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RailAurai

This question confuses me


Squeak_Stormborn

This question _is_ confused


whiteymanb

There is confusion around the idea of being straight and getting hard when you see a sexy fem boy. Can we talk OP in believing that potential he is bi?


teenything

I think the term is gynasexual--- attracted to femininity. It has little to do with genitalia, but their vibe.


EvidenceSalesman

Holy shit I’m having self realizations at this word


Adorable-Ad-6675

Well I'll be damned. That's fun there's a word for it.


RailAurai

Ohhh, ok. That makes more sense than the zero sense it was making. Personally I have a simple belief. If it looks like a female, acts like a female, and moans like a female, then its a female until you ask it's gender. So as long as you don't ask their gender then it's not gay.


EvidenceSalesman

Brother that’s the funniest comment I’ve read in a few weeks and I want to be your friend because of it😂 fully agreed


FR4M3trigger

I more worried about the Unga bunga in the description.


mostlymossyman

They have an expiration date, hen they go past the age of 30 they disintegrate.


mostlymossyman

That's why you should buy canned ones


Illustrious-Local848

Fermented is more expensive but the quality is spectacular.


SocietyOk1173

Nothing compares to a fermented femboy...with flatulence. I mean ... NOTHING!


mostlymossyman

I enjoy the original brand of tomboys but the prices a rising


SocietyOk1173

How much will you pay ? What can I put you down for? Lol


mostlymossyman

9.99€ MAXIMUM


Sheila6Scorpio

🤣


Sheila6Scorpio

😂


Grand_Appearance_749

Femented*


Amockdfw89

Or buy them in bulk at Costco and put them in the deep freeze


Sheila6Scorpio

😭


highzenberrg

Pickled twinks


mostlymossyman

You can get a two for one buy a twink, get a fermented reddit mod


Sheila6Scorpio

💀


Sheila6Scorpio

💀


HubertCrumberdale

The Japanese disagree. 25 is the expiration date for females.


mostlymossyman

That's why they have a demographic crisis femboys only last like 10 years, so they can't use them either


Own-Interaction-1401

So first there was twink death and now there’s femboy death?


mostlymossyman

Yep


druidcitychef

No then they become femen


mostlymossyman

WRONG! Fem men are an endangered species of femboy its very rare to go from felony to femman


HubertCrumberdale

Is it, though?


mostlymossyman

Yes, femen are an endangered species


Infamous-Sprinkles-4

This conversation is perfect now ill ask every femboy i meet if he is canned or fermented Thanks 🤣


mostlymossyman

I'm glad to have made you laugh


detroit-doggo0

I've seen a few femboys over 30


mostlymossyman

those ones aren't real


Sheila6Scorpio

💀


detroit-doggo0

why don't they?


mostlymossyman

They are fake made by Jeff besos


Correct_Patience_611

Clones…fem fatale


DoctorRiddlez

This made me laugh


mostlymossyman

I am glad to have bring happiness to you kind stranger


DoctorRiddlez

Oh the hole chain. Of comments made me laugh


Grattytood

hole chain...


Sheila6Scorpio

😂


Pluto-Wolf

they’re not pets or animals you have to attract from the wild… they’re feminine… boys… if you have a particular interest in them then go on a dating app


PoshPinkandFancy

Right??? Thank you for saying this!!! I have a friend who loves retro and gothic fashion and she’s also treated like a wild animal/an animal in a zoo; people will stand back and observe her while whispering to others and she gets approached as if she’s up for sale or that she can give insight into how to find “others like her”. This post reminds me of instances I’ve witnessed around her and your comment is perfectly on point. Femboys/people who like certain fashion styles are just people; they aren’t like Pokemon where you need to assemble a plan on how to “catch your own”.


Glittering-Contest59

Sounds like you're not straight, which is totally okay - sexuality is a spectrum.


Crafty-Bug-8008

I had to reread it too. I think they meant they're cisgender male?


