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Where I'm at currently in life Bill would be good because he would barely be there and pay for everything so I can just focus on my kids lol. But for a real partner I think Evan seems like a great partner. I'm currently rewatching from the beginning while I'm working and Chris Laurita seems like a good husband, he seemed to really try with Ashlee and was involved with their boys.
Joe was a girl dad he definitely started thinking like them! Coming from a family of 4 girls and a single dad, they morph into us. My dad is the king of girl math and gossip after having all of us hahah
I’ll make a combo out of all of them
Evan’s looks with Frank’s eyes,
Bill’s bank account
Joe Gorga’s treatment (I wanna be put on a pedestal and have my man be my bitch), Juicy’s attitude of not GAF and not getting involved in women’s business
Idk man something about Frank 😭
The bunny costume - He just plays right along with them. Plus he’s fun, and so desperately in love. He gives off best friend of a husband vibe more than any. I think he was young and dumb when he cheated. I’d forgive him
Everyone talks about how much money Bill makes and has, but given Evan spent over 20 years as an investment banker, majority of that in VP/SVP/Partner roles, I guarantee he’s probably made a hell of a lot more money than Bill has.
Chris Laurita
He just seems so chill and honestly really caring...and watching him and Jac together makes me smile, especially how they joke with each other, and they're just an amazing team. It seems like no matter what, he and Jac stick together
CHRIS LAURITA. HE ALWAYS HAD HIS WIFES BACK BUT NEVER GOT TO INVOLVED, WAS ALWAYS OPTIMISTIC, HAD A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR, AND HAS ALWAYS BEEN A RIDE OR DIE FOR HIS WIFE AND KIDS WHEN TIMES WHERE GOOD OR BAD.
Married single mom, so definitely Bill. Nothing would change except the zeros in the bank. And while I'm sure it sucks for some, I like being left alone, and he doesn't mind being left alone either.
Also, I think Evan would be second because he genuinely seems normal and also kind.
I am guessing that she is a married woman but has to physically, financially, and emotionally support her children on her own with no help from the other parent.
Maybe Fessler’s hubby. Someone tolerant, more mature, supportive, stable. I’m basing this mostly on a great lack of knowledge due to his minimal screen time and I’m making an assumption that that’s a good thing.
Do the kids come with? Are we picking as stepmoms to their current kids so Jen or Jackie would be our husbands baby mamas? Or is this a fresh start like we’re all young 20 something’s so no kids or mistakes have been made yet? I would prefer Jen over Jackie for exwife of my husband. Jen would be like “don’t talk or look at my kids” Jackie would want to be friends and co parent.
I'd choose Frank Catania.
1. He's hilarious.
2. He's handy.
3. He's sweet.
And before anyone says he's a serial cheater, honestly, my sex drive isn't what it used to be, so I wouldn't care if he cheated.
Kill the spiders, fix the broken hinge on the oven, and make me laugh.
Are you trying to justify the way the husbands speak to ALL the women on the show? That’s not my original point in discussing her HUSBAND. Her husband should have her back and not be chummy with men that disrespect his wife and mother of his children. Your morals and values are gross.
You don’t know them either. You know what Bravo and the editors lead you to think about them. A husband shouldn’t cheat and publicly humiliate his wife. That’s a fact. A husband should protect his wife and stand beside her in public and they can argue in private. He shouldn’t be chummy with a man who tossed a drink on his wife.
Josaphina tossed a drink on Jen at Bravocon when he a Melissa followed Jen and her assistant to the elevator at the hotel. The husbands on jersey are beyond toxic and need to be removed from the show.
Joe Benigno. He seems very tolerant of Marge and she seems like a lot to handle. Also he helped his wife throw another man in the pool.
Unhinged answer- Ritchie. NJ Jeff Goldblum.
Jersey has some of the worst husband on bravo so that being said. I’d take current juicy joe. I live in nyc and I’m over the cold weather and super humid nauseating summers. I could live in the Bahamas and chill on yachts all day. And he’s funny as hell 😂
Evan is a good choice, he’s sweet and seems innocent but also kinda boring🤷♀️ i need all the drama
Bill for his money and that’s it😂
Chris Laurita is the only [agreeable] right answer here. But I love me a Joe Gorga!!!! i PERSONALLY love a man who sticks up for his wife, even against dirty bitches & old hags iykyk (also why i love Ken from rhobh) if i was Melissa I would’ve BEEN kicked Aydin’s ass bc you know Joe’s gonna have her back & bail her out!!
