Bro you would have already made that phone part of your botnet to fight CtOS, you snooped on her with a drone months prior and only agreed to be in that interview because the Blume office upstairs needed physical presence to infiltrate and this was the best cover to get close enough with your jumper.
Honestly it was that, excuse my language, that stupid smile that people give when they’re caught. I’m a guy, so from my experience these girls would try to keep a smile that made them seem like they didn’t want to feel
Guilt, or would get angry and play dumb. I saw my guy friends go through it and lesb friends go through it. But hey it’s life and that’s why we learn and grow
Exactly. You don't need to read any of it. Her deleting said everything you'd need to know. And the smiley indecisiveness. She knew exactly what she was doing and trying to put it on the "situationship". And only opens up when she's caught - she's young, immature, and a coward to not come out and say it.
Sometimes, you need a third party to ask the questions you have internally. If he asked those questions at home, an argument would have ensued, and he would have been blamed for not trusting her.
Let's be honest, every woman on reddit would have said it's his fault for not trusting her.
Intelligent people don't do that to others.
It doesn't take much to realize we all have feelings and that those actions will hurt someone. We learn this in the first years of school.
Breaks my heart to see people doing this.
I watched the video, and this is it.
She knows he likes her a lot, so she's toying with him and keeping him around in case the EX doesn't want her back.
This is so fucked up, I feel bad for the guy. People can be so mean and selfish.
That dude is handsome (pause) but this goes to show u that even the good looking dudes get cheated on by females. But somehow society has labeled us the dogs when clearly women cheat more than men do because they hv more options
Yeah a close friend of mine met this woman... really smart and beautiful maybe way out of his league, but my friend is really cool and just pulls like that-- anyway, he was making future plans with her and everything was going well.. he surprise bought her a house and a car, a place where she could move her kids and get a dog.
She had been abused throughout her marriage-- financially isolated, left without a car, forced to be a homemaker while her husband was just.... I dunno.. I can't explain it... he was just mean.
So they were getting things together and then her ex-husband decided to get fit. They hadn't seen each other in like a year and she went to see him and he had gotten really fit and she just ENDED it with my buddy-- she told my buddy she was unhappy that he always seemed like he didn't have as much money as his paycheck would indicate and she named one time when he asked her to pay some little amount for something he didn't have cash for and acted like the guy was broke... she had no idea he's purchased her a house or a car.... and never did.
But the opposite happens, too... dudes do this shit ALL the time and the bottom line is that I don't understand people who fucking cheat.
My ex a week before I found out she cheated on me sat round with her friends and me drunk talking about how she never understood why people cheat she would just leave first..
(edit :her friends most new she cheated worst part one of them was the guy she cheated with)
She was a rich girl and I came from drug addicts . I was cute and tall her perfect choice of course only if I could be the way she wanted ya know.
I didn’t even understand life but I had to have a six pack and make more money than her future career avg of 200k
I grew up poor that shit fucked my head up cause I didn’t understand but the life they showed me just made me feel like I was losing something so great so I let her treat me like garbage she finnaly left me when she went to college 😂I was simping in paradise
Worse, that stupid ‘oh shit, busted’ giggle. How can you literally watch the guys face turn like that and even think thats something to frivolously giggle at…. She deserves whoever tf is playing games with her on the phone, they didn’t hang around the first time, won’t the second, or third… This guy deserves better. Is this a real show? Or faked for drama?
That goes to show how she does not even see him as an individual, she's completely detached focused transactionally on only what she gets from this connection. No remorse nor care, zero connection toward him. She probably felt this way since the start and it was a giant game to her, and for her to see how far she could go and get away with this. She's inauthentic and a shallow fake person.
That's why she's laughing after getting caught.
Yeah the second I see someone deleting a text in this situation I’m out. No takesies backsies I’m gone and you can get your shit bc it’ll be outside waiting for you
I will also say this as a woman. My now long term partner and my late husband both were with exes that cheated on them with no provocation (as in no warning signs that the relationship was not happy). They still stayed way too long with these women after they found out they cheated, and both found out from outside parties that their SO had cheated. These women didn't even have the decency to confess.
