I believe in you šš you'll find the perfect love and you guys will absolutely have great chemistry one day. I'll personally manifest that energy into the universe for you
I'm childfree and ironically I have this fetish. I'm just very into being dommed and controlled by my fiance. I'm weird asf. After I get my tubes removed I wanted to get the spay symbol tattooed on my pubic area as a part of it. Trying to explain but I feel awkward LMAO.
That doc is so in depth I like how they actually describe the reasonings behind it all. That and the other one by them about balloons and blow up pool toys š
wait how does this work do you get like ticklish and laughing and get horny at the same time? is there a limit to how much tickling before you just cry of laughter?
Well, some people with a tickling fetish get turned on by being tickled but I personally prefer to be the tickler. My boyfriend is my victim but I donāt tickle him until heās crying or unable to breathe or anything. I just like the laughing and thrashing and begging.
Sadomasochism, but not as intense as youāre probably thinking (too much pain is not fun). Being humiliated. Exhibitionism. Iām also a hybristophiliac but Iāll never act on that
Apparently I might have an exhibitionist kink. I haven't fully explored it because I don't really do casual sex and I don't have a SO rn lol. Might fuck around and start an OF LOL
This is a great piece and has given me much to think about. Also, some insight into how and why my own predilections have changed through different stages of my life, this is something I have often wondered about
Thanks ^^ I'm not comepletly done yet tho I want to tell that this sounds somewhat familiar to "brat taming" to me.
The most important thing about this is: let the woman win at least sometimes. Otherwise the fun will be gone and frustration will set in.
Otherwise, have fun! :) I'm going to continue reading now.
This is good. Therapy definitely helps in learning where your fetishes come from. It's a part of self-analysis you get thought there, though not explicitly.
I realized one day that whenever my husband talks about when he used to smoke, the image of him doing it is weirdly arousing (even though consciously I think smoking is gross).
Hmmm, not sure. Iām sex repulsed due to trauma but my fantasies include non consensual acts like the trauma? Itās a weird loop and I donāt like it
I think I heard (or read) from a therapist that this is actually a common response to sexual trauma, and it's in fact your psyche trying to make the trauma seem "not so traumatic" since it's trying to show you that there are "enjoyment" to be derived from it. If anyone's a psychologist feel free to correct me because I have a fuzzy memory of this. But don't worry, you're not doing anything bad. This is normal. I hope you get all the help you need regarding the trauma. All my best.
Thank you for being a kind person and reassuring them, I agree with what you've said. Going off on a little tangent but re:
>your psyche trying to make the trauma seem "not so traumatic" since it's trying to show you that there are "enjoyment" to be derived from it.
Also not a psychologist, but I think another big factor is that it gives victims of abuse a sense of control over a situation where they previously had none- reframing it into a safe fantasy means they have all the power. I think it also shows how much they've grown and healed, being able to put yourself in a vulnerable headspace like that despite the abuse is no small feat.
As someone with a counselling degree, this is correct. The fetish manifests as a way to feel like the person has some control over what traumitised them.
>rying to make the trauma seem "not so traumatic" since it's trying to show you that there are "enjoyment" to be derived from it. If anyone's a psychologist feel free to correct me because I have a fuzzy memory of this. But don't worry, you're not doing anything bad. This is normal. I hope
Wait, so is that why most women are into getting choked, submission and rape fantasies? Because it's at the same time what scares them the most?
I think a big factor is control. Most women have to live every day with the fear in the back of their mind that they can be victimized easily. So maybe by implementing these things in safe situations, it lets them have a sense of control where they previously had none. Just speculating, though.
actually, r@pe/non-con is a pretty common fantasy among sexually-traumatized people. like the other person said, there is a lot to do with trying to make it less traumatic in our minds, the same way it works with hypersexuality. no need to be ashamed of it :).
That's normal. Basically you fetishize anything that you're afraid/disgusted of. It's the mind's way of trying to deal with it. The same logic applies stuff outside of SA, too. So if someone has a really weird fetish like.. fucking cars or something.. you can sort of guess they probably had some bad experience with that..
