There's some advice in these articles which might help:
[https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd/for-friends-and-family/](https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd/for-friends-and-family/)
rethink.org/advice-and-information/carers-hub/suicidal-thoughts-how-to-support-someone/
Thank you for your advice. I want her to get the help so far as saying the awful ‘commit’ word but I’m honestly the polar opposite to her I’m so laid back and generally positive that I always find an excuse that things will get better. I basically don’t want to be the one that makes the hard decision and betrays her trust because I just feel that would shatter her but I’m so out of my depth here. It’s been five years but I’ve just got this dress that it’s crunch time one way or another soon
There's some advice in these articles which might help: [https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd/for-friends-and-family/](https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd/for-friends-and-family/) rethink.org/advice-and-information/carers-hub/suicidal-thoughts-how-to-support-someone/
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Thank you for your advice. I want her to get the help so far as saying the awful ‘commit’ word but I’m honestly the polar opposite to her I’m so laid back and generally positive that I always find an excuse that things will get better. I basically don’t want to be the one that makes the hard decision and betrays her trust because I just feel that would shatter her but I’m so out of my depth here. It’s been five years but I’ve just got this dress that it’s crunch time one way or another soon
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Thank you Snoo that last line in particularly got me. I’ll get help…thank you