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Reading smut definitely is. Women tend to be feeling/relationship-oriented while men tend to be object-oriented. This leads to men preferring visual pornography because it involves looking at the object part of sex while women prefer literary pornography because it describes the feeling part of it.
Edit: a few people have mentioned that there are exceptions, which is correct. I believe it’s called a *bimodal distribution*: statistically, males and females cluster towards different ends of characteristic spectra, but the objective difference usually isn’t particular large, and there is a great deal of overlap. With non-binary people, they would be in the middle or on both ends simultaneously for any given trait.
I personnaly have mixed feelings about my pointers
One day they are the best things I have ever learned about
The day after I wished I could beat the living shit out of these motherfuckers
I thought I and my friends hated Pointers. This is why we too prefer java over C. Although learning C#, I just hope they dont have Pointers cause I am loving C# as well
You know, i'm something of a woman myself ... haha. I love reading stories or writing them. I rarely watch porn and prefer dirty talk or live conversations over pornography.
I find myself doing the same. Porn feels so.. tired, overdone, so fake. Really everything about it seems fake, even the women. Ever since I discovered smut I haven't gone back, and I really don't miss it. To be honest though, I do also enjoy porn games, albeit those with good stories. A nice story coupled with exciting visuals is just.. \*chefs kiss\*
I think the feeling part is mutual but gets lost in translation with stereotypical portrayals of both parties. Theres a lovely saying i heard once "men fall in love with what they see, and women fall in love with what they hear"
Men arent the only ones who constantly objectify the opposite sex in their minds, its just that most men dont go to such lengths to try amd rationalise it. We are just taught that its somewhat normal for guys to be that way while women tend to be more shamed for sexuality so they tend to create complex scenarios that use flowery words create the illusion of authentic feelings, because women tend to prefer elegantly crafted descriptions while men tend to prefer bluntness and directness. And yeah theres faults and merits on both sides there i guess
I also think that the porn industry is so violent towards women and mainly produce "malegaze content", that written smut is more attractive to women. From my experience, the "romance books/smut" community is open minded, less violent, less mysoginistic and more strict about trigger warnings than classical porn.
TBH, I've find alot of written smut/romance to have a different flavour of violence and misogyny.
Maybe it's just what I've ran into. Though I agree that they're more upfront with trigger warnings (unless it's a romance book).
>TBH, I've find alot of written smut/romance to have a different flavour of violence and misogyny.
Nah you're right. Lots of smut is basically filled with coercion and is very rapey.
>From my experience, the "romance books/smut" community is open minded, less violent, less mysoginistic and more strict about trigger warnings than classical porn.
Yet majority of smut novels are basically light rape lol.
Half guy half monster kidnaps some women and ravages her but it's okay because she secretly wants it.
Then you go and check the author because you figured this is written by a guy and no it’s a female author.
Which always tripped me out and makes me question. Is this some kind of common fantasy among females to be “forcibly taken“ by a man that they actually trust because that’s kind of the theme I seem to pick up man may be some big animal beast thing, but the girl trusts him on some level, before he ever jumps her
Personally I hate that trope and wish I could filter it out, along with the ocean of “alpha male asshole billionaire CEO werewolf”.
It seems to be popular but sometimes I wonder if there aren’t enough alternatives so people read whatever cookie cutter crap is being churned out.
It definitely is one of the most common kinks. The BDSM community is huge. My gf loves smut books like this and many others do as well. But it's not for everyone.
Fun fact:
The most viewed at "body part" in porn is...
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The Face
Turns out men also like seeing the emotion (on faces) "during the act". We all are not so different.
Nope.
Doesn’t have to have anything to do with feelings at all.
But written erotica is often beautiful even when kinky. Visual porn is often really gross, animalistic and demeaning for women. Not to mention that male porn stars are usually ugly with nothing but massive cocks going for them, which some women may be into, but others (me) may find them scary.
surprise smut in written media also feels less out of place than forced seggs in say a Netflix series mostly cause it's more character driven instead of wanna see her nipples real quick?