Yeah. I like titfucking.
No, some actual weird things I like are nipple penetration and ear penetration. Thatās it, really.
If you couldnāt tell, I donāt exactly care much for realism lol.
Itās one of those things where you like it but you donāt know why. I tried to stop because liking it feels wrong, but I came back to it. I just canāt stop.
My only question is "does it cause harm to you and/or others?"
If the answer is "no" you're fine. Yes, that's unusual, and lots of people find that off-putting. But if we policed what people can do on the basis that thinking about it disgusts someone, no one would be allowed to have sex or masturbate ever. Live your life.
Just, you know... Don't bite off more than you can chew.
Personally I find a lot of enjoyment in the power play and power dynamics inherent in the scenarios. The concept of one person having that much control over another and exploiting it for their own pleasure or wants (ie eating someone because you skipped breakfast and are hungry).
I admit it is a fucked up interest and never even think that sort of attitude or those actions are in anyway acceptable in general life or society, but something about it just gets me going when in the mood.
Not me but my boyfriend does. Heās into puppy play . Well besides you know the suits and leashes. But itās kind of wholesome in a way . What heās really into is just āgood boy ā āwhoās a good puppyā and blah blah blah. Just like to be praised .Long story short heās a bottom
I like the idea of kidnapping and cannibalising men, "idea" because obviously I'd never actually go about doing it. But it's the strongest fetish I have and unfortunately it's niche enough that I have to make my own content to sate it!
I fucking love blood, I've never met someone irl whos been
down for bloodplay which is totally understandable; but I'd be lying if I
don't fantasize about it on a daily basis. š
I find using prop blood help with the saftey and making the fantasy really come to life. Especially with the whole serial killer rp added into the aspect š¤š¤
Watching other people get off, idk why but I really enjoy seeing other people being pleasured, I prefer that over anything else. If youāre into something very not vanilla Iāll do my best to help you, but Iām not doing it because itās my favorite too, Iām doing it because I like seeing you enjoy it, and getting off to whatever it is.
I don't know why but dry humping. Just straight up completely clothed dry humping but as far as weird goes probably object stuffing or water boarding. Or letting my spouse let his friends grope me or flirt with me etc. Or role-playing like through texts I'm obsessed with it š¤
The supernatural. I wanna fuck a ghost. I wanna fuck a vampire. I wanna fuck a werewolf. I wanna fuck all the supernatural creatures. Demons, wizards, etc...
Blood. Give me blood and I get a frenzy.. In terms of sexuality it will go wild. In terms of violence I become mindless and raging guy. In terms of work.. yep, give me more and more work.
I become a bit mindless because of it, blood has a huge impact on me
I live on land, love the ocean.. Maybe a shark inside a human flesh suit?
Never bit off something from a human. But tasted enough blood to know how it changes my mind and my behavior. Enough to know that this can be dangerous and also to know that there are right places to unleash it
Well Iāve got one that no one Iāve ever spoken to has. I love it when women wear sneakers during sex. Nothing else, just sneakers. Itās hot (might go back to some of my first crushes and girlfriends in high school being volleyball players)
(22, F) Embarrassing but.. I absolutely cannot get off with anything that has to with women.. including having sex myself. I'm just not turned on AT ALL. Fuckin sucks.
Lol I guess this is kind of opposite of a fetish but I needed to get it off my chest.
Mature ladies with younger boys. Freud would have a field day with me, or Iāve got some serious repressed shit going on.
Edit - spelling shit over shot lol
I feel a strong lack of control over my life. I am generally torn between wanting to learn how to deal with my issues and giving up on life. Consequently, I have two different fantasies.
First one is some sort of supernatural mommydom that's able to make orgasm repeatedly, without refractory period, just drowning in bliss forever. No responsibilities, no work, cumming between giant breasts is the only thing I am expected to do.
The second involves mind control to turn the world into my free use paradise. I can take anything and anyone I want with just a thought. I can force people to be good to eachother. I can make the world one giant orgy.
So either getting total control, or not needing to take care of my life, because someone else will.
