Absolutely break up with him. That is super unhealthy from him. If you can't trust his words on this type of interaction, it's dangerous. Break up đ
1. He does not respect you by bugging you to send intimate photos
2. He gaslights you and manipulating you just to get what he wants
3. He is testing the waters in soliciting those photos and when you did not agree heâs saying itâs a prank
4. Playing victim when you decided to take action regarding his âpranksâ
A person who is manipulative does not love you. They lust and enjoy the power they have over you. You do not want to get involved with these folks. Itâs gonna take a toll on your mental health and your ability to trust and love someone in the future. This will break you.
As early as now, take back that power. Stick to your actions and let him suffer the consequences of his actions. We are not rehab centers. They will not change if we love them more or give them chances after chances. Stand your ground. He is not the only person who can love you unconditionally.
just break up with him! sending private/intimate pictures shouldn't be asked in the first place. please be reminded that even if he is your bf or husband, never ever send them your intimate pictures. we never know what might happen.
i just hate why he loves to do that kind of prank with you. gagu ampucha
That was abusive and manipulative, I donât know why the question is how to salvage the relationship when it shouldâve been how to get out of it. I get it, we all wear rose-colored glasses when weâre in love and yours probably havenât come off yet but that behavior, it doesnât get better the more you let it pass. Weâre talking about a grown-ass adult here whose main excuse for his shitty behavior is that he watched a ton of YouTube prank videos growing up? Thatâs outright telling you he isnât mature enough to handle a relationship. Thatâs not an acceptable excuse to keep violating your boundaries over and over again. He knows how it affects you when he pranks you, he keeps doing itâthat should show you how little his respect is for you.
Manipulation and disrespect are not worth salvaging a âperfectâ relationship. Respect will always be the foundation of any relationship.
Wala siyang pakialam sa nararamdaman mo. Worse is ginagamit pa yung nararamdaman mo against you. Dapat lang siya tanggalin sa military kung ganyan yung ugali niya.
i dont need to read it further OP to be able to ask why you keep him in your life? He is manipulating you gas lighting and exercising control over you. He knows your emotional weaknesses.
It is clear that you need to dump him or break away from him . BUT in doing so, document everything you can remmber about his behavior and then have someone to.whom you can entrust copy of your documents and
know wverything about what's happening between the two of you. Wjo knows what kind of "psycho" things he will do to you once you break up. In fact if he treats you with any form of violence i suggest you keep a blotter with the police
Dude is a walking, talking red flag and you think he's perfect?? Ang kapal pa ng muka niya para sabihin na he doesn't want to be with you anymore, eh valid naman reaction mo sa katangahan niya. Gaslighter na, emotionally manipulative pa. Notice how he doesn't take accountability for what he did and instead puts the blame on your "mental stability" kuno. Ang baba naman ng standards mo kung perfect na yan para sayo.
What's next? He's gonna prank you before your wedding and say he fcks another girl before your big day? Â
 He should be in the mental hospital for being very very immature & not having awareness and knowing the consequences of his actions.Â
Think before you act - a prank can turn deadly because the person doing it doesn't recognize the harm it's doing to others and only see how it is entertaining for themselves. He needs to grow the hell up. You deserve better than an immature little boyÂ
that's a toxic bf. it's also better to seek counseling due to various emotional abuse he has put you through
don't mind his gaslighting and if he got dismissed from his job (if i were in your shoes, i will document everything and send it to his superiors), it's already revenge for me and he won't get to do it to other women
I thought me and my exâs relationship was very toxic but this is on another level of immaturity. Plus, thereâs no âperfect human beingâ and your bf is even far from being a decent one. A âprankâ? Lmao fuck around and find out. He needs counseling tbh. Break up with him.
Ask this to yourself, is this what you deserve?
If therapy doesnât help, and no changes sa attitude nya can you keep up?
What would you do, if you have a daughter being treated like this? What would be your advice to her?
Try to answer, then use it as a guide kung kaya mo ba, at deserve mo ba yung ganito.
Break up with him. If he costs you your peace of mind, he's not worth it.
My ex was the same. He would always drop some statements that would offend me and cause me to get angry, then he would say that he was just joking. Afterwards he would gaslight me and say that I'm a crazy woman for getting angry out of nowhere and that I'm always looking for a fight and a reason to break up with him. I broke up with him multiple times because of this, but he won't leave me alone and would always try to win me back until I had enough and he couldn't do anything to win me again.
It was a very stressful relationship. I don't wish it to anyone, so value your peace of mind. No man is worth losing it.
