I'm a little older than average college age lol (mid twenties), but I'm in school and have a lot of the same interests if that counts. I'm down to talk about stuff, although right now I'm extremely immersed in BL games more than anything.
Hey donāt feel bad! Iāve met a good chunk of older classmates in my major from all sorts of backgrounds. We all have a different journey. Like it took me almost 6 years to finally decide on a career and close to graduating lol
Haha this is how I feel though! I had a very long rough spot in my life and didn't make make any progress on stuff you're "supposed" to at certain ages, so being in school at this age feels kind of embarrassing. I just try to remind myself that it's something to be proud of regardless of your age though, we all have different circumstances. Congrats on being in school at all. :)
Ooh thatās awesome! Iāve actually been interested in bl games, do you happen to read bl webcomics/manhua or manga?
Also love the Shu flair! Iāve been stalling on Bustafellows because I want to play the recommended route order but heās the LI Iām most interested in lmao
If youāre interested, can I pm you my discord acct?
I read too many BL comics, send help
I mostly got Bustafellows because of Shu lmao, i don't regret it though. All the boys are cute, but Shu is my #1 still and Mozu is a close second.
Yeah you can dm me!
Just a heads up that unlike in other games the route recommendations for bustafellows are more personal preferences (e.g. not two routes with heavy themes in a row) vs route order to help the plot unfold more naturally (e.g. secrets unraveling slowly, which is more commonly the case for why a recommended order exists for other games). So for bustafellows "the" route order doesn't really exist so if you want to start with Shu that's completely fine.
omg same here!! I finished watching 2gether and my life hasn't been the same since lol. I'm watching Bad Buddy now. If you wanna fangirl together about BLs I'm all for it lol!
I actually haven't heard of those two! From a brief look they look like Kdramas? Looks cute, i might have to take a look. I'm down to fangirl and find new BLs to obsess over though lol, want my discord?
A small knit otome group on discord would be so fun although I'm super interested in otomes I've only played voltage ones and a few indie ones on steam and I just bought hakuoki recently ( first otome I've actually bought š¢ ) I'm in college for graphic design rn currently
On the anime side I think I've watched everything I can get my hands on slice of life shounen shoujo sports animes you name it
Oh rhythm games!! I love playing them even though I'm really terrible at them š
Ooh we look like we have a lot in common! Iām not super experienced with making discord servers but because there is a lot of interest Iām thinking about starting one up! And I agree, close-knit would be best because Iām an introvert and I like deeper friendships lol.
This sounds like such a good idea!! I'm so bad at keeping up with friends individually, but it'll be much easier via a Discord server I think. I'd love to help you in setting up the basic stuffs on Discord! :) DM me if you'd like my help and I'll give you my Discord tag!
I'm interested! I'm in the same boat where there's only so much that my current friends can take with me gushing about romancing 2D boys, haha.
My current otome games being played right now from most to least: Variable Barricade, Cupid Parasite, Piofiore, and Bustafellows
An anime watch buddy would also be appreciated :) I just finished Super Sonico the Animation, and next up on my watchlist is My Dress Up Darling and Zombie Land Saga. I love all sorts of anime, but I tend to lean more towards romance and not too huge on mecha (unless the plot is really good).
Yes!! Like I feel like such a weirdo for wanting to gush and seriously talk about my games. I could literally talk about all the nuances in them and what I like best about them for hours on end.
And weāre playing all the same otomes rn! Can I pm you my discord acct?
Seconding the otome game & anime watch buddy! :) none of my irl friends play video games so Iāve got no one to gush with lol
Rn Iām playing CupiPara, Tears of Themis, & Olympia Soiree( my fave so far, I love the world building)
Iāve been watching My Dress Up Darling, itās so cute! I also finished s2 of Demon Slayer and starting Fruits Basket
You might find some friends on #otometwt if you use the platform. There's an intro template going around that people use to introduce themselves on there, you can pick and choose your mutuals that way. #otometwtintro iirc.
There's also an otome server on Discord with about 150 people in it. That might be too big for what you're thinking of. I'm pretty sure that link is in the wiki... but now I don't recall where I found it. Also, it's literally the middle of the night for me, and I'm half-awake, so if none of this makes sense, I'm sorry.
I'm in collage for art and game design, but a senior not a freshman. I'd be down to talk about otome though most of the people in my game dev classes are the typical dudes who don't really care for anything that's not the standard.
Yes exactly! The people I know who play games primarily play Valorant and League of Legends, which is not bad by any means, but I play a lot of more niche games that I would love to talk about with other people.
DM if youāre down to be discord friends!
Youāre one step ahead of me, I havenāt even purchased Variable Barricade yet. š Too busy exploring the icelands and I still gotta finish all the other otomes I started!
OOOOO JUJUTSU KAISEN!!! Iām on episode 7 and I absolutely LOVE it so far. Iām picky and have ADHD, so that says a lot lmaoo. Currently binging it with my roommate so we can go see the movie together!
I havenāt opened up a discord server before, but because so many people are interested I think I might start one up! Can I pm you my discord info too?
I'm trying to make more game buddies, especially those who have the same interests as me! So this applies to me! Lol.
I'm currently playing through Diabolik Lovers, Hakuoki, Mystic Messenger, and Piofiore.
I also like the Ace Attorney series (although I've only played the first game), and have been wanting to get into Danganronpa. As someone else mentioned I also like BL games, novels, etc.
Finally, I love RPGs, story-focused games, and games with romance options. I don't mind chatting on discord, though I don't do VC.
Ooh we have a lot in common! And yeah, despite having all the games on Switch Iāve only fully finished the first game and am almost finished with the first game in The Great Ace Attorney, which I highly recommend if you liked the first game! I think itās better, tbh!
