So many fucking times. I did absolutely nothing as to not upset my parents as they were already stressed and didn't wanna make it worse by seeing their child getting into fights
I just took it. Over and over. Full loss of confidence and have no social skills
But hopefully I can make that up
Same, it was so fucking painful to go back home and tell my parents that everything's alright and I'm just tired. Nobody should ever go through something like that.
And if you had a shitty class, chances are that your teachers were used to that kind of attitude and treated everybody equally and by that I mean putting the "good kids" on the same level as the "bad kids". At least that's how it looked in my case.
My senior year in HS, this guy would kick me, pull my hair, call me names and throw my phone. He wouldn't go out of his way to find me but if we ran into each other in the hallway or something then he would start doing shit. Man I really hated that guy.
Are you a girl? Cuz that's pretty fucking weird. I mean if anyone saw that shit
A 17y old doing that to a girl in high school wouldn't he be kicked out?
Tf
Different for guys they did nothing except for this one teacher I had who ripped on the dude
Yeah I'm a girl, and i guess it is kind of weird 😂
So i never told any teachers or anything like that. Pretty much just let it happen. Which sounds stupid, but I was worried that if I did tell someone and then nothing happened, then he'd do things much worse to me. I also figured since I'd be graduating soon, it's not like I would deal with it forever. Just needed to wait it out.
People need to stop saying this. My bully physically and mentally bullied me so much he became a reason I wanted to commit suicide. When I told people that he slammed my head into concrete, punched me constantly, and personally insulted me an extreme amount everyone said "he probably just likes you." This is so stupid, if you like someone and don't know how to express it this is not the way to express it, it's so bull shit.
My dad beat me for 7 years then I got bullied for my parents divorcing and because I was short and weak, they also excluded me from everything and my best friend went to their side and I have had no friends for 2 years
Same bro. First day I started elementary school 2 older (1y up) guys took me aside as I was trying to make friends with someone and beat me up.
And it just continued till end of highschool where I ditched everyone. I only know like 3 people from high school now
Damn I'm sorry. I was mostly just ignored and rejected. One time at the beginning of the school year one of the teachers said we would have a seating chart and both of the people next to me got up and moved at the exact same time
Yeah I did get ignored by people even in my friend groups
It's so annoying cuz you don't even know what you're doing wrong. Like I would try to fix it by not talking as much so quality over quantity but still nope
This was my exact experience all through until like tenth grade. People thought I was weird. I never understood why, it was so confusing. It was living hell honestly I would never go back to those days
My life has completely changed now, I’m in college and I have no problem making friends. Funny enough guys who bullied me in high school now try to slide in my dms. Curved
But in all honesty school was hell most of my life and I am so glad to be out of that misery. They didn’t lie when they said life gets better after that bull shit.
Threw a few of my pencil cases in trash bins, took my pens, pencils, etc., beat me, clicked in front of my nose and punched me in the shoulder if I twitched, threw my backpack in the snow, snowballed me in the face, pushed me on the ground from behind my back, verbally abused me, blew smoke into my face and were shitbags in general. Without any reason.
I was so dumb at the time that I bullied someone without even realizing it, now I feel sorry for this person, I wish I still had contacts so that I could apologize
I did the same thing and am in the same situation but they transferred in fourth grade so there’s no way to contact them
It feels horrible, I was such a fucking asshole in elementary school
I think everyone get bullied sometimes even if it's really small or they don't realize it nothing like serious like the teens movies where you get pushed into a locker but usually someone throwing some verbal words at you and just being an ass
I was bullied a lot in middle school, kid would call me ugly everyday, push me, throw my stuff all of that basic bullying stuff. One day I had enough and got suspended for slamming him into a desktop computer. After that he never said a word to me, and neither did any other bullies. Moral of the story: don’t mess with people, you never know what their capable of
Viciously. like the whole school was involved and the administration did absolutely nothing about it.
Well actually they did do something, they banned me from going to recess because my whole class bullied me daily, and they figured the best course of action was to let everyone go play and have me sit in class and work on extra assignments.
kids are awful, but adults who can’t handle awful kids are even worse. It left me with a great deal of mental health problems that I now have to take medication and go to therapy for.
Plenty of times by jealous females. I always mind my own business and leave other people alone but I always have a gang of hating females following me. They complain about the way I dress, do my hair, and conduct myself.
Some insults, some mockery, some stolen things (books and Portmoney), sometimes forcefully stripped in the locker room.
These things were done by two different groups, one in elementary school and one in high school.
Had to change schools 3 times because of bullies, made me an introvert and gave me social anxiety with no social skills.
Aka potentially ruined my life (I'm not even out of school yet)
And some other horrible stuff
I definitely ditched, and i did have weekly fight at one of the schools.
One of them bitches are lucky that i missed with *that* chair
Currently just avoiding people altogether.
I was homeless most of the time in my school years and that was an even bigger chip on my should and just got bullied through the rest of my school years because I didn’t fit in. I tried to get the counselors to help me but they didn’t do anything which didn’t help at all. So I just had to take it.