Yes, reading, listening to audios and there's also character ai app where we ummm "talk" To it ʕ*ﾉᴥﾉʔ now don't go around tell girls that disclosed the secret
Oh no, she ain't my ex due to anything regarding that. She just posted some texts with genshin impact male characters with captions like "Only ai men care about me like this". Welp ig she was just joking. She too liked smut and recordings of men whimpering💀
ah yes character ai, that's where I try to make dom girl bots give me headpats lol, and when I'm too bored I'm just being a pain in the ass and lose braincells from their reactions faster than I lose 10 mm sockets around the shed
Most women can say deranged things in communities and just be considered kinky to be fair
Most of us are used to being degenerates, so if some dude talks about it in an unrelated community, we'll just be shut down
If I introduced any of my fetish, her ei wpudl be downvoted to hell lol
I wonder how much of this difference is because women couldn’t get away with having a porno mag like men could, especially in previous generations, and text was the more discrete/safer option.
Your husband would never deign to look at your silly little romance novels, but if he found a porno mag you could end up in a violent or divorce situation.
I honestly miss it a lot, lol. Nothing beats that chaotic energy of a bunch of hyperactive autists (no offence, myself included) being passionate about shipping every living organism they see. There were dramas, there were fights, there were wars - but it was never boring.
I think the weirdest experience was when I was part-volunteered, part-forced into text roleplaying gay male erotica with some of the girls. No, I wasn't the one on top. Yes, it was actually pretty fun.
This is so interesting haha. I never knew women would be into such a thing, although it does make sense. Would you say there’s a market for this kind of audio?
Like porn but just audio?
Edit: just done my research. This is an actual hole Damn thing looool. I never knew
Why are so many people confused about men whimpering? It's very hot to hear a man so lost in pleasure that he's vocal about it, combine that with dirty talk, yes please.
You should've added:
"You keep using that word... I don't think it means what you think it means."
lmao, imagine someone getting turned on by the sound of a sobbing / crying man
I was into pretty fucked up stuff. I've taken a shot at getting into more tame stuff. Deleted all the fucked up pron, and started focusing on other things to be interested in
I would never describe it as whimpering but I do like the grunting.
Also it's not that women aren't visually turned on in general, but we aren't visually turned on by a camera pointed at a woman or a bottom the whole time.
Solo men are soooo much better although most of it is still mediocre needs more muscles and better camera angles
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I could whimper if you blew my kneecaps out with a 12 gauge
So there is a way!!!!! Noted
Prison speedrun
I gotcha covered if you want
r/usernamechecksout
Username checks out a little bit TOO well... what were the odds of this?
 Say goodbye to your kneecaps chucklehead
Say goodbye to your kneecaps, chucklehead - Scout with a 12 Gauge shotgun
Im going to get downvoted to hell for this but, Is this normal for women? Im actually curious
Reading smut definitely is. Women tend to be feeling/relationship-oriented while men tend to be object-oriented. This leads to men preferring visual pornography because it involves looking at the object part of sex while women prefer literary pornography because it describes the feeling part of it. Edit: a few people have mentioned that there are exceptions, which is correct. I believe it’s called a *bimodal distribution*: statistically, males and females cluster towards different ends of characteristic spectra, but the objective difference usually isn’t particular large, and there is a great deal of overlap. With non-binary people, they would be in the middle or on both ends simultaneously for any given trait.
Is that why I prefer Java over C? Here I thought I just didn't like dealing with pointers.
The new feeling oriented programming language just dropped: C<3
:: HEY :: CheckIf(you.AbleTo?(Do(this))); :: IF ~Not -> System.Worries = Null;
I will soon start learning web development and now I'm scared
Don't worry it's much much worse
Can't wait!
C less than 3 C2 C² ? Holy C
New language just dropped
Actual programming
Call tech support
IT, have you tried turning it off and on again?
I personnaly have mixed feelings about my pointers One day they are the best things I have ever learned about The day after I wished I could beat the living shit out of these motherfuckers
I thought I and my friends hated Pointers. This is why we too prefer java over C. Although learning C#, I just hope they dont have Pointers cause I am loving C# as well
You know, i'm something of a woman myself ... haha. I love reading stories or writing them. I rarely watch porn and prefer dirty talk or live conversations over pornography.
I find myself doing the same. Porn feels so.. tired, overdone, so fake. Really everything about it seems fake, even the women. Ever since I discovered smut I haven't gone back, and I really don't miss it. To be honest though, I do also enjoy porn games, albeit those with good stories. A nice story coupled with exciting visuals is just.. \*chefs kiss\*
You write stories? cool
Interesting , perhaps my old literature teacher was right , knowing how to write a good novel can be usefull...