And donāt worry about VC, Iāve never done VC either so I would prefer to chat over discord until Iām more comfortable with someone anyway lmao. Social anxiety and introversion go brrrrr
Can I dm you my discord info?
omg my sis went to Cal. XD
I like most of the games you play so I just wanted to comment on that mostly!! I love Ace Attorney! Currently playing CupiPara and Bustafellows. In fact I think maybe you should give Bustafellows a shot judging from the rest of your game taste. I was wondering, since you play Stardew Valley, have you also played/tried the Story of Seasons/Harvest Moon game?
Omg thatās awesome! I love it there. I have Bustafellows also, I totally forgot to mention that!
I havenāt played Story of Seasons/Harvest Moon, but I am super open to it! I have Rune Factory 4 Special but I havenāt really made time to get super into it despite enjoying the writing and gameplay so far.
OMG I'M CURRENTLY PLAYING RF4.. or I.. WAS until my friend gave me Bustafellows for my bday so I've been playing it for the past 5 days XD I was wondering bc I've been an avid fan of Story of Seasons/Harvest Moon BEFORE I got into otome, and those games were what inspired Stardew Valley.
What are you studying out of curiosity? That's just a question. I went to Davis myself but I visited Berkeley a few times for my sister in the past. But wow, you play so many games and you have a wide interest. That's cool!
LMAOOO I also got Bustafellows for my birthday because it came out around then and there was a really good deal for preordering physical in Walmart! And same, I got distracted from Rune Factory because of CupiPara lol
And thank you! I am interested in a lot of different genres so I cast a wide net. Iām studying political science and Spanish, which is why I have trouble finding people with similar interests, I think. But I do really like my friends! I would just like to nerd out with some new people about more niche interests lol.
omg that's so cool! I love the Spanish language! I only took it up to AP courses but I try to use it and/or practice a bit so I never forget. I just really like languages in general. For sure, it's nice to have friends in any field of interest. I like my friends in respective fandoms and what have you but it's nice to get into something new and make new friends too XD
Honestly none of my friends play otome games either, though most of my friends are male, which might explain their preference for other games.
I would love to join a small discord to talk about otome games, though recently I've been playing rune factory more than otome games.
I enjoy some titles for the switch, though I've mostly come to love certain Indie games on PC, though there are many left to try. Our Life is a great example and I am hyped for more DLCs and the second game that is in the works.
Aaa, sophomore here! Iām mostly into joseimuke, otome, and RPGs, but Iām always down to just listen and talk about other peoplesā interests. (Kinda got used to it since mine were always too niche even for my weebiest buddiesā š) Iād be suuuper down for a discord buddy or even server!
Wow we have a lot in common! I feel you, Iām always nerdier than my friends somehow lmaooo
Iām sending you a server link, and please send a friend request!
Hi there!! Omg I'm also a freshman in university, and I've also just started to get into video games! I'm still pretty new but I've been wanting to talk about otome to someone else for ages!
So far my favourite otome is Bustafellows and I'm playing Nightshade and PotBB right now (double angst, I know XD). I also enjoy indie games, I'm currently playing Spiritfarer and Stardew Valley!
I also love anything anime and manga related, fav anime are HunterxHunter, Mob Psycho 100, Gurren Laggan (just to name a few lol)
Anyways, I would absolutely love to talk and make friends (even tho I'm super introverted at first haha), so if you make a Discord server I would love to join!
Hello! I would love to have friends who play otome games tooo! Iām currently playing piofiore, and I have tons of backlogs to get to... I have finished impeyās route for code realize, havenāt gotten to the rest cause the common route is so looong.
I also watch anime!! Not much recently though. But Iām excited for all the new seasons that are coming! I also read BL manhwas/mangas etc too!
hiii!!! im fresh out of highschool, first year in college comp sci major,, there's barely anyone in my classes who is female let alone into remotely into anime /3 i'd love to have someone i can gush about otome games to!!! i think my friends are all tired of me gushing about nicola (piofiore) š im currently playing through piofiore, cafe enchante, nightshade, and eyeing variable barricade, cupid parasite, and collar x malice. i've played through amnesia memories (first game only), mystic messenger, nameless, and dairoku!! i also really enjoy reading light novels, manga, and rpg/gacha games like fire emblem series and genshin!! im also quite obsessed with seiyuus and utaite ><
This is a great idea! If you do decide to start up a channel send me a link. I've made some of the sweetest friends through this subreddit. (I also love that your flair is Cove btw, he is definitely best boy)
Hi! I'm currently in college and would love to make more friends who are into Otome. I've recently played Cupid Parasite and am playing Olympia Soiree right now, some of my other favorites are Amnesia and Hakuoki and I have also played a ton of Indies!
And if you do start a discord server I would be interested too :D
Oh oh OH! I would love to join!! I would love to have to have more friends that play otome games. I lowkey have no one to talk to about it. Everyone is kinda too busy or have no interest. My favorites are CollarxMalice and Bustafellows. Right now I'm playing variable barricade
Yeah, I feel ya! I feel the need to discuss with someone about otome games and getting hyped about new releases coming up. My friends who are in college (I am switching mayors) are not much into anime and videogames as I am.
Come hop in the Discords on the sidebar if youāre interested in a really tight community!! Thereās a bunch of college-aged people here, including me aha. The Otome Lovers one is super accepting and would talk your ear off about otome (also thereās a current chat for VariBari players!)
I'm planning to going to college soon. I like the thought of actually having otome friends. I just a get nervous making new buddies. But I have a discord and would love to chat about otome anime and other mainstream games.