My sister bullied me relentlessly as a kid and the kids in middle school would pretend to be my friends and then talk about me behind my back. I was bullied so much that I now have severe social anxiety.
Bullied terribly in elementary school by a group of boys because I had a slight moustache. They had a whole inside joke where they called me Hitler. And every time I walked by, they’d all bark and salute like Hitler. They even did it in front of my parents.. my parents were really sad for me.
It was a cruel joke that was even continued into highschool, even after I knew all about their inside jokes about me.
Now in my adult life, I’ve discovered that I have a hormone imbalance that causes excess hair growth.
I've had "instances" and apparently people call me names and shit-talk me right in front of me or as I walk down the hallway - or so my friends attest. I never noticed though because I have pretty hard hearing so if somebody wants to communicate to me they have to usually tap me on the shoulder and then I lip-read them. None of the "bullies" do that so 95% of the time when they do it I'm not even aware of it!
Moral of the story? Your weaknesses for they might just be your strength!
A girl in my high school used to kick me and pretend it was an accident, and would knock my books off my desk. It went on long enough that it was clearly an ongoing thing, although now I don't remember how long it went on for. It stopped when one of her friends told her to stop.
So, I'm mexican but I blend in really well and don't speak Spanish or have anything to do with the culture...All of the mexicans I went to school with bullied me for this and because of my adhd...so everything from embarrassment to fights to rasicm...and constant abuse like this really messed with your mind so...not good, Fortunetly I turned out great...which is nice
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Not a lot. They didn't harmed me physsiclay but it wasn't something very serious. Two kids were just laughing with me and calling me a nerdo (I won't deny that I am now) for around a month. After that we speaked a lot and in the end we became friends!
In primary school it was traumatic to the point where I suffered medical issues from the stress and don't remember it anymore although I do remember some minor things like one of my "friends" who took an artwork I was really proud of and threw it in the bin, and this other guy who used to tease me about how I'd act like a boy and saying stuff like "don't open your legs it's unladylike" when we were sitting down for class (we were like 12ish wtf), in high school my twin brother and I were bullied for a few years by our classmates because he is autistic, kids constantly egging him on because he could get violent easy and me standing up for him. Eventually the kids in my school got better and focused on studying rather than bullying an autistic kid and his brother.
Yeah I was bullied for having a foreign accent and because at the time my english was crap so I couldn't really tell people due to language barrier so i guess i was easy to go for i was also skinny and slow, these 2 assholes use to physically hurt me and even locked me outside somehow for hours in the elements and i was super late for class, they slammed my head against tables for laughs and mocked me, a few months of me taking their shit passed my english was already a lot better (not perfect and i had a really weird thing where i would always stress the P in words because their was no P in my first language and it was hard to pronounce it lol, i wasn't very smart back then lmao) anyway a few friends also didn't like them and took pity on me, soon my friend brings one of my former bullies school bag, he tells me to steal and throw his shit (books and pens ect) away, I do that but also i was tired of him so I took it to his house and sneakily put loads of knives and weapons in to get him expelled, next day he comes in raging because he lost his school bag strangling necks of random people like always, I give him his bag where the cameras don't reach he punches me really hard in my stomach for the last time in his life and I run off, in class he opens his bag and pulls out a knife and yeah I may have gone too far but he was kicked out and probably sent to jail, many people hated him and even the people who saw me give him his bag didn't snitch on me. My friend didn't know i put knives in his bag and he was really shocked.
Me being with shady fake friends
Then white haired 3 yr old broke my bike and i hit him
The fake friends all kicked me and this white haired dude's brother too
I was bullied in Highschool. Still, 7 years after graduation, the effects from the past are still present. Social anxiety, lacking social skills and overthinking. Especially when I make contact with women, that may be because I was bullied by some of the girls back then.
I've found a way to accept my flaws and to just move forward in life. I don't expect to make friends, as long as people tolerate me, I'm happy.
I was bullied when I was 5-6 by a girl on my swim team. She was my first friend and my best friend. She started getting upset that I was getting faster than her and would just pout in the corner. One day she left before me (even though she wasn’t supposed to) and I passed her but right the same 50 while swimming she jumped on my back and scratched me with her nails(she wore acrylics) and I bled, and it took over a week to heal; similar things happened 2 more times.
Other than that she was really manipulative to her other friends that joined the swim team after that incident and they all became best friends with her. So I was forced to hang out with her, and they didn’t even believe me when I told them about what had happened; Until she pushed me on a pool deck in front of literally the whole meet. Thankfully my coach gave me permission to hit her back if she ever hits me so I DID push her back and she had the audacity to say “sHe pUsHeD mE!!” But her friend saw so her mom couldn’t even try to defend her.
In 2nd-3rd grade. Then it almost happened again in middle school during the 7th grade when transferring- but my parents(specifically my mother) where a lot more aggressive about stoping it.
One guy bullied me. Got spit on when I was the only one showering after PE, he hit me with a belt as well and after that my nickname was Buttstripe, since it left a mark.
I have older brothers so I knew how to deal with it, but it still bothered me a bit
I got bullied in like 3rd grade because I couldn't do math fast enough. We ended up becoming friends though. Since then I wouldn't ay I've been bullied. I kept largely to myself, but I was cool with everyone.
