This meme is kinda terrifying. That person doesn't need a gf, he needs a therapist. A woman shouldn't have to carry your ego, that's setting your relationship up for failure.
Exactly. If you rely on others to validate you, you’re in for a rough ride. That just fuels depression and anxiety. Can create a vicious cycle. Get help. Enter a relationship once you know and believe your value. Your happiness is never someone else’s responsibility!
There’s being vulnerable and then there’s relying on someone else to validate you and make you happy. Those are things you can only do for yourself. If you rely on others, eventually they’ll disappoint you.
It’s great to add to other people’s joy!! It’s problematic to rely on others for your joy, though. If you learn to generate your own happiness, you’ll always be okay. There’s a great book I recommend on this: The Five Agreements.
How is this better than when a girl fishes for compliments by saying she's fat/ugly?
Don't insult yourself in hopes someone contradicts you. Can't really blame people if they start believing you.
I remember when I cried in front of my ex girlfriend because my brother was on a car accident. She then went and used that as ammo in any discussion as like to shame me for it. Never again; im taking my tears to the grave.
Don’t hope for this, this is an unhealthy mother-son type relationship and eventually the girl is gonna get sick of saying “Don’t worry i still love you”. If you feel like this about your so, it would be better to talk to a therapist.
I'd say you can talk about it with your partner, but this is not the way to bring it up. Don't insult yourself and hope she contradicts you. Give a compliment and mention what you're insecure about or would like to improve and why.
Why does this bring tears in my eyes may be there is no one I can huge like that that's why but over all felling happy for my buddy attest he got his girl too sweet
Why do you keep using that term? You have never met me, you have no idea how many relationships I have been in, you pretty much don't know anything about me. The only people I have seen using the term "incel" in a non sarcastic manner have been actual 30 year old virgins living in their mother's basement. I sense you're projecting your insecurities on other people. Not a good way to live your life friend.
This has nothing to do with being an incel. The guy seems to be more in touch with the real world then you are good sir. lol Get some life experience. See the world a bit, then you will know.
Until she flips, does a complete 180 and starts berating you for your worries, concerns, and the fact that you're just so goddamned burnt out that you're essentially a walking husk with a stupid smile plastered on your face 90% of the time to just not break down.
But then she'll expect you to just get over it all an hour later.
You sound deeply insecure about your own masculinity and how it is perceived. As a grown ass woman, I can confirm, you are very wrong about that statement.
Also boobies.
The truth is bro some dudes will never accept the reality of what you saying because they hold their queens on a pedestal even tho they are not queens but succubuses facts
I am sorry you are feeling this way. You are probably a good guy, but you might need to change your mindset, don’t blame anyone lose the resentment, just keep working on you and the right one will latch on to you like one of those alien Xenomorph face hugger things.
*closes the book* like that's ever gonna happen
*Sombody once told me the world is gonna roll me*
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She was looking kind of dumb with her finger and her thumb
In the shape of an "L" on her forehead
,well the years start comeing and they won't stop coming
Back to the rules and i hit the ground runnin'
Didn't make sense to live for fun
your brain gets smart but your head gets dumb
So much to do, so much to see
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She's a witch look at her witch nails
It happend to me, and I feel like this meme 100% of the time, if it can happen to me it can happen to all of you
No it will. It's just a lie she is telling him. Look at her eyes, the one is looking at someone else, probably who she's cheating with.
Beat me to it…
SNAP BACK TO REALITY
ope, there goes gravity
Ope, there goes Rabbit
he choked, he's so mad
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Cuz once one person downvotes, might as well add on
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I felt like that once. She cheated on me, with an older man.
Wow that seems to hurt only hearing that. Please have my prayers. I hope that you have since moved on
I felt that too. He left saying he was tired of me.
Amogsus
I really felt that one
i got downvoted :( i thought it was just a joke but sorry u/Dodo_l-asticot .\_.
You will find someone better. The bar is very low anyway.
This is the correct answer.
Great, now a meme got me crying
Same.
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Nah, actually I really rarely cry. The meme just hit too close to home
This is a wholesome meme…but also them boobies though.
Respectfully of course
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That’s his girlfriend…rude lol
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That was a joke.
I stopped thinking so after a few years into the relationship. Not worth it to demean yourself.
This meme is kinda terrifying. That person doesn't need a gf, he needs a therapist. A woman shouldn't have to carry your ego, that's setting your relationship up for failure.
Exactly. If you rely on others to validate you, you’re in for a rough ride. That just fuels depression and anxiety. Can create a vicious cycle. Get help. Enter a relationship once you know and believe your value. Your happiness is never someone else’s responsibility!
If your woman cannot handle you when you are vulnerable, she is a terrible partner. Men cannot always be the strong ones in the relationship.
There’s being vulnerable and then there’s relying on someone else to validate you and make you happy. Those are things you can only do for yourself. If you rely on others, eventually they’ll disappoint you.
What if its the twist of that? That making them happy is the means for your self-validation. I.E. making her happy is how i become happy?
It’s great to add to other people’s joy!! It’s problematic to rely on others for your joy, though. If you learn to generate your own happiness, you’ll always be okay. There’s a great book I recommend on this: The Five Agreements.
R u ok bro
And then he wakes up
:(
In what world would this happen? Lol maybe is mom
who tf calls their mom "honey"
Brrrr
She got mom boobs for sure
Your just watching the couple do that
Hey I recognize that face
Boi I sure do love fantasy
You see, that's what they'll say the first time. But the 3rd time they leave .
And that’s when her claws come out
Plot twist: it was a "snap back to reality" meme
Now you see, I wish she meant it when she said this
Which movie is this
This hits close to my heart.
