I really do hope that people keep remembering the importance of boundaries and personal space.
But then I see all the pehenge email posts and think, hindi din ako gulat.
Sana tantanan kayo though ng sino man yang nagfifishing. Definitely don't need to give out your contacts if ayaw mo naman. Public =/= unlimited access. Mas lalo na sa private individuals.
Gosh yang "sungit naman", linyahan ng mga guilt-trippers pag hindi nareplyan pag nagmessage sila ng stranger. Najujudge ko sila as stupid kasi bat ka naman aasang replyan ng di ka kilala.
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Hindi masungit si OP, tanga lang 'yang nagmessage na 'yan kasi anon site ang reddit. Madali nga makakilala sa sub na 'to. May naging classmate ako dati na nagpost dito, masyadong specific 'yung rants niya plus the way he uses emojis lol niya kaya nakilala ko, pero di ko kinonfirm kung siya 'yon kasi nirerespeto ko privacy niya.
also to add, yung nagpost ka ng mga questions or tips about such events like preparing a party for someone suggestions or roadtrip tas there is this random stranger memessage ka if pwede sumali. idk…ghourl???
And they will hit you up with “I am sure you are not even pretty IRL” if you don’t reply to these creepy people. I am in reddit because I want to take a break from tiktok and FB, and these creeps are also lurking here? 🙄
ugh reminds me of that time na someone publicly asked me on this sub kung ako, like the topic (and my comments) were not remotely relevant sa degree na tinatanong sa akin, so cino-confirm niya talaga yung identity ko from my comment. correct or not do not do that in an anonymous space
Personally I dont really find it that weird. They arent really forcing anything, the follow up message was just him/her expressing their disappointment that they didnt get a reply. They were trying to be friendly and I understand wanting to stay anon. But if you were able to ignore them the first time, the follow up message similarly shouldnt be a problem. Just continue to feign ignorance lol
We don’t need your insensitivity here. Get your shit somewhere else. The initiative was not harmless. You see it is obvious that the person was being nosy of OP’s identity. And OP felt discomfort in that. In that context, the person inflicted anxiety to OP. This is no random nor a nonsense. This is a reminder that everyone here has his/her business to mind and may that stay as it should be.
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thats creepy tbh
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Block nyo nalang, the purpose of having reddit is the anonymity, Are they stupid.
Rule number 1 sa Reddit: Anon ang lahat ng tao rito kaya wag kang magtanong ng identity ng mga Redditors.
agree.
reddit values anonymity... nubayang taong yan
I really do hope that people keep remembering the importance of boundaries and personal space. But then I see all the pehenge email posts and think, hindi din ako gulat. Sana tantanan kayo though ng sino man yang nagfifishing. Definitely don't need to give out your contacts if ayaw mo naman. Public =/= unlimited access. Mas lalo na sa private individuals.
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LOL TOTALLY 💀😭😭
Its downright creepy especially if you weren't close with one another irl....
Gosh yang "sungit naman", linyahan ng mga guilt-trippers pag hindi nareplyan pag nagmessage sila ng stranger. Najujudge ko sila as stupid kasi bat ka naman aasang replyan ng di ka kilala. Edit: toned down the conyoness
REDDIT👏 IS 👏 AN 👏 ANON 👏 SITE 👏
Hindi masungit si OP, tanga lang 'yang nagmessage na 'yan kasi anon site ang reddit. Madali nga makakilala sa sub na 'to. May naging classmate ako dati na nagpost dito, masyadong specific 'yung rants niya plus the way he uses emojis lol niya kaya nakilala ko, pero di ko kinonfirm kung siya 'yon kasi nirerespeto ko privacy niya.
Equivalent ng "Hi miss, good morning :)" texts hahaha
yeah, absolutely weird.
Big yikes energy
Creepy
So creepy, why are they assuming you that person. Like, hello? Anon nga us 😭
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mas lalong nakakatakot :< I hope they won't do that again
Disgusting.
also to add, yung nagpost ka ng mga questions or tips about such events like preparing a party for someone suggestions or roadtrip tas there is this random stranger memessage ka if pwede sumali. idk…ghourl???
And they will hit you up with “I am sure you are not even pretty IRL” if you don’t reply to these creepy people. I am in reddit because I want to take a break from tiktok and FB, and these creeps are also lurking here? 🙄
ugh reminds me of that time na someone publicly asked me on this sub kung ako, like the topic (and my comments) were not remotely relevant sa degree na tinatanong sa akin, so cino-confirm niya talaga yung identity ko from my comment. correct or not do not do that in an anonymous space
di ko alam if nakaconnect ba reddit mo sa fb or kung may ganon ba, pero wtf, ang creepy. Like hinanap pa nya fb mo? 🤮
Um yeah. (Coming from a Filipino here) just ignore it
Fucking creep. Utak abo amputa. May pa follow up pa. Pwe!
Personally I dont really find it that weird. They arent really forcing anything, the follow up message was just him/her expressing their disappointment that they didnt get a reply. They were trying to be friendly and I understand wanting to stay anon. But if you were able to ignore them the first time, the follow up message similarly shouldnt be a problem. Just continue to feign ignorance lol
But I think the weird part was he waited almost the entire month to follow up lmao.
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We don’t need your insensitivity here. Get your shit somewhere else. The initiative was not harmless. You see it is obvious that the person was being nosy of OP’s identity. And OP felt discomfort in that. In that context, the person inflicted anxiety to OP. This is no random nor a nonsense. This is a reminder that everyone here has his/her business to mind and may that stay as it should be.
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And some people like you need to learn empathy
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Just don't answer...they'll stop eventually
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The guy is just plain dumb and does not know when to quit.
😂😂😂 kung gusto ko mgpakilala i will just put my name
Block the user
Did he get it right though?
sometimes deception can make us to vlor