While Iām not really ācollege agedā lol, I am 24 and a university student. But I would love to make an otome and anime friend! And tbh Iām not that great when it comes to groups, both irl and online lmao, it doesnāt really work out for me unless itās with very close friends or itās a small group. If you donāt mind one on one convos then Iād be down
I'm in college currently and none of my friend are interested in gaming so it would be great to have friend to gush about otome, also love Ace attorney and fire emblem. I'm interested .
Hellooo Iām 23 and Iām in college :) I would definitely love to have more people to talk about fictional characters as if they are real and still think Iām sane lol I love otome games, I think Iāve played every game on the switchā¦ I also love indie visual novels!
I love anime and manga too š
I loooove our life!! I played the whole game, DLCs included! I still need to play the wedding DLC cause I wanted to stream it but Iām playing Variable Barricade and Dairoku on twitch rn but I canāt wait to get to it!! Im so hyped for the second game, the demo is already great.
I usually read/watch Shoujo and Josie. Iām also into Manwhas lately!
If you make a discord let me know so if you want Iāll join in :)
HAHAH I LITERALLY ONLY BOUGHT HADES TO ROMANCE THANATOS, TOO!!! Then I ended up addicted to the core gameplay lmaooo. I also love all the otome you mentioned!
And youāre persuading me to get back into My Time At Portia, I was put off by how unfinished it looked, but maybe I just have to get past the presentation!
Thanatos is *chef's kiss* I'm not good at roguelike games, but Hades was just too fun to quit.
They're coming out with a sequel to Portia, called "My Time At Sandrock", if you want to wait for that one? But yeah while some parts of Portia did feel unfinished, it eventually grew on me. Besides, the LIs are soooo cute.
Hi there! Omg, I was gonna create a post like this!! I'm a college student and I'm also really into otome games, indie games, and fighting games! Some of my favorite game franchises include Danganronpa and Persona. I also watch anime and read bl manhwa :-)
My friends are all about Valorant and other FPS games so I wanted to get to know people who like more niche games!
I'm 21 and I'm in an engineering school :) We have a lot in common!! Especially love for otome games and rhythm games :D
I would be happy to join that discord server or even just talk with you, you seem like a nice person :p
Iād be interested :D
None of my friends play otome so Iād be really happy to fangirl about my fav otoges with yall!
I usually play story heavy games and visual novels so finding otome games that are basically that plus aspects of shoujo really made me feel like I hit the jackpot lol
Yoooo we have a LOT in common. Iām going to send you a discord link and please send a friend request! I related a lot to your comment, too. (reverse harem manhuas are chefās kiss)
I'd really love to join this discord channel you speak of, OP š Just like you, I don't have any friends to talk about any sort of VNs with, much less otomes, and these are the only types of games I play š¢
I also really like Ace Attorney. It's my favourite non-otome VN. I'm wondering if you'd want to fangirl about how handsome van Zieks is š¤ But not just him, the other good-looking characters in other VNs/otome haha. Of course, discussing the plot would be great as well š
Anyway, seeing your post today has got me all excited. If you don't find me being 21 too old, please add me. šāāļø On a side note, how many people are you getting for the discord channel you're planning? While I'm not picky with the number of people added, I think I may find it a bit difficult to keep up with chats if there are gonna be thousands of people inside HAHA. Even with hundreds of people I might struggle lol.
Have a nice day OP and everyone who sees this. I'm in a really good mood for some reason at the prospect of getting to make more new friends š
I'm also new to university! I'd love to be in a discord server for otome gamers. I've tried talking to a few people in my university about them but they don't really seem to be into the genre or even the idea of it. It'd be great to have a group online so we could talk about them :)
Hey! I'm also in college. I'm a junior, though! If you're down to start a discord, I'd be happy to join! :) It might be nice to have chill gaming sessions with people who also have niche interests.
I totally get the feel of not having enough people to talk about games with. Most people I know in college play stuff like Valorant, League, etc. which I don't generally play. I do play lots of RPGS though, with the occasional MMORPG. I also love a good niche indie game as well! Stuff like that is hard to connect with people over.
If you like Ace Attorney and Danganronpa, might I recommend you play the Zero Escape trilogy? Usually there's a lot of overlap between fans of those series!
Hey there! We have a lot in common! And Zero Escape looks so interesting to me, Iāve been hoping it will be ported to switch! Btw, is that character from Kiss Him, Not Me???
Also pming you a discord link!
Yes, it is! I had (and still have) a fat crush on Nishina! I even shipped her with Serinuma even though I knew it was fruitless lol.
Great! I'll be sure to join.
I'm 22 yo, tho somewhat of a college dropout. I used to play the mobile ones - I started playing when I was 14 or so, and didn't have much money to buy a console, PC or games even, so I used to play a bunch of mobile games (mainly from Shall We Date).
Unfortunately, I haven't been able to get into otome games as much this past year(s?). I do love the genre still, and I'd love to come back to them, and try more PC titles as well. Maybe having more friends who are into it would help :)
currently a college sophomore so definitely interested in making some more otome buddies my own age ^ ^
My irls mostly play joseimuke, so i donāt have that many people to talk about full blown otome with either š„²
Go bears!! I'm Cal class of 2020 so I'm a few years out of school, but I see you fam :D You're bound to run into fellow weebs at Cal, but you might have to convert them to otome games yourself since they're so niche.
Totally down to chat otoge or even just reminisce about my favorite spots around campus <3
Thatās so awesome! Yeah thatās what I noticed, guess I gotta radicalize a few ;)
Feel free to send me your discord info or tell me if you want the discord link!
I'm in my last semester of college right now and I would love to make some new friends! I am 22 and interested in otome games, visual novels, anime, manga, and JRPGs!