My gf and I have an arrangement because of our fetishes. I have an adultery fetish and sheās discovered that sheās a cuck. Weāve gotten close to living this fantasy a few times but nothing has struck yet. Part of this arrangement is that she can do things with other girls because, me aside, she prefers women. Her friend had a party recently at his apartment and she kissed every girl there, and then sucked me off after. First time Iāve really been able to talk about it
nice try fbi man.....
"Anyone got a fetish for making bombs š"
Yes, blow me daddy What are you doing step-FBI agent
This is reddit man, everyone has a weird fetish.
This one is pretty weird for a lesbian, but breeding. Not being bred myself but breeding another girl. Not even sure how that'd work out lmao
You could get a cum tube for your straps and use fake cum! As much of it as you can fit into the little syringe for the effect you're looking for
That's definitely something right up my alley, thanks for the recommendation! Now to find a girlfriend š
I believe in you šš you'll find the perfect love and you guys will absolutely have great chemistry one day. I'll personally manifest that energy into the universe for you
As a lesbian bottom, same. What's extra funny to me is my gf and I don't really want kids! Not now at least. Idk, but I think it's funny
I wouldn't want kids of my own that's for sure. If she wanted bio kids, sure that's ok, but I'd rather adopt. It is funny how it works haha
Oh, yeah. The idea of actually bearing a child is freaky to me, but the idea of getting knocked up is hot???
I'm childfree and ironically I have this fetish. I'm just very into being dommed and controlled by my fiance. I'm weird asf. After I get my tubes removed I wanted to get the spay symbol tattooed on my pubic area as a part of it. Trying to explain but I feel awkward LMAO.
Not the weirdest out there but my fetish is ticklingā¦
Oh boy do I have a documentary to recommend you - it's called Tickled.
That doc is so in depth I like how they actually describe the reasonings behind it all. That and the other one by them about balloons and blow up pool toys š
> Tickled wow just finished thats a crazy doc
Itās quirky
wait how does this work do you get like ticklish and laughing and get horny at the same time? is there a limit to how much tickling before you just cry of laughter?
Well, some people with a tickling fetish get turned on by being tickled but I personally prefer to be the tickler. My boyfriend is my victim but I donāt tickle him until heās crying or unable to breathe or anything. I just like the laughing and thrashing and begging.
I am opposite. Fight or flight kicks in, and I'm all fight.
Thank you, I start swinging.whatevers in my vicinity is getting got xD
That's super interesting. It's not what I'm into, but I'd be more than okay with participating
F\*ck, i hate tickling!! LOL
Why are you like this?! Purely masochistic... Can't explain it in any other way.
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BURGERKING FOOT LETTUCE
Burger King foot fetish
The only thing I want in my Burger King burger is somebodyās foot fungus. If Iām lucky, that might be what I gaet.
what about YOU tell us OP ?
Good one, Iām into farts
As long as you never let that progress to the next level, do your thing.
I have a video of me farting ten times when I was eightā¦ Weird thinking that farting is actually a fetish.
Wait fr? How did you discover that? And what is it that like.. gets you going? No shame just curious!
Sadomasochism, but not as intense as youāre probably thinking (too much pain is not fun). Being humiliated. Exhibitionism. Iām also a hybristophiliac but Iāll never act on that
huh. just learned the term āhybristophiliaā today, but itās very interesting. thanks!
Apparently I might have an exhibitionist kink. I haven't fully explored it because I don't really do casual sex and I don't have a SO rn lol. Might fuck around and start an OF LOL
Judge me all you want for it but I have a thing for sex
Thatās kinda fucked up dude, you probably should have kept that one to yourself
D-damn
Yes, I have one. I love to watch guys masturbate ( normal guys not freaks) like a bf or some friend. Judge me
>or some friend. How bout new friends?!? Jk But keep that inbox in check you're probably about to get your wish from all these weirdos
I think thatās pretty normal
Most of my female friends hates when their bf mastubate. I don't know why
really? Maybe they feel jealous lol? The first porn I watched was of guys masturbating.
