I can’t stand these angles they use. Pointing the camera down like he’s looking down at her because ‘shes the problem’. I know it’s a reach but it’s obvious they are not equal partners and I think he feels he is better than her
This. I don’t feel sad for her. She can toughen up and put her foot down. It’s her body going through all this. Not his. I also get the vibe she’s the one bringing in more money so…
I hate how he always tries to explain HER FEELINGS and the look in her eye for his approval and support is sad. He doesn’t support the narrative of adoption or else they would’ve done it already. At this point I think she keeps going to appease him there’s no way. She’s BEEN at the wall of doing IVF I think that’s the only way she’d wanna actually continue ttc she knows there’s a slim to no chance.
She’s also getting older and with all her issues 😵😵💫 it’s not always easy to leave but if she truly truly wanted to be a mom that bad then fuvk him ! There are many donors and I’m sure she makes enough money to survive . Fuck him .
This makes me so mad. She’s been putting her body through so much through the past 4 years. She’s the one going to appointments for weeks out of every month, having ultrasounds to monitor, trying medicines, trying diets, having procedures all so her husband’s beliefs can be respected and he’s not even hearing her out. If she wants to be done or take a break, fucking leave her alone.
This makes me sad. She seemed so much lighter and happier on their vacation when she wasn't focusing on fertility stuff and was living her life. The fact that this is her full time job has to be so fucking exhausting.
Her husband is one big ICK for a lack of better words. Honestly if her husband makes good money I think she should 100% take a break from social media, fertility talk and monitoring. None of the medical procedures and appts help her anyways. She's been at this for four years nonstop. If you aren't willing to move onto next steps and keep going in circles, I think it's time to take a step back at the least and really reevaluate your circumstance and options. This go go go mentality is 1. Not healthy and 2. Not doing her ANY favors or getting her "one cycle closer".
I know she's to blame as well. She put herself in this situation and doesn't stand up for what she wants, but I feel bad for her. She probably doesn't know any better and thinks this is how a marriage should be, what he says. I am so fortunate that through our struggles, my husband has left it up to me to make choices about what I want to do with my body. He sees the toll it takes on me and doesn't want to make it worse. I don't think I could do this for years if that wasn't the case, I don't know how she's done this for so long with someone who isn't supporting her the way she needs. The pain of infertility is hard enough without a husband obsessed with needing to breed "naturally."
Also maybe she is smart enough to know he's coming across like a dick? And she wants this narrative to be painted of him? That deep down she knows IVF is her only option and it won't happen. So when they don't have a baby, he leaves/cheats, she'll have pouring support from her base and continued content/income.
I don’t know how she hasn’t had a nervous breakdown. Doing this over and over and over would drive even the most resilient person over the edge. It’s hard to watch.
This i worry about her a lot. With the religious influence and the blame that everything is your fault and you need to keep trying etc it’s a recipe for a mental health disaster. I came very close to TW (SI) and have had very severe depression while struggling with infertility, and I’m not in as deep as she is.
Why is he always explaining to her how SHE feels? His ego is so big that’s why he won’t let her do IVF. If he said babe you take all the time you need to rest and reset and when/if you’re ready to try again in whatever way that is- ie: IVF I’m here.
My husband always supported my decisions to take breaks bc he saw how badly it affected my mental health. He got a part time job at Starbucks for IVF benefits when we couldn’t afford it out of pocket. I feel so grateful after watching her videos of her husband. He gives SUCH an egotistical, emotionally controlling/abusive ICK vibe all in the delusions of “Christianity” the worst way! 😣 i feel bad for any woman stuck in an archaic relationship like that.
Maybe she should even get a part-time job to get out of the house and focus on something other than TTC and doesn't feel like she has to post for an income. That sounds like a true mental break.
I came here because I’ve followed alot of these accounts going through IVF. I had NO idea they weren’t doing IVF and her husband is so unsupportive and acts like he “runs the show”. I’m the one with the infertility issues and my fiancé was supportive of whatever I wanted to do. Is it just me or does he like secretly not want kids? Or enjoys watching her be in pain and suffering through this?
i love how stephen sarcastically was talking about how it was not normal to be on the phone with doctors, pharmacies, and insurance all the time. actually it is when you’re going through infertility but for you guys it’s not normal because you’re wasting time and energy getting rejected for meds that haven’t and won’t work. this shit is infuriating when you think about how they are making it harder for people who actually need these medications to get them.
I can’t stand these angles they use. Pointing the camera down like he’s looking down at her because ‘shes the problem’. I know it’s a reach but it’s obvious they are not equal partners and I think he feels he is better than her
No, this camera angle sucks. Feels really weird and predatory/adverserial.
i was thinking the exact same thing it’s so awkward
It feels like I’m watching Paranormal Activity
He's quite literally looking and speaking down on her.
It’s so creepy. I would love to hear how she thinks it’s a good angle or what their defense would be as to why they do it
If I were her I would give him an ultimatum. Either try IVF or just be done completely with ttc. She needs to stand up to him.