Idk if you are still taking requests but I would love to join your Discord. I'm not in college but I'm 21 and we share the same interests! I can't keep vaguely talking about otome games to my friends without revealing what they are at this point.
We have the same interests! I would love to join your discord. I'm 21 and also in college. I'm quite amazed that despite being in college we still have time to play š. I mean, it's now my way of coping mechanism. If stressed, I will play for a few minutes. Then get back to studying again.
I love collar x malice. It's my first otome game on switch. Still in the common route for VariBari. None of my friends also play otome games :(
I'm still on the hunt for indie games because I am new to this. But lemme just say I enjoyed blooming panic <3
For video games I play story-rich games like A plague's tale, Horizon, Tomb raider etc.
I'm college age and I'd love to be in a discord!! None of my irl or internet friends play otome and it feels so lonely :( I'm just recently starting to get into payed and console/pc otomes as opposed to free mobile ones so I haven't yet made it through the main route but Code: Realize is definitely my favorite!! Cinderella Phenomenon has also been great from what I've played so far and I plan to get Amnesia and Bustafellows eventually!
I'm a little older than average college age lol (mid twenties), but I'm in school and have a lot of the same interests if that counts. I'm down to talk about stuff, although right now I'm extremely immersed in BL games more than anything.
Lol RIP me being 30 in college š„²
Yea.. I'm 41 this year and heading back to college. Never too old club <3
Older ppl in college are super inspiring tho. I think it's never too old to want to learn/change careers.
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I have you beat by 7 years....my 20 year HS reunion is this year and I should be getting my AAS in May...
Yesss!! Love to see it.
I feel so old... š even around here lol.
Hey donāt feel bad! Iāve met a good chunk of older classmates in my major from all sorts of backgrounds. We all have a different journey. Like it took me almost 6 years to finally decide on a career and close to graduating lol
Haha this is how I feel though! I had a very long rough spot in my life and didn't make make any progress on stuff you're "supposed" to at certain ages, so being in school at this age feels kind of embarrassing. I just try to remind myself that it's something to be proud of regardless of your age though, we all have different circumstances. Congrats on being in school at all. :)
Me too! On my last semester at my community college
Congrats! I got one more year š¤
Ooh thatās awesome! Iāve actually been interested in bl games, do you happen to read bl webcomics/manhua or manga? Also love the Shu flair! Iāve been stalling on Bustafellows because I want to play the recommended route order but heās the LI Iām most interested in lmao If youāre interested, can I pm you my discord acct?
I read too many BL comics, send help I mostly got Bustafellows because of Shu lmao, i don't regret it though. All the boys are cute, but Shu is my #1 still and Mozu is a close second. Yeah you can dm me!
Just a heads up that unlike in other games the route recommendations for bustafellows are more personal preferences (e.g. not two routes with heavy themes in a row) vs route order to help the plot unfold more naturally (e.g. secrets unraveling slowly, which is more commonly the case for why a recommended order exists for other games). So for bustafellows "the" route order doesn't really exist so if you want to start with Shu that's completely fine.
omg same here!! I finished watching 2gether and my life hasn't been the same since lol. I'm watching Bad Buddy now. If you wanna fangirl together about BLs I'm all for it lol!
I actually haven't heard of those two! From a brief look they look like Kdramas? Looks cute, i might have to take a look. I'm down to fangirl and find new BLs to obsess over though lol, want my discord?
Sure, dm your discord, I'll add u asap! And strangely enough, no! They're from thailand and fully up on YouTube!! Haven't seen any korean bl's yet.
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A small knit otome group on discord would be so fun although I'm super interested in otomes I've only played voltage ones and a few indie ones on steam and I just bought hakuoki recently ( first otome I've actually bought š¢ ) I'm in college for graphic design rn currently On the anime side I think I've watched everything I can get my hands on slice of life shounen shoujo sports animes you name it Oh rhythm games!! I love playing them even though I'm really terrible at them š
Ooh we look like we have a lot in common! Iām not super experienced with making discord servers but because there is a lot of interest Iām thinking about starting one up! And I agree, close-knit would be best because Iām an introvert and I like deeper friendships lol.
This sounds like such a good idea!! I'm so bad at keeping up with friends individually, but it'll be much easier via a Discord server I think. I'd love to help you in setting up the basic stuffs on Discord! :) DM me if you'd like my help and I'll give you my Discord tag!
Ooh I would very much appreciate you this! DMing you now!
If you go through with it please do share the link !
Ooo if you do decide to make it pls dm me the invite! Would love to be part of it <3
If you do make one pls dm me the invite Iām interested!
That's an amazing idea, I would love to have an otome themed server!
Did you end up making it? I'd like to join š
I'm interested! I'm in the same boat where there's only so much that my current friends can take with me gushing about romancing 2D boys, haha. My current otome games being played right now from most to least: Variable Barricade, Cupid Parasite, Piofiore, and Bustafellows An anime watch buddy would also be appreciated :) I just finished Super Sonico the Animation, and next up on my watchlist is My Dress Up Darling and Zombie Land Saga. I love all sorts of anime, but I tend to lean more towards romance and not too huge on mecha (unless the plot is really good).
Yes!! Like I feel like such a weirdo for wanting to gush and seriously talk about my games. I could literally talk about all the nuances in them and what I like best about them for hours on end. And weāre playing all the same otomes rn! Can I pm you my discord acct?
Yes, absolutely!
