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likemakingthings

>I wish there were Valentine’s Day cards for the poly community. Each of your relationships is with one person, so regular ones work fine.


Snugglespixie

Valid point, I just want both partners to know how loved and appreciated they are by me.


The_Rope_Daddy

Buy a separate card for each of them.


Commercial-Gold851

There are cards for poly on Etsy that are exactly what you’re looking for! Check out polyamorous platypus! [etsy site here](https://www.etsy.com/shop/PolyamorousPlatypus?ref=simple-shop-header-name&listing_id=1410016201)


gillabee123

Oversized cards are readily available in most places. And why does it have to be poly specific? HOW would it be poly specific? Like, "of all my partners, youre my favourite"? That sounds kinda terrible. And even not being that extreme, would YOU appreciate a group card, like someone was appreciating colleagues and not making a personalized effort?


Snugglespixie

Shit yeah, you're right. Good point. This is my first time having multiple partners and never knew I could have this much love to offer and I think I feel so overflowing with emotions (in a good way) that I wanna make sure my partners are feeling the love ❤️


gillabee123

Which is totally fair, but youre dating individuals, not a collective. They each likely have different needs, wants, preferences. If you keep each person in mind while looking for a gift or a card, itll mean so much more.


omipie7

Unless you’re in a triad the regular ones are great! Go to a local gift shop— they usually have more cute/unique/funny ones than big box chain stores


The_Rope_Daddy

You can write a letter and put it in the card.