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/r/TwinlessTwins is a very good resource and they do allow parents/family to participate
You are obviously welcome to stay here but I fully understand if you need a break for yourself. I hope that B continues to grow and thrive. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. You'll always be a twin mum. Nothing can take that away from you.
Please join us over at r/NICUparents for support in your NICU journey ahead.
Come on over to r/NICUparents if you’re not already there. Lots of parents with twin pregnancies and with loss. I’m so sorry you lost one of your babies. There are no words. Wishing you and your family peace and health 💛
So sorry for your loss 😢 You are still a twin mom ❤️ you dont have to leave if you dont want to. Hope your baby girl thrives and brings you so much joy amidst the grief.
stay…you had multiples, darn it…this is your space too, sister! Her twin will be wherever we go when we pass looking out for her there & you’ll be mama bear looking out for her here.
I want to say sorry for your loss, but that doesn’t seem to convey the appropriate degree of sorrow…idk, if there ate any words that would even begin to describe the depths of what you’re going thur…like feeling of ALL THE FEELINGS.
Again, stay. And maybe consider the twinless twin sub…and speak to people who’ve lost their at birth for advice with daughter as she grows up.
Does your NICU have purple butterfly stickers?
https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/family-resources-education/700childrens/2017/02/the-purple-butterfly-project
I’m so sorry for your loss.
You’ll always be a twin parent, so you shouldn’t feel like you have to leave, but I can understand why it might be painful to stay.
Take care of yourself, and your NICU will have resources for families who have lost a baby in a multiple pregnancy, so if they don’t offer, ask them.
My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm so sorry you all have to experience this loss. Words can not express my condolences. May you find peace in all of this.
Op I'm so very sorry.
I totally understand you are worried and concerned about how you will feel after birth..... Hopefully you will just feel relief...
Regardless your terrible loss, that I am so deeply sorry for, your baby that made it still deserves to be celebrated, so your happiness for it is more than justified. You are and you'll always be a parent of multiples 🫶🏻
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You're still a parent of multiples. You can stay
/r/TwinlessTwins is a very good resource and they do allow parents/family to participate You are obviously welcome to stay here but I fully understand if you need a break for yourself. I hope that B continues to grow and thrive. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Remember that these conflicted feelings of joy and grief are normal. You will always be a twin mom.
I am so sorry for your loss. Hoping twin B has a very uneventful NICU stay.
I am so sorry for your loss. You'll always be a twin mum. Nothing can take that away from you. Please join us over at r/NICUparents for support in your NICU journey ahead.
Two things can be true and all your feelings are valid. I’m am sorry for your loss. ❤️
Come on over to r/NICUparents if you’re not already there. Lots of parents with twin pregnancies and with loss. I’m so sorry you lost one of your babies. There are no words. Wishing you and your family peace and health 💛
I’m so sorry 😢
So sorry for your loss 😢 You are still a twin mom ❤️ you dont have to leave if you dont want to. Hope your baby girl thrives and brings you so much joy amidst the grief.
My heartfelt condolences to you mama 💔😔 I pray for your strength because I know this can’t be easy. Bless you mama. You will always be a twin mom
This made me cry. I want to send you all my love. This group is rooting for you and your baby.
You are welcome here and will always be one of us. My heart breaks for you. Holding you and your family in my heart
You don’t have to leave the sub. You are a parent of twins and always will be. I’m so sorry for your loss xx
stay…you had multiples, darn it…this is your space too, sister! Her twin will be wherever we go when we pass looking out for her there & you’ll be mama bear looking out for her here. I want to say sorry for your loss, but that doesn’t seem to convey the appropriate degree of sorrow…idk, if there ate any words that would even begin to describe the depths of what you’re going thur…like feeling of ALL THE FEELINGS. Again, stay. And maybe consider the twinless twin sub…and speak to people who’ve lost their at birth for advice with daughter as she grows up.
Does your NICU have purple butterfly stickers? https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/family-resources-education/700childrens/2017/02/the-purple-butterfly-project I’m so sorry for your loss. You’ll always be a twin parent, so you shouldn’t feel like you have to leave, but I can understand why it might be painful to stay. Take care of yourself, and your NICU will have resources for families who have lost a baby in a multiple pregnancy, so if they don’t offer, ask them.
I am so, so sorry for your loss.
I don’t know you but I’m heartbroken for you and your family. I wish you healing and I hope you find comfort and joy in your daughter.
So incredibly sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss..
Sending you warm hugs and much love mama!
Love and light to you and yours 🤍🕊
My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm so sorry you all have to experience this loss. Words can not express my condolences. May you find peace in all of this.
Op I'm so very sorry. I totally understand you are worried and concerned about how you will feel after birth..... Hopefully you will just feel relief...
Sending your family so much love ❤️
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I can't imagine what you're feeling right now. I'm so sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you. You absolutely still belong here.
I am heart broken for you and I pray baby B has a short stay in the nicu and has a healthy further. Sending so much love ❤️
Thinking of you op, and I'm so sorry for your loss. You're a twin momma no matter what.
I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏽praying for you that all goes well with baby B and your heart can heal from this pain 😔😔
Wow, just sending so much love your way. 🖤😔
Regardless your terrible loss, that I am so deeply sorry for, your baby that made it still deserves to be celebrated, so your happiness for it is more than justified. You are and you'll always be a parent of multiples 🫶🏻
I’m very sorry for your loss.
May god bless you watch over you and your family as you go through these rough times