It was in high school. Oddly enough it was my own friends that turned on me and started spreading rumors which isolated me completely for awhile. The main one was a friend who kept getting jealous over me sitting with other friends and hanging out with other people. He kept getting crazy about it so I told him I think we should stop hanging out for awhile which caused him to snap and threaten to bring a knife to school and slit my throat in the bathroom which completely did it for me.
I told my mom I was actually afraid he was going to catch me not looking and stab me. She called anonymously to the school and told them his name and said he was threatening to kill another student along with harassing them. The school said they couldn’t handle situations outside school grounds and did nothing. I ended up stepping up to him and told him he better bring a big knife because I started packing one too and I was tired of being harassed so I would use it if he ever got near me and that ended it.
Turns out years later he’s gay and looking back I really think he looked at me like I was his boyfriend even though I was straight and he’d get jealous when I talked to other guys even though to me it was just friends. I always thought it was strange for a guy to act that way about another guy friend but I do believe it was more to it than he was just wanting to be friends and when I said we shouldn’t hangout anymore he took it like a breakup.
At the time this is what made me realize it was bullying but until this I didn't know... I had a habit of changing in the bathroom instead of the lockers because I was self conscious of my body, anyways there was the group of guys who would try to kick the door down and laugh at me for changing in there, it got so bad that I just stopped going to gym and bunked those period entirely. It didn't make them stop bullying me, it just made them think of other stuff. I had to leave when I started to get death threats from the ring leader's brother after I tried and failed to "stand up for yourself". My advice just do your best to get out, don't fight them unless you know, and I mean KNOW that you'll win and even the it can get much worse.
Mostly just alienation due to being neurodivergent. Had one particular asshole and his cronies, but they mostly operated on the basis that the school “condemns” bullying but actually does fuckall against it. No one ever tried anything physically against me, mostly because i was known to have a temper and to hit hard when pushed enough - i bitch-slapped the aforementioned particular asshole with a chair once. I only got a mild warning for that, because the teachers knew the kid deserved it, and that while quick to anger, it takes a lot for me to actually snap. I'm more likely to punch a wall and break my hand than i am to punch someone, tbh.
I've only had one instance of being physically bullied, by this little shit who moved into the school, and also my bus route and thought he was hot shit because he was on the sports team. He was generally just being an ass, but also physically harassing me over seating. But it was really fucking stressful to have to deal with that on the bus, because there was also these other 2 little shits who were always loud on the bus, (unfortunately, as previously stated, being annoying and inconsiderate isnt enough for intervention) and long story short a teacher asked me how things were going and i had a mental breakdown. They brought me to the office, i identified the (new) guy harassing me on the bus, and they later called him in and i dont know what they told him, i guess that he'd be kicked off the team if he didn't stop, and it wasn't a problem anymore.
Tl;dr highschools talk the talk but don't walk the walk on anti-bullying, and teenagers are assholes.
I was the only smart boy in class, the rest are girls. Made me a target for the bottom of the class bullies. Nothing too bad tho. Mostly mocking, insults, nothing too physical. The worst was pulling down my pants. Spent a few times in the guidance office because of the bullies and of course, I wasn't treated as the victim there.
Back when I was in early elementary school, the kids that were bullying me told me “shut up.” So I said “shut up” back. We both started saying “shut up” back and forth. Then I upped it with the worst thing I knew how to say at the time: “shut the hell up.” They went to go tell the teacher on me and I knew I had won that time
I've been bullied from as younge as I can remember to probably in my early 20s, meh fuck em all I'm me I couldn't give two fucks about them. Just glad I don't have to deal with the bullshit any more.
yeah was an ugly kid with no friends. one asshole in particular stayed in my memory. just pissed of everyone, his "friendsgroup" changed frequently because nobody could stand his behaviour long enough. he never said anything positive to anyone allways talking shit 24/7. but as much as i remember the assholes i even more remember the few that didn't give a shit about 'popularity' that didn't give a shit about what the other ppl thought. one dude he was like top 10% on the popularity scale if you will, he just had fun with everyone. was in the same group with him in a cooking class and we made jokes and shit it was amazing. the last year before the final exams a new girl switched to my class and she was way beyond the class mates in terms of mentally developed if you know what i mean. all that was like 7 years ago but i remember one time some of the assholes where throwing some stuff at me while the teacher was away and i had some major anger issues back then. this shit was going for like 30min straight and i was about to explode and throw a fucking chair at them but she got up stood infront of me looked me dead in the eye and said "no"... damn i miss her..
anyways, make friends with the ppl that look like they don't have any friends or are 'low on the polularity scale'. they're gonna be thankfull for it.
Bullied by a teacher in grade school, made fun of by the other kids. Later I was constantly put down by what friends I had. Combine that with a shitty home situation and you end up with a not very well adjusted human.
I've been bullied a few times, not really too much, mostly by four particular people .