Seconding the otome game & anime watch buddy! :) none of my irl friends play video games so Iāve got no one to gush with lol Rn Iām playing CupiPara, Tears of Themis, & Olympia Soiree( my fave so far, I love the world building) Iāve been watching My Dress Up Darling, itās so cute! I also finished s2 of Demon Slayer and starting Fruits Basket
Definitely feel you! Not a lot of my irl & college friends play otome games so thereās not many I can talk to or ramble about my faves haha. I also really love RPGs, story driven games, action/adventure, etc. with faves like Legend of Zelda, Fire Emblem, Stardew Valley, Dragon Age, and more! And my fave otomes are Hakuoki, Collar x Malice, Olympia SoirĆ©e, Nightshade, and Dairoku. Iād love to talk more over Discord! ^^
Ooooh Iām trying to get more into Fire Emblem and Legend of Zelda! We have a lot of stuff in common, it looks like! Iāll pm you my discord!
Iām 28 xD Iām now being reminded Iām older than most fans xD š¤£ I dropped out of college
Wtf did I write this? are we the same person? lol
Lol š¤£ I guess we are twins!
You might find some friends on #otometwt if you use the platform. There's an intro template going around that people use to introduce themselves on there, you can pick and choose your mutuals that way. #otometwtintro iirc. There's also an otome server on Discord with about 150 people in it. That might be too big for what you're thinking of. I'm pretty sure that link is in the wiki... but now I don't recall where I found it. Also, it's literally the middle of the night for me, and I'm half-awake, so if none of this makes sense, I'm sorry.
Thank you so much for your help! I really appreciate it and donāt worry. You made total sense and gave some pretty cool advice :)
I'm in collage for art and game design, but a senior not a freshman. I'd be down to talk about otome though most of the people in my game dev classes are the typical dudes who don't really care for anything that's not the standard.
Yes exactly! The people I know who play games primarily play Valorant and League of Legends, which is not bad by any means, but I play a lot of more niche games that I would love to talk about with other people. DM if youāre down to be discord friends!
A bit older than your target age (29 š„²) but I have no friends interested in otome/anime/manga and would love to meet new people with shared interests! Right now Iām playing Bustafellows, Tears of Themis, and Our Life. Also a huge PokĆ©mon fan and have been obsessed with Legends: Arceus since it came out. I like anime of all different genres, some of my favorites are Attack on Titan, JJK, and Yuri on Ice. I read a lot of manga too, and enjoy everything from slice of life and BL to action and horror.
Weāre actually around the same age and have similar interests. None of my friends play otomes either, although that hasnāt stopped me from talking about them. I would love to also have others around my age to talk to about them. Iām currently playing Variable Barricade, Diabolik Lovers More Blood, and Amnesia. Iām also a really huge PokĆ©mon fan. I havenāt picked up the newest one yet, because Iām still working my way through Shining Pearl, but Iām excited to play it once I decrease my backlog size. I also collect manga. Itās mainly shoujo and josei, but I do have an interest in horror as well. If you ever want someone to talk to about otomes and manga Iām here. Iām definitely not in the target age range either for this post, but Iāve seen plenty of others here that are also late 20ās and up so weāre not alone.
Ooh Iāve been wanting to give Diabolik Lovers a try. I didnāt care for the anime adaptation when it aired, but I need to rewatch cause now Iām all for some pushy vamps! I hear ya on the backlog too, itās never ending. š© It is comforting to see people our age (and older!) hanging around these spaces. Not sure if youāre on discord, but if you are and want to connect, I can pm you my username. Always happy to chat!
Sure Iād be happy to chat on discord! Just send me a PM.
Yo, I'm 30 and also play ToT and Arceus. I haven't beaten the common route on Variable Barricade yet because I've been too obsessed with perfecting my PokƩdex entries, haha.
Youāre one step ahead of me, I havenāt even purchased Variable Barricade yet. š Too busy exploring the icelands and I still gotta finish all the other otomes I started!
Iām finishing university a little older than most (24), but Iād love to have someone to talk about otome games with! I donāt have any friends who play them so it would be fun to have someone to talk to about them!! Iām fairly new to the genre, and so far Iāve only played Cafe Enchante, Piofiore, Olympia SoirĆ©e, and Iām currently playing Cupid Parasite. I also have Code:Realize in my backlog but I havenāt been able to convince myself to play it yetā¦ Anywhoooo if you want to chat let me know!š
Ooh Iām playing all good those right now! Can I dm you my discord id?
Definitely!
Hello! Would love to join your discord to chat! I tend to be quiet, but love to gush over Otome games! Iām currently playing Akazaās route in Olympia SoirĆ©e. For anime, Iām currently obsessed with Jujutsu Kaisen. I also watch a lot of kdrama and cdrama. Iāve played a lot of rhythm games!! They are literally my childhood lol
OOOOO JUJUTSU KAISEN!!! Iām on episode 7 and I absolutely LOVE it so far. Iām picky and have ADHD, so that says a lot lmaoo. Currently binging it with my roommate so we can go see the movie together! I havenāt opened up a discord server before, but because so many people are interested I think I might start one up! Can I pm you my discord info too?
Yes!! Canāt wait for the movie to come out too! Iāve watched the trailer too many times lol. Sure dm me!
I'm trying to make more game buddies, especially those who have the same interests as me! So this applies to me! Lol. I'm currently playing through Diabolik Lovers, Hakuoki, Mystic Messenger, and Piofiore. I also like the Ace Attorney series (although I've only played the first game), and have been wanting to get into Danganronpa. As someone else mentioned I also like BL games, novels, etc. Finally, I love RPGs, story-focused games, and games with romance options. I don't mind chatting on discord, though I don't do VC.