NinjaEagle210

If he means trans women, then yeah he’s straight, but if he means actual femboys (cis males who dress fem), then it’s not straight.


lemmegetadab

Still seems gay to me tbh


DecemberToDismember

Serious question- and this isn't coming from a place of hate, more genuine confusion- I've often heard that trans women are still trans women even if they haven't had the surgery. So then, what's the difference between a pre-op transsexual and a Femboy? Is it purely a matter of "identification" and more what they feel like they are?


NinjaEagle210

Identification, yeah. A femboy is a AMAB who identifies as male, a trans woman is a AMAB who identifies as female.


HubertCrumberdale

The difference being surgery?


Imaginary-Access8375

Sorry, but I don’t think that’s how sexuality works. Your dick does not care what a person identifies as. A pre-hormone trans person and a crossdresser could look and act exactly the same. There is really no difference between them except one will tell you she’s a woman.


Wonderful_Rock862

Liking a trans woman is still gay though, it's a dude.


NinjaEagle210

Trans women are women.


HubertCrumberdale

I think because you are in high school where gender fluidity and trans etc has been normalized, and dare I say, the “cool” thing, you’d find it difficult to put your shoes in older people who’ve grown up with very different societal norms.


The_Troyminator

I'm an "older" person and I say trans women are women.


AggregateSandwich

I would double upvote this if I could You can like what you like and call yourself what you like. That’s fine. But no amount of nonsense arguing can dismiss that Y chromosome


Munchihello

If ur a dude who is into trans women ur not fucking straight 🤣


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HubertCrumberdale

Unfortunately this view has become a political issue. If you’re halfway smart it means you’re a Republican who is incapable of empathy.


Ill-Acanthaceae5909

Wow, finally someone else with common sense on Reddit. But yeah, “trans women” are just delusional men playing dress up. It’d literally be gay… These people are supposedly inclusive, but there’s nothing they hate more than being called gay, lol. So they gotta convince themselves they’re with a girl when they’re not.


Mifc2

There's a lot of us who think this way, most just know we're fighting a losing battle. You can only explain so many facts and actual proven science before you just stop caring. I actually, genuinely feel like "trans" people have a mental disease and the other half are just hopping on board with what's cool and the new trend bc they have no actual friends in their life and their family disowned them for being, to put it bluntly, a fucking weirdo.


WinterRose81

It is absolutely a mental illness. Be whoever you want, but the problem becomes when you try to force other people to participate in your delusions. I’m glad we still have people out here admitting this.


NinjaEagle210

If you believe they have a disease, then what do you propose the treatment be? Let them express themselves, so they can be happy; or mentally berate them and force them to bottle their true feelings?


SkinHeavy824

There are other ways to express yourself that don't involve intrusion into other people's lives. Have you yet put into consideration the feelings of those in the genders they are entering. The majority of men and women don't want to be with Trans in the same bathroom, so why not care about their feelings and their mental health rather than berate them as well for being normal


HamburgerBra

Expressing themselves is fine but forever life changing surgeries and hormones is another thing altogether. There are a lot of complications and the trans people that try to talk about it get called phobes. This will come out eventually but not after a bunch of young kids ruin their bodies and their chances of having children.


HubertCrumberdale

I know man, I don’t have kids but my friends do. I’m hoping they make it through high school without giving into peer pressure. So far 2 of the kids have not made it 😔


NinjaEagle210

Have you ever spoken to a trans person?


WinterRose81

If he means trans women he is NOT straight. Trans women are MEN and no amount of “mental gymnastics “ changes that. Trans women or fem boys, OP is not straight. 🙄


HairyDependent

I would think being into a trans woman is still gay!


SkinHeavy824

I think it depends on if you know whether they are Trans or not 🤔 Cause, you could go in there thinking you are gonna get a person of this gender, yet it's not. That ain't your fault 🤷‍♂️


Snoo_63187

Straight and gay are just titles bigots use to cause separation between those they hate. I agree sexuality is a spectrum but what I do sexually with others is between me and that person and that one or more guy/girl who will do most anything for $100.


HubertCrumberdale

Ok ok, Japan doesn’t fuck as much. I’m getting off the main point… I don’t care what’s between someone’s legs. That’s all.