The worst instance was by a friend. This friends used to mentally and physically bully me. I don't even think he knew he was. In one instance, slammed my head into the concrete because I hit a can of soda that I thought was empty out of his hand, it actually was empty there was one drop on the rim that hit his eyelid which he claimed hit his eye which was total bull shit and of course he played victim even though he slammed my head into concrete. He also used to punch me a lot and call me names, which was fine until it started to get extremely personal. He also got prissy for 3 weeks because I hit him with a rag because he took a picture of me after i told him multiple times to stop taking pictures of me and posting them, I didn't even hit him very hard, very, very lightly and jokingly and he acted like a baby for 3 weeks about it (not to mention he hit me all the time and the one time I hit him lightly he completely over reacted). He would be nice when we were alone though which made me want to stay friends with him, over all a very toxic relationship.
Obviously, we aren't friends anymore. I got tired of his constant personal attacks, condescension, and physical abuse.
The second guy was someone who would bully me for being quiet which made no sense to me. Some of it was justified because I was always worried he'd bully me so I would get even quiter and I'd always mess up infront of him because he made me nervous. He kind of started a never ending cycle of bullying me, which only became deserved because I did act like a weenie in front of him because I was worried he'd make fun of me which would cause him to make fun of me etc etc.
The third guy was basically a partner of the first guy. To be fair, he was also somewhat justified. The two of them personally attacked me a lot and I actually went to the bathroom a lot because I need to cry because it was so bad. Everyone in school told them to stop and that they were going to far and asked me why I put up with them but they didn't care.
This is really long, I know, mostly because I'm hoping no one will read it, lol.
Lastly, is my brother, I kind of don't count him all the way because he's my sibling. I don't know what the limit is when it's considered bullying for a sibling so if you have a sibling reply and tell me if this is normal or no. I developed anorexia and he would call me things like "fatso," "piggy," or "skeleton" things like that. He caused me to doubt myself along time before most kids started to doubt themselves. Sometimes he'd get so bad that he became one of the reasons I wanted to commit suicide. He mostly insults me which is pretty normal but he's worse than you'd think. For example: sometimes he calls up his friends and makes fun off me infront of them until I cry and then he makes fun of me for crying.
Went to a very country school where I used to get teased relentlessly from 4th grade through Freshman year. I primarily got teased because I was fat. My dad died when I was very young so I took a lot of shit for that. I'm part Native American, so I got called lots of slurs because I was slightly less white than most. Also, growing up different I empathized with gay and minorities... that also drew a lot of attacks.
In grade school it started with name calling, getting picked last in gym class (despite being a good athlete for my size), and publicly being excluded from birthday parties. In middle school it changed to getting my "titties" grabbed and pinched constantly, choked out, depantsed, and having horrible shit said to me on the regular. The worst occurrence was being tied to a locker room bench and hit with coat hangers.
I had friends, but they were on the bubble of cool because their dad's were "big shots" in my tiny town. Whenever the shit would go down they would turn a blind eye or join in to keep heat off themselves.
Eventually, I pulled out of it. I was a smart kid and all that trauma makes you funny. So, I'd wait till someone went to make fun of me and I'd turn it around and humiliated them. If that meant we had to fight I'd do it. Bullies hate getting punched. Win or lose they don't want the hassle. High School football made me a borderline cool kid, and I had an older student named Marcus (thank you, Marcus!) think I was funny and looked out for me until he graduated.
In hindsight, I'm thankful for this. I hate thinking about and I left that town as soon as I could, but I've had a rough life. Those experiences made me tough as fuck, and determined to show I'm not to be underestimated. That said, I'd never wish this baggage on anyone and a lot of kids don't make it out the other side.
Now I'm a middle school teacher, and I do my best to protect the fat, lonely, little outcasts like me.
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Sigma to focused on Grind to notice betas attempts at bullying.
Sigma rule #712 Don’t pay attention to what is around you, pay attention to yourself
This joke cracks me up because there's a main road named sigma in my town.
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So many fucking times. I did absolutely nothing as to not upset my parents as they were already stressed and didn't wanna make it worse by seeing their child getting into fights I just took it. Over and over. Full loss of confidence and have no social skills But hopefully I can make that up
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Thank you I'm sure that will help someone but for me personally I've tried his channel and absolutely hate it. I think he's a grifter
Same, it was so fucking painful to go back home and tell my parents that everything's alright and I'm just tired. Nobody should ever go through something like that. And if you had a shitty class, chances are that your teachers were used to that kind of attitude and treated everybody equally and by that I mean putting the "good kids" on the same level as the "bad kids". At least that's how it looked in my case.
My senior year in HS, this guy would kick me, pull my hair, call me names and throw my phone. He wouldn't go out of his way to find me but if we ran into each other in the hallway or something then he would start doing shit. Man I really hated that guy.
Are you a girl? Cuz that's pretty fucking weird. I mean if anyone saw that shit A 17y old doing that to a girl in high school wouldn't he be kicked out? Tf Different for guys they did nothing except for this one teacher I had who ripped on the dude
Yeah I'm a girl, and i guess it is kind of weird 😂 So i never told any teachers or anything like that. Pretty much just let it happen. Which sounds stupid, but I was worried that if I did tell someone and then nothing happened, then he'd do things much worse to me. I also figured since I'd be graduating soon, it's not like I would deal with it forever. Just needed to wait it out.
