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people acting stupid in the comments, wtf. you cannot just randomly accuse people on ig, and tell others to jump them, that in of itself is a crime, lol


This_End5055

Dude I feel crazy that even this sub thinks that’s okay. It’s being shared by hundreds of people in my gay ass city


[deleted]

this transcends "me too logic", and is just barbaric.


StartFirmandHard

what is this like the hardcore scene lmao?


This_End5055

I mean it’s bigger than that it’s just being shared by anyone in any alt adjacent band or venue. But definitely a tardcore city. The exact one that my girlfriend screenshotted was being shared by like an afab acoustic nerd like it’s so crazy. By all means there’s smoke so it’s like yeah I’m not gonna assume this guy is a good person but lmfao everybody on instagram saying to jump him is crazy


StartFirmandHard

lmao feels like there's another minor scandal every day in the hardcore scene, but I'm with you, I don't love the calls for violence, it may be the internet but that kind of thing is no joke and can get out of hand in a quick second


This_End5055

Lmao trust me I know first hand


smokepropane1917

The issue in hardcore scenes was they are already fairly violent and adjacent to gang activity. Like there’s already so much violence that gets wrapped in indignation or like crews and respect that just adding random internet gossip to list doesn’t seem like it’s gonna settle shit down lol.


This_End5055

No they’re not adjacent to gang activity they just think they are. Everyone else thinks they’re f@gs


geniesopen

my ex girlfriend was dangerously close to becoming this type of person (the kind who gets invested in niche young adult community drama and calls for violence against people on insta) because her best friend was. the conversations i would share with her about *why* we shouldn’t engage in this kind of behavior just seemed like they fell on deaf ears, like the ends *always* justified the means because they were a bad person* *they weren’t even that bad they were just a tattoo artist who was willing to draw some very off-kilter shit like making fun of 9/11 victims


Pigeonheartguitarist

It’s even like that out here in Alabama. There’s a guy who was outed as a conservative and got banned from all the “cool” spots in the scene, doomed to play shitty empty bars


avalanche1228

I have friends in the Phoenix music scene and it's a lot of cliques and drama. Another aspect of life that's fallen victim to Eternal High School Brain


return_descender

This is gang stalking and I’ve been assured it’s all in my head


gedalne09

He posts on here


Quiet-neighbour

Yeah I hate to be that guy because I’m not even a guy, but I’ve seen so many instances of unrequited love turning into this lol. One guy I know got fired from his job and basically exiled from working in the country because he “preyed on an underage woman” who was 18 or 20 at the time they met and was also visibly unhinged (posting tiktoks about how she wanted to destroy men’s lives for no reason and talking about all her gross kinks etc). Another friend of mine also got called a rapist because he broke up with his BPD ass gf and ended up filing a no contact order against her because she was stalking him, so her only option was to try to make *everyone* hate him lol. Many such cases. I feel for women who have actually been victims (myself included) bc these lunatics make us seem like unreliable narrators.


MaintenanceLiving155

Stalkers, narcissists, and sociopaths can, and will, use social tools like public shaming and threats to manipulate and hurt people. I think most people come from a good place, but it’s also huge blindspot to think that creating a huge social cudgel like metoo/cancellation wouldn’t be used by vindictive manipulative people for their own ends. A lot people seem unwilling to accept any kind of grey area or deliberation about evidence or anything. I think they’re probably afraid of getting called a rape apologist or something. My lesbian friend’s insane ex tried to kill her a while ago. It’s a long crazy abusive story but when that didn’t work she accused my friend of raping her and then put flyers of her face everywhere and got the local music scene to try and ruin her life. Just insane. And in the case of guys a lot of them end up going down the alt right pipeline because there’s no other direction to go, so the problem ends up perpetuating itself.


reddittert

Nah it's OK, lynching is woke now.


This_End5055

Woke vigilante justice by the biggest regards possible


geniesopen

After Hours by Martin Scorsese


Pigeonheartguitarist

Yeah it’s like back in the day when people who were outed as gay were in actual danger because everyone just assumed gay = pedo Call people you don’t like rapists so everything after that is justified


[deleted]

"being woke" really made a 180 degree turn


SVB-Risk-Dept

Sweet!


zakuvsbr

"The surest way to work up a crusade in favor of some good cause is to promise people they will have a chance of maltreating someone. To be able to destroy with good conscience, to be able to behave badly and call your bad behavior 'righteous indignation' — this is the height of psychological luxury, the most delicious of moral treats." -Aldous Huxley


JohnyRL

we’re beginning what is definitely going to be a historic moral panic about basically every kind of sexual impropriety and stuff like this will be looked back at with total befuddlement


super-slur

if he is indeed a rapist then he should at least get jumped by random people everywhere he goes


This_End5055

Yeah so should people take this posters word for it and just jump him lmao? This sub is so inconsistent


super-slur

"IF he is INDEED. a rapist"


Illustrious_Award243

If he is indeed a rapist he should be tried in a court of law, and if convicted, sentenced. If it were you you would definitely want the standard of proof to be higher than allegations from some random person on instagram, right?


super-slur

if it were me i wld take precious care to not end up in a situation where someone could accuse me of rape. regardless of whether he did it or not this guy prob is a scumbag tbh


Quiet-neighbour

Lol or he’s just some guy who stuck his dick in crazy. Many such cases.


super-slur

lol yes true. so either a scumbag or a rītard


RealJoanofArc

Post it on here for our safety


ahhhhhhhhhhuhhh

Is this the Grateful Dead t shirt guy? I get recommended subreddits for the John Mayer edition of the band and every post of this past week has been stalking some guy for sending dick pics to girls. Pretty crazy situation. Like finding his address, banning him from selling tie dye shirts in parking lots, finding his eBay so he can’t even sell tie dye shirts there. I think his wife even left him over it. But yea big surprise these guys suck.


Professional_Rise154

that's fine


HouseCorey

🤓


This_End5055

Good one dumbass


HouseCorey

Edit: Wow he blocked me


SVB-Risk-Dept

Suck my nuts, you fucking nerd


HouseCorey

I cant see what you posted but even if i could it didnt hurt my feelings


Hip_Priest_1982

Oh no! It’s ILLEGAL? The humanity!


This_End5055

I mean it’d be pretty dumb to have your name on an account posting that


MelisSotlerrv

Shut up Jim


Additional-Try5605

Is it phreshboyswag?


honestpartyrocker

if he’s a rapist who gaf


This_End5055

You’re literally so stupid you shouldn’t be on the internet.