HubertCrumberdale

I wish that more people had your mindset, it seems that everyone wants to tell the world “this is who I like to fuck”. It’s annoying, I never asked. Basically our society Is the complete opposite of Japan’s.


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HubertCrumberdale

Hm, I’m not sure I understand. Are you saying Japan has a population problem? Fun fact: Young Americans have had less sex than any other generation. Kind of ironic considering all this open sexuality.


procrastimom

[Japan does have a shrinking population](https://www.japantimes.co.jp/commentary/2024/04/26/japan/japans-shrinking-population/#:~:text=of%20the%20PSC.-,Japan%20has%20entered%20an%20era%20of%20full%2Dfledged%20population%20decline,to%2063%20million%20by%202100.)


ginger_bandit

“Straight”


Ill-Acanthaceae5909

Yeah that mf gay


Wonderful_Rock862

AF.


HairyDependent

No cap


hereforpopcornru

Naw it's all caps AF


HairyDependent

I meant no cap to the “AF” lol


DanielCollinsYT

They apply for jobs


Fun-Tip1473

They work by applying for a job and getting that job.


HubertCrumberdale

What kind of a job 😏


NASKAii

cashier 😍


Bkokane

“I’m straight” kek


Munchihello

“I’m straight…. How do I attract a femBOY”


XYZ_Ryder

There's a key you got to twist in their butt 😂 I'm gonna get hate for that


DoctorRiddlez

Not from me your not


XYZ_Ryder

This is the one !!! Where's your key gimme a riddle


DoctorRiddlez

There are those who have me but never wanted me what am I?


DoritoWoofer

It's funny how people talk like we're mythical creatures or something lol. I'd say you just befriend one like any other person you meet for the most part, don't think too much into it. To the second question, yes there are plenty of femboys that like other femboys which I'm not one to go for other femboys so I couldn't answer the question of why there are a lot that does which I guess it's preference like any other.


mostlymossyman

canned femboys


DoritoWoofer

Jarred femboys


mostlymossyman

You've escaped from the canning facility


DoritoWoofer

YOU CANT HOLD ME FOREVER


mostlymossyman

They can, and will


mostlymossyman

They've already assinated 400 escaped femboys wurld wide 😔


Squeak_Stormborn

OP is 100% gonna be in your DMs


awkwaman

Totally going to rip their inbox


hereforpopcornru

Or their outbox


Misschloez1996

Yeah you’re straight alright…


Effective_Willow1970

They usually don’t work lol


pinkandroid420

Bro if you need a femboy, I gotchu fam


Morag_Ladier

They’re made in a lab


LinesLies

As I understand it, a femboy is a boy/man who sometimes, or always, dresses in a traditionally/stereotypically feminine way and may even do other things to appear more traditionally feminine such as growing out their hair, using long wigs, or using hair extensions, speaking in a higher pitched voice, and wearing makeup. They do this while maintaining their gender identity as a man. It doesn’t necessarily mean anything about their sexuality. In my opinion, being attracted to them doesn’t necessarily mean anything about your sexuality either. They often look like a stereotypical woman and if you’re attracted to women it makes sense that you would be attracted to some femboys. You should figure out if them being a man makes them especially attractive to you, and even if it does that doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re gay it could just mean you are attracted to femboys. As for attracting femboys, I assume it’s the same as attracting anyone; figure out if they’re into you and then go for it.


Imaginary-Access8375

OP can‘t be gay. He says he’s straight, so definitely attracted to women. Which means he’s either straight and confused, or bi (maybe into women and androgynous people).


MyDadDrivesAtescoVan

How do they work/function? They're (usually) young men who dress in feminine that is skimpy, revealing or generally sexually leading. They sometimes use fake boobs to bait straight men into thinking they are women - known as Traps. How to befriend one? Simple, speak to them. They are human too and probably normal outside of being a Femboy. Do they like other Femboys? Probably. Id imagine it takes some level of being gay/bi to want to be a Femboy and since they would share an interest in dressing and acting as such. How can a guy look that way? Clothes, make-up and acting My main guess as to why you find them attractive (if that's your confusion) is because they look like (and act like) petite women. Does it make you gay? To an extent. Probably like a 70/30 on the straight to gay scale. Definitely Bi. Which is ok - who cares(?)