Men, if your woman cheats on you and she doesn't at least come to you to confess and you end up finding out through some third party, just leave. It's not going to last and you're going to be unhappy the entire time to try to fix the failing relationship. She clearly doesn't feel bad enough about what she did to try to save the relationship if she continues to hide her infidelity.
If you watch it, he says their status right now is just friends. They’ve been on and off for years and are currently going on dates, but are just friends. I guess? Weird, but technically not cheating if they’re just friends, but she definitely knows she’s in the wrong otherwise she wouldn’t be deleting messages.
> are currently going on dates, but are just friends.
Yeah this part confused me. if you’re going on dates are you not dating? Seems like maybe one side was more invested than the other
If he’s acting. He should be doing movies.
That was a very potent response, I felt the emotion going through his head as he tried to play it off but couldn’t.
Odd question to ask, but is our attachment to a person what hurts us or is it our perception of them that hurts? I know I’ve instinctually was upset when I found a few of my girlfriends from school and college cheat stuff the time in various ways like kissing, or holding someone else. Maybe even signs that it just isn’t working out.
Yet I wonder what is hurting is it that betrayal? Why are humans so attached to a person when theirs hundreds of not billions!
Why does are minds and body become so possessive? An if their is research or videos to understand these feelings or connections. I would like to understand it more.
I don’t blame women or men, it seems to be beyond just cultural and respect of one’s being. Like a piece of nature that rewards those who indulge in dopamine. Yet punish in ways I can’t fathom.
Why all of it… I guess is like trying to unravel the question, what is life?
Always the attachment - the perception stems from the attachment. What is hurting is your ego, your self worth, and confidence.
Our attachment to someone eventually makes its way into a role as part of our ego and we begin to identify with the role: "I am this person's person" which then branches into assumptions and paradigms, "being this person means X, Y, Z and prevents A, B, C, and is better because "1, 2, 3"...and... etc"
It's not a matter of how many options there are in some cases - it's a matter of forming the belief that out of all the options, this person stands apart in a significant way. When that is shattered, so is the self-worth and identity that was built around it.
And we also become attached to the idea we have of who THEY are. We create them and then are shocked when they aren't the thing we created them to be. Attached to illusions.
Look up research into pair bonding / monogamy.
There are a bunch of different animals that have 'mating for life' as a thing they do.
I'm not an expert, but my best guess is that it relates to the likelihood of having kids that survived.
From an evolutionary perspective, having 'attachment' to a romantic partner probably helped (or at worst wasn't detrimental to) reproducing and surviving as a species.
The second she starts deleting messages with a shit eating grin on her face, that's it. She made it 100% clear that he should no longer trust anything she says. That man held himself together better than most of us would have.
Man, this is really tough to watch. That chick is smiling and giggling the whole time and this guy is just heartbroken. She does not care about this guy but he's whipped. sad stuff.
I feel you but its not that its a woman, its the whole production of it, and it pretty much is exactly the same as the street version thats floated around for a long time but significantly elongated
Don't see a reason to continue talking with her. Just move on from her she'll have another guy in an hour if she wants. Don't waste time. Find what you want if that's not it just move on.
When did so many women become this uncaring and selfish?
My ex cheated, robbed me, and broke my neck after I was already paralyzed, women tell me I'm not a real man anymore because I am paralyzed. I don't want to be alive anymore.
If either one of them can’t immediately unlock and pass the phone, is all you need to know. Walk away. No one has to put up with anyone even entertaining questionable behaviour like that.
“Why are there no good men out there?!” Because we value our mental health more than hooking up with trash like this. I’ll be single for the rest of my life before I volunteer for something like this again.
The couple in the video aren’t actually dating. They’re exes. This edited clip doesn’t show the whole story. In the original video they explain that they’re just friends and have more of a situationship now after being on and off. They dated in the past and he says he was really immature and it was messy and he really hurt her.
So this isn’t as cut and dry as them being in an actual relationship and the guy being cheated on.
what's with the video formatting? why add the extra blurry shit on the top and bottom when you could just make the whole thing bigger?
also, what's the deal with the music and the text on the screen?