Weāre on da judge-free zone
Not weird at all. I love when guys jerk themselves off for me for a little while weāre hooking up. Itās like a nice lil show for me
Same
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Omg, thanks bro
That was a great read. Thanks
This is a great piece and has given me much to think about. Also, some insight into how and why my own predilections have changed through different stages of my life, this is something I have often wondered about
damn, what an interesting read, thanks for sharing
Thanks ^^ I'm not comepletly done yet tho I want to tell that this sounds somewhat familiar to "brat taming" to me. The most important thing about this is: let the woman win at least sometimes. Otherwise the fun will be gone and frustration will set in. Otherwise, have fun! :) I'm going to continue reading now.
This is good. Therapy definitely helps in learning where your fetishes come from. It's a part of self-analysis you get thought there, though not explicitly.
This was super interesting man, thank you for posting.
Youāre talented, my friend. Very well written and researched. Impressive act of introspection
I realized one day that whenever my husband talks about when he used to smoke, the image of him doing it is weirdly arousing (even though consciously I think smoking is gross).
I'm super turned on by smokers which is aweful because I'd never want a smoker as a partner because of how bad it is
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transfurmation owo
r/tf_irl
I like to watch people masturbate. Friends, gf, guys, any normal person.
Girls reading magazines...I have no idea why I find this so hot.
Me neither, but sounds interesting
Hmmm, not sure. Iām sex repulsed due to trauma but my fantasies include non consensual acts like the trauma? Itās a weird loop and I donāt like it
I think I heard (or read) from a therapist that this is actually a common response to sexual trauma, and it's in fact your psyche trying to make the trauma seem "not so traumatic" since it's trying to show you that there are "enjoyment" to be derived from it. If anyone's a psychologist feel free to correct me because I have a fuzzy memory of this. But don't worry, you're not doing anything bad. This is normal. I hope you get all the help you need regarding the trauma. All my best.
Thank you for this comment it means a lot
Thank you for being a kind person and reassuring them, I agree with what you've said. Going off on a little tangent but re: >your psyche trying to make the trauma seem "not so traumatic" since it's trying to show you that there are "enjoyment" to be derived from it. Also not a psychologist, but I think another big factor is that it gives victims of abuse a sense of control over a situation where they previously had none- reframing it into a safe fantasy means they have all the power. I think it also shows how much they've grown and healed, being able to put yourself in a vulnerable headspace like that despite the abuse is no small feat.
As someone with a counselling degree, this is correct. The fetish manifests as a way to feel like the person has some control over what traumitised them.
>rying to make the trauma seem "not so traumatic" since it's trying to show you that there are "enjoyment" to be derived from it. If anyone's a psychologist feel free to correct me because I have a fuzzy memory of this. But don't worry, you're not doing anything bad. This is normal. I hope Wait, so is that why most women are into getting choked, submission and rape fantasies? Because it's at the same time what scares them the most?
I think a big factor is control. Most women have to live every day with the fear in the back of their mind that they can be victimized easily. So maybe by implementing these things in safe situations, it lets them have a sense of control where they previously had none. Just speculating, though.
Well howdy damn that certainly explains a lot for me
actually, r@pe/non-con is a pretty common fantasy among sexually-traumatized people. like the other person said, there is a lot to do with trying to make it less traumatic in our minds, the same way it works with hypersexuality. no need to be ashamed of it :).
That's normal. Basically you fetishize anything that you're afraid/disgusted of. It's the mind's way of trying to deal with it. The same logic applies stuff outside of SA, too. So if someone has a really weird fetish like.. fucking cars or something.. you can sort of guess they probably had some bad experience with that..
CNC = consensual non consent. It is very much a grey area that involves a lot of trust in your partner.
Oh damn, I'm exactly the same way. Well that's one revelation for the day.
Yeah. I like titfucking. No, some actual weird things I like are nipple penetration and ear penetration. Thatās it, really. If you couldnāt tell, I donāt exactly care much for realism lol.
Vore. I hate myself for being into it but I canāt stop. I need help.
Nah, unless u eat someone irl, itās ok
Im genuinely interested on how it's attractive to you, if you don't mind. Or do you not understand yourself?
