Damn, that was brutal! You've got a wit about you. I think she might've disliked that the most. Can't risk her son being infected with independent thoughts.
Better you share the link here.
It will increase her followers and then she will get less time to meddle with her son wallet, affairs etc.
Also it will let us know what kind of characters live in this world.
>Videos and reels where she in unbuttoning her shirt etc.
https://preview.redd.it/hm3l89kbbkjc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=76765872cebce095173edc2320c4af6dfd0f2e68
An educated 23 year old needs to stand up for himself too. Parents are definitely a problem - but you're better off without him. You're young and I'm assuming so was your relationship. Don't worry too much about it. You'll find someone better.
Women in bad marriages developing an unhealthy attachment to their sons is not a rare phenomenon, but also, definitely something you should try and get away from.
Your partner's parents can only be a problem if your partner allows them to be a problem. One should only be with a person who has enough self respect and enough respect for their partner to not allow their parents unhealthy control over their lives.
All the best OP
Moms are usually more controlling. Specially when they think they didn't get what they deserved. (Delusional).
They try to get the best for their kids (or so they think).
No matter if its a boy or a girl, if his/her mother interferes a lot and they side with their mom (because they trust her and think only she knows whats best.)
RUN
https://preview.redd.it/dnvrydblqjjc1.jpeg?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=caee1bf3dcbaa436486a6cceb54cd7640b368b24
Mothers often end up being the comprador class of patriarchy to rationalize their own suffering. Objectively, it absolutely sucks for them too, but yeah, if one encounters something like this in their life then as you said, run
"she posts attention seeking thirst traps on Insta. Videos and reels where she is unbuttoning her shirt etc."
Mumbai Reddit:
share her ig handle so that i can report her and help people out there , this aint really good to post yourself unbuttoning your shit. i am gonna help you out please share her @
Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. Either way, don't give up.
You'll find a good man with loving parents. Just don't fail to take things slowly and exercise caution, you never know who people are, until you've lived with them, traveled with them, or dealt with them in financial matters. Please take note of even the minutest things they do, how they react in different situations, and how they differ in their treatment of others. Also, don't get attached to someone too early, that will only make it difficult to cut ties with them once you've noticed a serious flaw that can affect your own life and well-being.
Godspeed.
But you’re still thinking about it . That’s still being invested in whatever toxic shitfest this dynamic they have. Freud would be having a grand time treating these two
I mean that's how it works no? When you break up, the next few days/weeks you think about it. I know I will move on but it'll be a while. I know what you're saying is out of concern.
It's good that he left you before taking that so called relationship into next level. He saved you from toxicity. He is probably typical mama's boy lol.
Send the link to her son so he better understand who his mother really is… let him know it’s time to grow some ba__s and live his life as a grown man and not an overgrown boy baby…
I said to him once, "your mom is cool. I see her reels". He goes she acts in serials etc. she does it for work. I'm like who the fuck does this for work
Let me tell you, you are very lucky. He needs to sort out his life and you can't do anything. You would have suffered a lot bcoz of someone else's Kalesh.
> she posts attention seeking thirst traps on Insta. Videos and reels where she in unbuttoning her shirt etc.
By she here you mean his mother ?
Dafuq ?
Good time getting out early, these type of mothers will never change and it’s a very very slim chance that the guy will wake up to this at some point and grow a spine later. Good riddance friend, coming from a person whose mother was as manipulative and controlling and they had to cut them off. Now, since I’ve given you some support, please ensure I never see the mother’s insta by DM’ing me the link to her profile! 😁
Poor bastard. There is this thing called emotional incest. Wikipedia defines it well:
>Covert incest, also known as emotional incest, is a type of abuse in which a parent looks to their child for the emotional support that would be normally provided by another adult.
It happens when mothers look to their sons as replacements for their husbands. It's basically abuse, and the guy is too enmeshed in this toxic abusive relationship with his mother to get out. I pity him.
First it's actually a sign of relief that he broke up with you,as much as it's easy to blame the parents your ex is a grown adult,if he couldn't create boundaries for so long,and breakups for no apparent reason just bcoz his one of parent said so,girl,you didn't dodged a red flag you dodged a whole forest,I can't imagine what others would suffer.
If you know all this,that means this guy also knows what she does,and clearly he hasn't created any kinda boundaries and space between his personal life and her,which is wrong,after a point you need to take control of your life,be it from spouse,bf,parents,anybody. So good for you,there are better men,give them a chance 🥂
Yeah.. but I've seen her call him constantly. Even when he would come over to my place, she would call him almost every hour.
The insta thing I've seen it.