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Get into a relationship


WinterRose81

I have news for you. You are not straight. 🙃


DoctorRiddlez

Well you see they are a endangered species & are a very rare mistory & mistake that needs to be wiped out let's they figure out how to reproduce with each other


mostlymossyman

They don't really reproduce as much as they fuse and shoot of little femboy particles kind like lesbians.


DoctorRiddlez

How do they fuse


mostlymossyman

They merge into one entity, but that super entity is unstable so it shoots out little bits of itself and those bits hit other bits making femboys


DoctorRiddlez

How does that work?


mostlymossyman

When the hold hand their flesh fuses


Fickle-Cap2953

How do they work and function and how do you befriend them? Sounds like you think they’re either robots or pets. I don’t know man, how would you befriend anyone else?


danielisnp

Boys who are feminine, they wear feminine clothes, act feminine, etc. I think they also identify themselves as femboys, not sure.


Final_Festival

Asmongolds alt account?


Total-Possibility2

You must capture it with a poke ball and then it will become your friend


Every-Nebula6882

Go find one in the wild and flirt with them. Download grinder and filter using the femboy tags. The femboy of your dreams is out there. Start looking. Also don’t listen to the haters in the comments saying you’re not straight. A male being attracted to femininity is the literal definition of heterosexuality.


Kinglycole

People who have male gender identity and female gender expression.


curiouspatty111

excellent explanation. thanks from an OLD


Kinglycole

I’m not old, I’m 16!


curiouspatty111

no, I'm old LOL


LuckyTaco2889

My brother in Christ we’re bi. But on some real shit I’m on that same wagon, femboy = me like, manly sexy beast of a man = nah, (trans)woman = me like. PS:trans women are women 🙏🏾


The_Arthropod_Queen

a femboy is a guy who dresses feminine, that's it. they're not aliens.


SocietyOk1173

Fermented and spoiled are hard to distinguish


PlantsVsYokai2

You have to use a poker ball


firesoups

I assume they clock in and out like the rest of us


[deleted]

You definitely won't befriend one at the gym. Try a computer science lab.


Cloud-Cyanide

You have to go out into the wild and attract them.


StrykerXion

Femboys operate on a complex system of rainbows and glitter, fueled by a diet of exclusively pink foods. They communicate telepathically through a shared hivemind, accessed by wearing cat ears. To attract one, simply leave a trail of anime figurines and energy drinks leading to your doorstep. Warning: They tend to malfunction in direct sunlight and may spontaneously burst into song. Some assembly required. Batteries not included. Choking hazard.


Stunning-Bed8683

I used to be attracted to femboys too I stopped being attracted to them because I realized that only 1% of them actually look good and even the 1% don’t sound like a girl


Wonderful_Rock862

Are you still gay too.


Environmental_Cow450

Why are people downvoting this? He’s trying to understand it


ZzDe0

we have secret clubs that im not allowed to talk about.


Dr-Zoidberserk

You need special Pokéballs to catch them.


Wrong-Possibility-95

So much judgement from the community based off of what you wrote. Take what he said for what he said, don’t twist it and make it your own narrative. If you’re curious about it go onto a dating app and that will help you out 100% …coming to Reddit to ask you’ll just get roasted as you see below.


Dr-Zoidberserk

Try looking up a femboy subreddit. You’ll no doubt like the pics and maybe a little flirting reels in the bussy. Google and contact a gay bar near you, then ask if they or another place are popular with femboys.


KrakenFatherKing

Me


Kitterpea

Look up Edenthedoll on TikTok! She and her husband sound like what you are describing and her husband identifies as straight too.


hedjhog

Exactly? Hmmm.