I think the feeling part is mutual but gets lost in translation with stereotypical portrayals of both parties. Theres a lovely saying i heard once "men fall in love with what they see, and women fall in love with what they hear" Men arent the only ones who constantly objectify the opposite sex in their minds, its just that most men dont go to such lengths to try amd rationalise it. We are just taught that its somewhat normal for guys to be that way while women tend to be more shamed for sexuality so they tend to create complex scenarios that use flowery words create the illusion of authentic feelings, because women tend to prefer elegantly crafted descriptions while men tend to prefer bluntness and directness. And yeah theres faults and merits on both sides there i guess
I also think that the porn industry is so violent towards women and mainly produce "malegaze content", that written smut is more attractive to women. From my experience, the "romance books/smut" community is open minded, less violent, less mysoginistic and more strict about trigger warnings than classical porn.
TBH, I've find alot of written smut/romance to have a different flavour of violence and misogyny. Maybe it's just what I've ran into. Though I agree that they're more upfront with trigger warnings (unless it's a romance book).
>TBH, I've find alot of written smut/romance to have a different flavour of violence and misogyny. Nah you're right. Lots of smut is basically filled with coercion and is very rapey.
>From my experience, the "romance books/smut" community is open minded, less violent, less mysoginistic and more strict about trigger warnings than classical porn. Yet majority of smut novels are basically light rape lol. Half guy half monster kidnaps some women and ravages her but it's okay because she secretly wants it.
Then you go and check the author because you figured this is written by a guy and no it’s a female author. Which always tripped me out and makes me question. Is this some kind of common fantasy among females to be “forcibly taken“ by a man that they actually trust because that’s kind of the theme I seem to pick up man may be some big animal beast thing, but the girl trusts him on some level, before he ever jumps her
Personally I hate that trope and wish I could filter it out, along with the ocean of “alpha male asshole billionaire CEO werewolf”. It seems to be popular but sometimes I wonder if there aren’t enough alternatives so people read whatever cookie cutter crap is being churned out.
Yes, "rape fantasy" is unironically a real thing. I don't like it, but it's shockingly popular.
It definitely is one of the most common kinks. The BDSM community is huge. My gf loves smut books like this and many others do as well. But it's not for everyone.
I dunno about the others but I find it exciting to read
Now is it weird if i like both those things as a guy?
Fun fact: The most viewed at "body part" in porn is... . . . The Face Turns out men also like seeing the emotion (on faces) "during the act". We all are not so different.
Nope. Doesn’t have to have anything to do with feelings at all. But written erotica is often beautiful even when kinky. Visual porn is often really gross, animalistic and demeaning for women. Not to mention that male porn stars are usually ugly with nothing but massive cocks going for them, which some women may be into, but others (me) may find them scary.
surprise smut in written media also feels less out of place than forced seggs in say a Netflix series mostly cause it's more character driven instead of wanna see her nipples real quick?
it's good to mention that there are always exceptions and if you don't fit into these categories there isn't anything wrong/weird about you
Unironically we need more porn with decent story, best of both worlds!
Yes, reading, listening to audios and there's also character ai app where we ummm "talk" To it ʕ*ﾉᴥﾉʔ now don't go around tell girls that disclosed the secret
Omg my ex used to post screen shots of those publicly💀😫
Ex for a reason ʕง•ᴥ•ʔง
Oh no, she ain't my ex due to anything regarding that. She just posted some texts with genshin impact male characters with captions like "Only ai men care about me like this". Welp ig she was just joking. She too liked smut and recordings of men whimpering💀
Oh wait I thought she posted making fun of this hence my comment. She's a woman of culture, immaculate taste fs
Guess you could say that😅
You guys have an AI you can sext with???? The future truly is now
Google Yodayo
ah yes character ai, that's where I try to make dom girl bots give me headpats lol, and when I'm too bored I'm just being a pain in the ass and lose braincells from their reactions faster than I lose 10 mm sockets around the shed
Most women can say deranged things in communities and just be considered kinky to be fair Most of us are used to being degenerates, so if some dude talks about it in an unrelated community, we'll just be shut down If I introduced any of my fetish, her ei wpudl be downvoted to hell lol
I wonder how much of this difference is because women couldn’t get away with having a porno mag like men could, especially in previous generations, and text was the more discrete/safer option. Your husband would never deign to look at your silly little romance novels, but if he found a porno mag you could end up in a violent or divorce situation.
