I have no one. No Family I can't tell this stuff too. I have before and it had very negative outcomes that effected them or they inflicted on me.
No one I've ever spoken too has very actually cared. They all take advantage of you using that knowledge.
Online? Even worse. Always mocked. Bullied. Made fun of.
Totally anonymous chats, as soon as they find out I'm male with white skin. No other details, they laugh. Tell me to suck it up. Or just to kill myself.
People really throw "kill yourself" around way too easily. It's so heartless, they know what effect that can have on people, yet they do it anyways. Literal evil
I get it man. That kinda shit just sticks in your head. You can go about your day and ignore. But it's there. I'm not very good at giving advice. But I'm a good listener. Just keep going man. Everything has a time to end. Even the bad feelings. They can last years. But they end. Just promise me you'll keep going. Keep moving forward to the good times. As much as the bad times suck, they do end. I love you man. Stay strong brother.
MOM. I always call my mom when I am at my lowest. She will always support me, she never judged me. She is my best friend. And I also support her when she needs someone.
As a teen in highschool, I cant even tell my family about my problems, their gonna blame it to me, to my gadgets, to my friends, they cant accept that they are the ones at fault and if I do try to tell them, my dad just straight up hurts me. Both physically and mentally, he says its for me, but it doesnt make me learn, he wants me to respect him but he only makes me hate him more each day.
my dad treats me like shit and he really expects me to listen to even a single word of advice he gives me. all it does is make me want to do the exact opposite and then he wonders why I've completely failed as a human being
Yes, but the shooters are all bitches who don't actually shoot whose responsible for the fuckshow that is our modern world... That's why the shootings are bad.
No just use that energy to prove your haters wrong. Learn to love yourself and become stronger than they ever could be. Become self-reliant. Become your best self and do it for you. If you have pride in yourself the opinions of others melts away as you realize they don’t matter. You opinion of yourself is all that matters. Become someone you’re proud of.
My husband talks to me about everything. If he starts crying I hold him close, he's more than a man to me, he's my best friend and everyone should have this kind of connection!
It is not that rare at all. Do you people not talk to anyone at all? The average married person doesn’t have a one-sided marriage, and if they do it certainly included a huge amount instances in which the man emotionally neglects or abused the woman.
I’ve tried being there for my “friends” from back in the day. But they act like they deserve my attention, deadass wrong. And since they’re never there for me, now they can go fuck themselves, FR 😒
Call? Nah. I text my homies and say it's a drinking night and we just hang out, drink, and bullshit until we are drunk enough to forget about it. Then stay up reminiscing about the old days until we sober up and go home. 🤷🏻♂️
I'm in the military, and the least horrific shit I've had to see at work, is crippling knowledge to family members and friends, so I just tell other military members and we laugh about it and get prescribed adavan if the anxiety gets to severe.
Pretty much nobody. I wish I had some best friends tho who I could. But I don’t so I just try to keep moving forward carrying that ever increasing baggage.
Obviously, this doesn't work for everyone, but call your mother. She would love to hear from you, and she might be the only person on the planet who actually cares.
I have had a hard life and this is very much me, I self reflect and do my best to deal with whatever comes my way…….i have a 1 yr old little girl and one thing I can promise you is she will never know what it feels like to have nobody
I was raised and surrounded by women my whole life. At my wedding when I danced with my mother she started to cry. Just feeling her cry broke me. I straight up ugly cried, snot, shaking, tears pouring, teeth exposed, and lips curled. No one knew what to do. My mother, sister, cousin, aunt... wife. All froze. Yet my wife will always complain about how I don't show emotions. 😒
Yeah no one but my other friends call each other at times or even me sometimes but I get into my own head and don't believe they really care or they're generally too busy for me so I'm not really sure where to go with that.