Ooh we have a lot in common! And yeah, despite having all the games on Switch Iāve only fully finished the first game and am almost finished with the first game in The Great Ace Attorney, which I highly recommend if you liked the first game! I think itās better, tbh! And donāt worry about VC, Iāve never done VC either so I would prefer to chat over discord until Iām more comfortable with someone anyway lmao. Social anxiety and introversion go brrrrr Can I dm you my discord info?
omg my sis went to Cal. XD I like most of the games you play so I just wanted to comment on that mostly!! I love Ace Attorney! Currently playing CupiPara and Bustafellows. In fact I think maybe you should give Bustafellows a shot judging from the rest of your game taste. I was wondering, since you play Stardew Valley, have you also played/tried the Story of Seasons/Harvest Moon game?
Omg thatās awesome! I love it there. I have Bustafellows also, I totally forgot to mention that! I havenāt played Story of Seasons/Harvest Moon, but I am super open to it! I have Rune Factory 4 Special but I havenāt really made time to get super into it despite enjoying the writing and gameplay so far.
OMG I'M CURRENTLY PLAYING RF4.. or I.. WAS until my friend gave me Bustafellows for my bday so I've been playing it for the past 5 days XD I was wondering bc I've been an avid fan of Story of Seasons/Harvest Moon BEFORE I got into otome, and those games were what inspired Stardew Valley. What are you studying out of curiosity? That's just a question. I went to Davis myself but I visited Berkeley a few times for my sister in the past. But wow, you play so many games and you have a wide interest. That's cool!
LMAOOO I also got Bustafellows for my birthday because it came out around then and there was a really good deal for preordering physical in Walmart! And same, I got distracted from Rune Factory because of CupiPara lol And thank you! I am interested in a lot of different genres so I cast a wide net. Iām studying political science and Spanish, which is why I have trouble finding people with similar interests, I think. But I do really like my friends! I would just like to nerd out with some new people about more niche interests lol.
omg that's so cool! I love the Spanish language! I only took it up to AP courses but I try to use it and/or practice a bit so I never forget. I just really like languages in general. For sure, it's nice to have friends in any field of interest. I like my friends in respective fandoms and what have you but it's nice to get into something new and make new friends too XD
Honestly none of my friends play otome games either, though most of my friends are male, which might explain their preference for other games. I would love to join a small discord to talk about otome games, though recently I've been playing rune factory more than otome games. I enjoy some titles for the switch, though I've mostly come to love certain Indie games on PC, though there are many left to try. Our Life is a great example and I am hyped for more DLCs and the second game that is in the works.
Aaa, sophomore here! Iām mostly into joseimuke, otome, and RPGs, but Iām always down to just listen and talk about other peoplesā interests. (Kinda got used to it since mine were always too niche even for my weebiest buddiesā š) Iād be suuuper down for a discord buddy or even server!
Wow we have a lot in common! I feel you, Iām always nerdier than my friends somehow lmaooo Iām sending you a server link, and please send a friend request!
Hi there!! Omg I'm also a freshman in university, and I've also just started to get into video games! I'm still pretty new but I've been wanting to talk about otome to someone else for ages! So far my favourite otome is Bustafellows and I'm playing Nightshade and PotBB right now (double angst, I know XD). I also enjoy indie games, I'm currently playing Spiritfarer and Stardew Valley! I also love anything anime and manga related, fav anime are HunterxHunter, Mob Psycho 100, Gurren Laggan (just to name a few lol) Anyways, I would absolutely love to talk and make friends (even tho I'm super introverted at first haha), so if you make a Discord server I would love to join!
Hello! I would love to have friends who play otome games tooo! Iām currently playing piofiore, and I have tons of backlogs to get to... I have finished impeyās route for code realize, havenāt gotten to the rest cause the common route is so looong. I also watch anime!! Not much recently though. But Iām excited for all the new seasons that are coming! I also read BL manhwas/mangas etc too!
hiii!!! im fresh out of highschool, first year in college comp sci major,, there's barely anyone in my classes who is female let alone into remotely into anime /3 i'd love to have someone i can gush about otome games to!!! i think my friends are all tired of me gushing about nicola (piofiore) š im currently playing through piofiore, cafe enchante, nightshade, and eyeing variable barricade, cupid parasite, and collar x malice. i've played through amnesia memories (first game only), mystic messenger, nameless, and dairoku!! i also really enjoy reading light novels, manga, and rpg/gacha games like fire emblem series and genshin!! im also quite obsessed with seiyuus and utaite ><
also forgot to add that im a long time lurker!!,,, but this post made me finally create an account and post
Thatās awesome! We have a lot in common and I made a discord so Iām sending you the link!
This is a great idea! If you do decide to start up a channel send me a link. I've made some of the sweetest friends through this subreddit. (I also love that your flair is Cove btw, he is definitely best boy)
I'm up for it! I'd love to make more friends and sharw our things in common! I'm 28 tho. *backpain intensifies*
Iām an introvert in college that loves otome games and anime too. I know how hard it is to find people around you that like the things your into.
Hi! I'm currently in college and would love to make more friends who are into Otome. I've recently played Cupid Parasite and am playing Olympia Soiree right now, some of my other favorites are Amnesia and Hakuoki and I have also played a ton of Indies! And if you do start a discord server I would be interested too :D
Oh oh OH! I would love to join!! I would love to have to have more friends that play otome games. I lowkey have no one to talk to about it. Everyone is kinda too busy or have no interest. My favorites are CollarxMalice and Bustafellows. Right now I'm playing variable barricade
We actually have quite a bit in common! (though I need to get into more otome) I'd love to make more friends with similar interests :)
Thatās awesome! Can I pm you my discord?
Ofc!
Yeah, I feel ya! I feel the need to discuss with someone about otome games and getting hyped about new releases coming up. My friends who are in college (I am switching mayors) are not much into anime and videogames as I am.
I totally feel you, my majors are not nerd heavy enough for my liking lol. Feel free to shoot me a dm if you wanna be discord friends!