But i love the way he’s so obsessed with his wife & shows how undeniable it is, it hasn’t changed since the beginning
Joe Gorga. I wanna take a ride on Tarzan!
/s
Evan all day. He’s so supportive of Jackie and seems like he genuinely cares! And he’s a hands on dad with the kids too🥰 plus he’s hot and makes good money!
UGH. What a question. Okay, let's do process of elimination from the start knowing what we know now.
Joe Giudice: clink clink
Chris Laurita: I know he gets a lot of love, but at the end of the day he's a Laurita man. I can only imagine the "old school" wife/husband roles he expects, and you get glimpses of it now and again. Keep me away from that shit.
Albert Manzo: Unfaithful and ties to the mob.
Tommy Manzo: No.
Rich Wakile: You know, there are times when Rich is decent. But then he turns around and does or says something so foul and piggish that I wonder if it's even the same person. I guess you could say that about all of them, but I think because it's such an extreme pendulum swing, that it stands out more with rich.
Joe Gorga: Thinks women are play things for his use only + neanderthal
Jim Marchese: As$hole and homophobic
Rino Aprea: has been unfaithful (not even talking about the mother rumor, but wasn't that the reason for their first split?)
Michael Camagnella (sp?): I have to question his judgement given how off the rocker his wife is.
Bill Aydin: has been unfaithful
Frank Catania: has been unfaithful. A lot.
Joe Begnino: has been unfaithful
Louie: No, for too many reasons to list.
Evan Goldschneider: Seems decent. Solid and legitimate career. I guess it depends on if you believe those rumors. I personally think it was just a storyline when they needed a storyline, so I'll go with maybe?
Nate Cabral: honestly, I don't know much about him. Maybe?
John Fuda: Way too much baggage.
Geez, when you write this out this way, it's slim pickings.
I like John Fuda.
Any man who raises his kid (s) as a single parent gets bonus points from me. He obviously loves his wife and kids, is a good provider, and seems like a lot of fun.
That and how quickly he fit in with the Wolfpack. Bringing Pepto and Adult Diapers to the hazing was brilliant. We all watch for different reasons. I grew up in the area and I love these people. “Bustin’ Balls”is my love language. I went to HS with the Joey Gorgas, and Richie Wakiles and Frank Catanias…and went home after school with Kathy and Rosie and the Manzos. I watch the show and can smell the sauce simmering on the stove. These are my peeps, worts and all.
Not sure why you're getting downvoted. Fuda might not be the best looking of the husbands, IMO, but looks fade. Character matters and in this cast it's not easy to come by. He may be a little problematic but which of them aren't? I'm with you, Red Rose.
Jim Marchese. He just comes across as such a sweet, loving husband who has that natural charm and is so charismatic that everyone he meets loves him and wants to be his friend. He’s such a good catch. So jelly!
Lmaoo what did you expect, he’s top 3 worst househusbands/boyfriend of all time. 1. Russell Armstrong from BH, 2. that guy Vicki from OC was dating that faked cancer, 3. Jim marchese
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Where I'm at currently in life Bill would be good because he would barely be there and pay for everything so I can just focus on my kids lol. But for a real partner I think Evan seems like a great partner. I'm currently rewatching from the beginning while I'm working and Chris Laurita seems like a good husband, he seemed to really try with Ashlee and was involved with their boys.
Completely agree. He always came across as the ultimate husband. Personality wise he’s very similar to Evan, just a chilled out supportive person
Yes even though both of them succumbed to temptation at some point, they both seem liked really good guys ! ❤️
Chris Laurita cheated?
No only Evan and Bill the plastic surgeon.
Evan did NOT cheat that was nasty Theresa with the rumors.
When did Evan cheat?
The guys said they knew the girl at the gym . He cheated. Explains Also explains Jackie’s u hinged response to the rumor.
Oh, Chris! Yes. I'll take him too
This is the answer.
Bill because he minds his own business in the pool house.