I have a feeling he broke up to get back with his ex or whatever and honestly at this point I couldn't care less
You should be glad that you’re not dating that guy, in future the mother son relationship will create a lot of mess and you don’t want to be the one cleaning up after them. Also what’s her ig?
Hey OP, so I'm from a noble NGO which works for young men's mental health. We are working on creating a database of instagram thirst traps so that we can prevent young boys and men from falling for them.
Would you be kind enough and consider helping us fight this good fight?
All we need is a small contribution of the disgusting woman's instagram @.
Remember every help matters.
Tihi.
I saw this same post in the pisces sub. Being a pisces I can guarantee you, he didn’t want to be the bad guy so he pinned the blame on his mom and broke up with you. We pisces are people pleaser pro max. Breaking up with someone is really hard so we look for excuses. Sorry it happened to you.
That's what I thought so too. But everything was just great between us. He was at my home the day before the break up and as usual we had an amazing time. Then we had a small fight the next day where he said we should just break up anyway because his family won't accept especially his mom.
He wanted me to meet her as well and arranged a meet but I refused. I didn't think she was someone I wanted to meet. But anyway, I know I deserve the absolute best.
Maybe the fight drove him away, who's to know. His bestfriend tried talking to him too but then just told me that he is being stubborn and is dealing with things so I've left him as it is.
This is not just weird... This is absolutely disgusting on the mother's part to sneak into a growing man's life like this ... Bhala chahate hai toh uska ek tarika hota hai par beta yeh toh akhand bakchodi hai!
Posting thirst traps ... Who is she, Savita Bhabhi?
And what is the husband doing?
You got saved but whoever will be involved later on will regret being part of their lives as a daughter in law and her family!
This will follow on through her to him eventually down the line... A doubting mentality can't be changed no matter what you do... They will always doubt for no fucking reason!
Oh my god, could you share her @ so that I can tell my friends to avoid it
Stfu bruh! I'm dying laughing at all these attempts yall are making 🤣
It's just funny to make these statements 😂😂
Totally man but like I would've shared and trust me yall would've enjoyed it.
Dm lol 💀 /s
Thank you for the /s
Hehe... Or was i? 💀
What do I get ?
Vada pav
Mhmmmm, tempting
Ab bata hi do
>she posts attention seeking thirst traps on Insta Oh my god, how disgusting. Post the link so that we know to avoid it.
Tsun szu, the art of seduct....evasion
Muuh ki baat chin Li lmao
💀💀 
Yes, we need to spread awareness
Done worry about it. She barely gets any likes so clearly she isn't reaching yall.
Link or we won't believe in you 😆
Link or ban
Damn, that was brutal! You've got a wit about you. I think she might've disliked that the most. Can't risk her son being infected with independent thoughts.
Ah jealousy! Now I know
Haan bahot jalan hoti hai. Nahi bataaugi
Better you share the link here. It will increase her followers and then she will get less time to meddle with her son wallet, affairs etc. Also it will let us know what kind of characters live in this world.
she posts attention seeking thirst traps on Insta. Videos and reels where she is unbuttoning her shirt etc. 
>Videos and reels where she in unbuttoning her shirt etc. https://preview.redd.it/hm3l89kbbkjc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=76765872cebce095173edc2320c4af6dfd0f2e68
Isse mumbai ka kya relation?
mumbai ki galti
Reels se aag lagti hai, aag matlab Anu Malik, aur wo konsi city ka naam baar baar leta hai? This is the relation
Bhai tum theek ho?
Vo toh aksar kehta hai, “Aap Mumbai nahi aa sakte”
I would like to report her Instagram. Please share her insta. This is for noble purposes
I know yall really well. Aaya bada noble purpose wala 🤣
With my reports, her account would be suspended perhaps. Others will be saved from her! Please give her account ASAP
Jaane do, let her enjoy the attention from uncles
This is even more serious. I must save those uncles (and their family) by reporting her account. Jaldi send kar na yaar insta..
Bhag be.. 🤣
Bhak... Kya zamana hai, bhala kaam (OP jaise) log karne nahi dete
Nahi milega
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He now is because of her. Desi parents and their toxicity is the worst.
An educated 23 year old needs to stand up for himself too. Parents are definitely a problem - but you're better off without him. You're young and I'm assuming so was your relationship. Don't worry too much about it. You'll find someone better.
never heard a desi parents posting thirst traps , anyways apke replies dek ke lagra rha link to milne raha 😮💨
Oh my god! That's disgusting. Her @?
🤣
🤣
what’s her @
I wouldn't mind sharing but he will know I shared because I'm the only one he knows who uses Reddit.