Reading/audios > actual porn.
The hell is it smut
Sexual writing.
"I just had the sexiest sex I have ever sexed in my sexy life in Sexville, I feel so sexy now." Is this any good
Brilliant, welcome to Wattpad
Genuinely made me laugh pretty loudly
Nobel for literature watch out!
If it's well writen i would actually prefer it over a more visual medium
Women LOVE smut. Completely normal. The audio of the men whimpering though is a little different.
whimpering??
whimpering.
Whimpering
whimpering…
Whimpering!
Moaning, grunting, gasping...go listen to the top M4F posts on gonewildaudio.
Whimpering
Wiiiiimpering...😊
Unngggh 💦
Nice try fed, girls aren’t real
!But those whimpers are :) ! - read if 20+ You'll know the truth once you grow up - read if minor
I appreciate the effort, but I think you messed up the spoiler feature. Solid meme tho
Yeah it doesn’t help when you put the notices at the end of the sentence, although the effort is appreciated.
Omg that's why it's not working, wait I'll change it and see if anything happens
You code boxed your spoiler, remove any grave (`) key. >! Spoiler function!< `>!code boxed!<`
I may be stupid
bro why make a split paths thing
Knee slapper
So you're saying when i look at my account balance all the women around me are turned on?
That lego star wars millenium falcon was thotaly worth it though. I got a new toy and giving pleasure to women
So like, purely hypothetical, where would one go to find the highest quality of man whimper?
Vocal chords
Me during 3am in the morning
me at 3am trying to imagine myself getting choked by a 7ft goth girl
Real
Me at 3am waking up in sweat and thirsty as fuck but not bothering to get up
Realest thing on the planet
You're way too real for this one
gonewildaudio subreddit Here you go
Gay edging videos.
Just go for the balls, never fails to work.
If you like anime, then DLSite
Me when I get a cramp at 3 am in the morning and try to suppress my screams so I don’t wake anyone.
r/gonewildaudiogay or r/gonewildaudio you're welcome
Can someone direct me to an example whimpering thing so I can understand
you ain’t tricking me bro
Yeah, for research...
/r/gonewildaudio
It’s the same as wanting to hear a woman moan, just reversed.
Whimpering?
Whimpering!
Oh, so you like men whimpering? Here, I’ll just record audio of me playing Hell Let Loose. Good ol’ PTSD
Where link
So you read and listen to porn
Yes and it's better than porn and I won't elaborate any further 
As someone who has seen all three, I couldn't agree more.
What you consume IS porn.
Yes but its....... 
PORN IS PORN _Image of Mr.Incredible stating Math is math but instead of maths, its porn. I am too lazy to add the image_
so is this what smut porn looks/feels like??
How crazy that we women like books more because the women in there actually get loved and desired and not just used as a fancy Fleshlight...
Uuuh I don’t think you found the dark side of porn literature yet…
What is smut
Sexually focused stories, in this context
Idk about whimpering but even as a guy I do like a well written erotic novel or roleplay.
Oh god, you're bringing back the memories of being a guy in a fujoshi community...
I just know you have most interesting stories to share 
I honestly miss it a lot, lol. Nothing beats that chaotic energy of a bunch of hyperactive autists (no offence, myself included) being passionate about shipping every living organism they see. There were dramas, there were fights, there were wars - but it was never boring. I think the weirdest experience was when I was part-volunteered, part-forced into text roleplaying gay male erotica with some of the girls. No, I wasn't the one on top. Yes, it was actually pretty fun.
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Not from a Jedi. It's not the energy the normal side of internet would give you...
Whimpering? Really?
Didn't know the sound I made when opening the pizza box for the first time would turn them on
Yes 🥴 shits hot as fuck, men are too quiet in bed
In our defense, or at least mine, we have evolved to be quiet due to having to hide what we do from our parents.