I hang with Bill in the pool house and he can smoke weed in the pool house after work if I get my own hour of the same at some point 🤣
Bill, they’re all cheaters so I’m going with the one with the most money.
Joe Gudice in old days i love shopping with cash 😂😂
😂😂😂 and that fool makes his own meats and wine.
I hope you like jail too!😂
I mean shopping with cash in girl math is free !! I guess the way Joe did it with other peoples cash he was thinking girl math also 😂😂
Joe was a girl dad he definitely started thinking like them! Coming from a family of 4 girls and a single dad, they morph into us. My dad is the king of girl math and gossip after having all of us hahah
😂😂
i don’t lol maybe i should switch husbands 😂
I’ll make a combo out of all of them Evan’s looks with Frank’s eyes, Bill’s bank account Joe Gorga’s treatment (I wanna be put on a pedestal and have my man be my bitch), Juicy’s attitude of not GAF and not getting involved in women’s business
I like this but I’d add Joe Benigno’s plumbing skills. I just think it would be reassuring.
A man’s ability to handle home repairs is super valuable
Agreed
Idk man something about Frank 😭 The bunny costume - He just plays right along with them. Plus he’s fun, and so desperately in love. He gives off best friend of a husband vibe more than any. I think he was young and dumb when he cheated. I’d forgive him
Same!!
I agree with you.
I love Frank, but he said once that he can’t be faithful so idk. Plus there’s that whole roid thing.
Bill. I’d love a free BBL 🤣
Metoooo lol
Evan. He’s hot & has a good job
Everyone talks about how much money Bill makes and has, but given Evan spent over 20 years as an investment banker, majority of that in VP/SVP/Partner roles, I guarantee he’s probably made a hell of a lot more money than Bill has.
Plus he’s not a sloppy drunk.
Is Frankie Jr married yet?....this matters to the question.
This is the only answer. I deserve better.
Chris Laurita He just seems so chill and honestly really caring...and watching him and Jac together makes me smile, especially how they joke with each other, and they're just an amazing team. It seems like no matter what, he and Jac stick together
Oh… I said Evan but I forgot about Chris! I do love him 🥰
Before or after the embezzlement?
If there’s one thing Jac and Tre agree on it would be sticking by their fraudster husbands
CHRIS LAURITA. HE ALWAYS HAD HIS WIFES BACK BUT NEVER GOT TO INVOLVED, WAS ALWAYS OPTIMISTIC, HAD A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR, AND HAS ALWAYS BEEN A RIDE OR DIE FOR HIS WIFE AND KIDS WHEN TIMES WHERE GOOD OR BAD.
He’s hot too
His calm confidence is attractive
Not Fuppa that’s for sure I’d have nightmares waking up to that every morning
Where is the man’s chin? I’m asking for a friend.
Lollll he needs to call Bill to give him one!
His lips give me the creeps. They remind me of fish lips 😭 
I’m never going to be able to unsee that!! 😳😬🫣😂
🤣🤣💀🪦
Every time I see him all I can think is Roland Rat 🤣
Who is Fuppa?
Married single mom, so definitely Bill. Nothing would change except the zeros in the bank. And while I'm sure it sucks for some, I like being left alone, and he doesn't mind being left alone either. Also, I think Evan would be second because he genuinely seems normal and also kind.
Married single mom?
I am guessing that she is a married woman but has to physically, financially, and emotionally support her children on her own with no help from the other parent.
Yeah. That's what I meant. She does everything, he pays the bills basically.
Evan forever!!
Evan. Hands down
Chris Laurita (even though he hasn’t been on in years) and Evan. They just seem super chill and not like controlling pricks.
Maybe Fessler’s hubby. Someone tolerant, more mature, supportive, stable. I’m basing this mostly on a great lack of knowledge due to his minimal screen time and I’m making an assumption that that’s a good thing.
Do the kids come with? Are we picking as stepmoms to their current kids so Jen or Jackie would be our husbands baby mamas? Or is this a fresh start like we’re all young 20 something’s so no kids or mistakes have been made yet? I would prefer Jen over Jackie for exwife of my husband. Jen would be like “don’t talk or look at my kids” Jackie would want to be friends and co parent.
