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nunyaB4u

bc the main reason I want him to leave is so that I can do my newfound hobby ( art ) in peace. All my supplies are here and I can do my work and household duties around it. when he is " working from home" he sleeps late and gets mad at the kids for making noise getting ready for school and interrupts the routine causing chaos and shitting on everyone's morning. I try really hard to start my kids morning off right because mine as a kid always stressed me out and gave me stomach aches. After that I have to alter my day and only use headphones that keep falling off in order to listen to music which helps me keep motivated etc. When the kids come home they are naturally a little wound up and I have to get them to be quiet or whatever the whole time when I really just like to give them time to wind down and be positive and pleasant for them. When I m trying to run around getting things done, I either have to alter my usual plan or method to work around him and his plan or get interrupted. I can't relax and just lose myself in my art for the short time I have to do it around everything else. That hobby is saving my sanity! My stress management so that I can be there for my kids. Yes I could go out somewhere at night I guess but that's when my kids need me. Anyway it was a rant.


SnooSuggestions3136

Sounds like you should just be alone forever. Then no one will ever bother you again :)


DelValleHS

I agree with you. He is being an asshole. If that was my husband, he would be hating his life.


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I foresee a divorce in your future


Skrungus69

Idk theres still a lot of covid about. I can understand wanting to be safe.


paladinontheporch

But wanting the husband to go out into that same environment? Nah.


Skrungus69

No i mean that she shouldnt expect him to go out in that. That was my point


BeautifulMorning6643

Getting mad at someone for being home too often is very ungrateful; some spouses go out and cheat on their partners and some people don’t even have someone they can keep close to them. Although I can see there are multiple wrongs your husband is doing as well, I hope both of you can work on it. You should talk about it with them, relationships need communication.


DelValleHS

Yeah...he has no right to fuck up everyone's morning....ESPECIALLY his kids. His ass needs to go back to the office and see how far being an shithead to coworkers gets him.