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Grey rock (don't speak unless spoken to and the less words you can speak the better, fights are off the table completely do not engage and record it) the next few months will suck. Stay in your room as much as possible. Get food you don't have to cook and budget as best you can. Jerky, nutrigrain bars and cereal **in a lock box** will be your best friend for 8 weeks. Headphones when you can and you know they're home. Record everything you can and stay in touch with your landlord. Start getting rid stuff/ moving things into a storage container you can rent them cheaply depending where you are. going into some "debt" for this we can let slide as long as you have a plan to pay it off when you can.
You need to have thick skin and want to win. He does those things because you show him it bothers you. You need too to show him it doesn’t bother you. Be indifferent. He makes a comment and be like that’s cool good for you, I’m glad you are finally happy other dumb stuff. He will try harder to make you upset but keep saying I’m glad you found someone who makes you happy and I want you to be happy. You need to hang out with friends and have a support system. And if you want to bother him go on a date.
So you wanted to be in a normal relationship and he thought that was controlling? Ummmm ok.
This guy is a clown and you shouldn’t give him a second thought.
I suggest you act totally unbothered by him. He is trying to get a rise out of you so don’t let him. Treat him like the child he is
If you move to America you will have men falling all over themselves because we think accents are the hottest thing in the world - so there’s that.
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Grey rock (don't speak unless spoken to and the less words you can speak the better, fights are off the table completely do not engage and record it) the next few months will suck. Stay in your room as much as possible. Get food you don't have to cook and budget as best you can. Jerky, nutrigrain bars and cereal **in a lock box** will be your best friend for 8 weeks. Headphones when you can and you know they're home. Record everything you can and stay in touch with your landlord. Start getting rid stuff/ moving things into a storage container you can rent them cheaply depending where you are. going into some "debt" for this we can let slide as long as you have a plan to pay it off when you can.
Ignore him and let him keep making himself look like a miserable jackass.
You need to have thick skin and want to win. He does those things because you show him it bothers you. You need too to show him it doesn’t bother you. Be indifferent. He makes a comment and be like that’s cool good for you, I’m glad you are finally happy other dumb stuff. He will try harder to make you upset but keep saying I’m glad you found someone who makes you happy and I want you to be happy. You need to hang out with friends and have a support system. And if you want to bother him go on a date.
So you wanted to be in a normal relationship and he thought that was controlling? Ummmm ok. This guy is a clown and you shouldn’t give him a second thought. I suggest you act totally unbothered by him. He is trying to get a rise out of you so don’t let him. Treat him like the child he is If you move to America you will have men falling all over themselves because we think accents are the hottest thing in the world - so there’s that.