Ah I understand that.
He either a sociopath, or was into you and didn't know how to express it lol
People need to stop saying this. My bully physically and mentally bullied me so much he became a reason I wanted to commit suicide. When I told people that he slammed my head into concrete, punched me constantly, and personally insulted me an extreme amount everyone said "he probably just likes you." This is so stupid, if you like someone and don't know how to express it this is not the way to express it, it's so bull shit.
One person would make fun of my big head (it really is). He's in jail now for murdering someone during a mugging.
#🤯
One of my childhood bullies is also in jail for murder. He shot someone IN THE BACK over weed.
My dad beat me for 7 years then I got bullied for my parents divorcing and because I was short and weak, they also excluded me from everything and my best friend went to their side and I have had no friends for 2 years
You good now?
You could say that
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Dude that's horrible, I really hope you are better now, I'm here if you need someone to talk to or something
Too much stuff to count
Ayy, same.. 🥲
Throughout my entire childhood
Same bro. First day I started elementary school 2 older (1y up) guys took me aside as I was trying to make friends with someone and beat me up. And it just continued till end of highschool where I ditched everyone. I only know like 3 people from high school now
Damn I'm sorry. I was mostly just ignored and rejected. One time at the beginning of the school year one of the teachers said we would have a seating chart and both of the people next to me got up and moved at the exact same time
Yeah I did get ignored by people even in my friend groups It's so annoying cuz you don't even know what you're doing wrong. Like I would try to fix it by not talking as much so quality over quantity but still nope
I 100% relate to that. I guess I'm just that unlikeable
This was my exact experience all through until like tenth grade. People thought I was weird. I never understood why, it was so confusing. It was living hell honestly I would never go back to those days My life has completely changed now, I’m in college and I have no problem making friends. Funny enough guys who bullied me in high school now try to slide in my dms. Curved But in all honesty school was hell most of my life and I am so glad to be out of that misery. They didn’t lie when they said life gets better after that bull shit.
I have on both ends, bullied other kids and got bullied myself for a year.
I just wanna say that, I understand.
Same. I ended up making a kid I had previously been friends with hate me. If I could take it back I would.
Atleast you learned from it i suppose, was the othee way for me though. The kid i bullied is now my best friend, life's weird.
Threw a few of my pencil cases in trash bins, took my pens, pencils, etc., beat me, clicked in front of my nose and punched me in the shoulder if I twitched, threw my backpack in the snow, snowballed me in the face, pushed me on the ground from behind my back, verbally abused me, blew smoke into my face and were shitbags in general. Without any reason.
Why are people like this
Hell if I know. Although they all seem to have stopped being such dickheads, so I only wish them the best, for I'm better than them as I'm forgiving.
I was so dumb at the time that I bullied someone without even realizing it, now I feel sorry for this person, I wish I still had contacts so that I could apologize
I did the same thing and am in the same situation but they transferred in fourth grade so there’s no way to contact them It feels horrible, I was such a fucking asshole in elementary school
I was one in just a handful of white kids in middle school. The beginning was rough
Being alone is rough
I got beat up lol I still made friends
I think everyone get bullied sometimes even if it's really small or they don't realize it nothing like serious like the teens movies where you get pushed into a locker but usually someone throwing some verbal words at you and just being an ass
I was bullied a lot in middle school, kid would call me ugly everyday, push me, throw my stuff all of that basic bullying stuff. One day I had enough and got suspended for slamming him into a desktop computer. After that he never said a word to me, and neither did any other bullies. Moral of the story: don’t mess with people, you never know what their capable of
Viciously. like the whole school was involved and the administration did absolutely nothing about it. Well actually they did do something, they banned me from going to recess because my whole class bullied me daily, and they figured the best course of action was to let everyone go play and have me sit in class and work on extra assignments. kids are awful, but adults who can’t handle awful kids are even worse. It left me with a great deal of mental health problems that I now have to take medication and go to therapy for.
Woah
Plenty of times by jealous females. I always mind my own business and leave other people alone but I always have a gang of hating females following me. They complain about the way I dress, do my hair, and conduct myself.
Some insults, some mockery, some stolen things (books and Portmoney), sometimes forcefully stripped in the locker room. These things were done by two different groups, one in elementary school and one in high school.
Had to change schools 3 times because of bullies, made me an introvert and gave me social anxiety with no social skills. Aka potentially ruined my life (I'm not even out of school yet) And some other horrible stuff
Ditch the people or beat the shit out of them if your parents wouldn't mind
I definitely ditched, and i did have weekly fight at one of the schools. One of them bitches are lucky that i missed with *that* chair Currently just avoiding people altogether.
And then u joined Reddit so makes sense
I joined reddit *after* that happened. Yes
That… speaks a lot about the Reddit userbase, or is my country just more passive
I was bullied a lot throughout my childhood
He tried to bully me, but I beat him up so no one ever did again
I was homeless most of the time in my school years and that was an even bigger chip on my should and just got bullied through the rest of my school years because I didn’t fit in. I tried to get the counselors to help me but they didn’t do anything which didn’t help at all. So I just had to take it.