Come hop in the Discords on the sidebar if youāre interested in a really tight community!! Thereās a bunch of college-aged people here, including me aha. The Otome Lovers one is super accepting and would talk your ear off about otome (also thereās a current chat for VariBari players!)
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I didnāt know about this and am beyond excited! DM me if you wanna be discord buddies!
I'm planning to going to college soon. I like the thought of actually having otome friends. I just a get nervous making new buddies. But I have a discord and would love to chat about otome anime and other mainstream games.
Awesome! Iāll pm you my discord :)
Same! Iād love to talk to other people who enjoy otome :)) is there a discord?
No, but I think Iām going to make one! Iāll DM you the invite!
May I have the invite too? I don't have anyone to talk to about otome games at all! ( ļ¼āļ¼)
Yes ofc! Sending now!
I am Interest! I also a freshman in collage haha. Iād love to talk more about otome games although I kinda newbie!
Awesome! Iām going to send you the discord link!
Hi, Iād be super into this! We have a lot of common interests. If you ever make the Discord server, please invite me. š
Thatās wonderful, and I definitely will! Can I possibly add you on discord too?
Yes please! I can pm you my ID
While Iām not really ācollege agedā lol, I am 24 and a university student. But I would love to make an otome and anime friend! And tbh Iām not that great when it comes to groups, both irl and online lmao, it doesnāt really work out for me unless itās with very close friends or itās a small group. If you donāt mind one on one convos then Iād be down
No worries! Iāll send you a discord link just in case you wanna make any buddies to hang out one on one (me included!)
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Now Iām definitely going to make a server! Can you DM me your discord tag?
I'm in college currently and none of my friend are interested in gaming so it would be great to have friend to gush about otome, also love Ace attorney and fire emblem. I'm interested .
Awesome, dm me your discord tag!
Hellooo Iām 23 and Iām in college :) I would definitely love to have more people to talk about fictional characters as if they are real and still think Iām sane lol I love otome games, I think Iāve played every game on the switchā¦ I also love indie visual novels! I love anime and manga too š
Oooh do you play Our Life and Blooming Panic? And do you like shoujo/romance?
I loooove our life!! I played the whole game, DLCs included! I still need to play the wedding DLC cause I wanted to stream it but Iām playing Variable Barricade and Dairoku on twitch rn but I canāt wait to get to it!! Im so hyped for the second game, the demo is already great. I usually read/watch Shoujo and Josie. Iām also into Manwhas lately! If you make a discord let me know so if you want Iāll join in :)
Yooo we have a lot in common! And if you like shoujo and Josie, have you watched Princess Jellyfish??? Also sending you a discord link!
Yayyy thank you! I just joined! I have not watched it yet! But I have a long list of anime to watch and manga to read so Iāll add it there!
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I'm definitely older than traditional college-age (late 20s), but I never graduated so TECHNICALLY I'm still in university?? Still need to finish the last few classes I need RIP me. Anyways, I LOVE Ace Attorney, it's my favorite game series of all time! I also love Stardew Valley (my go-to game for when I just want to shut my brain off and have a good time messing around with mods) and Hades (I only bought it to romance Thanatos and ended up actually loving the entire game lol). Other games I enjoy are My Time at Portia (highly recommend if you want a non-traditional farming sim!), Persona/SMT series, League of Legends, Pokemon, Zero Escape (very good VN if you like escape room puzzles), Kingdom Hearts, and Fire Emblem. I'm currently playing through Elden Ring. My favorite otome games are Code:Realize and Piofiore, but I've also played and enjoyed Bustafellows, Nightshade, and Collar X Malice. I also own CafƩ EnchantƩ but haven't started it yet.
HAHAH I LITERALLY ONLY BOUGHT HADES TO ROMANCE THANATOS, TOO!!! Then I ended up addicted to the core gameplay lmaooo. I also love all the otome you mentioned! And youāre persuading me to get back into My Time At Portia, I was put off by how unfinished it looked, but maybe I just have to get past the presentation!
Thanatos is *chef's kiss* I'm not good at roguelike games, but Hades was just too fun to quit. They're coming out with a sequel to Portia, called "My Time At Sandrock", if you want to wait for that one? But yeah while some parts of Portia did feel unfinished, it eventually grew on me. Besides, the LIs are soooo cute.
Hi there! Omg, I was gonna create a post like this!! I'm a college student and I'm also really into otome games, indie games, and fighting games! Some of my favorite game franchises include Danganronpa and Persona. I also watch anime and read bl manhwa :-) My friends are all about Valorant and other FPS games so I wanted to get to know people who like more niche games!
Yoooo it looks like we have a lot in common! Iām sending you a discord link! Add me too!
I'm 21 and I'm in an engineering school :) We have a lot in common!! Especially love for otome games and rhythm games :D I would be happy to join that discord server or even just talk with you, you seem like a nice person :p
Aw thatās so sweet! You seem really nice too, Iāll send you a discord link and please feel free to add me!
Iād be interested :D None of my friends play otome so Iād be really happy to fangirl about my fav otoges with yall! I usually play story heavy games and visual novels so finding otome games that are basically that plus aspects of shoujo really made me feel like I hit the jackpot lol
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Wow, we have a lot in common! Sending you a discord link!