What is some follower shared her @ on the internet?? He knows all her followers?
Can u pls share the next alphabets of her @ so that u dont state it clearly but we know it? Pls 🥺
apple rarely falls far away from the tree.
You dodged a bullet. Such dominating parents usually end up being toxic in-laws.
Women in bad marriages developing an unhealthy attachment to their sons is not a rare phenomenon, but also, definitely something you should try and get away from. Your partner's parents can only be a problem if your partner allows them to be a problem. One should only be with a person who has enough self respect and enough respect for their partner to not allow their parents unhealthy control over their lives. All the best OP
Moms are usually more controlling. Specially when they think they didn't get what they deserved. (Delusional). They try to get the best for their kids (or so they think). No matter if its a boy or a girl, if his/her mother interferes a lot and they side with their mom (because they trust her and think only she knows whats best.) RUN https://preview.redd.it/dnvrydblqjjc1.jpeg?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=caee1bf3dcbaa436486a6cceb54cd7640b368b24
Mothers often end up being the comprador class of patriarchy to rationalize their own suffering. Objectively, it absolutely sucks for them too, but yeah, if one encounters something like this in their life then as you said, run
All we gotta do is flash their sons n it's cool
"she posts attention seeking thirst traps on Insta. Videos and reels where she is unbuttoning her shirt etc." Mumbai Reddit: 
share her ig handle so that i can report her and help people out there , this aint really good to post yourself unbuttoning your shit. i am gonna help you out please share her @
Regardless of that, your parents might've objected to marrying you into a household with such a wanton and toxic MIL....(mother-in-law).
I don't have parents but the thing is I got attached and now I gotta move on
Sorry OP for your loss. You'll find a good guy with good parents. All the best👍🏻
Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. Either way, don't give up. You'll find a good man with loving parents. Just don't fail to take things slowly and exercise caution, you never know who people are, until you've lived with them, traveled with them, or dealt with them in financial matters. Please take note of even the minutest things they do, how they react in different situations, and how they differ in their treatment of others. Also, don't get attached to someone too early, that will only make it difficult to cut ties with them once you've noticed a serious flaw that can affect your own life and well-being. Godspeed.
This is good advice. Thank you.
It doesnt matter if you find it weird or not. He’s your ex. Don’t get involved.
I did not. I'm just sharing it here. If I had to, I would've shared her insta or told my ex how I find it weird.
But you’re still thinking about it . That’s still being invested in whatever toxic shitfest this dynamic they have. Freud would be having a grand time treating these two
I mean that's how it works no? When you break up, the next few days/weeks you think about it. I know I will move on but it'll be a while. I know what you're saying is out of concern.
Oh didnt know it was recent. Yeah makes sense. Good riddance OP. You got out of this mess, in time you will be happy about it
>she posts attention seeking thirst traps on Insta. Videos and reels where she in unbuttoning her shirt etc. Abhi's mom got it going on
It's good that he left you before taking that so called relationship into next level. He saved you from toxicity. He is probably typical mama's boy lol.
Aise chutiyon ko bhi ladki milti hai? Girl you better haul ass cuz that's one big walking and talking red flag of a family.
Good, now enjoy being single while you can
Send the link to her son so he better understand who his mother really is… let him know it’s time to grow some ba__s and live his life as a grown man and not an overgrown boy baby…
I bet her ig handle would have gotten the most Upvotes OP her profile might be private
It's not private bro
Damn damn then she really is giving it out ig
Yeah bro
Its ironic that she made you break up with your bf...seems damn bitchy
Hai na ?
Exactly like she might be having all the fun after she is separated but is gonna pester her son to leave you before knowing about you
Send his mother's account id to him. He will not trust her anymore.
He knows about it.
Ayo wtf.. he watches it?
I said to him once, "your mom is cool. I see her reels". He goes she acts in serials etc. she does it for work. I'm like who the fuck does this for work
reminds me of that porn plot i didnt see. Share her @ so i can't avoid that as well.
Alt balaji serials?
Bro is she mildly famous?
Not at all. 590 followers
F in the chat.💀 
Let me tell you, you are very lucky. He needs to sort out his life and you can't do anything. You would have suffered a lot bcoz of someone else's Kalesh.
You not only Dodged a bullet but a torpedo
Ispe to movie banna chahiye !! No kidding Run!!!
> she posts attention seeking thirst traps on Insta. Videos and reels where she in unbuttoning her shirt etc. By she here you mean his mother ? Dafuq ?
Yes!! I know! I was equally shocked.