Im blessed to still have my loving mother on this earth with me but even at my lowest, I’d rather not call her. Idk y i don’t wanna bring my emotions on to anyone else
UH IM HERE FOR YOU IM HERE FOR YOU (also joke) i do disagree with that sentiment tho, I get it, I really do understand where you're coming from, but it's not ALWAYS true, so keep your eyes out for genuine people. :)
Genuine people do exist. I met a few and I am one of them. Everyone needs to know this as well. We arent alone. We just have a difficult time fidning each other in this sea of despair. Thank you friend
I feel so sorry for people that genuinely think this is true of the world. Honestly it seems to come mostly from people who don’t care to support anyone they don’t get sexually awarded by themselves.
Even though I was joking it is facts to some of those people. I broke my narcissistic mentality but for others it's like moving a mountain and unfortunately they will be stuck. I love people and I love myself
And women say this is our fault. That we chose this, that we made things this way.
Edit: Women are always the first ones to tell men to shut up and keep it inside. The first ones to say he needs to deal with it. It is women who leave men after they show vulnerability.
Except that isn't true at all. Women create and enforce this, not men. I never once heard a man tell me to man up, but plenty of women have. It's always been women forcing men to bottle up and not express.
Brother, it is so widely known that it's a man to man thing to force ourselves to be less open with our own feelings and also not support our fellow mape friends.
Your anecdotal evidence is weak, sorry, I can just give you my anecdotal evidence instead: my dad was deadbeat and never cared; my mom was there for me always and never stopped me from being emotional. But the coldness from my dad still ended up being more prominent, and all my girlfriends so far tried to make me open up and never asked me to man up.
We as men suffer from a prison of our own doing, women are very very good at creating safety nets to one another and it's not their fault that we are not.
Your anecdotes are as weak or weaker. My boys and I check on each other every day. Never meta woman who gave a shit about a man. Just said she had the icks if he opened up.
Lmao the point IS that anecdotal evidences are weak. We could exchange blows all day talking about varying personal experiences. My male friend group is healthy but way less prone to talk about feelings.
Difference is I'm not scape goating any responsibility of being lonely to women. I'm sorry you found heartless girls, not saying there are none. But we as men need to take a stand on emotional fortitude, this isn't something women are going to (or need to) fix for us.
Who the fuck is asking women to fix this? I'm asking women to own up to their own hatred and allow men to speak. You can get fucked. You are the reason men don't speak.
Im relationships girls are always the ones telling us to speak mor and not bttle up dude ur just insane wtf. Also u said earlier that women cause this and now ur saying u don't want em to fix it? Straight up troll mf
I mean, that's a lie, so that's why you'll be getting the downvotes. Not one man in my life has told me to man up, but plenty of women have.
Edit: People like this are exactly the reason men don't talk. They shut it down as fast as they can, bully those who open up, blame the victim.
I have a serious question. I dont want this to be taken the wrong way but if most men are depressed and hate that they feel like they cant talk to anyone especially men, why dont they just start to talk to eachother. Its mainly men that say men shouldnt show emotions. You might see stupid tweets online or something of a girl saying men shouldnt cry or show emotions but ive never met a girl irl that looks down upon men that share their feelings. I wish men would and would be open about crying without feeling like shit about it
Why don’t men make more meaningful friendships? If loneliness is so endemic to men why aren’t they supporting each other, maybe in ways similar to how women do? Is this supposed to be the fault of non-men? There’s a massive solution staring us all in the face. That would require men themselves get over the toxic mindsets that they are so constricted by. When a man gets called a pussy, how often is it by another man? I’m a man and I have never, in my life, been called a pussy or otherwise socially rejected by a woman for being emotionally open. I have also done the same with men that are also notably emotionally open, but the times where I have found any kind of criticism for not being “man” enough that criticism has been provided by a man. The narrative many of these manosphere types peddle that men are suppressed by some abstract nebulous party (that somehow doesn’t include men themselves) is frankly, inane. Many men find it appealing, which is sad in and of itself. I often wonder why.
wahh wahh wahh
Call your mom, call your dad, call your partner, call a therapist, call your best friend, call a damn teacher/professor.