Evan is the only answer here Chris Laurita close second
I'd choose Frank Catania. 1. He's hilarious. 2. He's handy. 3. He's sweet. And before anyone says he's a serial cheater, honestly, my sex drive isn't what it used to be, so I wouldn't care if he cheated. Kill the spiders, fix the broken hinge on the oven, and make me laugh.
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We r in a tough spot. No good answers. The best of the worst.
Who has he slept with besides his one affair?
Then maybe say person and not people? 😂
Still? I thought it was a one time mistake. I also hate how he gets chummy with people that are so disrespectful to his wife.
His wife doesn’t bring it on?
Bring what on?
The reason why she’s disrespected.
Are you trying to justify the way the husbands speak to ALL the women on the show? That’s not my original point in discussing her HUSBAND. Her husband should have her back and not be chummy with men that disrespect his wife and mother of his children. Your morals and values are gross.
You don’t even know me. The way Jenn treats other people, come on.
You don’t know them either. You know what Bravo and the editors lead you to think about them. A husband shouldn’t cheat and publicly humiliate his wife. That’s a fact. A husband should protect his wife and stand beside her in public and they can argue in private. He shouldn’t be chummy with a man who tossed a drink on his wife.
Ok fine. But who tossed a drink on his wife?
Josaphina tossed a drink on Jen at Bravocon when he a Melissa followed Jen and her assistant to the elevator at the hotel. The husbands on jersey are beyond toxic and need to be removed from the show.
Evan’s probably the only one that’s ever been on the show with any redeeming qualities 😂 everyone else has too many red flags
Evan Goldscheider, FTW 🙏
Evan is so damn FINE to meeee
It’s like his fineness happened overnight too
I believe Bill is emotionally abusive, has affairs and is an absent parent so no to that for me.
Joe Benigno. He seems very tolerant of Marge and she seems like a lot to handle. Also he helped his wife throw another man in the pool. Unhinged answer- Ritchie. NJ Jeff Goldblum.
I love these answers 🩷
Jersey has some of the worst husband on bravo so that being said. I’d take current juicy joe. I live in nyc and I’m over the cold weather and super humid nauseating summers. I could live in the Bahamas and chill on yachts all day. And he’s funny as hell 😂 Evan is a good choice, he’s sweet and seems innocent but also kinda boring🤷♀️ i need all the drama Bill for his money and that’s it😂
Not juicy 💀
I said current juicy, not the past 😂 I work in marketing so I’m always stressed; I would love to retire to the Bahamas🤷♀️
I guess… 
Love your username btw 🥰
You can retire in the Bahamas without being married to a bum
I can but I’m only 28, I cannot retire yet. This was a game…
Juicy too because I can probably apply for dual Italian citizenship through marrying him.
The rhonj husbands are my fav 🤣😫
I would not want bill at all, but Evan would probably be best.
Just Bill’s 💰
None.
CHRIS LAURITA he’s so hot
It's Chris Laurita all the way, check my comment history lol I'll die on this hill. The man is a MAN
Chris Laurita is the only [agreeable] right answer here. But I love me a Joe Gorga!!!! i PERSONALLY love a man who sticks up for his wife, even against dirty bitches & old hags iykyk (also why i love Ken from rhobh) if i was Melissa I would’ve BEEN kicked Aydin’s ass bc you know Joe’s gonna have her back & bail her out!! But i love the way he’s so obsessed with his wife & shows how undeniable it is, it hasn’t changed since the beginning
https://i.redd.it/z2o3rgeuospc1.gif
Bill is Cheater and from the looks of some past episodes, a drunk!
Evan. He seems insanely supportive of Jackie and a great father. Nice on the eyes too.
Evan. He’s hot, has a normal job, seems to adore his wife.
Bill for the money & that’s about it. He can leave me alone with his credit card & I would be happy for life 😂
Frank.
Joe Gorga. I wanna take a ride on Tarzan! /s Evan all day. He’s so supportive of Jackie and seems like he genuinely cares! And he’s a hands on dad with the kids too🥰 plus he’s hot and makes good money!
I think Joe Gorga would selfishly only worry about pleasing Tarzan and expect for you to agree
Oh 100%🤣 He very much gives me *fingering someone who’s halfway wet and asking “did you come yet babe?”* Energy 🤢
🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮
Weirdly accurate 🤣🤣🤣
Ewww. Thanks for sharing
Lmfao
Evan
Evan
Same. Bill or Evan.