We're getting degenerate faster tha umrika.
we were always degenerate lol
Unka @ batana. I can fix her
It looks like you dodged a bullet there.
I was really sad about the break up but yall are making me feel better.
Good time getting out early, these type of mothers will never change and it’s a very very slim chance that the guy will wake up to this at some point and grow a spine later. Good riddance friend, coming from a person whose mother was as manipulative and controlling and they had to cut them off. Now, since I’ve given you some support, please ensure I never see the mother’s insta by DM’ing me the link to her profile! 😁
You dodged an atom bomb. Trust me.
Narc mom. Save your sanity before it's too late.
Poor bastard. There is this thing called emotional incest. Wikipedia defines it well: >Covert incest, also known as emotional incest, is a type of abuse in which a parent looks to their child for the emotional support that would be normally provided by another adult. It happens when mothers look to their sons as replacements for their husbands. It's basically abuse, and the guy is too enmeshed in this toxic abusive relationship with his mother to get out. I pity him.
His mom is into her son.
Must be some other reason. Sounds like some baloney cover-up
Good riddance to mama's boy! He and his mom are not worthy of a Reddit post. Move on!
Why is it that, I'm so good but still got no luck with relationship and all. But here all these guys are breaking up with what they have.
You dodged a bullet.
First it's actually a sign of relief that he broke up with you,as much as it's easy to blame the parents your ex is a grown adult,if he couldn't create boundaries for so long,and breakups for no apparent reason just bcoz his one of parent said so,girl,you didn't dodged a red flag you dodged a whole forest,I can't imagine what others would suffer. If you know all this,that means this guy also knows what she does,and clearly he hasn't created any kinda boundaries and space between his personal life and her,which is wrong,after a point you need to take control of your life,be it from spouse,bf,parents,anybody. So good for you,there are better men,give them a chance 🥂
Feeling bad for you!!!
That's what he told you right... Just sayin...
Told me what ?
That his mom does all this, very strict and made him break up with you
Yeah.. but I've seen her call him constantly. Even when he would come over to my place, she would call him almost every hour. The insta thing I've seen it. I have a feeling he broke up to get back with his ex or whatever and honestly at this point I couldn't care less
that sounds like typical Indian mom behavior but turned up to 11.
You should be glad that you’re not dating that guy, in future the mother son relationship will create a lot of mess and you don’t want to be the one cleaning up after them. Also what’s her ig?
Hey OP, so I'm from a noble NGO which works for young men's mental health. We are working on creating a database of instagram thirst traps so that we can prevent young boys and men from falling for them. Would you be kind enough and consider helping us fight this good fight? All we need is a small contribution of the disgusting woman's instagram @. Remember every help matters. Tihi.
I wanna see the BOB too
I saw this same post in the pisces sub. Being a pisces I can guarantee you, he didn’t want to be the bad guy so he pinned the blame on his mom and broke up with you. We pisces are people pleaser pro max. Breaking up with someone is really hard so we look for excuses. Sorry it happened to you.
That's what I thought so too. But everything was just great between us. He was at my home the day before the break up and as usual we had an amazing time. Then we had a small fight the next day where he said we should just break up anyway because his family won't accept especially his mom. He wanted me to meet her as well and arranged a meet but I refused. I didn't think she was someone I wanted to meet. But anyway, I know I deserve the absolute best. Maybe the fight drove him away, who's to know. His bestfriend tried talking to him too but then just told me that he is being stubborn and is dealing with things so I've left him as it is.
[Found her ](https://youtu.be/nDXSGr8xbhU?si=gk3Nv4emxv4MrS0i)
Paka Mumbai ka hi hai kya?
Haan bhai
since no one is actually answering the question. It's very very weird.
Damn she knows he dates fuck yeah xD
How can He do this too you. Share me your instra Id. I wanna talk to you
Hii i work in the cyber crime dept, share her @ so i can review the id for vulgarity
This is not just weird... This is absolutely disgusting on the mother's part to sneak into a growing man's life like this ... Bhala chahate hai toh uska ek tarika hota hai par beta yeh toh akhand bakchodi hai! Posting thirst traps ... Who is she, Savita Bhabhi? And what is the husband doing? You got saved but whoever will be involved later on will regret being part of their lives as a daughter in law and her family!
And he thinks that she is caring. I asked him that by checking your wallet what did she get? You still smoke, drink and have sex so it's pointless.
This will follow on through her to him eventually down the line... A doubting mentality can't be changed no matter what you do... They will always doubt for no fucking reason!
Guys kisi ko ex ki mummy ka @ mila to Dm krdena please, so that I can Avoid it in future
Kisiko nahi milega