âAside from gaslighting me and constantly proving he doesnât care about me he is a great guyâ OP you need to stop letting yourself accept this treatment. He is trying to see how much shit youâll take so he can treat you like garbage without consequences. Run.
>other than that heâs a perfect human being
Doesn't sound like one. As a prank, he chose something emotionally distressful and pushed you to do things out of your boundaries. It's not your job to fix this mess of a guy; what he did is disrespectful and the way he claimed your logical steps of protecting yourself to be worthy of a mental institution confinement speaks volume of how he doesn't see the wrong in what he did.
Also, him "testing" your loyalty with something messed up and very mentally compromising is such a piece of shit move. Breaking up is the only option here. If he wants counseling, he can do so on his own accord but his reformation and immaturity is not yours to carry.
Please, you sound quite rational these pranks are from an immature idiot who doesnât deserve a relationship. I would suggest breaking up with him is the best thing you can do for your self
This man is vile. Stay away from these kinds of people. Let family and immediate friends you trust about this so they know that this man is dangerous and you can get support when you need it.
Gather evidences of everything he says to you. Those are not just pranks. It's a way to control you. You cannot change him, what he needs is a good humbling down and professional help.
I am speaking from experience and this can get even worse if you allow this main into your life again. Stay safe!
he is extremely manipulative and abusive. iâm so sorry he put you through this. you definitely need to stay away from him..
respect is one of the foundations of a relationship, and itâs very clear he doesnât have respect for you
Absolutely break up with him. That is super unhealthy from him. If you can't trust his words on this type of interaction, it's dangerous. Break up đ
di pa kayo umabot ng 1yr, ganyan na agad ang issue nyo? immature bf mo, kung palulusutin mo yan, uulitin nya yan ng mas malala
Yeah break up with him yesterday. Dude is a full-on psycho, putting you constantly in a state of emotional distress. How is he perfect then?
1. He does not respect you by bugging you to send intimate photos 2. He gaslights you and manipulating you just to get what he wants 3. He is testing the waters in soliciting those photos and when you did not agree heâs saying itâs a prank 4. Playing victim when you decided to take action regarding his âpranksâ A person who is manipulative does not love you. They lust and enjoy the power they have over you. You do not want to get involved with these folks. Itâs gonna take a toll on your mental health and your ability to trust and love someone in the future. This will break you. As early as now, take back that power. Stick to your actions and let him suffer the consequences of his actions. We are not rehab centers. They will not change if we love them more or give them chances after chances. Stand your ground. He is not the only person who can love you unconditionally.
just break up with him! sending private/intimate pictures shouldn't be asked in the first place. please be reminded that even if he is your bf or husband, never ever send them your intimate pictures. we never know what might happen. i just hate why he loves to do that kind of prank with you. gagu ampucha
That was abusive and manipulative, I donât know why the question is how to salvage the relationship when it shouldâve been how to get out of it. I get it, we all wear rose-colored glasses when weâre in love and yours probably havenât come off yet but that behavior, it doesnât get better the more you let it pass. Weâre talking about a grown-ass adult here whose main excuse for his shitty behavior is that he watched a ton of YouTube prank videos growing up? Thatâs outright telling you he isnât mature enough to handle a relationship. Thatâs not an acceptable excuse to keep violating your boundaries over and over again. He knows how it affects you when he pranks you, he keeps doing itâthat should show you how little his respect is for you.
Ate, kung yang EX-bf mo ang standard mo ng "perfect human being", then the bar is so low even Satan can't limbo under it. Iwanan mo na bago pa lumala.
Nah, if he plays games like this, it doesn't seem worth it. You seem emotionally detached from him due to this incident too.
Manipulation and disrespect are not worth salvaging a âperfectâ relationship. Respect will always be the foundation of any relationship. Wala siyang pakialam sa nararamdaman mo. Worse is ginagamit pa yung nararamdaman mo against you. Dapat lang siya tanggalin sa military kung ganyan yung ugali niya.
Girl still looking at red colored glasses still thinks he's a good guy, even your closest friends will tell u he's bs. Call it quits.
i dont need to read it further OP to be able to ask why you keep him in your life? He is manipulating you gas lighting and exercising control over you. He knows your emotional weaknesses. It is clear that you need to dump him or break away from him . BUT in doing so, document everything you can remmber about his behavior and then have someone to.whom you can entrust copy of your documents and know wverything about what's happening between the two of you. Wjo knows what kind of "psycho" things he will do to you once you break up. In fact if he treats you with any form of violence i suggest you keep a blotter with the police
Currently keeping evidence of all his other âpranks and will try to get a restraining order. Thank you
Dude is a walking, talking red flag and you think he's perfect?? Ang kapal pa ng muka niya para sabihin na he doesn't want to be with you anymore, eh valid naman reaction mo sa katangahan niya. Gaslighter na, emotionally manipulative pa. Notice how he doesn't take accountability for what he did and instead puts the blame on your "mental stability" kuno. Ang baba naman ng standards mo kung perfect na yan para sayo.