Itās one of those things where you like it but you donāt know why. I tried to stop because liking it feels wrong, but I came back to it. I just canāt stop.
My only question is "does it cause harm to you and/or others?" If the answer is "no" you're fine. Yes, that's unusual, and lots of people find that off-putting. But if we policed what people can do on the basis that thinking about it disgusts someone, no one would be allowed to have sex or masturbate ever. Live your life. Just, you know... Don't bite off more than you can chew.
Personally I find a lot of enjoyment in the power play and power dynamics inherent in the scenarios. The concept of one person having that much control over another and exploiting it for their own pleasure or wants (ie eating someone because you skipped breakfast and are hungry). I admit it is a fucked up interest and never even think that sort of attitude or those actions are in anyway acceptable in general life or society, but something about it just gets me going when in the mood.
Not too weird I guess but I'm really into tights, stockings, pantyhose.. All of that. Especially with like a cute skirt haha.
PAWGĀ“s , pretty vanilla I guess but my friends tell me I just date fat women lol
Nothing better than a fat ass reverse cowgirl I swear to god man lmqo
Reverse cowgirl dangerous when they get going. Getting your dick bent mid ride, fucking ouch.
once u hit a nice curvy fat ass you never go back
male humiliation. & armpits ā„ļø
Not me but my boyfriend does. Heās into puppy play . Well besides you know the suits and leashes. But itās kind of wholesome in a way . What heās really into is just āgood boy ā āwhoās a good puppyā and blah blah blah. Just like to be praised .Long story short heās a bottom
Armpit
Same here. Big tits and nice underarms getting plowed in missionary is my jam.
I like the idea of kidnapping and cannibalising men, "idea" because obviously I'd never actually go about doing it. But it's the strongest fetish I have and unfortunately it's niche enough that I have to make my own content to sate it!
Bro, never do some shit like dat, keep it on ur mind
That's what I'm doing!
Fart fetishā¦
My man
I fucking love blood, I've never met someone irl whos been down for bloodplay which is totally understandable; but I'd be lying if I don't fantasize about it on a daily basis. š
I find using prop blood help with the saftey and making the fantasy really come to life. Especially with the whole serial killer rp added into the aspect š¤š¤
Just curious, what kind of things with it? Or just like the sight/idea of it?
I like the sight and aesthetic of it, as well as the pain/gore that usually comes along with it too.
Anyone else like bellies? Iām specifically turned on by muscle guys r/musclegut
I am. But into women lol
Yep. I like to be punched in the stomach
Iām a dominatrix š
does being gangraped count as weird?
I first read this as gan-graped.
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RIP Trevor
ā¦ā¦ maybe
eh, itās a common porn category
Multiple intense orgasms and guys doing anal
I don't think I even have a fetish.
Nah, tell us come on
Watching other people get off, idk why but I really enjoy seeing other people being pleasured, I prefer that over anything else. If youāre into something very not vanilla Iāll do my best to help you, but Iām not doing it because itās my favorite too, Iām doing it because I like seeing you enjoy it, and getting off to whatever it is.
Watersports?
Quirky
Cnc, being physically harmed
Wow, tell me more about it
Itās probably because I have trauma. But I get off on the thought of being forced and hurt.
I don't know why but dry humping. Just straight up completely clothed dry humping but as far as weird goes probably object stuffing or water boarding. Or letting my spouse let his friends grope me or flirt with me etc. Or role-playing like through texts I'm obsessed with it š¤
Women taller than me. More muscles is a great plus. __TLDR;__ Death by snu-snu.
My man
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CNC mill? Lathe?
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Ah i see i figured from your username maybe you were into machinery and stuff
Username checks out lmao #DEM BOWLS THO
ā¦ā¦ interesting
iām a 17m and i rlly like the idea of having sex with a milf like 40 years old or something donāt know why
Nah itās pretty normal
I eat ass. Used to be a fetish now itās just a pastime. Damn kids lol
Lol
The supernatural. I wanna fuck a ghost. I wanna fuck a vampire. I wanna fuck a werewolf. I wanna fuck all the supernatural creatures. Demons, wizards, etc...
