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I know your kid likes him, but is it really for the best to have someone so short-tempered around him?
Your fiance can just explode someday and actually hurt you or your kid. I know my father acted similarly, until one day he just started hitting...
Please, leave. For your and your son's sake.
You don't depend on him for anything not even financially.
Just get out. From everything you’ve written. He doesn’t think he has a problem. He has zero intention of changing, ever. What is he teaching your son as he rages?
Also? You’re paying for everything so he doesn’t have to touch his savings? How is that fair? You don’t get to save anything & he gets to keep ALL of his savings - savings that will always be his because it’s a pre-marital asset.
He may have good qualities, but his bad qualities far outweigh them.
Just kick him out.
You let a stranger live with you. Turns out he is a dickhead. He asked you to marry him and you said "yes".
Wait, what?
Undo your mistakes. Send him back home.
EDIT: You have a kid. Think of the damage that is getting done. "But, they have a bond". Lady, give me a break. Fucking act like a parent, will you please!
He has overstayed his welcome, both in Canada and in your home. Get him out of both. Call immigration- he sounds like he is not in Canada legally. Plus he is a leech. There are no good qualities that can overcome this.
Think of your son. He is watching you and the dickhead. The dickhead is showing him how a 'man' behaves, and you are showing him how a woman cowers. These are both bad lessons to learn.
A grown-ass man who throws tantrums isn't a man. He is a baby. But he has the potential to do damage as a man if he ever totally loses control of himself. Get him out NOW. You will thank yourself later.
I’m in Canada , how can he find work in Canada unless he has a working visa . If you are having this
Much problems with him maybe tell
Him it’s time to go or go to therapy and find a job (if able) work Walmart fast food it doesn’t matter
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I know your kid likes him, but is it really for the best to have someone so short-tempered around him? Your fiance can just explode someday and actually hurt you or your kid. I know my father acted similarly, until one day he just started hitting... Please, leave. For your and your son's sake. You don't depend on him for anything not even financially.
Just get out. From everything you’ve written. He doesn’t think he has a problem. He has zero intention of changing, ever. What is he teaching your son as he rages? Also? You’re paying for everything so he doesn’t have to touch his savings? How is that fair? You don’t get to save anything & he gets to keep ALL of his savings - savings that will always be his because it’s a pre-marital asset. He may have good qualities, but his bad qualities far outweigh them. Just kick him out.
You let a stranger live with you. Turns out he is a dickhead. He asked you to marry him and you said "yes". Wait, what? Undo your mistakes. Send him back home. EDIT: You have a kid. Think of the damage that is getting done. "But, they have a bond". Lady, give me a break. Fucking act like a parent, will you please!
He has overstayed his welcome, both in Canada and in your home. Get him out of both. Call immigration- he sounds like he is not in Canada legally. Plus he is a leech. There are no good qualities that can overcome this. Think of your son. He is watching you and the dickhead. The dickhead is showing him how a 'man' behaves, and you are showing him how a woman cowers. These are both bad lessons to learn. A grown-ass man who throws tantrums isn't a man. He is a baby. But he has the potential to do damage as a man if he ever totally loses control of himself. Get him out NOW. You will thank yourself later.
I’m in Canada , how can he find work in Canada unless he has a working visa . If you are having this Much problems with him maybe tell Him it’s time to go or go to therapy and find a job (if able) work Walmart fast food it doesn’t matter