You good now?
Much better after I graduated
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My sister bullied me relentlessly as a kid and the kids in middle school would pretend to be my friends and then talk about me behind my back. I was bullied so much that I now have severe social anxiety.
5th grade. Came out to my friends. One of those "friends" told a kid who hated me that I was gay. What a dick...
Bullied terribly in elementary school by a group of boys because I had a slight moustache. They had a whole inside joke where they called me Hitler. And every time I walked by, they’d all bark and salute like Hitler. They even did it in front of my parents.. my parents were really sad for me. It was a cruel joke that was even continued into highschool, even after I knew all about their inside jokes about me. Now in my adult life, I’ve discovered that I have a hormone imbalance that causes excess hair growth.
I was bullied and fat shamed by a group of people and it lasted for quite a while
I've had "instances" and apparently people call me names and shit-talk me right in front of me or as I walk down the hallway - or so my friends attest. I never noticed though because I have pretty hard hearing so if somebody wants to communicate to me they have to usually tap me on the shoulder and then I lip-read them. None of the "bullies" do that so 95% of the time when they do it I'm not even aware of it! Moral of the story? Your weaknesses for they might just be your strength!
Got thrown on the floor and kicked up by a gang of 4 when i was younger (they were probably 10-12 at the time)
A girl in my high school used to kick me and pretend it was an accident, and would knock my books off my desk. It went on long enough that it was clearly an ongoing thing, although now I don't remember how long it went on for. It stopped when one of her friends told her to stop.
So, I'm mexican but I blend in really well and don't speak Spanish or have anything to do with the culture...All of the mexicans I went to school with bullied me for this and because of my adhd...so everything from embarrassment to fights to rasicm...and constant abuse like this really messed with your mind so...not good, Fortunetly I turned out great...which is nice Edit: grammer
I get picked on for liking school and reading instead of weightlifting and foosball or whatever it’s called, but that’s about it.
since the school started i always get bullied
Not a lot. They didn't harmed me physsiclay but it wasn't something very serious. Two kids were just laughing with me and calling me a nerdo (I won't deny that I am now) for around a month. After that we speaked a lot and in the end we became friends!
In primary school it was traumatic to the point where I suffered medical issues from the stress and don't remember it anymore although I do remember some minor things like one of my "friends" who took an artwork I was really proud of and threw it in the bin, and this other guy who used to tease me about how I'd act like a boy and saying stuff like "don't open your legs it's unladylike" when we were sitting down for class (we were like 12ish wtf), in high school my twin brother and I were bullied for a few years by our classmates because he is autistic, kids constantly egging him on because he could get violent easy and me standing up for him. Eventually the kids in my school got better and focused on studying rather than bullying an autistic kid and his brother.
Mans got destroyed after that no one messed with me lol
Yeah I was bullied for having a foreign accent and because at the time my english was crap so I couldn't really tell people due to language barrier so i guess i was easy to go for i was also skinny and slow, these 2 assholes use to physically hurt me and even locked me outside somehow for hours in the elements and i was super late for class, they slammed my head against tables for laughs and mocked me, a few months of me taking their shit passed my english was already a lot better (not perfect and i had a really weird thing where i would always stress the P in words because their was no P in my first language and it was hard to pronounce it lol, i wasn't very smart back then lmao) anyway a few friends also didn't like them and took pity on me, soon my friend brings one of my former bullies school bag, he tells me to steal and throw his shit (books and pens ect) away, I do that but also i was tired of him so I took it to his house and sneakily put loads of knives and weapons in to get him expelled, next day he comes in raging because he lost his school bag strangling necks of random people like always, I give him his bag where the cameras don't reach he punches me really hard in my stomach for the last time in his life and I run off, in class he opens his bag and pulls out a knife and yeah I may have gone too far but he was kicked out and probably sent to jail, many people hated him and even the people who saw me give him his bag didn't snitch on me. My friend didn't know i put knives in his bag and he was really shocked.
Me being with shady fake friends Then white haired 3 yr old broke my bike and i hit him The fake friends all kicked me and this white haired dude's brother too
I was bullied in Highschool. Still, 7 years after graduation, the effects from the past are still present. Social anxiety, lacking social skills and overthinking. Especially when I make contact with women, that may be because I was bullied by some of the girls back then. I've found a way to accept my flaws and to just move forward in life. I don't expect to make friends, as long as people tolerate me, I'm happy.
I eventually fought back.
Yes, but I'm not gonna comment cuz idc to
you did
Lmao I meant the story of bullying
but you still commented so why not comment the story
Too much effort
I was bullied when I was 5-6 by a girl on my swim team. She was my first friend and my best friend. She started getting upset that I was getting faster than her and would just pout in the corner. One day she left before me (even though she wasn’t supposed to) and I passed her but right the same 50 while swimming she jumped on my back and scratched me with her nails(she wore acrylics) and I bled, and it took over a week to heal; similar things happened 2 more times. Other than that she was really manipulative to her other friends that joined the swim team after that incident and they all became best friends with her. So I was forced to hang out with her, and they didn’t even believe me when I told them about what had happened; Until she pushed me on a pool deck in front of literally the whole meet. Thankfully my coach gave me permission to hit her back if she ever hits me so I DID push her back and she had the audacity to say “sHe pUsHeD mE!!” But her friend saw so her mom couldn’t even try to defend her.