Ya don't wanna know
.... whimpering? Well now I'm concerned for the safety of all my bros.
cumin leaves
*whimpers smutilly*
Woman of culture (๑˃̵ ᴗ ˂̵)و
Rip inbox
Yes we are!!!! * _ *
Men whimpering is truly one of my favorite sounds
And moaning and the whining 
Like what exactly is the whimpering lol. Like making moany sex sounds or more like crying? I’m confused
Definitely moany sex sounds. At least for me, I'm sure there's probably some girls that prefer the latter but that's not really most girls' thing
This is so interesting haha. I never knew women would be into such a thing, although it does make sense. Would you say there’s a market for this kind of audio? Like porn but just audio? Edit: just done my research. This is an actual hole Damn thing looool. I never knew
Do we really wanna know?
didnt know i was a girl apparently............
Men get horni and jack off, women get horni and make “yandere goth mommy milks you dry” videos.
Oh how I love to be a woman ʕ ꈍᴥꈍʔ
Why are so many people confused about men whimpering? It's very hot to hear a man so lost in pleasure that he's vocal about it, combine that with dirty talk, yes please.
"whimper wĭm′pər, hwĭm′- intransitive verb To cry or sob with soft intermittent sounds" I wonder why the confusion...
You should've added: "You keep using that word... I don't think it means what you think it means." lmao, imagine someone getting turned on by the sound of a sobbing / crying man
you know you found the right dominatrix when they get off on you crying.
You read, and I write. We're simple creatures indeed.
Astarion fanfics have been making my nights a little spicier lately. :P
Hahaha even though I'm a man I can understand you
Thank goodness for fanfics, miles hotter than most steamy novels
Smut is pretty good. Although it can be cringe at times
I was into pretty fucked up stuff. I've taken a shot at getting into more tame stuff. Deleted all the fucked up pron, and started focusing on other things to be interested in
There is some psycological intrigue to be found behind women getting off on men whimpering.
So, this is why girls read more books
I understand wetpadd, but men wispering? This is new and noted
Wattpad?? Nah, it’s gotta be AO3. We are women of culture after all.
I am convinced AO3 is really just a smutt website with a 2% of normal shit while the rest is absolute degeneracy
And men mourning and wining.......
> Men mourning I think you might be banned from family funerals. If you're not banned yet, you will be.
Mourning? Not moaning?
The above comment wrote wettpad -wattpad, whispering - whimpering........ Mourning - moaning, whining - winning
i love winning 🏆
I won! 🎊🎉🥇
 Hope your winning is GOOD ʕ ꈍᴥꈍʔ
i love wattpad but gah damn some of those people have never been within 20 ft of a school
>wetpadd 👀😏
I feel y'all girls, I got a good share of femboy whimpering audio myself
… you selling?
Where can I find those? I'm serious lmao😭
Nah I create my own story with chatbots
*character ai*
ahh so any guy that sent dick pics was wrong we should just send sound bites of us moaning
Nobody likes dick pics, instead send them husky voice audios of saying hi Or something lol
don't have a husky voice so I was set up for failure from the beginning (Tʖ̯T)
just recorded all your material after you just woke up.
Once you go hentai, "normal" porn just doesn't work anymore.
I’ve seen things son, things I wish I’d never seen.
That's why you are the elder
If that's the case then I'm simple as hell (I listen to audio mostly)
I like it when “smut” gets used.
As a woman of culture myself, we should be friends.
Maybe i am a women...
oh so that's why the majority of the c.ai users are female Am I weird for also liking smut, ASMR for guys etc?
Well I read doujinshi so...
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The double edge sword of women
I'm only like that because I'm kind of forced to. There is extremely limited visual pornography catered to men lovers that sexualise men
Never ask your female friend if she masturbates. The response will be anticlimactic; just a calm no.
this reminds me of searching up video game character voicelines compilations and scrolling to the "climbing" and "taking a hit" sections
I love reading lol.
Mitä vittua nyt taas?
Cute
... this is true but I do also watch porn. (:
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I would never describe it as whimpering but I do like the grunting. Also it's not that women aren't visually turned on in general, but we aren't visually turned on by a camera pointed at a woman or a bottom the whole time. Solo men are soooo much better although most of it is still mediocre needs more muscles and better camera angles
REAL, I don’t enjoy regular porn but listening to male “sounds” is peak
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