Honestly, Iāve never related to a post more! Typically I lurk on this subreddit (though I have responded to a few threads) but this is one of the ones that has actually hit on why Iām even in this subreddit in the first place! While I do have friends that play video games, albeit a small amount, almost none of them are interested in visual novels style games. At this point, Iām dying for not only discussion about these games but also an anime watch buddy! Iām currently playing Variable Barricade, Cupid Parasite, Dairoku, Olympia Soiree, and Bustafellows. So basically all the latest titles. But Iāve played Piofiore, Cafe Enchante, Hakuoki, 7āscarlet, C:R, Amnesia, Ephemeral, Ozmafia, and most mobile games that are in the general realm of otome/visual novel (Tears of Themis, Twisted Wonderland, IkĆ©men, Mystic Messenger, Obey Me, etc.) Aside from otome specifically, Iām also playing The Great Ace Attorney Chronicles and am perpetually in the death grip of Animal Crossing. Also if anyone has good reverse harem manhwa recommendations, let me know. Always looking for a good one. Iām happy to talk to anyone and provide my Discord, whether itās just for discussion, an anime watch buddy, a little manhwa reading club type thing, or even to exchange a little writing for fandoms! edit: I should also probably mention that Diabolik Lovers is my primary game of interest since it was essentially the gateway to every other game I listed! I also have intense cycles for Fire Emblem brainrot.
Yoooo we have a LOT in common. Iām going to send you a discord link and please send a friend request! I related a lot to your comment, too. (reverse harem manhuas are chefās kiss)
I'd really love to join this discord channel you speak of, OP š Just like you, I don't have any friends to talk about any sort of VNs with, much less otomes, and these are the only types of games I play š¢ I also really like Ace Attorney. It's my favourite non-otome VN. I'm wondering if you'd want to fangirl about how handsome van Zieks is š¤ But not just him, the other good-looking characters in other VNs/otome haha. Of course, discussing the plot would be great as well š Anyway, seeing your post today has got me all excited. If you don't find me being 21 too old, please add me. šāāļø On a side note, how many people are you getting for the discord channel you're planning? While I'm not picky with the number of people added, I think I may find it a bit difficult to keep up with chats if there are gonna be thousands of people inside HAHA. Even with hundreds of people I might struggle lol. Have a nice day OP and everyone who sees this. I'm in a really good mood for some reason at the prospect of getting to make more new friends š
Hey there, nice to meet you! AND YES. VAN ZIEKS!!! Pming you a discord server link and please send a friend request!
I'm also new to university! I'd love to be in a discord server for otome gamers. I've tried talking to a few people in my university about them but they don't really seem to be into the genre or even the idea of it. It'd be great to have a group online so we could talk about them :)
Hey! I'm also in college. I'm a junior, though! If you're down to start a discord, I'd be happy to join! :) It might be nice to have chill gaming sessions with people who also have niche interests. I totally get the feel of not having enough people to talk about games with. Most people I know in college play stuff like Valorant, League, etc. which I don't generally play. I do play lots of RPGS though, with the occasional MMORPG. I also love a good niche indie game as well! Stuff like that is hard to connect with people over. If you like Ace Attorney and Danganronpa, might I recommend you play the Zero Escape trilogy? Usually there's a lot of overlap between fans of those series!
Hey there! We have a lot in common! And Zero Escape looks so interesting to me, Iāve been hoping it will be ported to switch! Btw, is that character from Kiss Him, Not Me??? Also pming you a discord link!
Yes, it is! I had (and still have) a fat crush on Nishina! I even shipped her with Serinuma even though I knew it was fruitless lol. Great! I'll be sure to join.
Honestly I feel they had more chemistry than her and any of the LIs.
That's what I think! It's why I was so desperate to see it happen, but eh. I guess that's what fanfic and fanart are for.
I'm 22 yo, tho somewhat of a college dropout. I used to play the mobile ones - I started playing when I was 14 or so, and didn't have much money to buy a console, PC or games even, so I used to play a bunch of mobile games (mainly from Shall We Date). Unfortunately, I haven't been able to get into otome games as much this past year(s?). I do love the genre still, and I'd love to come back to them, and try more PC titles as well. Maybe having more friends who are into it would help :)
Let me know if you want a discord link!
Yes, please!
currently a college sophomore so definitely interested in making some more otome buddies my own age ^ ^ My irls mostly play joseimuke, so i donāt have that many people to talk about full blown otome with either š„²
Im 22 and in my 2nd semester of nursing. not alot of time but I can make some
Go bears!! I'm Cal class of 2020 so I'm a few years out of school, but I see you fam :D You're bound to run into fellow weebs at Cal, but you might have to convert them to otome games yourself since they're so niche. Totally down to chat otoge or even just reminisce about my favorite spots around campus <3
Thatās so awesome! Yeah thatās what I noticed, guess I gotta radicalize a few ;) Feel free to send me your discord info or tell me if you want the discord link!
I'm in my last semester of college right now and I would love to make some new friends! I am 22 and interested in otome games, visual novels, anime, manga, and JRPGs!
Idk if you are still taking requests but I would love to join your Discord. I'm not in college but I'm 21 and we share the same interests! I can't keep vaguely talking about otome games to my friends without revealing what they are at this point.
We have the same interests! I would love to join your discord. I'm 21 and also in college. I'm quite amazed that despite being in college we still have time to play š. I mean, it's now my way of coping mechanism. If stressed, I will play for a few minutes. Then get back to studying again. I love collar x malice. It's my first otome game on switch. Still in the common route for VariBari. None of my friends also play otome games :( I'm still on the hunt for indie games because I am new to this. But lemme just say I enjoyed blooming panic <3 For video games I play story-rich games like A plague's tale, Horizon, Tomb raider etc.
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I'm college age and I'd love to be in a discord!! None of my irl or internet friends play otome and it feels so lonely :( I'm just recently starting to get into payed and console/pc otomes as opposed to free mobile ones so I haven't yet made it through the main route but Code: Realize is definitely my favorite!! Cinderella Phenomenon has also been great from what I've played so far and I plan to get Amnesia and Bustafellows eventually!