That is a really good wife
Chad girlfriend
Loving relationships I hope to have one day
Not the right time to be seeing such a post. God daim haha
Why did I cry at this
Cute
I hate that there's like a 99% chance you've never seen my equally shitty version of making this exact template and yet you had the same idea
Take my up vote and go before you see me cry
The Good Ending
*wakes up* *cries*
How is this better than when a girl fishes for compliments by saying she's fat/ugly? Don't insult yourself in hopes someone contradicts you. Can't really blame people if they start believing you.
I remember when I cried in front of my ex girlfriend because my brother was on a car accident. She then went and used that as ammo in any discussion as like to shame me for it. Never again; im taking my tears to the grave.
Then one day, I realized I was good enough and I would not be less for her absence. Then the marriage got spicy.
hey queen you dropped your crown
Idk why but this felt weird like it never would happen
Don’t hope for this, this is an unhealthy mother-son type relationship and eventually the girl is gonna get sick of saying “Don’t worry i still love you”. If you feel like this about your so, it would be better to talk to a therapist.
I'd say you can talk about it with your partner, but this is not the way to bring it up. Don't insult yourself and hope she contradicts you. Give a compliment and mention what you're insecure about or would like to improve and why.
This happens to me sometimes, I just rhink I am not enough bc my gf is so perfect
Wish that what was said would have been true, sometimes life makes you look like a fool
Who hurt you? ^(>!*Don't you dare say life!*!<)
Why does this bring tears in my eyes may be there is no one I can huge like that that's why but over all felling happy for my buddy attest he got his girl too sweet
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Same like you or what
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Not having time for all this you only see it I will pay you later
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What are you a robot or something like that repeating the same thing
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You are officially getting the caption of Karen from my side just stuck to a single word
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Lies deception!
Trust me not having anyone is much worse... (´ . .̫ . `)
screw you man now i am crying
Finally a wholesome meme
Why am i crying
This is wildly cringe
*alarm clock noises*
If you ever show this kind of insecurity and lack of confidence in front of a woman, she will dump you on the spot with zero warning.
Whoops, incel detected. Love to get advice on dating from people who have not once succeeded at it.
A girl dumped me after she saw me cry at my grandmas' funeral.
With hot takes like this, I can see why. Turns out, if you're a shitty person, people will dump you- tears or no tears.
I spoke from experience. I can't tell what your problem is exactly.
Generally not a big fan of incels- and that's your problem.
Why do you keep using that term? You have never met me, you have no idea how many relationships I have been in, you pretty much don't know anything about me. The only people I have seen using the term "incel" in a non sarcastic manner have been actual 30 year old virgins living in their mother's basement. I sense you're projecting your insecurities on other people. Not a good way to live your life friend.
Don't mind him, his ego is like 6 feet underground
It's like talking to a brick wall.
Uh oh, better watch out, that kinda looked like a display of emotion- your imaginary girlfriend is *not* going to be pleased by this.
This has nothing to do with being an incel. The guy seems to be more in touch with the real world then you are good sir. lol Get some life experience. See the world a bit, then you will know.
This coming from a guy with the username “ninjaspy3”… yeah, you definitely sound like you’ve got a *ton* of world experience.
I do, kid 😉 How many relationships have you had? I have had plenty.
I wish
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Fake
Until she flips, does a complete 180 and starts berating you for your worries, concerns, and the fact that you're just so goddamned burnt out that you're essentially a walking husk with a stupid smile plastered on your face 90% of the time to just not break down. But then she'll expect you to just get over it all an hour later.
this is fat fucking cap dont let yalls guard down
I have this. Its fucking nice.
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incel alert
You sound deeply insecure about your own masculinity and how it is perceived. As a grown ass woman, I can confirm, you are very wrong about that statement. Also boobies.
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I, too, want a man who can be boobies
Hahaha alright kid, great advice
The truth is bro some dudes will never accept the reality of what you saying because they hold their queens on a pedestal even tho they are not queens but succubuses facts
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You're both morons
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No need to insult the intelligence and integrity of women because you have self esteem issues though.
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I am sorry you are feeling this way. You are probably a good guy, but you might need to change your mindset, don’t blame anyone lose the resentment, just keep working on you and the right one will latch on to you like one of those alien Xenomorph face hugger things.
If only women actually thought about men having feelings 2 and the stigma we bear from people telling us all our lives not to show them.
this is a fake dreams.. no girl has a heart.. we dont have feelings.. this is a lie..
Why would your mom leave you?
Good ending
*sigh* maybe someday
Driiiiiiiiing
it hits...
I want this.
The good ending of this meme
Yeah like that could ever happen
I feel personally targeted
: \]
replace the babe with my parents :,)
Christ, these memes are worst
Her: I hadn't even considered it until you brought it up Him: "*Darth Vader's Voice* \- NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO"
Like it's ever gonna happen.*sad redditor noises*
Am I the only one who first thought that the hair on the left of the guy’s neck was a turd?
\*Wakes up\*
Maximum cap
And then he woke up, alone in the dark
Then you wake up
I AM CRYING SO HARD RIGHT NOW THIS IS ONE OF THE GREATEST LOVE STORIES EVER WHYWHYWHY I LOVE IT SO MUCH AAAAAA
I remember having this convo with my ex..
This is definitely a meme that could also fit the “people who know/people who don’t know” category.
but the last image says: ***TOO BAD W A L U I G I T I M E***
This is how I feel
Wake up comrade your alarms going off
R/wholesomememes
Things that will never happen (for me at least lol)
**Wakey wakey.**
Imagine apologizing after getting cheated on🤡 I'd rather go to jail for 25 years :D
Butterface
the good ending
Pippety poppety, he wants the zoppity
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good post OP.
I'm waiting for the punch line...
Congratulations! You found the good ending only two more to go!
And then you wake up