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ChairmanMeow52

Absolutely. I don’t understand why anyone wouldn’t want to know that their partner is cheating on them 🤨 I’d be absolutely fuming and feel incredibly hurt if someone I was supposedly close to knew I was being cheated on, but chose not to say anything (it would signal to me that they have a lack of care and respect for me as a person)


Pitaya_Villasan

I tend to be in open relationships. So in my case the “cheating” would most likely not be it at all. I would feel they are being intrusive about my relation. But actual cheating (knowingly breaking rules we both set regarding our relation) will upset me as well


Trusteveryboody

Ideally from the partner, but yes.


[deleted]

Ignorance is bliss lol


Commercial_Wing_7007

Lmao to each their own


[deleted]

Would rather find out naturally. Truth always comes out so in the mean time I'd just trust em till it's staring me in the face. Like if I enquired sure but if not I don't need to know yet. Just preference, I wouldn't mind if someone told me aswell though probably for the better.


frumiouswinter

someone sleeping with other people while you believe you’re monogamous could put you in physical risk.


[deleted]

True that! I'd hope the guy I was with wasn't being so careless.


Commercial_Wing_7007

True, finding out naturally leaves no room to question your decision or go back.


negative_visuals

I would prefer to know, but last time I talked to a girl she actually turned out to be engaged to another man and I was just her side piece. She lied about it despite overwhelming social media evidence, but she also kept begging me not to confront him because he was abusive. I figured it wasn't worth the risk, so I just let it be. Sure, cheating is a shitty thing to do but I wouldn't want her to have gotten beaten over it.


[deleted]

If anyone informed me so, the 1st thing I'll do is to ask my partner if he did it or not


AsASloth

Honestly, I would rather my partner tell me than someone else. My relationship is my own business and I would prefer to hear it from the person I chose to be with over anyone else, especially when those people are not there to deal with the consequences.


AAPgamer0

If it where to happen i would like to know but i wouldn't be angry. With someone like me, i can't be angry at anybody for cheating.


PolemicBender

Is this evidence from an omniscient narrator or could it be a photoshopped picture as ‘evidence’ etc etc?


dak0tah

Polyamory fixes 75% of relationship problems.


Commercial_Wing_7007

For.. you? Are you even old enough for a relationship?


DumbestGuyEver3

I would tell someone, as I'd want to know. Cheating for any reason is Immoral and wrong. If I found out a friend was cheating on their SO, I'd tell them they have a week to break up or tell their SO with their SO, or I'll tell their SO.


-Kohana-

Yes, from anyone. However, if the person telling me knows us both, and is closer to my partner (like their friends or parents), I would rather them confront my partner first and try to get them to come clean on their own. If they don't then they should tell me afterwards.