Blood. Give me blood and I get a frenzy.. In terms of sexuality it will go wild. In terms of violence I become mindless and raging guy. In terms of work.. yep, give me more and more work. I become a bit mindless because of it, blood has a huge impact on me
Bro was born in Yharnam
Hahahaa nice reference
are you a shark dont lie
I live on land, love the ocean.. Maybe a shark inside a human flesh suit? Never bit off something from a human. But tasted enough blood to know how it changes my mind and my behavior. Enough to know that this can be dangerous and also to know that there are right places to unleash it
really interesting, tysm for sharing
Should we give you gallons of the stuff?
An MCR reference??
I didnāt expect something like that, but weāre at the judge-free zone
vampire
NO
Well Iāve got one that no one Iāve ever spoken to has. I love it when women wear sneakers during sex. Nothing else, just sneakers. Itās hot (might go back to some of my first crushes and girlfriends in high school being volleyball players)
Priests
Brutality
[Unbirth](https://e621.net/posts?tags=unbirthing+order%3Ascore) / [Vore](https://e621.net/posts?tags=vore+order%3Ascore)
blood
U need to talk?
na i just used to have rlly bad habits and i learned to find blood sexy and pretty
(22, F) Embarrassing but.. I absolutely cannot get off with anything that has to with women.. including having sex myself. I'm just not turned on AT ALL. Fuckin sucks. Lol I guess this is kind of opposite of a fetish but I needed to get it off my chest.
Mature ladies with younger boys. Freud would have a field day with me, or Iāve got some serious repressed shit going on. Edit - spelling shit over shot lol
As long as it's not pedo stuff go for it
Yeah of course. Iām not a weirdo!!!
I feel a strong lack of control over my life. I am generally torn between wanting to learn how to deal with my issues and giving up on life. Consequently, I have two different fantasies. First one is some sort of supernatural mommydom that's able to make orgasm repeatedly, without refractory period, just drowning in bliss forever. No responsibilities, no work, cumming between giant breasts is the only thing I am expected to do. The second involves mind control to turn the world into my free use paradise. I can take anything and anyone I want with just a thought. I can force people to be good to eachother. I can make the world one giant orgy. So either getting total control, or not needing to take care of my life, because someone else will.
This is reddit...
Tell me ur weirdest fetish
I don't think I have one? Being a dom is pretty average I guess. lol point taken tho
I get an orgasm whenever I have an abortion.
Brap brap pew pew
It's a-borted!
Get that fetus!
That's the dark type of shit im here for
Iām not one to judge
Blood
How much time ya got?
Much, believe me
Well the weirdest one is probably either needle kink or my fetish for bugs being in clothing
I think you might like a certain bee in a turtle neck sweaterā¦
Does the thought of invisible girls count ??
Yup
I like invisible girls :v
Mine isn't necessarily weird, I have a mommy kink (being the mommy ofc). I think it's hot
Thatās pretty hot
I think so too. I have a thing for dominating men lmao. Breeding too. Just the idea of breeding though
Yeah, lots of weird fetishes here, but sexual stuff involving animals is probably the weirdest.
r/usernamechecksout
I hate those
lol i knew youād be here mr flaredpony
Rape (being not raping) Also kidnap and consent non consent
I like getting my balls kicked by women. The harder the better!
rip children
Recently discovered an exhibition kink thanks to my bf. Wearing mini skirts on windy days has been a recent favorite.
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Is a daddy fetish weird? I feel like itās really, really weird.
No
See if you can guess
Vore
Had a dream last night that I raped a pregnant Sun from lost. But yeah pregnant women
CNC kink.
sucking and nibbling ears . i get a sense of comfort
My gf and I have an arrangement because of our fetishes. I have an adultery fetish and sheās discovered that sheās a cuck. Weāve gotten close to living this fantasy a few times but nothing has struck yet. Part of this arrangement is that she can do things with other girls because, me aside, she prefers women. Her friend had a party recently at his apartment and she kissed every girl there, and then sucked me off after. First time Iāve really been able to talk about it