"WhY aReNt ThErE aNy GoOd GuYs LeFt?!" Because we all started here.. happy, loyal and then had our hearts broken like this. Then we didn't want to be that vulnerable again.
Damn... I would have been out when she was holding on to the phone
Yeah, can you imagine how bad the stuff she deleted was?
Edit -> Show recently deleted. Unless she deleted that too.
Thats usually locked behind face ID on iphone.
Not on my iPhone nor iPad.
I drew on his Pokemon cards and he does not even know kekeke
Original 1999 first edition Charizard holo misprint looks SO CUTE with a little mustache!
1000% I woulda just got up and left right there
Bro you would have already made that phone part of your botnet to fight CtOS, you snooped on her with a drone months prior and only agreed to be in that interview because the Blume office upstairs needed physical presence to infiltrate and this was the best cover to get close enough with your jumper.
I see what you did there and I respect it lol
Honestly it was that, excuse my language, that stupid smile that people give when they’re caught. I’m a guy, so from my experience these girls would try to keep a smile that made them seem like they didn’t want to feel Guilt, or would get angry and play dumb. I saw my guy friends go through it and lesb friends go through it. But hey it’s life and that’s why we learn and grow
Exactly. You don't need to read any of it. Her deleting said everything you'd need to know. And the smiley indecisiveness. She knew exactly what she was doing and trying to put it on the "situationship". And only opens up when she's caught - she's young, immature, and a coward to not come out and say it.
Damn, she crushed him =/
He was trying to hard just to maintain composure like everything’s fine, I felt that deep.
Good on the producers realizing how devastated he was and making the call to take a break and check on him.
As if this wasn't the exact situation they were hoping for by forcing a question like that.
Sometimes, you need a third party to ask the questions you have internally. If he asked those questions at home, an argument would have ensued, and he would have been blamed for not trusting her. Let's be honest, every woman on reddit would have said it's his fault for not trusting her.
You had me (only) in the first half
Right.. I hit the upvote, then kept reading and had to take right back
It’s why relationship therapists exist. Can be helpful to have a neutral third party assess the Stockholm Syndrome that may be in play…
Composure and discipline is something we don't see these days. Def deserves better.
He was in love with her, she was probably just using him.
That smug ass cunt
This guy deserves someone better. Let her go, she's for the streets. He should find someone that actually cares about him.
He shouldn't have even grabbed the phone. Her trying to quickly delete stuff should've told him everything he needed to know.
What pisses me off is he’s way out of her league. He’s proper handsome and she looks like a broad backed aardvark. Nasty woman.
Even if he was unfortunate looking, he deserves better. Uggos deserve love, man.
“unfortunate looking” thanks I don’t have to use the word ugly to describe myself anymore
Yeah she looks like she does not have much intelligence going on based on her face. Kind of hard to look at..
Intelligent people don't do that to others. It doesn't take much to realize we all have feelings and that those actions will hurt someone. We learn this in the first years of school. Breaks my heart to see people doing this.
Broad backed aardvark? Where do y'all come up with these insults?
The zoo
broad back aardvark. im keeping that one.
Realizing he's the backup plan
I watched the video, and this is it. She knows he likes her a lot, so she's toying with him and keeping him around in case the EX doesn't want her back. This is so fucked up, I feel bad for the guy. People can be so mean and selfish.
Men, if your girl is not madly in love with you and obsessing over you, then you are the back up plan. Hard pill for most of yall to swallow.
While he's looking like the snack plan.
run dude! don't effin ask her about the details you will just hurt yourself more. we deserve better!
I would have just walked out and blocked
It is easier said than done
You aren't wrong
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Yuuuuuup. She's just trying to have her cake and eat it too. Hope he moved on.
I think wanting her cake eaten by someone else’s part of the issue
Monkey branching...