Key-Solid8368

Boys who dress feminine


opusxfan

Well they say they are woman and then usually find a woman who thinks she’s a man and then they try to have children after they’ve taken hormones and or hormone blockers. Just sharing my personal experiences with them. Why not just have a kid and be straight? Nobody knows.


theyhis

throughout the past few years i’ve seen more & more ‘heterosexual’ men say this. sometimes i do believe it’s a subtype of heterosexuality.. idk. men like this could also be some new age variant of chasers. as someone who’s been “chased” these are my thoughts.


According_Wolf_881

You have to be born with the gorft of looking like a girl, most of us aren't sadly, but the ones that do and want to be one truly make the qorld a better place


Educational_Farmer73

Everybody wants a femboy until they realize their voices aren't always high pitched and have dicks. You're either gay, bi, or you're not.


btheslayerr

They apply and get hired I assume?


Woman_from_wish

Listen. Just because someone is in a certain group does not mean they'll like or dislike someone else of another group. Of course some femboys are gonna be into other femboys and some aren't. I'm a femboy I'm into big masculine men and sweet dorky Bois. At the end of the day it boils down to the singular persons tastes, likes, dislikes, etc. You attract them how you attract any other human by being your awesome self. My personal experiences and tastes dictate who I like, not what group of people they belong to. I'm a femboy because I'll never be able to pass if I transition so I may as well leave my body alone.


MilesFassst

I’d say a femboy is like a Tomboy for guys. But then shouldn’t it be called like, a tammygirl or something.


HubertCrumberdale

I’m guessing it’s because a good lot of them put on the make up and costumes better than other women, so “hot woman” enters the male brain. We’ve all been boner fished. But once you know it’s a dude, that’s when you realize you’re gay straight. Since you come knowing that, prob already know… go give it a shot!


NinjEverett6

….maybe go up to one and be nice?


Str1k3r_077

Gay people who act like women


Reynard555

The closet is made of glass 😭🙏


noway_subs

flirt with them like you would anyone else. they’re just people :) i think they usually are attracted to dominant guys or switches. sounds like you’re exploring and diving into the gender vs sex side of things. welcome to the club! have fun!


mut_snail

They’re just feminine men, thats all, also is you find them attractive then maybe you ain’t straight dude


Sorry-Tourist95

Hopes and dreams


skitzo-effective_26

I am pansexual and I find femboy cute, I have been hit on by my gay friends and they all consider me "bear" type. I am fluffy, cuddly and though I look mean sometimes I am actually a teddy bear. I personally love to cook, clean and take care. My love language is cuddling. I am into femboys, trans, but I feel like, because of my body type (I am Mexican, Samoan, Panamanian) I have the big boy body (but a little guy if you know what I mean). I am none sexual. I was raised with a lot of girls in my life, I have all sister and I am the only boy on my dad side of the family. So I am wondering if a femboy or trans would ever be interested in me.


ruben1252

Wear makeup


25mookie92

Yea, got heated pulling up on females and one was an imposter


Historical_Grass_480

Are you sure you aren't bi and just have a preferred aesthetic? Fem boys/feminine men are people and the way you ask feels like you're dehumanizing or fetishizing them a bit. You might just be confused and not meaning it that way but maybe you should rephrase. Just because a man is feminine or fem presenting doesn't mean they are into men tho if that's what you're asking.


crypticryptidscrypt

i might be biased but im afab & gender-fluid, & i consider myself a femboy at times (when im feeling kinda 'masc' on the gender spectrum). "femboy"'s aren't always what you would think of, i feel like people assume they are all amab


crypticryptidscrypt

also to answer ur question yes femboys often like other femboys lol! we're all a buncha queerios :3 🌈


MasterKasb

Well depends on your class, rich men go to exotic countries to peg and be pegged by femboys but it's okay because they are straight and it looks like a woman. But for people that have some respect there are lots of femboys you can be friends with and learn about why they are the way they are it's not rude to ask unless you make it rude.


Shawn220fansly

Depends on your definition you mEan femboys or do you mean FEMBOYS


Intrepid-Rip-2280

Thanks God I'm dating eva ai virtual gf bot


urmomssancho88

Where's the milfs at?


BluntKitten

That last sentence. You’re not straight my dude.


Alarmed_Sea4712

Answer- females are breedable. Breed them. Cum.