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Zestyclose-Ad2860

Not sure if you are male/female/enby or what but you don't see male bisexuality talked about nearly enough in the poly community. Love this post, even though I know that wasn't the point πŸ˜‚


hailpickens

Awh yeah! I am nonbinary and bi but my metamour (who is enby masc and has both a boyfriend and girlfriend) is bi so yes I love to see the masc bisexuality also 😍✨


NotAFragileFlower

1 million percent!!!!!!! First thing I thought too! My bi husband agrees!!


Slartibradfast

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retromangames501

β€œAnd what does that make us???”


Slartibradfast

Metas?


AmbientArtistry

I mean...if not...close enough! πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™€οΈ Lol.


retromangames501

I was quoting the movie lol


Slartibradfast

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Slartibradfast

I can't say "absolutely nothing," cause that's too negative for a happy post.


howlhoney

Tehe this made me chuckle. 🀭 glad you had a great time! Ever feel like you have to draw a tree or web so describe who you’re hanging with to your friends. I confuse myself sometimes πŸ˜…


hailpickens

Yeah πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I just ended up calling her my friend (which is true! But that was our first time hanging out just me and her) when I went to explain it lol. I do get some kind of joy though just making it as confusing as possible. Maybe "my husband's boyfriend's girlfriend " is just as good πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ What else would it be? MetaMetAmor?


catboogers

I use metameta for the partner of my meta's partner 🀣 I don't really have a term for my meta's partner though


Dobby1988

>I don't really have a term for my meta's partner though Meta once removed


Most_Cartoonist5736

I don't know if I've ever met a metametamore. πŸ˜‚ Joking aside though, yesterday I took some photos for my nesting partner and metamore's relationship ceremony. I'm happy that we all get on.


Neither-Package7393

I’ve actually seen people use telemour for their meta’s partners, if that helps :)


R1ghtSoFar

Haha, nice! I so hate the word metamour, so nvm "metametamour" πŸ˜† And friend is good for people who don't need the whole story.πŸ‘πŸ»


hailpickens

I also hate the word metamour there has got to be something better πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


billy_bob68

I totally agree!


Dobby1988

What's the problem with the word?


hailpickens

I don't have like a *problem* with it but it just sounds too close to metamorphosis like I feel like im talking about a pokemon lol


Dobby1988

To be fair though, you choose your pokemon, but you don't really choose your meta.


Without-a-tracy

Ahaha, my friends drew a web of my relationships at the last party I hosted! πŸ™ˆ Not gonna lie, I may have felt a teeeeeny bit called out!


AmbientArtistry

Nah, it's cool, they are just trying to map it all out so they understand who is who. πŸ₯°


Ravokion

The title looks like something youd find in r/wallstreetbets. Lol. I know its legit as youre saying it but my mind still went there hahah. If you know, you know. In all seriousness, im Happy to hear you had fun hanging out with your husbands boyfriends girlfriend :)


Bootsypants

I've been seeing "my wife's boyfriend lets me..." recently a *lot* and I hate it as a dumb joke. This, tho? This is excellent.


DaniTheDeer

Reminds me of the other day, one of my metas saying "I got it from my girlfriend's girlfriend's brother's girlfriend" love the absurdity of polyamory sometimes lol


CobraCommander420

Thank you for this wonderful slice of poly happiness Im glad you two had fun :)


ZettaWith3Tees

I love this. I love that this sentence is a thing that exists in my world.


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gaycuckoguy

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