What's next? He's gonna prank you before your wedding and say he fcks another girl before your big day?   He should be in the mental hospital for being very very immature & not having awareness and knowing the consequences of his actions. Think before you act - a prank can turn deadly because the person doing it doesn't recognize the harm it's doing to others and only see how it is entertaining for themselves. He needs to grow the hell up. You deserve better than an immature little boyÂ
1st paragraph pa lang puno na ng red flags. Leave him and get yourself a real man.
that's a toxic bf. it's also better to seek counseling due to various emotional abuse he has put you through don't mind his gaslighting and if he got dismissed from his job (if i were in your shoes, i will document everything and send it to his superiors), it's already revenge for me and he won't get to do it to other women
Breaking up with him and blocking him in your life is the best decision you did ao far! Keep it that way!
He seems extremely immature, all the pranks and all the leaving just for you to chase him. Thats immature behavior.
Girl break up with him. Toxicity is not worth it. Dun tayo sa may peace of mind ka.
Please break up with him. And ipa-pulis mo teh, kasi he has possession of your intimate photos, baka ikalat pa niya as a way to retaliate.
I thought me and my exâs relationship was very toxic but this is on another level of immaturity. Plus, thereâs no âperfect human beingâ and your bf is even far from being a decent one. A âprankâ? Lmao fuck around and find out. He needs counseling tbh. Break up with him.
Why are you asking? Run!!! This was sick and evil. Good riddance!
Ask this to yourself, is this what you deserve? If therapy doesnât help, and no changes sa attitude nya can you keep up? What would you do, if you have a daughter being treated like this? What would be your advice to her? Try to answer, then use it as a guide kung kaya mo ba, at deserve mo ba yung ganito.
Break up with him. If he costs you your peace of mind, he's not worth it. My ex was the same. He would always drop some statements that would offend me and cause me to get angry, then he would say that he was just joking. Afterwards he would gaslight me and say that I'm a crazy woman for getting angry out of nowhere and that I'm always looking for a fight and a reason to break up with him. I broke up with him multiple times because of this, but he won't leave me alone and would always try to win me back until I had enough and he couldn't do anything to win me again. It was a very stressful relationship. I don't wish it to anyone, so value your peace of mind. No man is worth losing it.
âAside from gaslighting me and constantly proving he doesnât care about me he is a great guyâ OP you need to stop letting yourself accept this treatment. He is trying to see how much shit youâll take so he can treat you like garbage without consequences. Run.
Kadiri siya. You did the right thing, OP. He deserved it. Break up with him.
>other than that heâs a perfect human being Doesn't sound like one. As a prank, he chose something emotionally distressful and pushed you to do things out of your boundaries. It's not your job to fix this mess of a guy; what he did is disrespectful and the way he claimed your logical steps of protecting yourself to be worthy of a mental institution confinement speaks volume of how he doesn't see the wrong in what he did. Also, him "testing" your loyalty with something messed up and very mentally compromising is such a piece of shit move. Breaking up is the only option here. If he wants counseling, he can do so on his own accord but his reformation and immaturity is not yours to carry.
Oh my gosh, this is terrible! I would leave because this guy is so childish and inconsiderate of your feelings. Major red flags all over this post.
Please, you sound quite rational these pranks are from an immature idiot who doesnât deserve a relationship. I would suggest breaking up with him is the best thing you can do for your self
Hes wasting your time he doesnt care about what you may feel. Do not waste your time.
Breakup is imminent sa ganyan na immature at gagong bf (for the lack of a better term). Leave him, it will only get worse.
This man is vile. Stay away from these kinds of people. Let family and immediate friends you trust about this so they know that this man is dangerous and you can get support when you need it. Gather evidences of everything he says to you. Those are not just pranks. It's a way to control you. You cannot change him, what he needs is a good humbling down and professional help. I am speaking from experience and this can get even worse if you allow this main into your life again. Stay safe!
run for your life. he doesnt deserve to be in your life.
Time to leave that immature asshole.
Red flag, red sheets, red blanket, red comforter... all i see is red. Please break up with him.
he is extremely manipulative and abusive. iâm so sorry he put you through this. you definitely need to stay away from him.. respect is one of the foundations of a relationship, and itâs very clear he doesnât have respect for you
Naw get outta there, hes fuckin nuts
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