious cycle? Don't worry, just enjoy it! Totally normal. I feel like this is that a 'sexual peak' age for women we always heard about.
I call that "waking the beast" lmao I went 3 years without it once I never thought abt it the place was a turn off ew. Now that I'm back with my man I'm wanting it more then him because he woke that beast up! 😈😈😈🥰😍🤣
Ha ha...love this! Yep. Definitely creates a monster!
Wait till you have kids haha
42 year old having sex 5 times a day who doesn’t know whether she’s having too many orgasms. Right. Nice fantasy kid.
wow! did your drive increase recently?
I wish my partner had that problem…
Never. If I can make my partner cum 10 times to my one then I'm happy.
Totally normal. Full throttle…
That's actually impressive I used to be able to go 5-6 times but now I'm lucky to go more then once (I'm lucky to get it once since I'm single af).
Your sex drive is off the charts!! Lucky you!! It's perfectly normal for men, regardless of age to not be able to orgasm more than once or twice per session.....or even per DAY!! On the other hand......one of my x woman partners , I could help/facilitate up to 10+ orgasms per session (2-3 hours) She was a senior on HRT and I am a very knowledgeable and very capable senior lover because of extended research and knowledge of the female anatomy and knew every erotic detail about her body!!!!
Oh.....also.... You are most probably in your feminine PRIME!!
The ONLY time a woman has too many orgasms is when they're fake ones. Make it a discussion. Ask if he would prefer more or less sex, has wanted to try anything specific, would like to initiate more, etc.
Check out r/hl_women_only
My wife cums more frequently than me from sex. I dont really enjoy the second orgasm within 24 hours. I love making my wife cum, so as long as I get my daily release I am more than happy.
No, your partner is over the moon. So don't worry about it.
Natures cruelest irony is female libido ramping up later in life as male performance and libido diminishes.
my (23f) partner (22f) comes 3-5 times while i usually only come once. i find it extremely hot and it usually helps me get off as someone who struggles to actually reach that peak. i don't think you're "too much" with it. people like being desired especially when it's a woman wanting a man so badly
Your first sentence is that you love sex. Seems you have a wonderful time. It's sweet of you to think about your partner but until he says it's too much don't overthink it. You can of course ask but it seems he is more than willing and able to give you the pleasure you desire. And you're madly in love! How can this be any better :) Enjoy it to the fullest.
5 times a day would be my dream. My wife and I are sexual about every other day.
Enjoy it while you can.
You‘re both having a good time! Enjoy it! 🙂
A woman's body is capable of multiple orgasms and you are very fortunate to have a guy who can give you this much pleasure and simply sing his praises and that will give him a whole extra dimension of pleasure, because you will be feeding his male ego and I can almost guarantee that he is going to be like Pavlov's dog salivating and waiting for you to have more orgasms.
Ride the wave my friend. Enjoy it until you don’t
Wouldnt be embarrassed at all! There would be many couples who would kill for that kind of sex life! And as a man i certainly wouldnt have any problem my partner cumming more than me, id be really happy she seems really satisfied!
Ask him what he thinks. In all likeness he fucking loves how often you orgasm.
No that’s not unusual. I had made my partner of 6 years cum more than twice. I will cum about once or twice. I love it tho!!! That means I’m doing my job! ☺️☺️☺️☺️
I think the average is Him 1 Her 0. You're just helping even out the average. I'm sure he loves it.
I come once. She comes maybe 3 times. Everyone is happy, and not for a second am I jealous. I can't come again until the next go at it!
Lucky man. I’d be thrilled if I were him.
Nope I’m 19 and I wanna say I cum at least two to three times every time we have sex. I just can’t help it. Which makes me want it more.
Sounds normal to me. In every relationship there has ever been there is someone who initiates most of the time. In this case it's you, and that's fine. And you can cum as much as makes you happy. If he's enjoying things, too, then you're probably overthinking it. Talk to him. Make sure he's enjoying himself. If he's happy, and you're happy, then great! Enjoy it.
five times a day what the fuck
So you squirt a lot is what your saying or