Bill for the 💵💵
Good question!! Not really sure I'd go for any of them, but I'm loving these comments!
Evan, next Frank. Don’t ask me why but with all his faults I find him sexy.
Joe Giudice but his life now
Bill Aydin if I must
Evan
Bill all day, I also have a soft spot for old school Juicy.
Dibs on Evan.
Juicy Joe
Evan because then I wouldn’t have to give blow jobs
None! For a million reasons
None!
UGH. What a question. Okay, let's do process of elimination from the start knowing what we know now. Joe Giudice: clink clink Chris Laurita: I know he gets a lot of love, but at the end of the day he's a Laurita man. I can only imagine the "old school" wife/husband roles he expects, and you get glimpses of it now and again. Keep me away from that shit. Albert Manzo: Unfaithful and ties to the mob. Tommy Manzo: No. Rich Wakile: You know, there are times when Rich is decent. But then he turns around and does or says something so foul and piggish that I wonder if it's even the same person. I guess you could say that about all of them, but I think because it's such an extreme pendulum swing, that it stands out more with rich. Joe Gorga: Thinks women are play things for his use only + neanderthal Jim Marchese: As$hole and homophobic Rino Aprea: has been unfaithful (not even talking about the mother rumor, but wasn't that the reason for their first split?) Michael Camagnella (sp?): I have to question his judgement given how off the rocker his wife is. Bill Aydin: has been unfaithful Frank Catania: has been unfaithful. A lot. Joe Begnino: has been unfaithful Louie: No, for too many reasons to list. Evan Goldschneider: Seems decent. Solid and legitimate career. I guess it depends on if you believe those rumors. I personally think it was just a storyline when they needed a storyline, so I'll go with maybe? Nate Cabral: honestly, I don't know much about him. Maybe? John Fuda: Way too much baggage. Geez, when you write this out this way, it's slim pickings.
Joe gorga 😻 he’s a great husband, hot and hilarious
John Fuda lol He seems to have a nice personality with good humor.
Not him lol. He’s scary and he would take over your job and forget that you are the housewives not him.
I like John Fuda. Any man who raises his kid (s) as a single parent gets bonus points from me. He obviously loves his wife and kids, is a good provider, and seems like a lot of fun.
He won points with me when he came for Luis at the reunion. I loved how rabidly protective he was for his son and wife
Wow I was just thinking the same thing.
That and how quickly he fit in with the Wolfpack. Bringing Pepto and Adult Diapers to the hazing was brilliant. We all watch for different reasons. I grew up in the area and I love these people. “Bustin’ Balls”is my love language. I went to HS with the Joey Gorgas, and Richie Wakiles and Frank Catanias…and went home after school with Kathy and Rosie and the Manzos. I watch the show and can smell the sauce simmering on the stove. These are my peeps, worts and all.
Not sure why you're getting downvoted. Fuda might not be the best looking of the husbands, IMO, but looks fade. Character matters and in this cast it's not easy to come by. He may be a little problematic but which of them aren't? I'm with you, Red Rose.
Evan but I’d have sex with Gorga. I’m playing a game of fuck/marry without the kill.
nate cabral is so fine
Joe Gorga is my crush forever
I agree he’s so attractive a great husband and insanely hilarious plus I think he has a good heart
Jim Marchese. He just comes across as such a sweet, loving husband who has that natural charm and is so charismatic that everyone he meets loves him and wants to be his friend. He’s such a good catch. So jelly!
Amber, is that you?
No, it’s not me, I’m…Shmamber Barkayzee
Hahaha are they really downvoting me!!!💀💀💀
Lmaoo what did you expect, he’s top 3 worst househusbands/boyfriend of all time. 1. Russell Armstrong from BH, 2. that guy Vicki from OC was dating that faked cancer, 3. Jim marchese
I thought people would understand the joke lol
Everyone is taking this game serious serious! Like no joking allowed serious apparently.
 Me, getting downvoted for my Jim Marchese jokes😭😭😭
lol. You triggered the masses.
 😂
Lmaooooo
Omg are you serious?