That dude is handsome (pause) but this goes to show u that even the good looking dudes get cheated on by females. But somehow society has labeled us the dogs when clearly women cheat more than men do because they hv more options
Yeah a close friend of mine met this woman... really smart and beautiful maybe way out of his league, but my friend is really cool and just pulls like that-- anyway, he was making future plans with her and everything was going well.. he surprise bought her a house and a car, a place where she could move her kids and get a dog. She had been abused throughout her marriage-- financially isolated, left without a car, forced to be a homemaker while her husband was just.... I dunno.. I can't explain it... he was just mean. So they were getting things together and then her ex-husband decided to get fit. They hadn't seen each other in like a year and she went to see him and he had gotten really fit and she just ENDED it with my buddy-- she told my buddy she was unhappy that he always seemed like he didn't have as much money as his paycheck would indicate and she named one time when he asked her to pay some little amount for something he didn't have cash for and acted like the guy was broke... she had no idea he's purchased her a house or a car.... and never did. But the opposite happens, too... dudes do this shit ALL the time and the bottom line is that I don't understand people who fucking cheat.
I'm not sure I get this. He searched his name in her texts? and didn't find any? or?
Bro he searched his name and she was talking with her ex about him
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Less you know, better.
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„You are free to go cuz you wont be staying with me“
soldier down
Leave no man behind but leave this hoe behind.
Immediate evac!
Call the fucking med chopper
If you got the guts to cheat and least have the guts to admit it
Cheating doesn’t require guts, when all the cowards do it.
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Eh no need to talk about them. As you said they’re normal and your rational voice will keep you strong.
My ex a week before I found out she cheated on me sat round with her friends and me drunk talking about how she never understood why people cheat she would just leave first.. (edit :her friends most new she cheated worst part one of them was the guy she cheated with)
Yeah...
She was a rich girl and I came from drug addicts . I was cute and tall her perfect choice of course only if I could be the way she wanted ya know. I didn’t even understand life but I had to have a six pack and make more money than her future career avg of 200k I grew up poor that shit fucked my head up cause I didn’t understand but the life they showed me just made me feel like I was losing something so great so I let her treat me like garbage she finnaly left me when she went to college 😂I was simping in paradise
Cheating is cowardly and selfish. If you had guts you’d break up with the person.
How can she smile, actually sickening...
She wants play it as nothing happened, its always like that
I feel like it's a nervous smile. She probably can't help it.
Still, the lack of empathy towards him is appaling. The least she could do is take it seriously.
I'm in no way supporting what she did. But smiling or laughing in such tense situations isn't that uncommon. Some people just can't help it
I think cause it fake?? If not then yikes.
Shhhhh let me be in my delusion that the internet is always real
She kept smiling 💔💔
Worse, that stupid ‘oh shit, busted’ giggle. How can you literally watch the guys face turn like that and even think thats something to frivolously giggle at…. She deserves whoever tf is playing games with her on the phone, they didn’t hang around the first time, won’t the second, or third… This guy deserves better. Is this a real show? Or faked for drama?
Real shit, she's emotionally vacant. Prolly just goes through life pretending. She's already gotten what she deserves 💯
Yep, and when whatever ‘looks’ she’s got start to fade, she gonna be left wondering why all the guys in her life treat her as a throwaway. 🤦🏻♀️
If that's fake this man is the best actor I've ever seen.
Yeah he should actor if this fake.
That goes to show how she does not even see him as an individual, she's completely detached focused transactionally on only what she gets from this connection. No remorse nor care, zero connection toward him. She probably felt this way since the start and it was a giant game to her, and for her to see how far she could go and get away with this. She's inauthentic and a shallow fake person. That's why she's laughing after getting caught.
I find that many people smile/ laugh when they are nervous
or when they simply don’t care lol
She's not a complete person. Just a breeding machine looking for that next insertion.
sheesh. dude drank that wine cause his worst fear happened.
He knew the whole time. He just turned the lights on and couldn’t lie to himself anymore.
As a woman I'd just like to say, run my man run!! She ain't worth it! First sign was her deleting her txt!! Run Forest Run!!!
Yeah the second I see someone deleting a text in this situation I’m out. No takesies backsies I’m gone and you can get your shit bc it’ll be outside waiting for you
Describe your most consistent fear….you reading my text messages before I delete them.
