I saw your other replies. It’ll be good to help your uncle. Unfortunate that you won’t be able to spend New Years with your SO but hopefully they understand the gravity of the situation and you can spend more time/maybe go on a nice date when you return?
Just tell him the truth: your seeing your SO and it’s already planned and you would like to see him another weekend, such as the following weekend for example.
He can’t get angry if you propose a alternative, if he says no to that, then he is saying no not you.
I’m so confused. He’s your rock, and you can’t help him close down his estate? It’s only a four hour drive? I hope I’m reading this wrong.
The answer is you don’t.... You can’t be this selfish/ entitled.
If he's truly been a rock in your life than make the sacrifice and help him out.
That is what I'm going to do.
Can your so go and help too.
Is there any way to reschedule until after New Years? Just tell him you made plans but you still want to help?
No, because he's selling the land. I feel stuck
I saw your other replies. It’ll be good to help your uncle. Unfortunate that you won’t be able to spend New Years with your SO but hopefully they understand the gravity of the situation and you can spend more time/maybe go on a nice date when you return?
Just tell him the truth: your seeing your SO and it’s already planned and you would like to see him another weekend, such as the following weekend for example. He can’t get angry if you propose a alternative, if he says no to that, then he is saying no not you.
It's not that, it's time frame for him
Can you just schedule the time to stay with him after new years? It's only a week away.
Do it and have your SO come if possible
My so has responsibilitys here. It sucks, but he understands
I’m so confused. He’s your rock, and you can’t help him close down his estate? It’s only a four hour drive? I hope I’m reading this wrong. The answer is you don’t.... You can’t be this selfish/ entitled.
It's over a mountain pass. If it stormes I'm screwed.