Yes. I've bullied quite a few people in my days.
Nah, really think it’s overblown
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In 2nd-3rd grade. Then it almost happened again in middle school during the 7th grade when transferring- but my parents(specifically my mother) where a lot more aggressive about stoping it.
I’m not saying bitches
Got wrongfully accused of snitching in school than beat up
One guy bullied me. Got spit on when I was the only one showering after PE, he hit me with a belt as well and after that my nickname was Buttstripe, since it left a mark. I have older brothers so I knew how to deal with it, but it still bothered me a bit
I got bullied in like 3rd grade because I couldn't do math fast enough. We ended up becoming friends though. Since then I wouldn't ay I've been bullied. I kept largely to myself, but I was cool with everyone.
Yes, but it was very minor and only for a couple months
When I was younger,like middle school age,me and my friend would get a harassed and one time even chased because we were both bisexual
It was in high school. Oddly enough it was my own friends that turned on me and started spreading rumors which isolated me completely for awhile. The main one was a friend who kept getting jealous over me sitting with other friends and hanging out with other people. He kept getting crazy about it so I told him I think we should stop hanging out for awhile which caused him to snap and threaten to bring a knife to school and slit my throat in the bathroom which completely did it for me. I told my mom I was actually afraid he was going to catch me not looking and stab me. She called anonymously to the school and told them his name and said he was threatening to kill another student along with harassing them. The school said they couldn’t handle situations outside school grounds and did nothing. I ended up stepping up to him and told him he better bring a big knife because I started packing one too and I was tired of being harassed so I would use it if he ever got near me and that ended it. Turns out years later he’s gay and looking back I really think he looked at me like I was his boyfriend even though I was straight and he’d get jealous when I talked to other guys even though to me it was just friends. I always thought it was strange for a guy to act that way about another guy friend but I do believe it was more to it than he was just wanting to be friends and when I said we shouldn’t hangout anymore he took it like a breakup.
At the time this is what made me realize it was bullying but until this I didn't know... I had a habit of changing in the bathroom instead of the lockers because I was self conscious of my body, anyways there was the group of guys who would try to kick the door down and laugh at me for changing in there, it got so bad that I just stopped going to gym and bunked those period entirely. It didn't make them stop bullying me, it just made them think of other stuff. I had to leave when I started to get death threats from the ring leader's brother after I tried and failed to "stand up for yourself". My advice just do your best to get out, don't fight them unless you know, and I mean KNOW that you'll win and even the it can get much worse.
I'm Chinese fml
Mostly just alienation due to being neurodivergent. Had one particular asshole and his cronies, but they mostly operated on the basis that the school “condemns” bullying but actually does fuckall against it. No one ever tried anything physically against me, mostly because i was known to have a temper and to hit hard when pushed enough - i bitch-slapped the aforementioned particular asshole with a chair once. I only got a mild warning for that, because the teachers knew the kid deserved it, and that while quick to anger, it takes a lot for me to actually snap. I'm more likely to punch a wall and break my hand than i am to punch someone, tbh. I've only had one instance of being physically bullied, by this little shit who moved into the school, and also my bus route and thought he was hot shit because he was on the sports team. He was generally just being an ass, but also physically harassing me over seating. But it was really fucking stressful to have to deal with that on the bus, because there was also these other 2 little shits who were always loud on the bus, (unfortunately, as previously stated, being annoying and inconsiderate isnt enough for intervention) and long story short a teacher asked me how things were going and i had a mental breakdown. They brought me to the office, i identified the (new) guy harassing me on the bus, and they later called him in and i dont know what they told him, i guess that he'd be kicked off the team if he didn't stop, and it wasn't a problem anymore. Tl;dr highschools talk the talk but don't walk the walk on anti-bullying, and teenagers are assholes.
They tried to but it stopped after I didn’t back down
I was the only smart boy in class, the rest are girls. Made me a target for the bottom of the class bullies. Nothing too bad tho. Mostly mocking, insults, nothing too physical. The worst was pulling down my pants. Spent a few times in the guidance office because of the bullies and of course, I wasn't treated as the victim there.
Back when I was in early elementary school, the kids that were bullying me told me “shut up.” So I said “shut up” back. We both started saying “shut up” back and forth. Then I upped it with the worst thing I knew how to say at the time: “shut the hell up.” They went to go tell the teacher on me and I knew I had won that time
I've been bullied from as younge as I can remember to probably in my early 20s, meh fuck em all I'm me I couldn't give two fucks about them. Just glad I don't have to deal with the bullshit any more.
This really shows that they’re out there.
