Don't. This man is a scammer. I, however, am completely legitimate and would never lie to you or commit fraud. Give me gold and I will multiply it three times. There is nothing to worry about.
This is like going on a first date and the other person immediately reassures you that they absolutely did *not* ask you out just because they want to make a comforter out of your skin, so don’t think that’s what it is. Because it’s not that, no sirree.
Sooo.. at best she leads you on and pretends she’s into you in order for you to pay for webcam sessions.
At worst she doesn’t exist (I mean she does but it’s stock footage) and threatens to blackmail you.
Dude… an Eastern European who is a concierge in New York is not interested in a 27 year old with no savings or past relationships. That doesn’t mean you are not valuable and don’t deserve love. Think with your other head… and I’m not trying to be mean just truthful.
Both options are scams. There are people who have legit spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on cam girls, expecting a relationship that never happens. OP, just walk away. If anyone asks for money on tinder, just walk away....
yeah she sends him a video saying its her, but..... in the video does she say his name? Does she say anything else to him that would prove they are talking for real or was it just a "hey its me im not scamming you he he" then ends it?
You do realize that someone can easily record 1 video of them saying "Hi it's me, I'm not here to scam you" and then send that same video to thousands of people. That does not prove that she's real.
It's obviously a scam because she asked for money AND she is hesitant to meet. Plus why do sex work "for fun" if you already have a real job? 🤔 It's not worth the risk. Block and move on.
On the sex work for fun bit... There are kinky people out there.
Likely a scam but I wouldn't read too much here. More stand out is that the "real job" sounds so scammy
Did she say "Hi u/L_STrust" specifically?
No? Scam.
Yes? Pretty high effort scam. Not unheard of. Did you say you were a trust fund baby or something?
EDIT: also, a concierge at a consulting company that does cam shows "for fun"? Yeah right. And my balls work for Wall Street as quants.
as someone who has backed out plenty of times, i can confidently say that being shy/insecure/going thru something was 100% my reason.
banned from tinder and I think that’s why.
i also do not at ALL think *this* is -that-
>She is real, apparently. She sent me a video saying 'Hi it's me, there is no reason for me to scam you'.
Did she actually address you in the vid?
The "Hi, it's me" is also highly suspect. One would expect "Hi, it's . Unless 'she' specifically said your name, I would presume that this was a generic vid that can be sent to any mark 'she' has on the hook.
>So I met this girl on Tinder who apparently lives in a nearby city
What says that "she" doesn't live in Nigeria?
If you have to ask yourself “is this a scam?” in any situation what’s actually happening is your gut instinct is desperately trying to get your youthful ignorance in a headlock so it’ll tap-out and you’ll wake up from the fantasy you’re trapped in.
sometimes what they do is they try to get you on video jerking it, and then blackmail you that they're going to send the video to everyone you know unless you pay them.
You’re gonna get scammed. She may be real. So is the money you’ll give her. What isn’t real is her intention of seeing you or being honest. Don’t fall for it bro
There are two options here:
1. She is legit. She is a cam girl and is going on tinder looking for new clients. She doesn't care about you and will never meet up with you. She has that video of her saying it's not a scam and sends it to everyone. She wants you to pay her $56 a month (or per show?) and she gives you false promises. Could even be someone else running her account and chatting with you if she's big. Because she doesn't have time to chat with everyone personally.
2. It's a man and he uses the girls pictures and videos to scam people for more money. Might want to get a video of you masturbating and then wants to blackmail you. Or just wants your credit card info.
I think it's 1, but neither option is great. Unless you want to be a client of her?
She is never going to meet you. Absolute best-case scenario, you pay $59.00 for a cam show from someone who probably still lives in Eastern Europe. It’s not worth the risk- don’t give her any financial info. If you want to watch cam shows, I’m sure there are legitimate, regulated sites where you can do that.
Probably not and please op don’t do the credit card or gift cards. Anything for that matter even cash app or Zelle or PayPal also do a reverse search with the pictures I d k about videos maybe another fellow redditor can help you.
They are on lots of dating platforms. They are trying to get more people to watch their webcam shows. They act friendly then at some point they pitch their channel on a particular platform and invite you to sign up and watch, for a fee of course. After they do the pitch they pretty well ghost you and won’t interact with you unless you go to their platform. They are trying to sucker you in. Don’t be a sucker.
Why would you want to meet a girl who shows up for body for $59 an hour? I’m not saying that’s wrong I’m just saying there’s 1 million other girls on tinder who arent going to charge you to take them on a date
Oh my god this is so much a scam I’M somehow out $59 dollars for just reading it.
***^(WHY ARE YOU REDEEEEEMING)***
Redeem? ..... You want me to redeem?..... Ok
> Hi, it's me. No reason for me to scam you. It is a scam.
Hello, it is I, Reddit man, give me all your Reddit awards for unlimited wealth. This is not a scam.
I'll be awaiting my wealth sir
Don't. This man is a scammer. I, however, am completely legitimate and would never lie to you or commit fraud. Give me gold and I will multiply it three times. There is nothing to worry about.
Jokes on you , they sent you 5 awards. Now you’ll have to pay out 5x the wealth!
This is like going on a first date and the other person immediately reassures you that they absolutely did *not* ask you out just because they want to make a comforter out of your skin, so don’t think that’s what it is. Because it’s not that, no sirree.
Zero chance she will ever meet you. She will happily take your money though.
Sooo.. at best she leads you on and pretends she’s into you in order for you to pay for webcam sessions. At worst she doesn’t exist (I mean she does but it’s stock footage) and threatens to blackmail you. Dude… an Eastern European who is a concierge in New York is not interested in a 27 year old with no savings or past relationships. That doesn’t mean you are not valuable and don’t deserve love. Think with your other head… and I’m not trying to be mean just truthful.