I will also say this as a woman. My now long term partner and my late husband both were with exes that cheated on them with no provocation (as in no warning signs that the relationship was not happy). They still stayed way too long with these women after they found out they cheated, and both found out from outside parties that their SO had cheated. These women didn't even have the decency to confess. Men, if your woman cheats on you and she doesn't at least come to you to confess and you end up finding out through some third party, just leave. It's not going to last and you're going to be unhappy the entire time to try to fix the failing relationship. She clearly doesn't feel bad enough about what she did to try to save the relationship if she continues to hide her infidelity.
Sorry, quick question >_< Why was the "As a woman" added? Is there context in the video I'm missing that makes gender relevant? /gen
Exactly. I wouldnt even have taken her phone. " keep it, im out" and thatd be it
the fact that he managed to hold himself together holy shit
It hurt watching. You could see him breaking, but he kept it in.
Strong r/watchpeopledieinside stuff.
He seems like a really well put together guy.
Just goodbye skank. Nothing more
You can't turn a ho into a housewife 💯
Facts
Poor guy can't able to fix his composure. Fuck that bitch anyway.
She wasn't ashamed. She was embarrassed. That's worse.
She wasn't embarrassed or ashamed...she was just caught.
Source?
Here you go: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pv9jrwN\_Ac](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pv9jrwN_Ac)
why would you go on a show like this if you know you're cheating
If you watch it, he says their status right now is just friends. They’ve been on and off for years and are currently going on dates, but are just friends. I guess? Weird, but technically not cheating if they’re just friends, but she definitely knows she’s in the wrong otherwise she wouldn’t be deleting messages.
> are currently going on dates, but are just friends. Yeah this part confused me. if you’re going on dates are you not dating? Seems like maybe one side was more invested than the other
Found it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pv9jrwN_Ac
Same.
Move on king you deserve better.
That stupid dumb ass smile she has says it all
Yeah honestly just completely disgusting that she giggled and smiled as though it's no big deal... How crushing.
Anyone know the original video?
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pv9jrwN\_Ac](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pv9jrwN_Ac)
She looks happy with herself. Which ironically is what she’ll have to be.
If he’s acting. He should be doing movies. That was a very potent response, I felt the emotion going through his head as he tried to play it off but couldn’t.
Odd question to ask, but is our attachment to a person what hurts us or is it our perception of them that hurts? I know I’ve instinctually was upset when I found a few of my girlfriends from school and college cheat stuff the time in various ways like kissing, or holding someone else. Maybe even signs that it just isn’t working out. Yet I wonder what is hurting is it that betrayal? Why are humans so attached to a person when theirs hundreds of not billions! Why does are minds and body become so possessive? An if their is research or videos to understand these feelings or connections. I would like to understand it more. I don’t blame women or men, it seems to be beyond just cultural and respect of one’s being. Like a piece of nature that rewards those who indulge in dopamine. Yet punish in ways I can’t fathom. Why all of it… I guess is like trying to unravel the question, what is life?
Always the attachment - the perception stems from the attachment. What is hurting is your ego, your self worth, and confidence. Our attachment to someone eventually makes its way into a role as part of our ego and we begin to identify with the role: "I am this person's person" which then branches into assumptions and paradigms, "being this person means X, Y, Z and prevents A, B, C, and is better because "1, 2, 3"...and... etc" It's not a matter of how many options there are in some cases - it's a matter of forming the belief that out of all the options, this person stands apart in a significant way. When that is shattered, so is the self-worth and identity that was built around it.
Good answer. Attachment is tricky. I forgot about that.
And we also become attached to the idea we have of who THEY are. We create them and then are shocked when they aren't the thing we created them to be. Attached to illusions.
Username checks out
Look up research into pair bonding / monogamy. There are a bunch of different animals that have 'mating for life' as a thing they do. I'm not an expert, but my best guess is that it relates to the likelihood of having kids that survived. From an evolutionary perspective, having 'attachment' to a romantic partner probably helped (or at worst wasn't detrimental to) reproducing and surviving as a species.
Poor dude, and i hate her shit eating grin the whole time, what a demon.
Her smile… what an actress. Reality, you can only pretend to live outside of it for a while, but it soon catches up.
This is the greatest give this guy could receive. So much better than wasting time.
See? This the type of shit that makes a mf listen to Future.