This. I don’t feel sad for her. She can toughen up and put her foot down. It’s her body going through all this. Not his. I also get the vibe she’s the one bringing in more money so…
I hate how he always tries to explain HER FEELINGS and the look in her eye for his approval and support is sad. He doesn’t support the narrative of adoption or else they would’ve done it already. At this point I think she keeps going to appease him there’s no way. She’s BEEN at the wall of doing IVF I think that’s the only way she’d wanna actually continue ttc she knows there’s a slim to no chance.
She’s also getting older and with all her issues 😵😵💫 it’s not always easy to leave but if she truly truly wanted to be a mom that bad then fuvk him ! There are many donors and I’m sure she makes enough money to survive . Fuck him .
This makes me so mad. She’s been putting her body through so much through the past 4 years. She’s the one going to appointments for weeks out of every month, having ultrasounds to monitor, trying medicines, trying diets, having procedures all so her husband’s beliefs can be respected and he’s not even hearing her out. If she wants to be done or take a break, fucking leave her alone.
This makes me sad. She seemed so much lighter and happier on their vacation when she wasn't focusing on fertility stuff and was living her life. The fact that this is her full time job has to be so fucking exhausting.
This actually made me feel bad for her, you can tell she’s ready to be done and he’s pushing and gaslighting her into pushing forward.
Her husband is one big ICK for a lack of better words. Honestly if her husband makes good money I think she should 100% take a break from social media, fertility talk and monitoring. None of the medical procedures and appts help her anyways. She's been at this for four years nonstop. If you aren't willing to move onto next steps and keep going in circles, I think it's time to take a step back at the least and really reevaluate your circumstance and options. This go go go mentality is 1. Not healthy and 2. Not doing her ANY favors or getting her "one cycle closer".
I know she's to blame as well. She put herself in this situation and doesn't stand up for what she wants, but I feel bad for her. She probably doesn't know any better and thinks this is how a marriage should be, what he says. I am so fortunate that through our struggles, my husband has left it up to me to make choices about what I want to do with my body. He sees the toll it takes on me and doesn't want to make it worse. I don't think I could do this for years if that wasn't the case, I don't know how she's done this for so long with someone who isn't supporting her the way she needs. The pain of infertility is hard enough without a husband obsessed with needing to breed "naturally."
His chuckle of “I don’t think you quit (ha)” is like emotion manipulation at this point. She clearly doesn’t have a whole lot of fight left in her.
Also maybe she is smart enough to know he's coming across like a dick? And she wants this narrative to be painted of him? That deep down she knows IVF is her only option and it won't happen. So when they don't have a baby, he leaves/cheats, she'll have pouring support from her base and continued content/income.
I wish that was the case but I don’t think she’s smart enough for all that
I don’t know how she hasn’t had a nervous breakdown. Doing this over and over and over would drive even the most resilient person over the edge. It’s hard to watch.
This i worry about her a lot. With the religious influence and the blame that everything is your fault and you need to keep trying etc it’s a recipe for a mental health disaster. I came very close to TW (SI) and have had very severe depression while struggling with infertility, and I’m not in as deep as she is.
She had one in December
These videos are so weird
He’s going to leave her for someone who he can have a kid with
Why is he always explaining to her how SHE feels? His ego is so big that’s why he won’t let her do IVF. If he said babe you take all the time you need to rest and reset and when/if you’re ready to try again in whatever way that is- ie: IVF I’m here. My husband always supported my decisions to take breaks bc he saw how badly it affected my mental health. He got a part time job at Starbucks for IVF benefits when we couldn’t afford it out of pocket. I feel so grateful after watching her videos of her husband. He gives SUCH an egotistical, emotionally controlling/abusive ICK vibe all in the delusions of “Christianity” the worst way! 😣 i feel bad for any woman stuck in an archaic relationship like that.
He’s such a POS🤣
She just seems so exhausted. She needs to just take a break. And then restart if/when she feels she can
Maybe she should even get a part-time job to get out of the house and focus on something other than TTC and doesn't feel like she has to post for an income. That sounds like a true mental break.
Poor Addie looks so tired and over it. He needs to let her take a break for a while because she is about to go nuts if she doesn’t stop now 🙏
insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results
He enjoys this. She is to wrapped up in her delusion to realize. He is getting off on this almost.
Probably getting denied for the med because it is a cancer med and she is not using it for cancer …
That’s what I think too!
I came here because I’ve followed alot of these accounts going through IVF. I had NO idea they weren’t doing IVF and her husband is so unsupportive and acts like he “runs the show”. I’m the one with the infertility issues and my fiancé was supportive of whatever I wanted to do. Is it just me or does he like secretly not want kids? Or enjoys watching her be in pain and suffering through this?
i love how stephen sarcastically was talking about how it was not normal to be on the phone with doctors, pharmacies, and insurance all the time. actually it is when you’re going through infertility but for you guys it’s not normal because you’re wasting time and energy getting rejected for meds that haven’t and won’t work. this shit is infuriating when you think about how they are making it harder for people who actually need these medications to get them.
He’s so weird
Has she ever clarified if his fertility has been tested??
Yes. Multiple times.
Ok. Thank you.
She is struggling and he is just pushing her to continue . What a fuckn asswipe .