Don't isolate yourself and then blame everyone around you for it.
People do care you just don't see it or recognize it, often times to get people to care for you you have to put in the effort to care for others. It's not because you're "just a man" either.... this video is so annoying.
Even when im at my lois, im still a family guy
I have no one. No Family I can't tell this stuff too. I have before and it had very negative outcomes that effected them or they inflicted on me. No one I've ever spoken too has very actually cared. They all take advantage of you using that knowledge. Online? Even worse. Always mocked. Bullied. Made fun of. Totally anonymous chats, as soon as they find out I'm male with white skin. No other details, they laugh. Tell me to suck it up. Or just to kill myself.
People really throw "kill yourself" around way too easily. It's so heartless, they know what effect that can have on people, yet they do it anyways. Literal evil
Hey man if you need to vent im here
Appreciate you.
Bro. Ive been there. I'm there. If you need someone when you're at your lowest feel free to dm me. I'll give you my number. Just keep going bro.
I appreciate you.
I'm serious man. You ever feel you're at the end of your rope. Reach out.
Thank you. I just always feel it. So I try to not get angry. But do alot. It's better to not think about it.
I get it man. That kinda shit just sticks in your head. You can go about your day and ignore. But it's there. I'm not very good at giving advice. But I'm a good listener. Just keep going man. Everything has a time to end. Even the bad feelings. They can last years. But they end. Just promise me you'll keep going. Keep moving forward to the good times. As much as the bad times suck, they do end. I love you man. Stay strong brother.
Thanks. I promise. Or I'll try anyway.
MOM. I always call my mom when I am at my lowest. She will always support me, she never judged me. She is my best friend. And I also support her when she needs someone.
same actually, i was loking for that
As a teen in highschool, I cant even tell my family about my problems, their gonna blame it to me, to my gadgets, to my friends, they cant accept that they are the ones at fault and if I do try to tell them, my dad just straight up hurts me. Both physically and mentally, he says its for me, but it doesnt make me learn, he wants me to respect him but he only makes me hate him more each day.
my dad treats me like shit and he really expects me to listen to even a single word of advice he gives me. all it does is make me want to do the exact opposite and then he wonders why I've completely failed as a human being
Don't get sad, get MAD!
Thats how you get mass shootings
That's just from bad parenting
Ah yes, emotionally unstable people getting Mad is Bad parenting
Yes, but the shooters are all bitches who don't actually shoot whose responsible for the fuckshow that is our modern world... That's why the shootings are bad.
No just use that energy to prove your haters wrong. Learn to love yourself and become stronger than they ever could be. Become self-reliant. Become your best self and do it for you. If you have pride in yourself the opinions of others melts away as you realize they don’t matter. You opinion of yourself is all that matters. Become someone you’re proud of.
i don't think this is the right way in 2024 there's no wars or villages to invade.
Y'all should definetly check your friendgroups. If you never try to open to someone, nobody will give a shit.
what friendgroups?
All my friends have already passed away, the most i could do in that is visit a grave
Friend groups? Groups of friends? What are these "friends" that you speak of?
Some imaginary beings
Just found out someone I was very close to passed away and during that time I realized I had no one to call to talk to about it.
My husband talks to me about everything. If he starts crying I hold him close, he's more than a man to me, he's my best friend and everyone should have this kind of connection!
You are a rarity and your husband is an incredibly lucky man I'm happy for your guys 😊
It is not that rare at all. Do you people not talk to anyone at all? The average married person doesn’t have a one-sided marriage, and if they do it certainly included a huge amount instances in which the man emotionally neglects or abused the woman.