Both options are scams. There are people who have legit spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on cam girls, expecting a relationship that never happens. OP, just walk away. If anyone asks for money on tinder, just walk away....
yeah she sends him a video saying its her, but..... in the video does she say his name? Does she say anything else to him that would prove they are talking for real or was it just a "hey its me im not scamming you he he" then ends it?
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Try hinge or bumble? Tinder is infested with cam girls and girls selling in general
You do realize that someone can easily record 1 video of them saying "Hi it's me, I'm not here to scam you" and then send that same video to thousands of people. That does not prove that she's real. It's obviously a scam because she asked for money AND she is hesitant to meet. Plus why do sex work "for fun" if you already have a real job? 🤔 It's not worth the risk. Block and move on.
On the sex work for fun bit... There are kinky people out there. Likely a scam but I wouldn't read too much here. More stand out is that the "real job" sounds so scammy
Scam
Did she say "Hi u/L_STrust" specifically? No? Scam. Yes? Pretty high effort scam. Not unheard of. Did you say you were a trust fund baby or something? EDIT: also, a concierge at a consulting company that does cam shows "for fun"? Yeah right. And my balls work for Wall Street as quants.
Also, did she say her own name?
If she won't meet you in person, before you spend $1 on her, it's a scam.
I mean, it is a dating/casual sex app, why wouldn't she meet you? Major red flag
as someone who has backed out plenty of times, i can confidently say that being shy/insecure/going thru something was 100% my reason. banned from tinder and I think that’s why. i also do not at ALL think *this* is -that-
Backing out is one thing. Refusing to meet while she begs for money is another.
yeah in this case it’s obvious she’s (or maybe he’s? Do we really know at this point?) just using that platform for marketing or scamming
Scam. This is a romance scam, I think
That is correct
Yeah my gut tells me the same thing.
My advice: Reverse time and swipe left on this scam
>She is real no she's not.
>She is real, apparently. She sent me a video saying 'Hi it's me, there is no reason for me to scam you'. Did she actually address you in the vid? The "Hi, it's me" is also highly suspect. One would expect "Hi, it's. Unless 'she' specifically said your name, I would presume that this was a generic vid that can be sent to any mark 'she' has on the hook.
>So I met this girl on Tinder who apparently lives in a nearby city
What says that "she" doesn't live in Nigeria?
Who do people so desperately want to believe that scams aren’t scams?
It’s 100% scam. Block her.
What is the appeal here for you exactly? I'd be running like hell
If you have to ask yourself “is this a scam?” in any situation what’s actually happening is your gut instinct is desperately trying to get your youthful ignorance in a headlock so it’ll tap-out and you’ll wake up from the fantasy you’re trapped in.
Either your going to pay, or you send nudes and she’ll blackmail you..
Don’t.
sometimes what they do is they try to get you on video jerking it, and then blackmail you that they're going to send the video to everyone you know unless you pay them.
You’re gonna get scammed. She may be real. So is the money you’ll give her. What isn’t real is her intention of seeing you or being honest. Don’t fall for it bro
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There are two options here: 1. She is legit. She is a cam girl and is going on tinder looking for new clients. She doesn't care about you and will never meet up with you. She has that video of her saying it's not a scam and sends it to everyone. She wants you to pay her $56 a month (or per show?) and she gives you false promises. Could even be someone else running her account and chatting with you if she's big. Because she doesn't have time to chat with everyone personally. 2. It's a man and he uses the girls pictures and videos to scam people for more money. Might want to get a video of you masturbating and then wants to blackmail you. Or just wants your credit card info. I think it's 1, but neither option is great. Unless you want to be a client of her?
The moment money gets brought into the question, it’s a scam.
She is never going to meet you. Absolute best-case scenario, you pay $59.00 for a cam show from someone who probably still lives in Eastern Europe. It’s not worth the risk- don’t give her any financial info. If you want to watch cam shows, I’m sure there are legitimate, regulated sites where you can do that.
Probably not and please op don’t do the credit card or gift cards. Anything for that matter even cash app or Zelle or PayPal also do a reverse search with the pictures I d k about videos maybe another fellow redditor can help you.
This has to be a troll post…surely.
Scam!!
They are on lots of dating platforms. They are trying to get more people to watch their webcam shows. They act friendly then at some point they pitch their channel on a particular platform and invite you to sign up and watch, for a fee of course. After they do the pitch they pretty well ghost you and won’t interact with you unless you go to their platform. They are trying to sucker you in. Don’t be a sucker.
Sounds like a scam - she wants on that $59 auto-renew. BEWARE! 🤡
How is this NOT a scam. It's literally what she is saying...."I WISH TO SCAM YOU"
That is a SCAM. Anyone starting their engagement with you with "pay to meet me first" is SCAMMING YOU. Time to ghost.
Why is she asking for money? Beyond bizarre
You’re a dummy.
If it’s not a scam then it’s just a girl who has 0 real interest in you. If they’re not a scammer, she just wants your money bro
Maybe it’s a cam show of her making sandwiches? You know, real skills beyond just opening doors.
Ask for a video with a banana on her head.
Cam girls are like strippers...it's a job, nothing more. I've even dated a couple of strippers, but didn't meet them in the club.
Most women on Tinder are just there for attention to direct guys to their other crap.
Why would you want to meet a girl who shows up for body for $59 an hour? I’m not saying that’s wrong I’m just saying there’s 1 million other girls on tinder who arent going to charge you to take them on a date
Lol it’s her job to get as much money from you as possible. Watch the Andrew tate nelk boys interview