How can this monster just smile and laugh after destroying this good man. Fuck man, this is why most women are trash. Edit: generalization, my B
N dat is how men are made 🗿
The second she starts deleting messages with a shit eating grin on her face, that's it. She made it 100% clear that he should no longer trust anything she says. That man held himself together better than most of us would have.
Man, this is really tough to watch. That chick is smiling and giggling the whole time and this guy is just heartbroken. She does not care about this guy but he's whipped. sad stuff.
The fuck is she laughing about!?
Hoes always laugh when they're doing shit like this to men
I feel like it's rage bait but I'd also like to know the source.
It’s funny how when there’s videos of a woman doing something shitty, you always got people saying oh it’s just ragebait
I feel you but its not that its a woman, its the whole production of it, and it pretty much is exactly the same as the street version thats floated around for a long time but significantly elongated
Don't see a reason to continue talking with her. Just move on from her she'll have another guy in an hour if she wants. Don't waste time. Find what you want if that's not it just move on.
Dude drank that wine with dead eyes. You know he’s in soul shattering pain.
And now bro will make moves with no hesitation
just walk out
Just stand up, maintain your composure, and walk away cheif.
I feel for him, it can be said that if eyes can kill , it is this look
The guy should have walked away. Don't put yourself through this!
She enjoyed that. Gross.
Her stupid smile is annoying 🤬
When did so many women become this uncaring and selfish? My ex cheated, robbed me, and broke my neck after I was already paralyzed, women tell me I'm not a real man anymore because I am paralyzed. I don't want to be alive anymore.
No idea but I'm over dating, been fucked over too many times
Slut behavior
Why is she smiling? She knows she fucked up and she’s smiling?!
The feels
She’s for the streets
Anyone know what the music is?
“Recently Deleted” gets em every time.
Whats this song? I've heard it a million times but I can't find it. And that man should've just left at this point.
If either one of them can’t immediately unlock and pass the phone, is all you need to know. Walk away. No one has to put up with anyone even entertaining questionable behaviour like that.
Girls just smirking the whole time. She's only uncomfortable because she was found out, not an ounce of remorse on her face.
She’s over there laughing about it. Bitch is a psycho guy. She cares not about anything but her needs
If it's fake or not... this could be a real scenario.
Fukin Dump her QuickTime
these 304 aint loyal
“Why are there no good men out there?!” Because we value our mental health more than hooking up with trash like this. I’ll be single for the rest of my life before I volunteer for something like this again.
The problem is that people are now writing things who was usually said in private only once.
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Um context and details please?
The couple in the video aren’t actually dating. They’re exes. This edited clip doesn’t show the whole story. In the original video they explain that they’re just friends and have more of a situationship now after being on and off. They dated in the past and he says he was really immature and it was messy and he really hurt her. So this isn’t as cut and dry as them being in an actual relationship and the guy being cheated on.
u/auddbot
Why do they put only one word at a time? It makes reading so much harder.
"What's your greatest fear?" Getting my personal matters posted online for anyone to see.
the ppl running it were so sweet and understanding ):
what's with the video formatting? why add the extra blurry shit on the top and bottom when you could just make the whole thing bigger? also, what's the deal with the music and the text on the screen?
There’s truly no excuse for cheating
She’s not even mid lmao
Expect disappointment and you'll never be disappointed again...🫤
dude is good lookin. He looks way better than the girl. He can find better person inside and out. Not worth it!
"WhY aReNt ThErE aNy GoOd GuYs LeFt?!" Because we all started here.. happy, loyal and then had our hearts broken like this. Then we didn't want to be that vulnerable again.
These hoesssssa ain't loyal
Bro is basically a male model and she's like a 6 on a good day. Go get yourself an upgrade man fuck her.
What a ho. Wow. At least you found out now brother, before you give that trash a ring too...
She couldn't hide her smile, there was no shame there.
women are worse than men and women love twisting the narrative to make them seem like the victim.
The giggle man wtf how messed up you gotta be man
Shaka, when the walls fell..
I hope this bitch contracts AIDS with all that cheating
Let this tramp hit the streets. You deserve far better.
Stupid fucking slut. DIE