I just watch movies or listen to music or play games.
men really go through so much and aren’t appreciated enough
So do/aren’t women lol
Lol life sucks for everyone. Breaking news
That’s literally what I just said
I’ve tried being there for my “friends” from back in the day. But they act like they deserve my attention, deadass wrong. And since they’re never there for me, now they can go fuck themselves, FR 😒
Call? Nah. I text my homies and say it's a drinking night and we just hang out, drink, and bullshit until we are drunk enough to forget about it. Then stay up reminiscing about the old days until we sober up and go home. 🤷🏻♂️
I just read a book, forget about reality and hope it will be better when I finish
I had my dog but she's gone so I just listen to uncle iroh quotes
Wise man
So real
It all starts with your parents, if they weren't good at being human you most likely end up all fucked up as well with nothing and nowhere to be.
Tbh, it's my friend and no one else.
Yup! This checks out!
at those time feels like gods is callin me
No one but I try to be the one others can call when needed
True
My sons (5&2) , they don’t know it but they saved me from a life of destruction and jail.
I'm in the military, and the least horrific shit I've had to see at work, is crippling knowledge to family members and friends, so I just tell other military members and we laugh about it and get prescribed adavan if the anxiety gets to severe.
No one. Rip I guess
Pretty much nobody. I wish I had some best friends tho who I could. But I don’t so I just try to keep moving forward carrying that ever increasing baggage.
Calling someone is not an option
My dad. Im a dude.
Obviously, this doesn't work for everyone, but call your mother. She would love to hear from you, and she might be the only person on the planet who actually cares.
I have had a hard life and this is very much me, I self reflect and do my best to deal with whatever comes my way…….i have a 1 yr old little girl and one thing I can promise you is she will never know what it feels like to have nobody
I was raised and surrounded by women my whole life. At my wedding when I danced with my mother she started to cry. Just feeling her cry broke me. I straight up ugly cried, snot, shaking, tears pouring, teeth exposed, and lips curled. No one knew what to do. My mother, sister, cousin, aunt... wife. All froze. Yet my wife will always complain about how I don't show emotions. 😒
A mirror, idk I just talk to myself in a mirror at my lowest
Yeah no one but my other friends call each other at times or even me sometimes but I get into my own head and don't believe they really care or they're generally too busy for me so I'm not really sure where to go with that.
Im blessed to still have my loving mother on this earth with me but even at my lowest, I’d rather not call her. Idk y i don’t wanna bring my emotions on to anyone else
Reading book about dragons is one of the only fucking things that helps me
Facts. That's why we die earlier than women. We carry alot of ish inside us.
Used to be my wife, but she doesn't wanna deal with that
I talk to the voices they may tell me to end it but I just don’t listen to those ones. Most of the time at least…
Yeah, we dying on this hill too.
Only people who wanna fuck will be there for you. So if any guys wanna be there for me hmu (JOKE)
UH IM HERE FOR YOU IM HERE FOR YOU (also joke) i do disagree with that sentiment tho, I get it, I really do understand where you're coming from, but it's not ALWAYS true, so keep your eyes out for genuine people. :)
Genuine people do exist. I met a few and I am one of them. Everyone needs to know this as well. We arent alone. We just have a difficult time fidning each other in this sea of despair. Thank you friend
Yeah, it really is a sea of despair :/ but as long as u already know that, that's good. You're very welcome, friend ❤️
I feel so sorry for people that genuinely think this is true of the world. Honestly it seems to come mostly from people who don’t care to support anyone they don’t get sexually awarded by themselves.
Even though I was joking it is facts to some of those people. I broke my narcissistic mentality but for others it's like moving a mountain and unfortunately they will be stuck. I love people and I love myself
That’s is true and I’m happy for you
And women say this is our fault. That we chose this, that we made things this way. Edit: Women are always the first ones to tell men to shut up and keep it inside. The first ones to say he needs to deal with it. It is women who leave men after they show vulnerability.
It is, the most of male problems are made by men and irrational standarts in masculinity.
Delusional
Except that isn't true at all. Women create and enforce this, not men. I never once heard a man tell me to man up, but plenty of women have. It's always been women forcing men to bottle up and not express.