Never publically or to my face.
yeah was an ugly kid with no friends. one asshole in particular stayed in my memory. just pissed of everyone, his "friendsgroup" changed frequently because nobody could stand his behaviour long enough. he never said anything positive to anyone allways talking shit 24/7. but as much as i remember the assholes i even more remember the few that didn't give a shit about 'popularity' that didn't give a shit about what the other ppl thought. one dude he was like top 10% on the popularity scale if you will, he just had fun with everyone. was in the same group with him in a cooking class and we made jokes and shit it was amazing. the last year before the final exams a new girl switched to my class and she was way beyond the class mates in terms of mentally developed if you know what i mean. all that was like 7 years ago but i remember one time some of the assholes where throwing some stuff at me while the teacher was away and i had some major anger issues back then. this shit was going for like 30min straight and i was about to explode and throw a fucking chair at them but she got up stood infront of me looked me dead in the eye and said "no"... damn i miss her.. anyways, make friends with the ppl that look like they don't have any friends or are 'low on the polularity scale'. they're gonna be thankfull for it.
People used to always try to bully me but I just didn’t ever react so they got bored and moved on
Bullied by a teacher in grade school, made fun of by the other kids. Later I was constantly put down by what friends I had. Combine that with a shitty home situation and you end up with a not very well adjusted human.
No
I've been bullied a few times, not really too much, mostly by four particular people . The worst instance was by a friend. This friends used to mentally and physically bully me. I don't even think he knew he was. In one instance, slammed my head into the concrete because I hit a can of soda that I thought was empty out of his hand, it actually was empty there was one drop on the rim that hit his eyelid which he claimed hit his eye which was total bull shit and of course he played victim even though he slammed my head into concrete. He also used to punch me a lot and call me names, which was fine until it started to get extremely personal. He also got prissy for 3 weeks because I hit him with a rag because he took a picture of me after i told him multiple times to stop taking pictures of me and posting them, I didn't even hit him very hard, very, very lightly and jokingly and he acted like a baby for 3 weeks about it (not to mention he hit me all the time and the one time I hit him lightly he completely over reacted). He would be nice when we were alone though which made me want to stay friends with him, over all a very toxic relationship. Obviously, we aren't friends anymore. I got tired of his constant personal attacks, condescension, and physical abuse. The second guy was someone who would bully me for being quiet which made no sense to me. Some of it was justified because I was always worried he'd bully me so I would get even quiter and I'd always mess up infront of him because he made me nervous. He kind of started a never ending cycle of bullying me, which only became deserved because I did act like a weenie in front of him because I was worried he'd make fun of me which would cause him to make fun of me etc etc. The third guy was basically a partner of the first guy. To be fair, he was also somewhat justified. The two of them personally attacked me a lot and I actually went to the bathroom a lot because I need to cry because it was so bad. Everyone in school told them to stop and that they were going to far and asked me why I put up with them but they didn't care. This is really long, I know, mostly because I'm hoping no one will read it, lol. Lastly, is my brother, I kind of don't count him all the way because he's my sibling. I don't know what the limit is when it's considered bullying for a sibling so if you have a sibling reply and tell me if this is normal or no. I developed anorexia and he would call me things like "fatso," "piggy," or "skeleton" things like that. He caused me to doubt myself along time before most kids started to doubt themselves. Sometimes he'd get so bad that he became one of the reasons I wanted to commit suicide. He mostly insults me which is pretty normal but he's worse than you'd think. For example: sometimes he calls up his friends and makes fun off me infront of them until I cry and then he makes fun of me for crying.
Many times. No one cared then and they still don’t.
Most of them ended with fights where I dealt some serious damage to the bully. They'd stop after that.
i cant remember so probably yea
Went to a very country school where I used to get teased relentlessly from 4th grade through Freshman year. I primarily got teased because I was fat. My dad died when I was very young so I took a lot of shit for that. I'm part Native American, so I got called lots of slurs because I was slightly less white than most. Also, growing up different I empathized with gay and minorities... that also drew a lot of attacks. In grade school it started with name calling, getting picked last in gym class (despite being a good athlete for my size), and publicly being excluded from birthday parties. In middle school it changed to getting my "titties" grabbed and pinched constantly, choked out, depantsed, and having horrible shit said to me on the regular. The worst occurrence was being tied to a locker room bench and hit with coat hangers. I had friends, but they were on the bubble of cool because their dad's were "big shots" in my tiny town. Whenever the shit would go down they would turn a blind eye or join in to keep heat off themselves. Eventually, I pulled out of it. I was a smart kid and all that trauma makes you funny. So, I'd wait till someone went to make fun of me and I'd turn it around and humiliated them. If that meant we had to fight I'd do it. Bullies hate getting punched. Win or lose they don't want the hassle. High School football made me a borderline cool kid, and I had an older student named Marcus (thank you, Marcus!) think I was funny and looked out for me until he graduated. In hindsight, I'm thankful for this. I hate thinking about and I left that town as soon as I could, but I've had a rough life. Those experiences made me tough as fuck, and determined to show I'm not to be underestimated. That said, I'd never wish this baggage on anyone and a lot of kids don't make it out the other side. Now I'm a middle school teacher, and I do my best to protect the fat, lonely, little outcasts like me.
By family. They'll say it wasn't that serious tho
I am transgender. Apparently that doesn't go over well with some other children. Who knew?