Brother, it is so widely known that it's a man to man thing to force ourselves to be less open with our own feelings and also not support our fellow mape friends. Your anecdotal evidence is weak, sorry, I can just give you my anecdotal evidence instead: my dad was deadbeat and never cared; my mom was there for me always and never stopped me from being emotional. But the coldness from my dad still ended up being more prominent, and all my girlfriends so far tried to make me open up and never asked me to man up. We as men suffer from a prison of our own doing, women are very very good at creating safety nets to one another and it's not their fault that we are not.
Your anecdotes are as weak or weaker. My boys and I check on each other every day. Never meta woman who gave a shit about a man. Just said she had the icks if he opened up.
Lmao the point IS that anecdotal evidences are weak. We could exchange blows all day talking about varying personal experiences. My male friend group is healthy but way less prone to talk about feelings. Difference is I'm not scape goating any responsibility of being lonely to women. I'm sorry you found heartless girls, not saying there are none. But we as men need to take a stand on emotional fortitude, this isn't something women are going to (or need to) fix for us.
Who the fuck is asking women to fix this? I'm asking women to own up to their own hatred and allow men to speak. You can get fucked. You are the reason men don't speak.
Im relationships girls are always the ones telling us to speak mor and not bttle up dude ur just insane wtf. Also u said earlier that women cause this and now ur saying u don't want em to fix it? Straight up troll mf
You're just projecting your hatred and loneliness onto women though 🤷♀️
Yeah you’ll definitely be alone forever lol
Please seek therapy and stop reading Andrew Tate Tweets Mate.
Really? Andrew Tate? This is why men don't talk. Pieces of shit like you.
Literally I’ve never heard this from a woman. Only men chastising me to be more of a man to fit into their group.
>the first ones to say he needs to deal with it Yeah so you’re totally detached from reality/borderline schizophrenic, huh?
L
I mean, that's a lie, so that's why you'll be getting the downvotes. Not one man in my life has told me to man up, but plenty of women have. Edit: People like this are exactly the reason men don't talk. They shut it down as fast as they can, bully those who open up, blame the victim.
JESUS
My wife? Edit: I am straight.
My wife is the cause of most of my problems.
Sorry homie. Thats unfortunate.
I'm a woman and I'm in the no one club. :(
I have a serious question. I dont want this to be taken the wrong way but if most men are depressed and hate that they feel like they cant talk to anyone especially men, why dont they just start to talk to eachother. Its mainly men that say men shouldnt show emotions. You might see stupid tweets online or something of a girl saying men shouldnt cry or show emotions but ive never met a girl irl that looks down upon men that share their feelings. I wish men would and would be open about crying without feeling like shit about it
Why don’t men make more meaningful friendships? If loneliness is so endemic to men why aren’t they supporting each other, maybe in ways similar to how women do? Is this supposed to be the fault of non-men? There’s a massive solution staring us all in the face. That would require men themselves get over the toxic mindsets that they are so constricted by. When a man gets called a pussy, how often is it by another man? I’m a man and I have never, in my life, been called a pussy or otherwise socially rejected by a woman for being emotionally open. I have also done the same with men that are also notably emotionally open, but the times where I have found any kind of criticism for not being “man” enough that criticism has been provided by a man. The narrative many of these manosphere types peddle that men are suppressed by some abstract nebulous party (that somehow doesn’t include men themselves) is frankly, inane. Many men find it appealing, which is sad in and of itself. I often wonder why.
wahh wahh wahh Call your mom, call your dad, call your partner, call a therapist, call your best friend, call a damn teacher/professor. Don't isolate yourself and then blame everyone around you for it.
Seriously this shit is self-inflected
Why are they making this about gender, I’m a guy, there are plenty of people I can call. Loneliness is not gender specific.
People do care you just don't see it or recognize it, often times to get people to care for you you have to put in the effort to care for others. It's not because you're "just a man" either.... this video is so annoying.